Being young is a good thing for this but I sure as hell don't think I'd be able to pull that off if I was in my 30's or 40's.

Girl I have to say ...99.9 % do not read a darn thing! They are just lookin' at the pics!

Oh my bad. Was my post not clear enough, or do you speak another language?

But I'm going to try it on the next telemarketer that calls me

It's never one thing that makes me want to meet someone. Rather, it's a combination of a few things I find interesting

Most guys on here would be thrilled to get 5 new messages in one day.

Allelujah... Bike_nerd is someone who truly Gets It.

She was an assassin!!!!

please, sex with something that has a brain.

Few days later...my ex invite me to her apt she cooking dinner. I was like okay

So what makes her think having dinner there is okay when I am with her?

How should I approach her in situation like this without upsetting her or her thinking I am accusing her of doing something with the ex. Thanks.

{{{{{Why don't you just find a guy with a bigger d***?}}}


LOL I agree. I doesn't sound like it gonna be much fun anyways.... with tiny tinny..

^^^yeah, she lied about that too, lol

Man's day:
Wake up at 8 and eat breakfast wife made. Have fun with kids before heading to work.
9-5 Work.
5:00 Comes home tired and kicks back on the couch because the game is on. Throws his socks next to the couch.
7:00 Joins family for dinner.
7:30 Walks past sink full of dirty dishes and pretends they aren't there.
8:00 Retreats to the man-cave or go out to see his friends because he knows this is usually the time when wife goes looking for him to help out.
10:30 Comes home and gets into bed.

I could have taken her back this very night. But i didn't. I know myself very well: normally I would have taken her back by now. But I haven't. So perhaps I am finally starting to get my head screwed on straight.

It kindof makes me wonder though, will I ever really get it!

I stopped reading about half way through because I could not stop thinking "why they heck did you let this nut case move in with your children?".

Dude... she left you over a toilet!!!!

Have you read some of the reviewers' profiles?

Those people really do get irrationally defensive about suggestions -- didn't you come in here and ASK for suggestions?

Instead by cleaning up the wording and spelling

In my case, yes he will. But that's the kind of relationship WE have. YMMV

The man has a fear of commitment and then he meets the right person and the fear is all of a sudden GONE. lol.

If he can't understand that and more importantly doesn't want that himself... get over him... and GET RID OF HIM!

So a man and woman can't be in an exclusive, committed, and loving relationship, where both think in terms of "us", without marriage?

Nowadays, if I know someone who is getting married, I always ask him..."Getting married, eh? Want me to just shoot you now?" [/quote}
When I see the car with a "Just married" painted on the back window, I want to pull next to him and say -So sorry!!! You poor guy!!..LOL
OK, it's not true at all.
Read some pretty good answer, but this is OP's thread, so this is for her. I think she has a good head on her shoulder, I read her posts, and she will make a good decision.
Edit..I messed up that box thingy..


Hm..Really? I am still here, pass 44...Hello!! Someone forgot to came and get me?
But yeah, I heard that one before..Can't explain why is that, what is the logic behind it.
Maybe the wife cooks healthy..She doesn't let him smoke, or drink..

Care to elaborate on this a little more?

You're right that there's a lot of flaming and non-sense going on here, but there's also value in understanding how others think. Particularly, the opposite sex!

. I was mainly talking about marriage in this post. But some men I am friends with don't want to commit to anyone PERIOD. Like even a regular relationship.

Lets see.... He is sleeping with the "smoker" the "screamer" and the "fridged"... So what does this make you?????

I was thinking the same thing...........think Op "gets around"...!!

Well first off HELL YEA TRUCKER!!! WHOOO.

Do men really look that closely?
Does it matter that I am working on getting fit?
Do men look at the total package or just the wrapping?
Am I over thinking this?