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mel3403

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Where are all the intelligent women? Posted: 8/1/2006 4:30:07 PM
We're out there looking for non-emotionally dysfunctional men. Okay, seriously...age does play a part in it, as well as where you're trying to meet people. Sure there's bound to be a treasure in every trash heap, but that doesn't mean keep looking in the same place 'til you find the magical lamp.

mel3403

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POF Instant Messenger Posted: 6/18/2006 7:22:12 PM
LOL...I was thinking I was the only one who couldn't understand that

mel3403

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POF Instant Messenger Posted: 6/18/2006 4:37:42 PM
So tell me gah754u, do you feel more like a man now?

mel3403

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Jacksonville meeting Posted: 5/30/2006 5:41:51 PM
Ah....good idea! Anyone want to give their two cents in on a date?

mel3403

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Jacksonville meeting Posted: 5/29/2006 7:53:08 PM
I'm not so much a club person...how about a live band? Actually, St. Augustine sounds about perfect. Tons of things to do there, and not so "far out" or too far away. Whatcha think? Someone else can come up with a date...just not the the weekend of June 9th or July 14th or it's a no-go for me.

mel3403

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Jacksonville meeting Posted: 5/26/2006 4:19:28 PM
Have a day in mind? I'm sure I could come up with SOMETHING to do...

mel3403

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Postings of profiles Posted: 5/4/2006 7:33:19 PM
I'm thinking you assume too much. I'm done.

mel3403

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I want to sell something, what kind of picture should I take? Posted: 5/4/2006 7:29:45 PM
Your perception = your reality. All three of you fellas have great points.

mel3403

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I want to sell something, what kind of picture should I take? Posted: 5/3/2006 9:47:59 PM
Good point!!!!

mel3403

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Postings of profiles Posted: 5/3/2006 9:45:04 PM
ah...grasshoppa...I just changed to reflect that I'm involved a few days ago, so no, it wouldn't have been mine Not to mention the fact that those are things I do with friends as well as my S.O. Perhaps you should be a little more clear on your attempt to state why you might agree with him on some level. Also, pay attention to the original post, he was referring to photos. Thanks and have a GREAT day!

mel3403

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Postings of profiles Posted: 5/2/2006 10:47:04 PM
Well, and there's no judgement to make because of their honesty. However, to just assume because someone has something in the background of their photo means they're a gold digger is plain wrong. Looking at my pic, you'd assume I have a bad attitude. Eh...well, not a good example there, huh?

mel3403

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Deleted without being read! Posted: 5/2/2006 10:37:55 PM
When I receive mail here, the first thing I do is check out the profile...before opening it. If it looks like a fake profile, it's deleted. If the profile is vulgar, it's deleted. If it has a perverse subject, it's deleted. Period.

mel3403

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Why Judge Me!!!! Posted: 5/2/2006 10:34:53 PM
They're just not worth the worry. Keep your chin up, stay confident. Men, women...doesn't matter. That's what's really attractive, staying true to yourself and being confident about it.

mel3403

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hey now.... Posted: 5/2/2006 10:30:41 PM
Just because you're leaving Florida doesn't mean you have to leave the Florida boards. I've enjoyed reading your posts, responding, even bantering a bit with you at times. Sounds like you're making the right decision...I hate it for your grandkids though. Tough situation. Good luck to you, but don't go anywhere!

mel3403

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looks Posted: 4/8/2006 1:05:01 PM
I wholeheartedly agree with you, arlie

mel3403

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looks Posted: 4/7/2006 3:49:09 PM
I am confident, secure, and independent....I've been with the opposite, it's not for me. I've been with the same, only to find an air of arrogance (the bad boy characteristic) in the mix. It's frustrating and disappointing more than anything else. Finding someone to be attached to doesn't consume my life BECAUSE I'm all of those things, but I'll also be the first to admit it would be awesome to find someone secure enough to deal with all that in order to share my life with.

mel3403

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people with disabilities Posted: 4/2/2006 10:28:12 PM
This site is free...it doesn't get much better than that.

mel3403

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looks Posted: 4/2/2006 10:20:55 PM
I can't speak for every woman out there, I can only speak for myself. To hell with the bad boys...although I will say they do have one trait that goes a long way with me. Confidence. Why is a confident, secure, not so sensitive, independent male so hard to come by?

mel3403

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Local Singles get togethers? Posted: 4/2/2006 10:09:33 PM
I'm right in between Jax and Gainesville

mel3403

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Postings of profiles Posted: 4/2/2006 10:06:04 PM
I smell over-analyzation, a bit of insecurity...maybe even some scorn? You're holding what looks to be a fairly expensive camera in your pics...and you're outdoors. Does that give me the right to assume you're taking provocative pics without your neighbor-lady's knowledge? As off the wall as that judgement is, so is yours.

mel3403

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TRYIN TO FIND YOUR SOUL-MATE IS HARD Posted: 3/23/2006 10:14:48 PM
Yes, being a single parent is VERY difficult. I'm one myself. If you're having those kinds of issues, frankly that means you're probably not ready, you still need to heal from previous relationships. There's nothing written in the stars that says you HAVE to be with someone. Date, have fun, if you're feeling lonely go out with some girlfriends. Give yourself the opportunity to heal and truly figure out what is right for you, then narrow down your choices. We get in these ruts feeling like we need someone in our lives and then make bad decisions. I've been there way too many times. Good luck to ya!

mel3403

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why do people have to be so judgemental ??? Posted: 3/17/2006 1:42:31 PM
From past experience, it's the ones that are being judgemental that have something to hide....yet that's a little judgemental in itself.

mel3403

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Was it love or just heart burn Posted: 3/14/2006 11:29:45 PM
I'll answer this the same way I answered the true love post.... although I can think of a couple short term relationships that have definitely left a sour taste in my mouth!

mel3403

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true love Posted: 3/14/2006 11:25:40 PM
Yes there is such thing as "true love", but I don't believe there is only one true love, only one soulmate out there for you. If there was only one out there, I'd have given up on finding anyone long ago... My ex was my first real love. I know it was real because I don't regret him, don't regret our life together...and no matter how much he hurt me, I realize there was a lot of good for a long time. Something I read a time ago was people come into our lives for a reason, for a season. Who's to say that isn't the case with love as well? Just because the feelings aren't the same now doesn't necessarily mean it wasn't true, it just means life has made other plans for you.

mel3403

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Makeover Help & Advice Posted: 3/5/2006 9:15:02 PM
my suggestion is wear what you feel most comfortable in. that goes for hair, facial hair, and attire. confidence is the biggest head-turner of 'em all

mel3403

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is anyone getting dates or are we just here to chat? Posted: 2/27/2006 9:12:51 PM
originally I came here looking for friends, maybe a date...but that's changed, I'm here now for entertainment purposes only

mel3403

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Bald men Posted: 2/23/2006 9:40:52 PM
you've got such a beautiful head of thick hair though....don't do it!!!

mel3403

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Bald men Posted: 2/23/2006 7:11:14 PM
In recent memory there has only been one person I've dated with hair. Some were bald by choice, others not. Bald is sexxxxxxxxy!!!!

mel3403

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Single or with someone? Posted: 2/15/2006 9:49:27 PM
or you younger, perhaps?

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Central Florida, Orlando area, get together Posted: 2/14/2006 9:51:40 PM
hmmmmm....don't I know you from somewhere? hey ya mama!

mel3403

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Single or with someone? Posted: 2/14/2006 9:47:13 PM
I don't think we're saying we want to be single, we just would rather be single than settle like we have before.

mel3403

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Single or with someone? Posted: 2/12/2006 8:34:32 PM
It's human nature to want to be with someone, to have someone to share things with. Unfortunately, we all feel the pressure to HAVE to be with someone, therefore we so very often settle for someone who isn't quite right and we end up feeling lonelier than before we made the decision to settle. I'd rather be single than put myself through that or give someone the false hope that they're the right one.

mel3403

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North East florida...ie jacksonville,.... Posted: 1/20/2006 5:02:27 PM
what are you trying to say? I'm not getting it....

mel3403

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Ft.Lauderdale! Posted: 1/12/2006 8:04:50 PM
They all realized north florida's where it's at

mel3403

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What is there to do? Posted: 1/12/2006 8:03:23 PM
you're closer than you think....and shouldn't it be you taking me out???

mel3403

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What is there to do? Posted: 1/10/2006 4:06:19 PM
LMAO Ken..... it's all good. Sorry Steve, you're like at least a couple hours away from me, but if I'm ever in the neighborhood I'll be sure to drop you a line.

mel3403

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What does it take to get a great looking woman? Posted: 1/10/2006 4:04:03 PM
True beauty comes from the inside, gravitates out. Get to know someone before you judge whether they're beautiful or not....some of the most impressive physical specimens alive have holes where hearts should be because physical attributes are what they've gotten by on, do you really want to be with that?

mel3403

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Ft.Lauderdale! Posted: 1/9/2006 6:05:17 PM
Touche. I'm a strong, very independent, secure woman who is just as happy single as I am with someone. You'd be surprised at the men that can't handle that.

mel3403

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What is there to do? Posted: 1/7/2006 9:34:00 PM
Some of the most fun things to do are in some of the most obscure places. Find a small tavern or pub with a live band, or grab a couple friends and go shoot pool or throw darts. It's more the company that makes a good time than the place anyway.

mel3403

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New Years Resolutions!! What's yours? Posted: 1/7/2006 9:26:49 PM
Okay, I commit to making a commitment to something next year

mel3403

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Ft.Lauderdale! Posted: 1/7/2006 9:24:29 PM
I'm not saying this applies to you...but yeah, we want that, of course we want that. Unfortunately when we do get all that we get bored because whomever tends to be a door mat. That's why we sway toward the treat us like sh!t bad boy type...if you add a little spontenaity to the loving mix I think you'd have the perfect man. Only problem with that is it's hard to show that side of a person online.

mel3403

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New Years Resolutions!! What's yours? Posted: 1/5/2006 9:32:22 PM
My resolution.... I really haven't given it much thought, I don't think I've ever really made a resolution, might have something to do with my fear of commitment? Perhaps I should resolve to make a resolution next year.

mel3403

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Popular Romance Advice books Posted: 12/25/2005 10:23:49 PM
EVERYONE...and I mean everyone, plays a game of some sort beginning and during, and a lot of times after a relationship. It might not be concious, but we all do it. We're all manipulative in some way, shape, or form. Publish that, it's as honest as ya get.

mel3403

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EXCEPTIONAL WOMEN & Men Posted: 12/25/2005 8:53:48 PM
What's a date? Hopefully something I'll get a refresher course on sometime soon...

mel3403

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what's your favorite time of day? Posted: 12/19/2005 8:00:28 PM
sunrise....once you've been up all night after watching the sunset

mel3403

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EXCEPTIONAL WOMEN & Men Posted: 12/19/2005 7:00:08 PM
I flirted with the mailman once.... Hope you have a Merry Christmas!

mel3403

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What do you like about Florida? Posted: 12/18/2005 7:30:33 PM
The weather, the beaches, the lakes, the entertainment, the people, the small towns and large cities, the sunrises and sunsets...

mel3403

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Working on cars. Posted: 12/3/2005 10:02:20 PM
I can change my own oil, plugs and wires, and oh yeah...wiper blades. how's that?

mel3403

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Let me Hear an Aww Hellz Yea for Being Single!!! Posted: 12/3/2005 10:00:39 PM
from time to time, yes....however, it's nice to send 'em on their way when enough's enough!

mel3403

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P.S. Posted: 11/22/2005 7:28:14 PM
Hmmm...how many emails do I get? I have no idea. I reply to all but the moronic, perverse, and ignorant. I did no research to tell you that I don't care....well, mostly because I don't care. I haven't given you a ration of anything yet, but if you'd like me to I can dish it out by the truckload. Sounds as if you have a chip on your shoulder. Anyone who would post about the drawback of anything obviously has a problem with it...height, weight, divorce, yada yada yada.... I'm not the only one that is seeing this, perhaps it's time you took a reality pill. I'm thinking the reason you're not getting dates isn't because of your height, it's your insecurity.

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