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Joined: 10/13/2007

Msg: 281 (view)

My Ex : Five weeks from Separation to Suicide. Posted: 9/15/2008 10:49:21 PM
At the risk of being called insensitive all I can say is what a croc! Go off and blame yourself, if this really happened, and see how far it gets you. If in fact she stepped in front of a train like you said, she was beyond help and was only trying to put a bunch of people on a guilt trip. Which is a form of mental disease thats incurable. Now you paint a picture thats supposed to make me shed dragon tears for your alleged distress. Go talk to a shrink, whether this really happened or not as you need professional help either way.

Joined: 10/13/2007

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Married for 2 Years and she wants 1 Year away to be free and Independant Posted: 7/30/2008 12:13:48 AM
Well Dan; It appears that she found someone who's not smart enough to know when he's being played. You'd better hope you can get rid of her before she shows up pregnant with some studs kid because if you're married to her and she gets pregnant then you get to pay for it until it turns 18, just like it really was yours. I'd simply put all of her possessions out of the house while a witness watches and then advise her that she no longer resides where you do and that you'll be serving her with divorce papers. Go find yourself a good female lawyer and get ready for war. Maybe you're smarter than your post suggest, if not then it doesn't really matter what anyone suggests. Wisdom comes from time mixed with experience. Just another page in your life, turn it and move on.

Joined: 10/13/2007

Msg: 120 (view)

Girlfriend’s Kid by Artificial Insemination---No Dad was Wanted!!! Posted: 6/13/2008 10:07:26 PM
This whole blog is almost as disgusting as having the woman you're married to tell you on your sons 21 bithday that you just spent 21 years raising the child of another man. Now how is that any different than your woman getting pregnant by an unknown sperm donor? I think that women are, for the most part, deceitful, selfish, insensitive walking bags of hormones who will never be understood and only think of what they want.

Joined: 10/13/2007

Msg: 32 (view)

I have a problem accepting some women as equals (can't respect them). Posted: 6/8/2008 4:16:23 PM
I can relate to your situation. when I was younger and wearing my Dress Blues the split tails couldn't keep their hands off. Once I got older and took off the uniform and started dressing Key West Style, Sleeveless T shirt, cut offs, and stinky old sneakers, you'd think I'd already died and started stinking. Now all those old girlfriends that see me out and about make it a point to avoid even saying hello. It's just my opinion mind you, but at this point in life I wouldn't piss on any woman that thinks I'm so shallow as to think that I'd be attracted to her if her tits are hanging out and her skirt is so short as to show the crack of her ass. Flooded down with nocious smelling perfume and painted up like she had a bad class in camoflage. Generally I guess you could say that any broad that is put off by my size, or lack of hair, or what I'm driving ain't worth spitting on. And those who come on like they haven't been laid in ten years or are unable to figure out that their car is out of gas are just what I've learned aren't worth the time of day. I`d rather spend my day with someone who spends more time observing than running their mouth. Kinda like the old saying; It's better to say nothing, and be thought stupid, than to open your mouth and prove it. Now where did I put that blow up doll that looks like Loni Anderson Hope this helps fella. Have a nice day now, you hear!!!!

Joined: 10/13/2007

Msg: 41 (view)

Marriage & affairs????? Posted: 12/28/2007 12:46:42 AM
Having been in a marriage where my wife , now ex, went down that road, I feel that I`m qualified to comment from 2 different angles. first, when It happened to me, I was confused, hurt and angry. I comfronted my ex, at the time, and couldn`t get any response, until I told her I had confronted her stud and he had confirmed that they were sleeping together while I was at work. Only then did she admit that she thought she might be in love with this guy. The killer in this situation was that we had a 3 year old. long story short. I gave her a chance to stay with me so we could give our daughter a life and over the life of our marriage she gave birth to two more babies that weren`t mine. because we were legally married, I was responsible for them as if they were mine. I raised them and never told them otherwise. my now ex decided I wasn`t treating her well because I didn`t trust her and she demanded a divorce and then told the kids that I didn`t claim to be their biological father, which caused unbelievable chaos. I`m now the **stard for treating their mom so badly and am trying to put my life together. I should have kicked her loose years ago and found another woman to have a family with. So this brings me to another point of view I`ve given thought to. There isn`t any way to expect a person to be anything other than what they show themselves to be. there is no reason to think that screwing around with some other guys wife would ever keep her from screwing around with someone else if she left her husband for you. Another way of saying that is what goes around, comes around. Now it might be titillating to get some other guys wife knocked up, but the long term chaos just isn`t worth it, not to mention what the husband might be tempted to do if he found out the kid wasn`t his. Marriage, ie Fidelity, is just something that cannot be perverted because of lust. Unfortunately, our society only offers divorce as a remedy should infidelity occur. Too bad we don`t still have old testament laws concerning this kind of behavior.

Joined: 10/13/2007

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What does she mean Posted: 12/28/2007 12:08:44 AM
were you looking for a booty call when you found her? Or were you looking for something more substancial ? Is this woman a possible wife and mother for your children? if she`s just a booty call, then you`ve blown that, so just let it go and move on. If you view her as apotential wife, then you need to establish so ground rules about where you want to go with your relationship.Ii wouldn`t push her, but I`d make it clear that you have no desire to be the court jester. Give her space, leave her be , don`t call, and don`t run to her Be empathetic, but let her know that you`ll be available if she can make up her mind. Meanwhile, you need to make up your mind about what kind of lifestyle you want to pursue and adjust your behavior with that thought in mind. It requires a different mindset about relationships with the opposite sex if you aren`t looking to be committed to just one woman. I wouldn`t advise any intimaticy until she and you have your collective heads straight.

Joined: 10/13/2007

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Why is it so difficult for men & women to be friends instead of jumping to become lovers Posted: 10/28/2007 11:33:21 AM
I think you are over looking the reason why GOD took a rib from Adam and made Eve. If you remember, GOD made Adam first, and then if my teaching was correct, GOD never said to Adam that he was supposed to bow down and kiss Eve`s butt.

Joined: 10/13/2007

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Why do some women play mind games? Posted: 10/26/2007 10:09:55 AM
This web site is titled "plentyof fish". Which implies a large assortment. Personally I agree with you that few people, and fewer women, today have any manners and are polite enough to give a clear acknowledgement of their intentions. What I don`t understand is why you`d waste your time chasing her butt. you need to develop the same attitude that good salesmen/women have. If you found one that wasn`t buying, you simply stand up, turn 180 degrees and shout out "NEXT". You need to grow up and start being a mature MAN. Quit being like the predator fish that keeps circleing the school looking for the straggler, and then getting miffed when you see one but it gets away. Only forever have women thought like this. Is there a problem here with your learning curve? Not trying to be ugly, but how many fish are out there that have been taught good manners that you might relate to? "PLENTYOFFISH".

Joined: 10/13/2007

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uploading scanned pictures Posted: 10/14/2007 7:23:18 PM
I scanned a photo that I wanted to use with my profile, but the scan says it`s a tif format and when I try to up load I get a window that says document contains no data. Any suggestions. Do I have to take a picture of this picture with my digital camera and store that in a file in order to be successful?

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