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 Author Thread: Uncle Johnny and The Spaceman
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Uncle Johnny and The Spaceman
Posted: 1/9/2009 6:01:41 PM
LOL... true life is definitely stranger than fiction....
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 1059 (view)
 
Why Do women dump men who are nice to them.
Posted: 1/3/2009 9:29:58 PM
^^^^^ all I have to say about that is pfhhht. and lol... and you must not know any women that has any self respect, self esteem, or anything else. Who the hell are you guys dating? No one I would know, oh wait, there is one, and her name is ho ho ho.
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 1057 (view)
 
Why Do women dump men who are nice to them.
Posted: 1/3/2009 7:58:20 PM

And out of all the ones that I've dated and been in relationships with, the one that I treated the worst is the longest relationship (my ex-wife) and the only one that has wanted me back. But they want the nice guys. AAACHOOO! Oh sorry, I'm alergic to bull****


You think you are a nice guy, and yet you treated your "wife" worse than any other relationship you have been in? Are you kidding me? Don't you think maybe a nice guy would have treated his "wife" better than anyone else in his life? What a DA!

well, I'm allergic, (which is the correct spelling btw), to DA's, and "most" other women are too. good luck to YOU!
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 1056 (view)
 
Why Do women dump men who are nice to them.
Posted: 1/3/2009 7:49:11 PM

jnh456, i know you would go out with me if i am like that. You may publicly say you would, but the truth is you will. I have seen many examples of that.


I'm sorry but you would be wrong. I had a guy try that on me, and he is history. 2 misdemeanors and he was out. You don't know me, or you wouldn't have said that. I just don't put up with any bs, and I'm very upfront with that. If they want to try me, that's okay, but they won't see me again. It's simple for me really, either you want me or not, either you are who you say you are or not, no lying, bsing, game playing, etc., if it happens.



If you had any idea who I am, or what I'm about, you would never have said anything like that. lol... And I'm sure there are women out there that do put up with it, but there are many that don't. Look through the forums, and you will see the ones that won't.
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 1043 (view)
 
Why Do women dump men who are nice to them.
Posted: 1/2/2009 12:08:52 AM
^^^^ how ridiculous. I guess if you are 18, all that would work. This is game playing. Just be your f ucking stupid self, either she will love you or she won't.

There's no guarantee's to anything, but lying, playing games, disappointing her, talking to her harshly, not returning her calls, don't say I love you more often, will just make you lose her.

I wouldn't go out with anyone that treated me like you have described.

You can be nice, without totally kissing their ass.
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 1029 (view)
 
Why Do women dump men who are nice to them.
Posted: 12/28/2008 10:13:45 PM
: ^^^^^

we are talking about women who dump nice guys...not men who think they are nice and aren't


I know what the hell we are talking about, and to me, they are one and the same. bet you think you are a nice guy... right?
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 1102 (view)
 
Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 12/27/2008 9:49:40 PM
jjbearm... it's not the act of anal itself, it's the after effects that I don't like. So we have various reasons for not liking certain kinds of sex. Just saying. :)
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 1099 (view)
 
Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 12/27/2008 8:51:34 PM
JESUS. It's as simple as this. A guy told me, he couldn't see having a long term relationship with someone that does not want to have anal sex. My reply: we won't be having a long term relationship.

There is nothing wrong with any kind of sex, that is mutual. There is nothing wrong with saying, sorry, but my preference is, whatever, and it's not something I want to go through the rest of my life without. And if there is something sexual that you really love, I don't believe you will go the rest of your life without it.

As far as the women being sooo offended by men that say oral sex is a must for them. Don't be offended, just find someone that doesn't give a shit about it. There seem to be plenty of men on here that just don't care about it. Can't say I've ever met one personally, or even talked to one that didn't. But, there must be plenty of them out there, according to the replies on here. Just hope they know what they are doing when they say it. It would definitely be a deal breaker for me to find out someone won't do something sexual, that I absolutely love.

There's nothing wrong with stating your preference. There's no reason to bash anyone for it. If you don't want to do it, don't, but be honest about it, don't try to come off like you will do anything they want, just until you GET them, and then decide it's not something you want to do any longer, or act like it's something you don't want, but really do.

All you have to do is ask what their preferences are, if you're not up with it, don't act like you are. You should already know this kind of stuff, before you have sex.

 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 937 (view)
 
Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 12/15/2008 9:58:47 PM
^^^^ yeah, he brings up orally, because he can't keep it up. lol...

ok, don't blow me, (not a pun), out of the water, guys over 40, I'm just kidding, kind of!
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 923 (view)
 
Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 12/12/2008 9:42:00 PM
I have learned to do without blowjobs - I'm married to an american.


well, isn't that sweet! what a ridiculous f ucking statement. not happy being married to an american, get a f ucking divorce and marry someone from a different country, or better yet, move to a different country. and yeah, you are a wreck!
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Are Women Turned On More When A Guy Degrades and Humiliates Them During Sex
Posted: 12/8/2008 10:47:44 PM
deleted what I was going to say, after reading more of the posts
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 848 (view)
 
Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 12/3/2008 10:28:12 PM

Yes' I have had a few bj's over the years but one of the biggest turnoffs is a woman with a mouth full of jizz trying to talk with all that slimy mess in her mouth.


maybe she should have swallowed, before trying to talk.


Men will let a woman suck his d.i.ck. but all the time in his mind respect for her went right out the door. He will never look at her as a woman he would want to stay with or maybe marry. All she is, Is sex. someone to Fu#$ . I can't tell you how many men i have personally heard with my own two ears say, If she will suck my di$% she will do anything.


most men want a woman that is willing to do anything, with them. and most men know they were not the first. we are talking about men, not boys, right? I don't know how I got married twice then, because I would just be a full blown slut, but for some odd reason, they wanted to marry me.


There are a lot of Neanderthals out there that have no idea where a womans real sexual organ really is. Simply' Put your tongue back in your mouth and learn how to get into her head the right way. You will never have to lick her again.


I agree that making love to a woman starts with her mind. That's only the beginning. I think if both partners are good at oral, it is one of the best sexual experiences you can have. And if your goal is to never lick her again, that's just sad.

I don't think making love to my mind, is going to make me want to give a guy a bj, if it's not what I want to do. If you don't like doing it, I don't think you are going to be good at it either, and if it's not good, then what's the point?

All I can do about this statement is shake my head. I'm not giving head, so don't get sick, just shaking my head. Not shaking your head, just mine.

Yeah, I know, that's just evil.... lol....
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 340 (view)
 
Looking at younger women / girls.
Posted: 11/13/2008 8:41:10 PM
Perhaps someday a woman will seduce me and if that day ever comes I'll certainly admire her and admit defeat.


You can only be seduced if you want to be. It's a mutual thing. Some people use being seduced as an excuse. That's the people that just don't want to take ownership of what they have done. No man has ever seduced me, that I didn't want to be seduced by.




btw valentino, thank you for serving your country.
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 1024 (view)
 
Why Do women dump men who are nice to them.
Posted: 11/4/2008 5:11:13 PM

Women like nice guys but the reason they are attracted to the bad boys is the confidence they portray. Also, a woman likes to know that a her man has her back if she cant control an other mans advances, she gets that from a bad boy.
Bad boys usually like a good fight.


Actually I can take care of unwanted advances. I don't need a bad boy to do that.

But, a lot of the guys that portray themselves to be nice guys, really aren't. The last guy I was involved with, claimed, to be a nice guy. Supposedly he didn't lie, cheat, he works hard, could communicate. And he did lie, cheat, didn't work, and could not communicate honestly, and when I tried communicating with him, he was totally defensive, and played the blame game. So, just because you think you are a nice guy, doesn't mean you really are. I'm sure he probably still thinks he's a nice guy, and he's just really not. So maybe really look inside, and you will see that not such a nice guy lives there.
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 564 (view)
 
Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 11/4/2008 4:59:18 PM

It's only that we call BS when we see it. And what I see when reading most of those "I don't mind if she doesn't do it" posts is a potential doormat so desperate for a woman -any woman- that he's ready to drop all his standards, wants, wishes and needs just to get one, and will accept whatever little crumbs she wants to give, just to be able to say that he has a relationship.


I hear that!
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 251 (view)
 
Do you wish the worst for your ex?
Posted: 11/4/2008 4:54:45 PM

All in all, if someone wishes the worst for an ex, they are still tied emotionally to that relationship, which makes them less available for anybody else. It's not a good sign when there is this sort of thing going on.


When I first found out about what my ex had done, I wanted him to be unhappy, did not want things to work out for him, I hated him for all the shit that he done, and said to me. But over time, "I" got over it, and now I just don't care how his life is. Actually something bad has happened in his life now, and I feel a lot of sympathy for him. It has taken a lot of work through my many years, to learn to forgive people who have harmed me, and if I had not learned that, I might still be hanging onto the hatred, and I think that only hurts you. When you can get over it, you will find yourself at peace. And peace in my life is one of the most important things in it. And I always try to keep it that way.
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 895 (view)
 
Would you Canadians move to the U.S,Would you Americans move to Canada if you met someone on here?
Posted: 11/4/2008 4:38:16 PM
^^^^ I don't know why that happens. It's happened to me a few times, but I have a couple of enemies on here, that want to be mods. So I thought maybe that's why mine were deleted.

and no, I would not move to canada for anyone.
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 891 (view)
 
Would you Canadians move to the U.S,Would you Americans move to Canada if you met someone on here?
Posted: 11/3/2008 8:54:59 PM

Comparing us to hitler, who the hell do you think came to you and helped you out?Well, too bad we done that! huh? But of course we didn't come there to help the ones that was forced to follow hitler, we came to release the ones that were being tortured, starved, and killed all in the name of what?


While I agree the comment about Hitler was over the top...

You may need a history lesson: The US didn't go there until very late in the conflict, when it's own interests were at stake, Canada and other allies were already there way before.
It was about time you did something...

And it wasn't to save other people. Please, quit the condescending crap.


I don't need a history lesson, read it many times. Talked to several jews that are here in the US. I know how they feel about it. They just happen to love us, and love living here. Seen the tattoos also. And since the canadians and other allies couldn't take care of it, the US did.

And in light of all the bs I've read here. NO, I would not move. Always thought canadians were pretty cool, not so much anymore.
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 691 (view)
 
Your Pet or YourRelationship?
Posted: 11/2/2008 10:07:20 PM
^^^ I understand the dangers of some pets, and anyone that owns a dangerous pet, should know the consequences of owning one. A snake is a big stretch from having a cat, dog, hamster, etc.

This is about giving up your beloved pet, for a relationship. My cats are 11 and 8. Don't think they are going to kill anyone. And don't think I'll be giving them up for anyone either.

Definition of pet: an animal that is "tamed", and treated with affection, kept for companionship, or amusement, to stroke gently with affection, to kiss or fondle affectionately. Don't really think that applies to snakes, or fish, for that matter.
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 870 (view)
 
Would you Canadians move to the U.S,Would you Americans move to Canada if you met someone on here?
Posted: 10/27/2008 10:44:06 PM

choosing to go to america would be like choosing to go to nazi germany

my dad was forced to fight in hitler's army........ i'm choosing to learn from history

i choose to not go there as long as i still have a choice


I am sooo happy about that. And all you other narrow minded people that think your country is sooo much better than the usa, get real.

Comparing us to hitler, who the hell do you think came to you and helped you out?Well, too bad we done that! huh? But of course we didn't come there to help the ones that was forced to follow hitler, we came to release the ones that were being tortured, starved, and killed all in the name of what?

OMG how dare us americans come to the rescue of the innocent. How dare us, to save people from the gas chambers.

And btw, the only reason you have a choice is because of the usa.
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 76 (view)
 
He Died of a 'Broken Heart' . . . kinda !
Posted: 10/21/2008 5:36:37 PM

jnh456, this thread has a life of it's own, on 1 hand


it has a life, because everytime YOU post, it brings it up again. It dies, you bring it up.
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 74 (view)
 
He Died of a 'Broken Heart' . . . kinda !
Posted: 10/20/2008 7:56:30 PM

What the hell ???


She just keeps bringing it up, just wants to keep this thread alive for some reason???? Who the hell knows? But it's not because she's a nut case, or wants attention!
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 511 (view)
 
Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 10/20/2008 7:49:46 PM

Canadianbeef
Be really rough and scrape him with your teeth...he'll change his mind about head real quick. Haha.


That's funny! I use to know a woman that guys called the scraper. Maybe she was doing it on purpose. The sad part of it was, no one wanted to go back for more. Hence, no relationship.
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 96 (view)
 
annoying experience - is he brain dead?
Posted: 10/20/2008 7:41:31 PM

I was impressed by the very specific criteria you have outlined. Might I respectfully suggest, that you also add that the gentleman is required to pump for a period far in excess of 15 seconds


Are there really any men out there that really think this is an acceptable way to have sex? If you don't know any better than that, then maybe you shouldn't be dating.

And heaven forbid, if a woman actually just wants to have a "decent" sexual relationship, and not a ltr.

There is nothing wrong with a woman just wanting to have sex with someone, as long as she is honest about what she is really wanting. Just like there's nothing wrong with a man just wanting to have sex, if they are honest about that. There is definitely something wrong with people using other people, and lying to them, just to get them in bed. What year is this again????
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 156 (view)
 
Ever notice that women w/o kids are much 'tighter'..down there??
Posted: 10/16/2008 8:24:57 PM

You're right. But I always last longer if I'm banging something less exciting too


they last longer because they can actually keep it up, and they can finish what they started.
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 677 (view)
 
Your Pet or YourRelationship?
Posted: 10/16/2008 8:19:32 PM

And as a Christian, I believe that man was placed on earth to rule it (take dominion)


that statement alone make me shiver!!!


Having been raised on the farm I was taught that the animals eat 1st. Many times the vet was called before I was taken to see the doctor!


this may be why you feel like you do toward pets


in part, it's this whole concept that an animals (non human) life is of the same value as that of an unborn child's, which has not caused us, as a culture, to put an end to abortion.


I can't even believe you would bring in the abortion issue into this topic. Can't you find a better way to get your point across?

Some people on here act like it's just a horrible thing to feel this way about your pet. Especially the man that keeps stating, if you don't feed them, blah, blah. It's fine to want a relationship, but you don't have to be friggin desperate for one! And if you don't want or like pets, date someone that DOESN'T have any.
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 39 (view)
 
annoying experience - is he brain dead?
Posted: 10/16/2008 7:48:04 PM
I can understand going back for seconds, because guys tend to get overly excited the first time with you, and at least the foreplay was enjoyable. And with the verbal build up for a second time, I would probably give it another try. But after the second incident, I wouldn't be going back for thirds. Definitely would not be laying down in anyones shower!!! I think he might be a little bit sexually challenged, lol... or he just doesn't give a shit about what you get out of it. I think the latter.
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 151 (view)
 
Ever notice that women w/o kids are much 'tighter'..down there??
Posted: 10/14/2008 7:06:22 PM

Ever notice that some guys over 50 need pills to have sex "

The reason for those pills is Women over 50 don't look 20 years old anymore. If it wasn't for our bad eyesight blurring your wrinkles a little smoother we'd never have sex with you.


well, women over 50 don't look 20, because they are not! DUH!

Huh, funny, men that are much younger and have very good eyesight, seem to want to have sex with us over 50's. And they can even keep it up without pills, and they last longer too. So it must not have anything to do with wrinkles. Maybe just men who are so impotent they just want to slam women? Try to put the blame on us? Can't keep it up, don't blame us, blame hormones, or would that be too immasulating?

Believe me, when I consider dating someone, I really think about their age, because women can "always" have sex, but men "can't" always have sex. Hmmmm.
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Not paying attention to detail??
Posted: 10/14/2008 6:22:36 PM

Slow down and smell her rose!

I agree with the posters that say it's all about paying attention. It's not that hard to do!
No words needed at all!

Be concerned about your partners pleasure! Put your on the back burner, or erase all thoughts of it! The only reason I have to be with a woman is to please her. To please her in ways no one ever has or will! I want to be the one she compares all others to!

Feel the passion. Watch the passion. Smell the passion. Become her passion by becoming one with her at the highest of levels




very well said rock man!!
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 9/29/2008 7:51:21 PM

OP..
I Personally HATE BJ'S!!
Actually I totally refuse any offers, After the first time, What happened...Wow, NEVER,EVER AGAIN!

So don't worry, There are plenty of guys that don't mind, Not getting them...




REALLY? I'm not trying to be a smart ass, but I have never met one single man that did not like it. WOW.... Damn, you learn something new every day!
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 22 (view)
 
how do i get him
Posted: 9/29/2008 7:27:11 PM
If you have to "get" him, do you really want him?
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 84 (view)
 
Do I tell a family friend that our spouses have been having an affair right under our noses?
Posted: 9/27/2008 3:07:04 PM
The only reason he wants to tell the woman that her husband is cheating, is in hopes of her husband, throwing his wife, to the curb, then he will be there to pick her up. Then he thinks he will live happily ever after. You sir, are one selfish sob. All you really care about is getting your wife back. You don't care that their son is dying, you don't care that your wife is hurting that woman, all you care about is getting your ho of a wife back. And if you do all that, yeah, she'll stay with you temporarily, but someone else will come along, and then where will you be? How friggin sad are you? But, man, you really sound sooo good. Actually what you sound like is a pitiful example of a person trying to manipulate the situation to meet the end that you want. If you were doing it for a good reason, I'd say, go for it. But all you want is your wife back. Hope you get her back, and then you will probably get what you deserve, which is nothing.
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 587 (view)
 
Your Pet or YourRelationship?
Posted: 9/27/2008 12:04:37 AM
^^^ in that case, I would always live in my place, with my pets, go to his place, spend time with him, but come home to my pets. There is a way to work things out, other than giving up your pet.
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Love vs. Obsession
Posted: 9/26/2008 11:42:41 PM
^^^^ very good reply. compatibility on all levels is where it's at.
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 585 (view)
 
Your Pet or YourRelationship?
Posted: 9/26/2008 10:11:52 PM

jnh456...you missed the whole point of my post...fanatics and zealots usualy do...."people are horrid"i suspect that has included you at one time or another


I am horrid, because why? I love animals, I am a responsible person, that loves, and takes care of her animals, and will until the day they die. That makes me horrid? How so? I'm horrid, because I rescue, and find homes for abandoned pets? I'm a fanatic? Why? Because I think my pets love me too? And that I think they have feelings too. They do.

btw... fanatics, and zealots mean the exact same thing.

That's okay, I'll take being a fanatic anyday, over being a cold, uncaring, person that thinks you just throw your pet away, or give away, just to get some guy to love me. I'm happy with my life. I don't "have" to have someone soooo bad, I'd be willing to just toss my pets aside. People that do that kind of thing, just want a relationship, under any conditions, that's called desperation. And I've never been desperate, nor do I ever think I will be that desperate.

It's simple really, don't date people who want pets, if you don't, don't date people that don't want pets, if you do, don't date people who are not compatible, don't lie about who you are, or what you want. Don't try to trick people into dating you, when you really want to change them. And if you do any of those things, just don't date. Simple enough!
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 58 (view)
 
How often is it that they look better in person?
Posted: 9/24/2008 10:03:42 PM

I am amazed at the men who look better in person.
I have not seen any that looked better than their pic,

mostly because I find that they do not look like the picture on their profile. One thing is they put up pictures that are old, and they put up pictures before they gained the last 50 lbs.
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 140 (view)
 
Would you nurse your cheating partner?
Posted: 9/24/2008 9:29:21 PM
^^^^ yeah, I'm sure she "deserved" being cheated on. People amaze me!!!!
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 72 (view)
 
Would you nurse your cheating partner?
Posted: 9/18/2008 9:20:08 PM
Under these conditions, NO, I would not. His girlfriend could, which more than likely she wouldn't. So I guess he would just be on his own. Maybe I would care, but not likely. Make your bed, lay in it.

Would be more like the woman, in diary of a black woman. He got what he deserved, so did she. :)
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 16 (view)
 
How do you fill a hole in yourself?
Posted: 9/18/2008 8:42:06 PM
It seems to be the best friend alot, doesn't it? I think once this kind of thing happens, you will never look at things the same. But it doesn't mean you won't be happy, or trust again.

You will feel again. You will come out of it. But do not let her back in your life, or at some point, you will be starting all over again.

What you do, is keep busy, pray, try to forgive this person, (for your sake), talk to people, go to counseling, and deal with it one day at a time. And that is all the things that I done. It's a long hard road, and you won't ever understand the whys, doesn't matter why, will drive you crazy trying to understand the whys. Just know that it happened, even though you might not have deserved it, you don't have control over other people doing awful things to you. All you can control is yourself. And try to live the best life that you can. I've said this for many years, the best revenge is living your life well, and being happy, no matter what life has dealt you. As in most things, it just takes time to get over the hurt and pain. But one day you wake up and think, damn, finally I am free of it all. Good luck.
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 56 (view)
 
is it normal??
Posted: 9/18/2008 8:15:55 PM
^^^^ I agree with that. Been there done that, wondered what happened! Some people just don't have real feelings.
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 34 (view)
 
New to the community... complicated situation (extramarital)
Posted: 9/18/2008 8:10:16 PM

What kind a young married woman would send her husband to strip clubs instead of working on the problem?
Either your whole story is BS and you're looking for some attention here, or you and your wife have some SERIOUS issues that may need professional help.


No shit. If you think you have problems, just look around, and you see something like this, and realize you have no problems at all. Or maybe it's just a bunch of bs. I have never met one single woman, that encouraged her mate to go to strip bars. Or it could be that he is sooo awful in bed that she would rather him be anywhere else, but in her bed. Or maybe he thinks if women know his wife approves, he'll just get all the ass he wants???????????????? Sad, isn't it?
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 16 (view)
 
How often is it that they look better in person?
Posted: 9/18/2008 7:59:06 PM
I just don't take very good pics. Or maybe I just don't like how I look? I'm always told I look better in person, but I don't really.
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 7 (view)
 
New to the community... complicated situation (extramarital)
Posted: 9/18/2008 6:11:45 AM
Get a divorce before you bring children into this situation. And once you are free, you can explore all the sexual situations you want. Talk about a train wreck waiting to happen!! And if you don't want to do that, control yourself, just because we have thoughts of others, and other things, does not mean we have to act on it. I think your wife would end up with a better life, if you were to move on now. All you are going to do is hurt her over and over.
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 107 (view)
 
Andropause... The Male Menopause...
Posted: 9/17/2008 9:52:18 PM
^^^^sure you are, in your mind, however that's not where the problem is!!!!
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 90 (view)
 
Andropause... The Male Menopause...
Posted: 9/14/2008 9:41:21 PM
^^^ You guys are awesome!!!!
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 96 (view)
 
Can you have sex with a man and not be together, but still be friends?
Posted: 9/14/2008 8:56:42 PM
^^^^ If you are friends and having sex, I would hope to hell you are both enjoying it, or what would the purpose be? WTH, are you even on the same page?
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 84 (view)
 
I got beat up by a monkey once
Posted: 9/14/2008 8:24:28 PM
This has got to be the funniest thread out there. Everytime I read it, I laugh my ass off, and it just keeps getting better. Wish there were more like this. Not because I want monkeys attacking people. lol... Just the funniness of it, and all the stuff people can add to it. Toooo funny!
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 502 (view)
 
Your Pet or YourRelationship?
Posted: 9/14/2008 7:56:05 PM

I love animals but i am always amused at the things some people say about their pets like "my pet is always there for me"....they have a choice ?
"my pet gives me unconditional love"....do you treat your pet the way you treat your b/f or g/f...do you lie to them or play games with their affections ? do hint at an attraction for other animals ? do you stare at other people's pets in public to make them jelous ? do you place demands and expectations on them ? do you require anything from them aside from the fact of mere existence ?....you feed them give them a place to live and let them do as they please for the most part. The dynamics between pets annd pet owners and men and women and people in general are so different that it makes a comparing the two an exercise in absurdity.


Yes, they have a choice, they can run away.
No, but my pets don't treat me the way a boyfriend or husband does either.
No, don't play with their affections, but I wouldn't with my mates either.
No, but if I pay attention to another animal, yes, they do get jealous.
Yes, I do expect them to do certain things, like behaving themselves, or coming in when I tell them to.
No one is comparing the 2, all people are saying is, they already have their pets, they love them, and they are not giving them up. And to me, that's the kind of people I like.
That's the kind of people I respect. I think people are horrid , that do not take the responsibility to keep, and love the pet they have bought, taken in, or rescued. Anyone that thinks pets are disposable, is one sad human being to me. We can take care of ourselves, they cannot.
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 916 (view)
 
Why Do women dump men who are nice to them.
Posted: 9/14/2008 7:38:14 PM
^^^^ Now that's not very nice. lol...
 jnh456
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Should I let her beat me?
Posted: 9/14/2008 7:09:38 PM
I've not played enough to be good, but I love playing. No, I would not like it if someone just let me win. But I am very competitive, so when I lose, you might hear a few cuss words, but that's part of the fun for me too. And if you are beating me too bad, I do have some pretty good distraction maneuvers.
 
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