we have a few drinks, laugh, we are comfortable and everything is going great and then the guy automaticlly thinks he's getting laid!!!

There are certainly dates that are too good to be true. We put on our best behavior when we are going out on a first date. Wouldn't they do the same? Are we coming across as too good to be true? The fact is, you are never going to discover anything of much value on a first date. The exception is those dates when you absolutely click with someone and you talk to one another for hours on the first date.

Most of the time, you are both trying to make the best impression possible. But if you had a good time and she seemed to have a good time, why not try it again. It takes multiple dates anyway to find out enough about someone to know if you want to get serious. The too-good-to-be-true individual will not likely be able to maintain their first date aura for very long. On the other hand, if they don't want to go out with you again, problem solved.

There is a serious side to the too-good-to-be-true date. Some of these people are actually sociopaths/psychopaths. Some people think of a psychopath as a drooling serial killer. Some of them are, but the majority of them are good citizens holding down responsible positions in society and appearing to be model citizens. One psychiatrist suggested that psychopaths make very good CEOs because it is so easy for them to lie.

A sociopath has no conscience. Because of that, it is easy for them to say anything to you that they think you want to hear. They can build you up and say all of the right things because they just don't care about the consequences. Oprah had nine women on her show who had dated, gotten engaged to, and/or married the same man. These were bright and savvy women but they were all conned by the same man. The problem is that you often can't tell if a person is a sociopath until it's too late.

If your date is complimenting you a bit too much, if they seem just a tad insincere, your warning lights should go off. Sociopaths are very dangerous and about one in 25 Americans is a sociopath. That means there's a good chance you know one or two right now. Sociopaths, whether of the opposite sex or the same sex are almost always too good to be true.

Welp,,i guess THAT guy ^^^^ doesnt like us chunky chicks! Guess ill just have to drag my stinky, slump shoulderd, undignified perverted self back to my lonely cave to work on my social skills then maybe,,,just maaayyyyybeeeee ill be able to find a quality partner in life,,,,,,,,,,,,like him! *cough cough*