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 Quid
Joined: 5/9/2005
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Salary
Posted: 6/27/2005 10:11:21 PM
Perhaps -it is the only way for a person to validate that they are important.... and the only tool for some to measure them...

That in itself is very sad and limiting - for both parties! Life is so full of different variables - look for passion not for dollars.

 Quid
Joined: 5/9/2005
Msg: 5 (view)
 
How soon is too soon??
Posted: 6/27/2005 10:02:01 PM
I agree... be honest - be open.
It is only playing to tease and wait.... esp if you really like what you are doing.

Love often - Love always... just be kind.

Protect yourself and others.
 Quid
Joined: 5/9/2005
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Too much masturbation...
Posted: 6/27/2005 9:58:14 PM
Too Much Masturbation - No way - I can't believe that no one has replied to this...
There is no way that you could damage your nerves, or even desensitize yourself... it is just the opposite. In fact the more you stimulate a nerve - the better it will work.
I suspect that you are blocking because you are worried... perhaps that you are doing it too much, perhaps you are worried you will be caught.

This is why a little alcohol is good for a good orgasm. By blocking some of the "noise" of the brain, a little wine can relax the worry voices that nag us...

I worked in a neurology lab (nerves) and learned much about how the body works, and how the various systems interact.

My advice - relax and enjoy... and I hope you find someone to enjoy it with! :)
 Quid
Joined: 5/9/2005
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Why do guys like that ?
Posted: 6/27/2005 9:44:12 PM
Some guys are afraid of committing and feel that a good F!!k is the final commitment. At the same time they feel that they are not validated without getting a woman to cum. They are insecure and just the opposite of the guy who is a user. They are often needy without the outward appearence of being so. They are great lovers because they are sensitive - but they need special handling because they are not complete in themselves.
I am luck to have grown out of that... yet I still love to make love to a woman in a way that is selfless.
 
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