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 Author Thread: I have zero experience with older men.
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 105 (view)
 
I have zero experience with older men.
Posted: 11/22/2009 12:19:58 PM
it's pretty obvious you're a newbie if you think THAT was a direct attack.

and since you don't seem to understand basic english, "i suspect" is me posting my opinion of what you said. a "direct attack" would be MUCH more direct than that!



as i pointed out, your "valid" point of view is completely invalid when it involves those who have medical reasons for requiring *performance enhancing drugs*.
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 100 (view)
 
I have zero experience with older men.
Posted: 11/22/2009 6:25:48 AM

Sadly if someone needed to rely on medication to make things in the bedroom work maybe they should lay off dating until they get it sorted. I for one would be so insulted if I couldnt turn a man on enough for him to be able to perform, I think it yells "I'm not intrested in you as a woman, you could be a milk bottle for all I care, as long as I get my little blue pill and my end away".

Sorry if this offends


no, you're not sorry.

otherwise, you'd realize that there are medically valid reasons that men might need to take medication to help them have a sex life.

it has NOTHING to do with interest in you or lack thereof.

from your little rant, i suspect you're one of those women who think that there are no women who suffer from sexual dysfunction - just bad lovers...

*sheesh*

 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 10 (view)
 
HST
Posted: 11/20/2009 4:33:44 AM

Tourism will also be affected as currently tourists who return to their own countries can apply for a portion of tax spent in Canada to be rebated... This will no longer apply, effectively making Canada a less desirable tourist destination...


this was a federal program and it ended April 1, 2007.

so much misinformation in this thread... *sigh*

if you REALLY want to know what's going on with this - call your local tax office for the Ministry of Revenue and go to one of the FREE tax information sessions that are being offered about harmonization.

but i can tell everyone in London/Sarnia/Windsor/KWC right now that i'm booking for January - i've got nine sessions coming up in December and i'm going to need a shoe-horn to get people into my large boardroom here.

i'm not an accountant, so i can't tell you how the stuff is supposed to work, please don't ask me any questions about that.
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 97 (view)
 
How do you older women feel about a younger guy in a relationship
Posted: 11/20/2009 4:19:54 AM
i got my the December issue of More magazine in the mail yesterday. on the front is a teaser for a story inside that says "Does Age Matter In Matters of the Heart?"

i haven't read it yet - should be interesting...

 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 13 (view)
 
I have seen every thing now...
Posted: 11/19/2009 4:17:14 AM
if anyone didn't see the finale or hear the results - Jaime Sale and Craig Simpson won.

he was the only competitor who even attempted any jumps and the Austin Powers routine was the funniest thing i saw on the show!

 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 88 (view)
 
How do you older women feel about a younger guy in a relationship
Posted: 11/18/2009 3:54:01 PM

What on earth would a younger man wan with an older woman.? Sex...they think we're despirate.


earlier this year i had a short term relationship with a man 11 years my junior.

he didn't think i was desperate for sex - he found me sexually desirable. and my god did that make me feel GOOD!




Money , they think we be pathetic and needy enough to take them in and pay thier way.


he makes 3 times as much as i do and i had to stop him from buying things for me on many an occasion.


Or else they are looking for a mommy, someone to give them unconditional love, adoration and support.


his mother is very much alive and his children gave him unconditional love and adoration.

why is it not possible that a man wants an individual woman - regardless of age? just as an individual woman wants an individual man - regardless of age?
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Body Image perception = confidence or hesitation?
Posted: 11/17/2009 7:36:30 PM
totally holds me back. and things have become worse for me over the past year since i've dropped 60 pounds - i look much worse than before.
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 41 (view)
 
How do you older women feel about a younger guy in a relationship
Posted: 11/16/2009 5:24:32 PM
holy = divine
cow = bovine



i swear Markus came up with that emoticon just for me to use!

 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 38 (view)
 
How do you older women feel about a younger guy in a relationship
Posted: 11/16/2009 5:22:23 PM

oh god,,, what have I done


i think this is where the rest of us tell the two of you to get a room already!

 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 33 (view)
 
How do you older women feel about a younger guy in a relationship
Posted: 11/16/2009 5:09:34 PM

Holy cow


you rang?

 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 27 (view)
 
How do you older women feel about a younger guy in a relationship
Posted: 11/16/2009 4:40:52 PM

cradle robber!!


you bet your sweet bippy!




I always say, I don't need a momma, and I don't want to be someone's daddy, so five or six years either side is tops.


i don't date numbers, i date people. the last older man that i dated (who coincidentally was the relationship before my much younger man), is a member here. he'll be 66 in January.
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 24 (view)
 
How do you older women feel about a younger guy in a relationship
Posted: 11/16/2009 4:15:29 PM

I don't think my friends and family would give two hoots about the age of the guy I was dating.


exactly!

then again, when i was 37, i was engaged to someone who was 25. and my family all accepted him.

HIS family, however, had a HUGE problem with me being that much older...
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 6 (view)
 
I have seen every thing now...
Posted: 11/15/2009 5:38:37 PM
anyone else watching the finale of this program?

the judges are handing out perfect scores to everyone...

 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 311 (view)
 
What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.
Posted: 11/13/2009 2:33:11 PM
^^^maybe he should have a chat with that guy in the other thread who thinks that women are "selfish" and need to get bent over sofas more than sitting on them!

 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 303 (view)
 
What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.
Posted: 11/12/2009 5:21:56 PM
well....

i have the tv.

the fridge full of beer could be solved in 15 minutes flat since the beer store is down the street.

i could certainly loll around in bed naked all day.

however, the boat and motor could be a problem, even with a river only a few blocks from my house.

darn!

no wonder i'm still single!

 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 299 (view)
 
What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.
Posted: 11/12/2009 4:50:48 PM
darn!

it's always *something*!!!!

i need to get a photo that's less glam... it could help!!!

 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 296 (view)
 
What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.
Posted: 11/12/2009 4:37:56 PM

"What does a man over 45 look for?...why a cowgirl of course."


hmmmm...

why am *I* still single then?

 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 266 (view)
 
Shaving or trimming your privates at our age?
Posted: 11/12/2009 4:16:52 AM

I like using hot wax on the "boys" while playing "Lovin' Touchin', Squeezin" at a very high volume. When Steve Perry goes to hit the high notes, I sing along as I mercilessly rip the hair out. I can nail it all, except the last "loaaaaewvvvvvuuueverrrrr". I think I need to let it cool more before ripping the paper.


in a word...

ooooooowwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!!

 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 268 (view)
 
What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.
Posted: 11/10/2009 6:13:03 PM

..."Good for you, that's so nice", she says between gritted teeth (lol)


oh sweetie, why do you think i'm "divine"????

 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 266 (view)
 
What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.
Posted: 11/10/2009 6:02:26 PM

bunny slippers......pink ones.


puppy slippers, bunny slippers....

they all pale in comparison to fuzzy cow slippers!

 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 261 (view)
 
What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.
Posted: 11/10/2009 3:22:01 PM

^^^^^^^ That would depend on how big your hands are


thank you, sacharissa!

 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 245 (view)
 
What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.
Posted: 11/9/2009 5:57:41 PM

Well the older gals are gonna have gravity working against them - they don't stay perky forever.


speak for yourself!

having NOT had children, mine are still pretty darn perky - even at 40DD!

 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 149 (view)
 
sugar mommy?
Posted: 11/9/2009 5:50:59 PM

Still curious about E sex.....might want to try some of that...


could be one of those vibrators that plug into the computer!

yes, they DO exist!

 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 211 (view)
 
Shaving or trimming your privates at our age?
Posted: 11/8/2009 7:58:19 PM

You live in Ontario and wear a bathing suit six months a year?


we do have such things as indoor swimming pools up here in The Great White North. it's not all igloos and polar bears!

 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 421 (view)
 
Sexiest occupation (job profession)
Posted: 11/8/2009 11:51:50 AM
i used to work in a research lab and found that men responded VERY well to the thought of a woman in a white lab coat!

 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 4 (view)
 
I want to believe in Gray's anatomy
Posted: 11/7/2009 10:09:21 AM
it took me 3 and a half years to find a GP in the next city down the 401 from you. i read about a new practice opening in London Business magazine in the spring and had my application in within the hour. before being accepted at this place, i had applied to 7 other doctors and not even had a call back.

so, it is very much like applying for jobs.

or trying to find a date!

 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Friend vs. Lover?
Posted: 11/6/2009 7:28:46 AM

I am probably just morally weak....


that's my favourite kind of man!

 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 130 (view)
 
Shaving or trimming your privates at our age?
Posted: 11/5/2009 3:34:25 PM

Long time ago I dated a man who shaved ‘down there.’ As well as looking a bit weird, it was not a pleasant experience. Don’t do it guys...


well, i probably shouldn't post this since 13 knows my ex, but the idiot dumped me 2 years ago, so why not?



for reasons having to do with his work (hours inside hazmat suits) he took it all off and i actually found it quite enjoyable.

 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 156 (view)
 
Promiscuity ~~ Pros and Cons
Posted: 11/2/2009 4:24:05 PM

Promiscuity is animal behavior, which is quite lousy!


i hate to break it to you this way... but humans ARE animals - or weren't you paying attention in biology class?
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 155 (view)
 
Promiscuity ~~ Pros and Cons
Posted: 11/2/2009 4:20:05 PM

Am I unusual here?


nope!

but if people are going to be excluding those who had multiple partners before them, i'm doomed to singleness forever!!!

 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 3 (view)
 
I have seen every thing now...
Posted: 11/2/2009 3:33:11 AM
yeah, Battle of the Blades has been on for 5 weeks.

i'm surprized Tie Domi has lasted as long as he can, but i think he and Christine will be voted off tonight - he just didn't have it together last night.

at this point, i think Jaime Sale and Craig Simpson are going to win.
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 16 (view)
 
So.... remind me... What's the downside of 50 and single...???
Posted: 11/1/2009 6:02:38 PM

Sleeping alone.


i can top *that* one - sleeping alone in a Canadian winter!

 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 83 (view)
 
Letting the walls down
Posted: 11/1/2009 4:55:05 PM
CS, it will help you if you block his text messages.

don't let him continue to try to manipulate you.
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 16 (view)
 
who gets your stuff?
Posted: 11/1/2009 9:38:09 AM

I should take legal steps to insure it but ...... I just don't see the mom creating a riff with her own daughter.


people do strange things where money and estates are involved.

take the legal steps.

my mother thought it was foolish to divide stuff up between my sister and me, but she wrote a will to do it anyway. we told her that we had no intention of arguing over her jewelry... we plan to fight over the wine cellar!



my sister is my beneficiary on everything.
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 74 (view)
 
Sitting solo on a scary Saturday (Halloween)
Posted: 10/31/2009 2:54:56 PM

I don't want to do it anymore and I feel guilty.


so don't do it anymore... and definitely DON'T feel guilty - i think the idea is voluntary participation.
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 59 (view)
 
Sitting solo on a scary Saturday (Halloween)
Posted: 10/31/2009 8:54:16 AM
^^^i'd like to see a picture of THAT costume!



today i'm painting my thrift store furniture finds and maybe i'll take myself out to a movie tonight.
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Moving To Ontario
Posted: 10/29/2009 8:30:15 PM

There's also a lot less to do there... but again, it is relative.


oh yeah... i moved from Ottawa to a place that's 1/3 the size of it and there is sooo much less to do here...

the best thing about Ottawa is that a quick drive gets you to the wilderness - and that's something you can't get in Toronto!
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 63 (view)
 
Second (or Third or. . . ) Time Around
Posted: 10/28/2009 4:23:10 AM

Nothing good ever comes free. It takes work and mostly work on Self.


yep! this - exactly!

 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 226 (view)
 
Women question a man over 50 and not been married?
Posted: 10/28/2009 4:20:37 AM
^^^thank you, tink! you've said a mouthful and expressed a lot of what i feel about the comments made about those of us who have never married.

 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 121 (view)
 
sugar mommy?
Posted: 10/27/2009 7:17:23 PM
sapphire asked: "Do you really think a man who is 44 is just wanting sex????"


<div class="quote">I judge only by what he says. Doesn't matter how old

but earlier you said this:


<div class="quote">If it's a man under 45, I just delete it unread.

so... if you're deleting it UNREAD, how do you know what he's saying??? can you read the minds of all the men under the age of 45?
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 241 (view)
 
why are MEN over 40 so desperate to get married??
Posted: 10/25/2009 3:35:58 PM

No one hand me the line about how married men are happier and live longer than single men either.


it's NOT a line - there are hundreds of studies showing this. i double-dog dare you to find ONE that proves *your* theory!

it's also quite obvious that YOU will most likely be a miserable old single man given the attitudes you express here over and over and over again.
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Second (or Third or. . . ) Time Around
Posted: 10/23/2009 4:03:02 PM
when every relationship in one's life ends before the 2-year mark, it's a sure-fire sign that there's something wrong with you...

at least in MY case, i'm pretty sure that's what it means!

 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Location, location
Posted: 10/20/2009 6:06:02 AM

I just moved from a small Ontario town...


oh dear, i'm really in trouble now...

after spending most of my life in the bustling metropolitan areas of Toronto and Ottawa, i consider our current location to be a fairly small place!

 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Are Your Filters Set Too High?
Posted: 10/19/2009 4:37:15 AM
... list of criteria about who would be perfect for you.


i don't have a list.

when i had an active profile, i think i had two things in it that i was NOT seeking and that's all. other than those two things, i'd just like someone to be gainfully employed - which i don't think is too much to ask.


Are you willing to compromise on anything or expand your horizons and search in a new direction?


yes, of course - i have in the past and would do so again.

(so much for all the woman-bashers who say we don't do this...)


Would you be willing to seriously consider someone who wasn't your ideal physical type?


i've NEVER had a "physical type" - not even as a teenager. i've dated blonde, brunette, redhead, gray-haired, much taller than me, even someone shorter than me (and when you're my height, that's unusual in a man), much older, much younger, thin, portly, and built like a greek god. i've had extended relationships with smokers several times even though i'm violently allergic, too.
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 42 (view)
 
At this age, are we still wearing blinders or do we really want the truth?
Posted: 10/17/2009 6:29:55 AM

Really, if you are dating someone and think you found the one


now they're dating???

first it was just chatting on line.

do make up your mind....

if i have NOT met someone in person and they are not sharing my bed, it's none of my business.

period.
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 33 (view)
 
At this age, are we still wearing blinders or do we really want the truth?
Posted: 10/16/2009 7:48:16 PM
if i have NOT met someone face to face, i am not the kind of person to get anything emotionally tied up with them and it's none of my business.

i don't want to know and i sure as hell don't need to know.

and i don't need a third party to tell me anything either.

the entire situation you've described sounds like high school all over again...
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 29 (view)
 
At this age, are we still wearing blinders or do we really want the truth?
Posted: 10/16/2009 7:23:07 PM

Point made to Bovine is if someone knows that a man saying he loves you is saying it to someone else, would you want to know?


you didn't answer my question....

is this an email "relationship"??? or is he sharing my home and bed???

if people haven't met in person, it doesn't count - period.
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 25 (view)
 
At this age, are we still wearing blinders or do we really want the truth?
Posted: 10/16/2009 6:19:08 PM
if he's not sharing my home and my bed, he can say what he wants to someone else.

ESPECIALLY if it's only an email "relationship".
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 86 (view)
 
Lack of Kids
Posted: 10/16/2009 5:38:05 PM

my impression of the lifestyle and habits of those friends of mine who are in that situation is that they would probably have a bit of a time relating to someone who has raised a family.


this doesn't make sense to me...

most of us grow up in families and have some idea of how they work. i can relate to my family members who have children just as well as i relate to those who don't have them.
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 21 (view)
 
At this age, are we still wearing blinders or do we really want the truth?
Posted: 10/16/2009 5:07:02 PM
gee, i wasn't aware that we were only allowed to email one person of the appropriate gender at the time.

that's news to me...
 
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