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Msg: 32 (view)

Want more success in Online Dating? It's official - be an Atheist! Posted: 10/22/2009 2:10:29 PM
many "reaserches" are biased , lacking of reability and validity, using a small sample and so on.

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Msg: 282 (view)

Why would you lie about your age? Posted: 10/22/2009 2:07:44 PM
age is just a number. If you look like 80 but you are really 50, who cares? If you are 60 but look like you are 40 and like to date people in gtheir 40s who cares? It is what you feel not what you are.

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Racism in Dating Posted: 10/22/2009 1:57:39 PM
give me their name IDs. I take care of them lol

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Msg: 32 (view)

Do you say it on your profile, before meeting, in person, when? SEX? Posted: 10/22/2009 1:42:55 PM
OP needs to be honest with herself, duh

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They're not here looking for sex... booohooo Posted: 10/22/2009 8:25:46 AM
Nobody on dating sites is looking for sex. Things just come nturally. If they see an attractive person they go for it. If they have sex, so be it.

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Do you get turned on reading this forum Posted: 7/2/2009 10:10:44 PM
Sometimes hot girls write explicit sexual comments on here and I would like to be in their pants! :) So the answer is yeah, sometimes!

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Msg: 150 (view)

ok boys which do u prefer boobs or butts? Posted: 6/1/2009 8:44:40 AM
The first thing I see is boobs, especially in dating sites. Boobs are important, then a nice ass.

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Msg: 111 (view)

How many women here prefer short/skinny men? Posted: 5/28/2009 7:51:57 PM
tall guy here with big one

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Msg: 43 (view)

If you came across married people on this site, how did you find out Posted: 3/1/2009 10:43:08 AM
Sometimes I have problems when chatting and have to leave. That does not mean I'm married. A girl invited me to meet her at you know when? New Years eve! She told me she thought I was married. Howcome a married man will go see a woman on New years eve???

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Msg: 36 (view)

whats wrong with me Posted: 1/14/2009 5:47:43 AM
Not all men are that honest! At least he told you want he wanted. Sex with you in a non commited way, like coming by next month for a redevous. You need to live with your own decisions in life! Enjoy while you are still attractive to guys.

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Msg: 52 (view)

No Sex on the First Date-Dealbreaker? Posted: 1/5/2009 8:16:03 PM
Sex in the first or 20th date has to do with how you feel. If you don't feel phyically attracted to your date or just want to be friends, let them know. Men get impatient when women don't say anything or feel anything. There are hundreds of women out there to "date". After a couple of dates with no even a hot kiss, men would just think this woman is not really into me, adios.

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Did I do the right thing or was I rude? Posted: 11/18/2008 9:13:31 AM
Yes, it was rude to leave your date there. He might have been not what you expected, he might have had more drinks than neccessary but he was your DATE! Leaving your date like that is a rude movement that needs to be apologized for. Never give your directions to any one, besides rude you shows lack of self protection.

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Why is sex on the first date such a big deal? Posted: 11/12/2008 7:12:59 PM
Well, aren't we here to express our opinions about a topic? We are actually judges of what the OP writes!

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Msg: 134 (view)

Why is sex on the first date such a big deal? Posted: 11/12/2008 11:53:57 AM
Only people with self esteem problems make a big deal of sex on the first date. Between consenting adults, it should be no problema at all.

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Over for Mccain? Posted: 10/22/2008 10:45:21 AM
Will voter fraud bring Obama victory? Is Americans drinking the Obama kool aid? Joe the Plumber with make those big white middle class states come to McCain on election day.

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Over for Mccain? Posted: 10/11/2008 12:00:46 PM
On October of 1980 Reagan was below in the Gallup polls by 4 points. Yet Reagan won the elections by a landslide. On october, 2000 Gallup had Al Gore beating Bush by 12 points and the media thought Clinton was going to reign for 4 more years...Bush won. On the 1st november 2004 the media was giving the election to Kerry just because the war in Iraq was going bad and Gallup had Kerry 2 points ahead with 5% undecided leaning toward Kerry. By 11PM on election night Bush had beaten Kerry by 4 million votes! I predict McCain-Palin win because Obama has not gotten those angry Hillary supporters. This people want Hillary back in 2012 when she probably will be elected president. Many racists will vote for McCain, and most people are more scared of Obama than they are worried about the economic crisis. I think Obama lost the elections after the desastrous Saddleback forum and McCain sealed the deal when he selected Sarah Palin as running mate. I know his first choice was Condi Rice but people around him told him that a lesbian woman who supports abortion was not going to fly with conservatives. Just watch how McCain wins!

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Is Obama going too easy on his opponents in an effort to avoid negative campaigning. Posted: 9/23/2008 4:08:48 PM
This looks like Reagan-Carter contest. All polls with Carter and his well spoken speeches. But just one line made Reagan win by a landslide! Obama with out Hillary is like a fish out of the water: trying to live.

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Msg: 170 (view)

Will Obama Take Biden Off The Dem Ticket? Posted: 9/23/2008 4:01:48 PM
With all media coverage, with a king's tour to Europe, with 90% of African American support, with the "support" of the Clintons, with a coronation in front of 80,000 screaming fans...Mr. Hussein Obama is still tied in the polls with McCain with 8 to 9% undecided voters...only 58% of white women support, only 47% of white, working class, small town voters support...If I were Obama I would be worried. If he does not comes out with a winning line on his first debate, not even the trembling economy will help him. And Alas! The October surprise might come on the night of October 2 and it will have skirt and high heels!

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It looks like McCain's VP pick is Sarah Palin Posted: 9/16/2008 6:12:00 AM
Sarah Palin's personal beliefs and faith is something she talks in her church. I have not heard she saying nothing about her faith in her public speeches. The more they attack her, the strongest she gets. She represents ordinary America. The girl that enters a beauty contest to pay for college, the woman with 5 kids, the business owner, the Army mom, the walmart mom, the middle class woman who struggles with her professional endeavors and still is a succesful housewife.

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Msg: 307 (view)

Significant lead in polls for McCain Posted: 9/16/2008 6:04:45 AM
McCain-Palin might avoid America becoming a socialist country. Obama wants to turn this country into a third world country by making alliances with Venezuela, N. Korea, Iran and Cuba. The Russians will be invading other countries and we will have another dangerous Cold War. McCain-Palin want to bring Reagan doctrine of "deterrent" back. Obama would let the Russians make their way and would avoid helping Israel. Obama is danger to our way of life!

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Msg: 141 (view)

Obama's Lipstick on a Pig Posted: 9/10/2008 7:03:53 PM
Well, looks like Biden already conceded this elections to the McCain-Palin ticket. He just launched Hillary 2012 campaign!

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Obama's Lipstick on a Pig Posted: 9/9/2008 10:30:49 PM
Certainly Sarah Palin was making reference to the strenght she has demostrated in politics as a young woman dealing in a man's world. Obama seems like not having heard the exact Palin's joke and used an offensive reply. That was a big boo boo! But Obama is already famous for saying these kind of crazy stuff. Great President he would be! I believe McCain-Palin ticket is going to have a steady lead in the polls because this woman is just so attractive, articulate, humble and so down to earth that the democrats will need to come out with something better than an unknown bridge project, a criminal trooper or a pentecostal congregation's speech to take her down.

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It looks like McCain's VP pick is Sarah Palin Posted: 9/8/2008 7:50:28 PM
Incredible that Sarah Palin had more votes for mayor of Wasilla, Alaska than Joe Biden for president. LOL

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It looks like McCain's VP pick is Sarah Palin Posted: 9/8/2008 7:31:48 PM
Now Sarah Palin is racist. And she married a half eskimo. What else are these crazies are going to come out with? Looks like we are going to have the first multi racial White House in the history of this nation.

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It looks like McCain's VP pick is Sarah Palin Posted: 9/6/2008 5:46:44 AM
Good analysis Obsidian71 I take it this way: Sarah Palin has energized the conservative base. That Reagan base is needed to win, plus she is bringing millions of indecided and young people. Millions are going to vote for McCain just to see Sarah as their VP, hoping she runs for president in 2012 or 2016 when she will be still very young. Hillary is moving her cards so McCain wins and she can come back with no oposition in 2012. One of these two women is going to be our first female president. If McCain wins, it most likely be Hillary(unless McCain dies in office or refuses to run for a second term). If Obama wins, then Sarah will be straight for the 2012 elections and becoming our first female president at the age of 48. If Obama wins, his presidency looks like is going to be a second term of Carter, so Sarah will be in position to grab the White House in a landslice in 2012 just like Reagan did in 1980. Notice that Sarah is called the "Female version of Ronald Reagan"

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It looks like McCain's VP pick is Sarah Palin Posted: 9/3/2008 7:02:40 AM
This is coming down to PALIN and OBAMA. This is amazing! What would have more trascendency in history? The first black MAN president or the first WOMAN vice president? OBAMA is black but he is still a MAN. The first WOMAN vice president of the most powerful nation on earth is more of trascendency!! Even NOSTRADAMUS saw it!

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It looks like McCain's VP pick is Sarah Palin Posted: 9/2/2008 11:16:00 AM
I've been analyzing prophecies and presidential elections and I have come to the conclusion that a Republican ticket will win the 2008 elections. This goes also with the prophecies about a strong WOMAN(Conservative) in chrage of the most powerful nation on earth by the beginning of the 3d millenium. The so called Athenea the Goddess of War is here! And this woman really looks like a "goddess" Young , Strong and Gorgeous!. Check how Sarah Palin talks about Iran! Check also presidential elections results from 2008 every 28 years going backwards. You will be shocked! AMAZING!!

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Msg: 1261 (view)

It looks like McCain's VP pick is Sarah Palin Posted: 9/2/2008 6:47:51 AM
If you look at maintream republican women out there, all of them have more bad stuff to talk about than Sarah Palin. Let's see: Condi Rice: Amazing and expert in foreign policy. She speaks several langauges. BUT, she has some dubious sexual orientation and that my friends, is worse than a daughter that got pregnant at 17 . Besides her ambiguos stance on abortion would scare the conservative base. Kay Bailey Hutchingtson: Fine woman but she is 65! The White House would look like a nursery home! Elizabeth Dole: No one is going to vote for the old lady of a defeated presidential candidate. Carley Friorina: successful business woman but no elective or governamental experience. Sarah Palin have it ALL: elective , command and executive experience(small but something is something). Youth, looks(the cutest VP ever), strong pro life and family, strong anti gay marriage(catholics already love her to death), knows how to fire a weapon, strong on Iran and terrorist countries. Married with 5 kids. SHE GOT IT ALL! We might be witnessing the election of the first woman vice president of the US and maybe in less than 9 years the first woman president of the most powerful nation on earth. (Note: Mccain is not going to die tomorrow. His health is outstanding. Reagan left Office at 76 and went to live 15 more years! )

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Msg: 39 (view)

McCains Adopted Daughter.... Posted: 8/30/2008 8:19:28 PM
I have seen pictures of Mac with his addopted daughter.

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Obama picks Joe Biden for VP Posted: 8/23/2008 6:37:39 AM
Obama just signed his LOSING SENTENCE by ignoring the 18 millions Hillary voters. Biden is not a "bona fide" catholic. He supports cloning, experimenting with human embryos. He is not a 100% catholic. This ticket won't get catholic votes. The only chances for Obama to win were Hillary , Judas Richardson or Catheline Cibelious. Now let's wait for McCain to use his intelligent and picks a woman or an ethnic minority like Boby Jindal, a true catholic, as VP. What foreign experience this old white dude has??? Condi Rice had more experience when she was 40 years old than this guy!! Please McCain don't pick a mormom Ronmey or a southern pro rebel flag Huckabe as VP. Winning VP for McCain are Condi Rice, Colin Powel, Boby Jindal, Sarah Palin, Kay Huchington. If McCain picks another white male, he might lose this election! Obama thought it was too muchto have a BLACK and other racial or ethnic minority as ticket. That is why people say it was "safe". Obama is the same OLD POLITICIAN

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White House: John McCain was NOT Tortured in Vietnam Posted: 8/22/2008 3:19:35 PM
There are a lot of liberals in these POF thing. Especially talking about sex. Obama people

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Msg: 102 (view)

Obama supporters - should he pick Hilary for VP? Posted: 8/22/2008 3:17:29 PM
Hillary is the only hope Obama could win. She won more votes than him and he is slipping in the polls while Mccain grows stronger in national security and economy.

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Is going to the lake for a dinner picnic and moonlit swim a bad first date??? Posted: 8/22/2008 3:14:41 PM
Well, you don't even have a picture. I see a lot of insecurity in you. Just stay home and enjoy your favorite soap opera!

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Reporting And deleting Main images Posted: 8/22/2008 3:07:20 PM
Why reporting people? Is not of your business what kind of pictures they post. If you don't like them jump to the next person. Reporting people on here is childish!

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Compliment as opening? Posted: 8/22/2008 3:05:08 PM
I'm kind of shy. I'm not going around complimenting every gorgeous woman I see. But I have many approaches from unknown ladies saying stuff such as "damm you are tall" or "Nice shoes". In my shyness i don't know what to say, just thanks and keep on going. Maybe I missed out a lot.

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Msg: 177 (view)

Is it wrong to want a Friend with Benefits? Posted: 8/22/2008 2:58:44 PM
what are the benefits?

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Msg: 38 (view)

Faster, faster, FASTER from girlfriend during sex = problem? Posted: 8/22/2008 2:56:37 PM
Istead of faster try to live a responsible life with her, get out this dating site, get married and have a life.

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Msg: 40 (view)

Fun First Date Ideas Posted: 8/16/2008 3:06:35 PM
Fun things to do on the first date? Go get tested for STDs together.

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What do women think when a guy comes too quickly? Posted: 8/15/2008 3:00:16 PM
I've had the problem of not cumming after 30 minutes to an hour. The lady starts yieling "are you going to cum or what?" . It's frustrating not being able to cum. Most Women(no matter what they say on these posts or elsewhere) get tired and sore after being banged for a while with no cumming.

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Msg: 224 (view)

Does the numbers of people you slept with really matter? Posted: 8/15/2008 2:46:49 PM
azureorb, Original statement The person who only had sex with 2 people might have been a lot more discerning in choice of partners, ie, not drug users, having taken the time to get checked for STD's etc... ml456 statement Maybe he only had sex with 2 women because most women weren't interested in him or because he lacked self-confidence. Note how she uses gender bias on her statement. This statement is biased because it represents the notion of the "nerd"(low self esteem male with higher than average I.Q). Self esteem has nothing to do with having or not having sex. And having or not having sex has nothing to do with self esteem. On the other hand SELF RESPECT would prevent a person(male or female) to engaged in promiscuous lifestyle and/or have sex with multiple partners in a short period of time. Note that Self Esteem is not Self respect! A person might have high levels of self esteem but might not have self respect. A person with low self respect would not mind having sex with anyone and any given time. A person with low self esteem would have sex with any one at any given time as well! Ugly people, short people, fat people, unemployed people, gets laid too! Respect and Esteem are two different things!

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Msg: 172 (view)

When Meeting someone what is the first thing you look notice? Posted: 8/14/2008 7:14:14 PM
body, teeth, and hair

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Msg: 97 (view)

Dating and Sex Honesty Test Posted: 8/14/2008 2:42:15 PM
Women have the same control over sex as males. Men are more aggressive, nothing more.

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She went away, had sex, and now is back... Posted: 8/12/2008 11:51:17 AM
If she went away and have multiple sex partners, if you receive her again is on you. If you think relationships are like rented cars, it is good with you. FINE!

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Msg: 62 (view)

Does penis gets bigger the more you use it? Posted: 8/12/2008 11:47:25 AM
FIRST; If you have a boyfriend, what are you doing here? SECOND: The Penis does not get bigger by the use! It is on your mind.

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Whats the longest you have waited Posted: 8/12/2008 11:41:51 AM
black velvet 46,, Besides if you wait pass the first date the girl usually looks at you as a wuss and will put you in the "friend" section. Women want a take charge kind of guy, a guy that will make moves to tap that ass on the first date. I agree with you 100%!

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Msg: 66 (view)

Need some advice ... Especially ladies Posted: 8/12/2008 11:23:07 AM
ONE THING: She only wanted a one night thing. You missed out pal!

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Msg: 191 (view)

Does the numbers of people you slept with really matter? Posted: 8/8/2008 3:30:35 PM
I didn't say that self confidence had anything to with being selective. What I basically stated was that being selective or extremely careful is 1 potential reason why a person had a low amount of sexual partners. Lacking self confidence is another potential and completely different reason why a person had a low amount of sex partners. This was explained by celts123. ml456, you are wrong by bringing your own socio generic bias to this discussion. The topic is if matters to you the number of sex parters your boyfriend or prospective lover had, not if your boyfriend had sex only with 2 women in his life because he is unatractive or lacks self confidence! That gender bias is not relevant to this thread. In a humorous tone, many people with low self esteem or are unattractive get tons of sex from different people. e.g. ugly politicians, low self esteem celebrities and such.

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Msg: 182 (view)

Does the numbers of people you slept with really matter? Posted: 8/7/2008 2:34:03 PM
ml456 wrote Maybe he only had sex with 2 women because most women weren't interested in him or because he lacked self-confidence. You are so wrong for stating that. If you only could read the poster note he/she does not mention gender. Self confidence has nothing to do with being selective at the time of having sex. By stating stuff like that you portray yourself here a little more smart and intelligent than a potato chip.

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Msg: 148 (view)

Y dont guy's post there pic in profile?? Posted: 8/7/2008 2:17:52 PM
let me explain and if you do not understand then i would never be interested anyway.my story is differant.i date models i know the only reason they date me is because how i look and there is much more to me than that.i want a women who wants me for me.because i am kind caring understanding just a good guy.most women who meet me or just into the looks what about am i a nut or crazy.when women meet men like me or look like me and things do not work out the women says he is a nut.thats why i say looks or overated and therefor no picture if you like me as a person my looks are a bonus.i have given women pictures though but i will not post one.nothing to hide not a secreat life or something and i get alot of emails and dates not because i am goodlooking no because i am a good guy.bye the way were is your picture i have jokes too. So you don't post pictures just because you "date models". I have dated models too and I post my pictures. You want women to look at you not for a picture because you think you are good looking. But by the way you write, with all those gramatical errors you don't sound as intelligent as you want us to perceive from you pal!

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Msg: 145 (view)

Y dont guy's post there pic in profile?? Posted: 8/6/2008 2:16:28 PM
There is not excuse for not posting your photo on a dating site. No matter your profession, if you are looking, you are looking! Who cares? Unless you are hiding your non so attractive looks or you are married, there is no reason not to post your picture on dating sites.

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