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Joined: 10/6/2007

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too fast... Posted: 7/14/2009 5:21:30 PM
they never offically broke up I guess... they had the conversation, but guess it was just him being stressed... they have been living together ever since this has happened, and now they are on about 6 months... I guess he is buying house on his own and they are moving in together, outside of just having room mates. I am a believer like all of you... I am actually shocked that its going on this long... but guess there are rules and exceptions... I still don't believe in things and situations like this working out... feel like its more or a drawn out process so they don't feel so stupid. That's probably wrong of me to say also... but I just don't understand.

Joined: 10/6/2007

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too fast... Posted: 7/3/2009 9:35:52 PM
I want peoples opinions on there experiences... I know there are a lot of rules in dating and relationships and some acceptions... But do you guys believe if a girl moves for a guy.. starts a new job... and then after a month or so he sends an e-mail talking about going different ways.. (total relationship at 3 months) Do you believe it works out, or is just dragged on for a while? My belief is once a guy tries to walk, its a matter of time to do it again... kinda like sex.. you do it once... it will happen again.. or once you talk down to someone its easy to find yourself doing it again... Also I believe if you move this fast in a relationship its screaming out how desperate you are and how unhappy you are... And your living a fake life, just trying to prove a point to others, that you do have happiness, only to find yourself dealing with yourself and your sad emotions down the road... whether it be 3 more months...a year...2 years or even 10.

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Will I ever be totally over the sadness Posted: 7/3/2009 9:27:32 PM
Hey bro... I never been in your situation.. my longest was 8 years... never married... She was my child hood...my best friend.. we been broke up for 4 years, and she just recently got married... To be honest.. I cried just a couple nights ago listening to a song... I still love her, for her as a person... I just know I would not treat her as good as the other guy... you never lose your heart... the emotions will come and go depending on your life... All you can do is move forward... there is no time frame.. a lot of people say it takes half the time of the dating...(8 years = 4 years healing) So if thats the case... buckle up and just go have fun, cuz its a long road. You have your head on straight.. and the faster you come to a conclusion that you guys are not meant to be... the better you are. If you feel there was no love... then there was no love... we feel for a reason... Good luck bro, and wish you the best.

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