Guys know that you are independent anyway. Thats what we want.

first off......if you're going to rant......at least spell it right!
Hypocrisy!!
and isn't it being hypocritical to say your not judging......yet point out the hypcrisy of others?!!

hypcrisy

I'll admit I'm supporting one right now.Only thing keeping my world from kicking him out is he keeps me sexually satisfied.This is my decision not his as he has no clue of my inner thoughts.If the sex stops ,I stop.

What a revolting woman.

"You just need to just get out there" maybe if I look like a movie star or where rich or both that might work.

And, there are very, very few women who do take the initiative, but they are probably in the 1/2 percentage. But, this thread is very discouraging.

There is also a study that shows women are not living as long as they use to as they start to get into the same working world as men.

I have had 2 dates, though, we saw each other twice, there were no sparks but I sure didn't blow them off, and I like to stay in touch. But almost all the other women that I took initiative with, with an email, I just get blown off 'unread, deleted' 'read, deleted'. I think the stereotype is very very real and I think the caveat-emptor that POF states, women get many many more emails per capita than men rings true. 'endeavour to persevere guys'

Further almost half the women I've dated have received phone calls or texts while we were out. They all excuse it with: I'm a mother, my friend just wanted to check up on me, it was work, my mother has been ill, etc. etc.

The only difference here is women are better liars than men, and since they are women, they should be excused!!

This is just the nonsense put out in these forums. Everyone knows men have a harder time in the dating world. Men initiate contact, men ask the woman out, men pay or at least for the most part. The better looking women not only do extremely well on a dating site, but IRL they do better as well. How often have you seen an attractive woman pay for her own drinks in a bar or club. She just has to stand there and smile, not even in the direction of a guy but in the general direction!

Men are not allowed to be selective, yet women are encouraged to be over-selective.

Having no intertest from the oppsite sex for years and being rejected timt and time again is something a women will never understand because women can always fall back to the fact there are always more desperate man around willing to pay them attention.

There's a complete misunderstanding of what an Alpha male is or should be. And alpha male does not necessarily equates with a bully. There are a lot of bullies that hide their insecurities and "beta" qualities behind their aggressive overpowering behavior.

I can't simply say "oh well I won't be like those thousands of people that do it that will show them!"

she keeps saying Im really sorry I feel so bad, Im not being rude she says..lol

This is one of the reasons I refuse to discuss money period for at least six months to a year,

its been my experience that men lie about their age because they want to date younger women.

I have seen all the blood and gore in real life that I want to see

Well, if one is having sex, one is less likely to be discussing it

This is another of those posts that remind me that a partner staying in contact with an Ex is so often not good....

let me reiterate: you meet a stranger, you have sex with stranger that day, you have issues.

I don't expect childless women to understand so I choose not to date them. And for the record my son has never interrupted a date of mine and I have never answered my phone while on a date.

I will turn my phone on silent but I will check it every now and then when its appropriate.. why? My daughter has JRA and my phones stay by me and on all the time. She can have flair ups any time that will send her to the hospital. But in a date setting I turn my phone silent and enjoy the company that im with. When I was with my X Gf even after 5 years if we went out I put the phone on silent as well. If the other person is constantly on the phone texting it does bother me and I will say something, if they dont like it then they obvious dont like me.

When kids call you answer or text, whatever it is that they need. Most single parents understand it and don't mind.

I like thinnish, muscled men with Dark Hair and green eyes

IF a lady is willing to make a first move now and again she expands her perspectives considerably on the numeric front. Not only that, she also expands her perspectives on the quality front since she has more say in the attributes on her mate.

Can you tell me why curvy women are so looked down on in general and NOT considered sexy by most?

So really,I wasn't trying to be derogatory,just simply dont' understand the Superiority Thin women seem to have gained in society and have heard from men that they DO like to feel more Dominant so they stick with smaller women.Oh...one even told me he loves thin women so his****felt bigger and he could see it jabbing out of her stomach while he f*cked her....who knows...Just asking.

Maybe I need to just realize that it's not necessarily my size that turns men on but the WHOLE of me. I like me--the person---I dislike the look of fat.

but it helps alot to know that the one I am with...likes me just as i am.

Of all the guys I had dated he was my top choice to start a real relationship, so when he wanted to see me again I was ecstatic!