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Joined: 10/10/2007

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Looking for some female feedback Posted: 11/6/2007 3:38:45 AM
I couldn't read it past the 5th point I'm afraid. Everything begins with "I" as one of the other posters mentioned... A lot of women like to be drawn in by a profile. They like to think that after reading it there is a place in your life for them. Even the way people write tells us something about them. Bullet points throughout don't do it for me, I prefer sentences that flow and make sense. What do all you other women think? C x

Joined: 10/10/2007

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Another guy looking for female help Posted: 11/6/2007 3:32:29 AM
Hi, Looking at your profile I personally don't see anything wrong with it. You have interests that perhaps don't appeal to the majority of women on here. However, there are women that enjoy what you enjoy and are still trawling through the pages... don't worry they WILL find you. I'd like to see a pic of you smiling. I know the first pic is almost smiling but I smiling picture always makes me want to know more about a person. You pic is one of the first things we look at so make it approachable... I absolutely adore the final shot of you and your son... it has a narrative of its own and that's very interesting. Keep it up, you're doing fine. C x

Joined: 10/10/2007

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What else can I put in my profile? Posted: 11/6/2007 3:25:29 AM
I personally think your about me page reads like a list, that always puts me off. Take time to write about yourself making it sound interesting. You can add all those things in the list but write them out fully. What is cat tossing? I think you should perhaps explain that or leave it out... animal lovers may be offended. Put your personality out there, add a few more pics if you have them, put a few witty things in there but not too much. You're saying you have a wicked personality but it doesn't show that anywhere. Expand on what you're looking for. What exactly is a "sweet girl"? I think if you tweak it a little, you'll have to prepare for the rush of replies. C x

Joined: 10/10/2007

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Barely getting any responses. Can somebody review my profile, pls? Posted: 11/6/2007 3:10:23 AM
Hi, I just took a look at your profile and see nothing at all wrong with it. I can't understand why you wouldn't get responses as both your pics and profile are fine. Keep your chin up and give it time, no doubt you'll get flooded with responses soon. C x

Joined: 10/10/2007

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I think I've finally written a decent profile... still no replies though... Posted: 10/31/2007 1:55:34 PM
The first thing that would put me off is the sentence where you say "I like good conversation and I like to be alone... " it doesn't sound like someone who wants a relationship if you like to be alone. I would also be wondering where I could fit into your life, can't put my finger on it but just reading your profile it seems that there is a particular kind of woman that you want and I doubt if many would find themselves on that list. I do hope you find what you're looking for. Good luck

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IMPORTANT --> Spyware - Popups, Homepage Changing Posted: 10/30/2007 3:49:20 PM
Hi This might be a silly question but what exactly is Linux? I have heard of it a few times now but not sure what it is. Could you explain in layman's terms please; it's a little late for my brain to function right now. C x

Joined: 10/10/2007

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Why did they stop emailing me? Posted: 10/30/2007 3:36:17 PM
I just don't get time to answer all emails although I usually read all of them eventually. I weed through them all but only reply to the ones that are really interesting... the ones that just say "hey sexy, you look gorgeous wanna chat" sometimes get a reply but not usually. If I've built up a conversation I usually stop the emails/ims if the other person doesn't ask anything about me which shows disinterest, or seem to respond to parts of my mail that I consider to be important. One guy asked me a question, can't remember what it was and I answered with "that was on the day my mother died, 3 months ago"... now I consider that to be something that I would have picked up on and said something about... he didn't mention it at all. Needless to say, I didn't bother replying to him again. It is unrealistic to expect a reply to every email surely... or is it just that I'm a bit picky/lazy?

Joined: 10/10/2007

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Being treated like a woman? Posted: 10/30/2007 2:29:56 PM
This guy is very lucky, he has you as a best mate and a bed buddy, hey he's laughing so why should he change? You are the one who is allowing him to treat you this way. If you are not happy with it, then change it. You can't change his behaviour, he has to do that if he wants to keep you. What you need to do though is let him know how you feel, how unhappy you are and how the relationship is making you feel. I think you perhaps should do something to make him really sit up and take notice too... get your hair done or buy some classy sexy outfit that makes him go WOW.... make him remember that you are a woman and tempt him... don't give in too easily. But that's just my advice lol... tease him a little, he'll appreciate it because every guy likes a challenge. :)

Joined: 10/10/2007

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being in love with a dream Posted: 10/16/2007 6:53:42 PM
Irish girl, I feel your pain honey. Been there, worn the t-shirt many times... many years ago. I might be wrong in your case but sometimes guys are attracted to the challenge of getting someone rather than actually wanting to keep that person. You've said that you aren't a clingy, needy person and that is something that some guys like... others like the fact that you need them. You perhaps will never find out why he doesn't seem interested anymore. Maybe he is intimidated by the fact that you don't NEED him in the way that some guys like to be needed. Perhaps he is now seeing you as not as secure as you were before you got together, who knows. The most important thing is that you don't lose who you are in order to try to win this guy back. If he doesn't want you as you are, which is I'm guessing the way you were when you met, then you will be forever trying to change to please him. Don't do that. As Bonnie Riatt put it so clearly.... "I can't make you love me if you don't, I can't make your heart feel something that it won't..." (in other words, you can't make him love you if he doesn't, you can't make his heart feel something that it doesn't) but the most important part of those lyrics is the ending... Morning will come, And I'll do what's right; Just give me till then To give up this fight. And I will give up this fight. I really do hope you get through this... time really is a great, albeit painful healer. C x

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