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womanofsubstance

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Gold Coast Park Fun day , what are your thought? Posted: 6/9/2009 1:49:11 AM
i think its a great idea to make friends as its lonely being single especially weekends. all my friends are couples so it would be great to meet some singles on the coast, burleigh heads is nice:

womanofsubstance

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Tell Me About Your Dream Home.... Posted: 5/4/2009 5:52:52 AM
my dream home would be filled with love, peace and that come in and stay feeling where ever it may be, ive always said id rather live in the gutter with true love than a castle with an ok kind of love.

womanofsubstance

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when is the right time... Posted: 4/10/2009 6:11:33 AM
sorry i got a bit carried away there. to the actual question. just say ( so are you here just to chat or are you interested in phone conversation?) you may get an answer if not click next. your beautiful girl so no need to beg or demoralize yourself. some people will see you some wont. just let it be, oh i cant help it now its the mother in me

womanofsubstance

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when is the right time... Posted: 4/10/2009 6:05:20 AM
this really shouldnt be a game with rules, i hate rules. it should be people being honest with what they hope to achieve by contacting you and getting to know the real you, inside your head instead of what you look like what you eat sex on first date etc, i really feel its time everyone just lightened up a little and realize we are all a bit lost in this crazy mixed up world. show respect for each others feelings and thoughts without judgment of what you cant see. its challenging sifting through liars and users for someone my age, let alone someone as young as you. just know if you dont love your self you can love no body else. there is no time limit, just go with the flow and if someone or something makes you feel negative, delete, if they make you feel positive then listen. you can learn a lot on the phone and if you still feel positive, meet but always in a safe public place and let someone know where you are times ect. when some of my friends and myself met up with someome new we would sometimes book another table close by for second opinion or chat in the ladies on the mobile how its going etc. that goes for guys too. mentally disturbed people are of both sexes i lived with a flatmate male and was horrified of what some of the females got up to. its all learning and sadly it can sometimes take a long time to find your solemate, personally for me its friendship on fire before sex and our creators made our arms the right length for the single sole times. good luck to all.

womanofsubstance

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Bellydancing Posted: 7/31/2008 2:42:19 AM
As long as she performs in a proffesional manner there is no problem. No Bucks nites and no all male shows at all. Never underprice any other accademys and always have fun!! Its beautiful and my best tippers are older european women. The boyfriend is insecure because even though its elegant it is also very sensual. I suggest you keep the special show for him and let him know hes getting what all the others can only fantazise about.

womanofsubstance

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Escort Posted: 7/28/2008 12:22:40 AM
op im a little confused about the pretend girlfriend, what amount of time you spend with her and if your actually having sex with her. If you need to pay a pretend girlfriend then you must be very insicure and probably need help. If however you want sex with a call girl you would have to go to a brothel as you live with mum and dad. Im also confused how you think this will help you get a real girlfriend unless of course your a virgin and need a bit of expierience. I know if you were my son id be very worried about you. Good luck in finding someone to love you when you dont seem to value yourself.

womanofsubstance

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Ever date someone with BPD? (Borderline Personality Disorder) Posted: 7/26/2008 5:18:44 AM
It seems people are afraid of what they dont understand. You are lucky you dont have to suffer the challenges of dealing with a loved one who you will not give up on. You are very lucky you dont have to suffer the feelings of fear, insicurities and continuing thoughts of suicide because your lonely and have feelings of being useless to societey that people with this awful dissorder do. Just because you cant see mental illness it dosent mean the person who has it deserves no commpassion as would a cancer victim. After all its not as if they chose the illness. People who have had bad times should remember the good and have some sympathy for the sick

womanofsubstance

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how do you want to get dumped? Posted: 1/8/2008 3:59:03 AM
Just be honest and let her know why. Half the frustration of getting dumped is not knowing why. Men tend to avoid confrontation more than women. Were happy to tell you why and usually have been telling you for months that this is not working while you do this or that

womanofsubstance

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Do girls just look at a guy for looks or what? Posted: 1/8/2008 3:39:06 AM
Lets all be honest here. Looks are of some importance to us all. We all have our limits. I say looks are not important to me but you must have a good heart. But i have my limits. I dont want anyone shorter than me or someone whos face is covered in acne with green puss. Basically i dont want to feel sick when i look accross my bed each morning and see whats lying next to me. A plain guy is ok and fat is ok cuddly much better than skinny. Sorry skinny short guys whith bad acne its just my taste.

womanofsubstance

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Thoughtful question of the day...#1 Posted: 1/8/2008 3:19:25 AM
loved of course. What a strange question

womanofsubstance

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Why Should It Matter What I Do For A Living? Posted: 1/8/2008 2:49:24 AM
I think it depends on how you enjoy your job. No one wants to see an exausted misery or stressed out cop every night. Being happy thats what its all about. And a job is always a question. Its not all about money but who you are during the week. Im a belly dancer and a lot of people presume its slutty but its not. Its a well paid fun job and my biggest fans are euorpean older women. I dont care about others opinions. Im having a hell of a time and getting paid very well. Your here on this earth for you to make you happy not others they have their own jobs and lives. This may sound small minded to some but id like my guy to have at least one propertey as i do. I think if you have nothing at my age your pretty slack. Unless of course the divorce courts werent in your favor. Im not sure id like to go out with a gynocologist, used car sales man, or an airline pilot all for past personal reasons. I like a man with a tool bag around his waist now thats a turn on

womanofsubstance

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Competing with an ex Posted: 1/3/2008 9:15:28 PM
Imo i like guys who are friends with their ex. It shows they dont carry anger or baggage. It also shows hes a good guy who cares about her instead of throwing her to the cerb just coz hes not bonking her anymore. Offer to go with him next time he wants to comfort her, if he says no then there may be issues. It sure beats these guys who do nothing but run down their ex they are a huge turn off for me. Also if the ex wants him to stay away then he may not be a good man. You can learn a lot about a man by the way he treats his ex.

womanofsubstance

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just got a slap in the face... Posted: 12/30/2007 3:46:44 AM
sorry to hear of your pain. It hurts real bad i know but im telling you time will heal thats all. Try not to think about all the beautiful memories and think about all those little things that bothered you. Its just pain that will ease with each week. Dont cry becasue its gone smile because it happened. that helps me anyway. heres a cheer up hug from someone who understands how it feels

womanofsubstance

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is everyone over 30 taking antidepressants? Posted: 12/28/2007 4:28:54 AM
Thanks again everyone. Im a bit concerned about nickyr feeling suicidal. So young and beautiful girl, it will pass but if you need help the meds are there. Sometimes it takes a few trials and errors to find the right one for you. And for the guy who said he needs them but cant afford them. Dont you get your medication cheap if your on a low income? We do here thank god. Thats so sad to suffer deppression and money stopping you from getting help that may save your life. Feeling suicidal is the lowest darkest black hole you can be in. I have fought and fought to get out of those holes and it can happen just dont give up coz things can change in a heartbeat. Good stuff can happen again. Try to forget its the holidays and everyone is with people coz thats not true. There are millions of people all alone for the holidays including me. Love to all of you who are suffering ive walked your path with many others. Give your self a hug and imagine its me coz id like to hug you all

womanofsubstance

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is everyone over 30 taking antidepressants? Posted: 12/26/2007 11:27:22 PM
The point i was getting at is that so many others i know who i would never have dreamed needed anti depp are on them and i dont know many people who arent. I just think its sad. Id love to be one of these people who can just grieve and get over it but for some like me it just dosent happen that way. When im off them the whole lot of grief including childhood rape all comes back to my head at the same time and i have major panic attacks. I used to think my sisters were faking them too. Theyre real! Anyhow im perfectly happy and stable now and can live a normal life. i still get sad at christmas but thats to be expected when the family has shrunk so much. Happy New Year everyone and to those who can do without them. Count your blessings

womanofsubstance

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is everyone over 30 taking antidepressants? Posted: 12/26/2007 11:18:53 PM
Thanks everyone for your advice and even the negative comments. Without my antideppressants i would probably get really upset at some of the posts and cry. I dont feel upset at all because they level out my emotions and i can think logically rather than irrationally. Some people dont understand real deppression as i never used to. I would pick up the phone and blast my sisters for not getting their shit together. We all had a shit up bringing with a father who used us all for his own pleasures. My two little sisters were to weak to fight off the memories and live a normal life. They took their own lifes and i just wish i knew then what i know now about how scary deppression can be. Im not just talking about grief or feeling down. It was absolute terror just waking up and having to face another day. To scared to leave the house even to check the mail. Just waiting for nighttime again to go into the only safe place sleep. Not being able to eat or have any interest in anything at all apart from sleep. Hoping like hell to wake up feeling better only to wake up again feeling totall terror of living. I used to think my sisters were using their deppression for pity or an excuse to be a no hoper. Boy was i wrong. It is real and dangerous. Ive spent thousands of dollars on therapy and healers hypnotists you name it. The only thing that works is anti deppressants.

womanofsubstance

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is everyone over 30 taking antidepressants? Posted: 12/26/2007 12:32:38 AM
thanks sunlark you sound real sweet.

womanofsubstance

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Words And Phrases That I Despise !! Posted: 12/25/2007 9:49:34 PM
been there done that. Isnt it hot today. Yea were living on the gold coast queensland its summer. Do eskimos come out of their igloo and say isnt it cold today?

womanofsubstance

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Twas the Night before POF-MAS Posted: 12/25/2007 9:41:42 PM
wottacatch your very tallented with this do you write for a job?

womanofsubstance

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Could this be the solution to finding true love? Posted: 12/25/2007 9:24:32 PM
Only Creeps try to cash in on peoples vulnerabilities. Its cruel to the max

womanofsubstance

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Why does this have to be so difficult? Posted: 12/25/2007 9:01:13 PM
Yes Yes Yes i feel your frustration. It feels so childish trying to play this game of dating to find one cool guy. There are so so many BShitters out there

womanofsubstance

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Home Alone For the Posted: 12/25/2007 8:44:29 PM
i havent got anything on for new years eve as all my friends are married and doing there own thing. I thought i could sit home deppressed or do something usefull to get my mind off it. So i put an add in the paper as a babysitter for new years eve. Ill be around beautiful children and get the bonus of making some bucks so i figure i cant go wrong ill have fun and get paid. This could be a good idea for you or any other lonely ladies.

womanofsubstance

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is everyone over 30 taking antidepressants? Posted: 12/25/2007 8:29:12 PM
Ok ill ill be the first to admit im on them. It really amazes me how many people are taking them. It makes me feel a bit sad that so many are in need of these drugs. I dont feel ashamed as without them i cry a lot. When my two little sisters died i became an alcoholic and eventually went to detox . Thats when the doc put me on them five years ago. i feel perfectly normal and because i feel so great sometimes ive tried to wean off them. four days after theyre out of my system it starts. All the pain of my sisters and mum and dad dying comes back and im an emotional wreck. How many of you are on them? And how are they going for you?

womanofsubstance

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Money scams. Posted: 12/25/2007 5:53:29 AM
wow i cant believe this happens, i never had that problem. I would never lend money to a guy from the net or anyone i didnt know for a long period of time to gather wether there trustworthy. Its a huge turn off for a guy to ask for money from a woman yuck

womanofsubstance

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If you loved her would you share her sexually Posted: 12/25/2007 5:25:45 AM
I must point out that currently the only neglect is her being grumpy and yelling at him more often and wanting him out of the way so she can spend more time with the creep. I realise this is still a bad situation but i cant call the authorities yet. Ill loose her forever and she has already threatend that ill never see him again when i mentioned calling them if she dosent get her act together. I didnt get to see him for months and it was painfull. Its hell watching your child totally manipulated by a creep, every parents nightmare. Thanks everyone for your advice.

womanofsubstance

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If you loved her would you share her sexually Posted: 12/25/2007 5:16:46 AM
the childs father is only in his 20s and is a shocking dad. Has no intrest in him and he just lives around the corner. This is why initially i wasnt bothered by his age as i thought at least he has to be more mature than the other looser. Then i found out the dissapointing truth. Her father has nothing to do with her since she was 2 so theres no infulence there either. She is eating a lot of fat and getting skinnier and i think this is appealling to a lot of young girls. If i notice any totall solid neglegt or harm im definatley calling the athorities to drug test her. I just wanted to find out others opinions because i dont think it could be love on his part and that sucks coz shes head over heals with him.

womanofsubstance

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who is telling the truth? Posted: 12/25/2007 4:48:42 AM
so you caught him out. Good on ya girl. its trully amazing how some people can be so shallow and lie about something so serious yuck it puts me off so much, i wish i could be a lesbian sometimes

womanofsubstance

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Women who smoke are far more promiscuous. Posted: 12/25/2007 4:41:40 AM
a small minded person could say women who smoke dont respect there bodies so they are disrespectful to there bodies by letting men use them. It is not true as i am a smoker and no way is anyone getting near me unless im in a loving relationship. We all have some sort of outlet wether it be smoking drinking druging gamling or overeating the list goes on but you cant make a stupid statement like that as we are all different and have different habbits for different reasons. Merry christmas to all you beautiful people who happen to be smokers. Ive done some statics of my own and ALL non smokers will die.

womanofsubstance

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You would think I would have figured him out by now Posted: 12/24/2007 1:54:12 AM
That really sucks at christmas time too. Honey youll just have to be strong and proud of yourself for getting through horridble pain. Pamper yourself and how long it takes depends on a lot of things. If hes out of your life completley or is there kids involved. I know one thing for sure Time heals all and theres a pretty good chance even though you may not feel like this at the moment that you will be really thankfull hes out of your life. Be around people who make you feel good about yourself and what ever you do dont blame yourself as we women always seem to do. We think something must be wrong with us but in fact most men are players and not emotionally available to us women who need that. Im thinking of you as i have a little broken heart too but im experienced enough to know it will pass.

womanofsubstance

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who is telling the truth? Posted: 12/24/2007 1:44:56 AM
listen to your womens intuition its always right. There are a lot of shallow men out there who will go to great lenghts to get what they want. You just cant tell sometimes but always go with your intuition. He could have killed her and buerried her in the yard

womanofsubstance

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Why would she say she wants to meet again if she doesn't? Posted: 12/14/2007 2:12:54 AM
exactly the same reason you men do it to us. We dont like face to face confrontation.

womanofsubstance

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If you loved her would you share her sexually Posted: 12/14/2007 2:02:49 AM
for all the pofers who critisised my profile to see what sort of mother i am. No im not a pole dancer im a belly dancer clothes do not come off. I said yes to doing drugs because i smoke dope. i dont drink and dope works well for me. I would never take man made drugs and have disscussed this with her many times. We had a very open relationship where we spoke about everything. Thats why she told me about the swingers club. I have another older daughter who works in childcare and we are currently sharing my little grandson. Im just waiting for her to come to her senses hopefully sooner than later. Thanks for all your advice.

womanofsubstance

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Help me understand? Posted: 12/14/2007 1:42:07 AM
Personally id rather find out my guy is gay than leave me for another woman. At least you know its his problem not you or anything about you. time will heal youll be fine

womanofsubstance

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lost dad nearly 17 years ago and told mum has cancer today and nearly christmas Posted: 12/14/2007 1:38:34 AM
Daisy i feel for you. I also lost my dad and one year later my mum. Its very painfull and ive hated christmas ever since. All i can say is its been three years now and although i still sometimes cry for my mum time really does heal. It gets easier. i wish you all the strenght and love to get through this very difficult time in your life.

womanofsubstance

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cheated on and didnt cry Posted: 12/14/2007 1:34:16 AM
sounds to me that you should thank your lucky stars that hes out of your life. If he pushed you hard when he knew you would be hurting emotionally he is probably a woman beater. Move on and respect yourself more, hes a low life creep

womanofsubstance

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Mu Hubby Cheated With A Friend Posted: 12/14/2007 1:23:51 AM
You need a lot of strengh emotionally to fix this creep and her but im sure if you can hold out for a few days the'll be some major changes. Pack up the kids and baby with all their gear tell them there going to live with daddy and aunty **** for a while and drop them on his doorstep. Men get away with too much while women are left holding the baby. Im dam sure your so called friend would dissapear quickly and hell come beggging for you. Tell him to f*ck off and never let a selfish creep like him near you again. Of course youll get the kids back but it would frazzle him pretty badly for a bit of revenge. Id love to be there to see the look on their faces. Good luck lady every woman deserves better than that. Be kind to yourself

womanofsubstance

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Gold Coast get togethers... Posted: 12/14/2007 1:02:19 AM
i am also from burleigh and i think a large majority of gold coast men are selfish users. Why i guess there are too many women on the coast to choose from so they dont try to impress or even be polite, i love the coast but ive never met so many shallow men in my life as i have here in 8 years.

womanofsubstance

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How do I get someone bipolar to seek treatment? Posted: 12/13/2007 3:18:07 AM
A lot of bi polars mess with meds because of the horrid side effects which include incredible weight gain, deep morbid deppression, shaking legs hands etc the list goes on and on. they have to be hospitalised to get the meds right for them. So if you really love this girl and want to help her you could start by getting her some insurance so she can at least go to a private hospital where shell be treated as a human being insted of the public where your just another lump of flesh

womanofsubstance

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How do I get someone bipolar to seek treatment? Posted: 12/13/2007 2:19:46 AM
Most people diagnosed with bi polar dont believe it so they go on through life with no medication and make life miserable for themselves and anyone in their life. You could try going to a clinic and asking for some pamplets on bipolar and she could read the symptoms and reflect back to her behaviour. I really dont think theres any other solution. Its sad and dangerous. %10 of bipolar people suicide and sometimes its the meds that make them feel that way. good luck

womanofsubstance

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Commitment phobic Posted: 12/10/2007 10:31:46 PM
Your young, Im 47 and still not married and i dont want to be unless i find the guy who i know is my forever man. Its called intuition! if you know you couldnt handle the guy forever then waste no time move on and be happy by yourself, hell find you one day laughing somewhere with your friends. Never ever settle just because it seems like the right time to do it. That leads to the big D

womanofsubstance

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horror stories from online dating...... Posted: 12/9/2007 11:02:30 PM
Ive had some horror dates too. However after reading this thread mine were insignigicant. I hope i never come accross any of these disgusting users

womanofsubstance

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Dumped After Sex Posted: 12/9/2007 12:01:36 AM
actually ive been guilty of this myself. I met a beautiful man we got on like a house on fire and had so much in common. He said his wife ran off with a guy on the net. I just couldnt understand how anyone could be unfaithful to this great guy. THEN it happened. We got intimate and it was so dissapointing i wanted to cry. Personally i like an average size man not too big but this poor guy had the smallest penis ive ever seen. I ended the relationship by ignoring his calls. what else could i do. I wasnt going to tell him the truth and ruin his confidence. So perhaps he just wasnt turned on by you for some reason. Sorry

womanofsubstance

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Your best text jokes. Posted: 12/8/2007 3:47:59 AM
Just been to my first muslim birthday party, musical chairs was a bit slow but f*uck me pass the parcel was fast

womanofsubstance

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A few ways to get rid of jehovia witnesses Posted: 12/8/2007 3:40:52 AM
It was on the news here in queensland two guys invited them in for hash cookies and the pigs ate 6 of them and had to go to hospital. Our comedians had a field day with that one.

womanofsubstance

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If you loved her would you share her sexually Posted: 12/8/2007 3:04:10 AM
i feel sorry for him too. i look after him most weekends. He begs me to stay longer and she begs me to keep him longer. I tried saying no to babysitting over night so they wouldnt have the opportunity to do what they do. It backfires on me and him coz she gets some random guy shes sharing a flat with to look after him. So i take him. i have a lot of fun with him but feel im contributing to there freedom to get wild. This little boy is my life, hes my only grandchild and has a beautiful nature.

womanofsubstance

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Girls showing interest when u have a girl alongside Posted: 12/8/2007 2:46:06 AM
get over yourself! we feel more comfortable talking to guys with girls because they we believe they wont hit on us and perhaps treat us like people instead of a conquest

womanofsubstance

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Christmas ..... What does it mean to you and why? Posted: 12/8/2007 2:35:15 AM
Its a big interuption. We lie to our kids. Spend shitloads of cash on them and they think someone else bought them. We have to hunt for presnts for people we dont even like but therye invited coz theyre related some how. It puts pressure on people to feel happy and if theyre not its re enforced repeatedly with everyone saying merry christmas wich continues after the event did you have a good christmas. Oh i sound like mr scrooge but i really think its stupid the way people carry on especially when they dont even believe in god. Not to mention the alcohol consumed and the fights that break out with rellies who hate each others guts but are forced to be in the same room. Oh what a treat for the cops who are flat out with domestics. Once every five years would be better. People start saying merry christmas in fu cking november for christ sake.

womanofsubstance

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I Feel Half Alive But I Feel Mostly Dead Posted: 12/8/2007 2:24:31 AM
Time heals i swear. There will come a day when you look back and wonder how you could have wasted so much energy over him. There are lots of faulse starts before you meet the right guy just be happy for what you had and look forward to even better one day.

womanofsubstance

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what should I do? Posted: 12/8/2007 2:10:49 AM
welcome to the online dating world. Move on

womanofsubstance

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Dumped After Sex Posted: 12/8/2007 1:48:44 AM
why oh why some men do this is a mystery but they do so you have to protect yourself. Firstly dont have sex because you want a relationship. Do it for you if you feel like it. And always go to his place. Dont stay the night even if he begs. You can be the one to walk out and youll have no memories in your bedroom. If he calls again great if not you had fun and you walked out it feels lots better.

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