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 Author Thread: couple arrested for not tipping.,,
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 84 (view)
 
couple arrested for not tipping.,,
Posted: 11/22/2009 11:51:54 PM
I have heard horror stories about what angry staff do to food but fortunately have no 1st hand knowledge of this. I do work very hard to make a customers dining experience a good one. If they fail to tip on the 1st visit, I ask myself what I could have done better. If they return a 2nd time, I give the same good service. If they fail to tip fairly, I am done. Upon their 3rd visit, they will be seated and get the beverage and meal they ordered and the tab. I will not check on them for refills, condiments etc. They can keep their cash and I will keep my self respect.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 131 (view)
 
You know you're getting old when ...
Posted: 11/22/2009 7:44:24 PM
When you see young people wear the same styles you did 30 years ago.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Something more than sauteed mushrooms
Posted: 11/22/2009 3:50:43 PM
I am sauteeing whole mushrooms in a butter and chablis sauce. I will add some chopped white onion, garlic. salt and pepper. When tender I will drain, leaving some of the sauce and top with grated mozzarella cheese. I cannot wait for turkey day!
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 63 (view)
 
couple arrested for not tipping.,,
Posted: 11/21/2009 9:52:39 PM
No one said restaurant patrons were always classy.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 60 (view)
 
couple arrested for not tipping.,,
Posted: 11/21/2009 7:30:43 PM
Wow. Some really nice people in this thread.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Staying married for the Tax benefits, or for the mortgage.
Posted: 11/21/2009 6:26:24 PM
aww rustic, the babies are full term and perhaps abit overdue. No one sections a premie without good cause ever.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 122 (view)
 
You know you're getting old when ...
Posted: 11/21/2009 6:15:09 PM
When you visit a HS class reunion site and all the kids you once knew are gone. Just a bunch of old people there.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Staying married for the Tax benefits, or for the mortgage.
Posted: 11/21/2009 6:10:05 PM
We see alot of C-section babies during the month of Dec. Cute little tax deductions!
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 51 (view)
 
couple arrested for not tipping.,,
Posted: 11/20/2009 7:45:49 PM
*Agreed. They should have the sense to find a better job working for a better employer. A business that mistreats its employees will not survive if no one is willing to work for it.*
wow!, many of the wait staff are college girls/guys . They are trying to work and pay for an education.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 41 (view)
 
couple arrested for not tipping.,,
Posted: 11/20/2009 4:54:29 PM
I have worked as a server for 2 years now and it isnt easy work. In texas, base pay is $2.13/hr. Tips are suppose to suppliment the rest of our wage. It boggles the mind how many people do not tip but will run a server ragged getting this and that for them.

Another way a server loses cash is when a party ties up a table for hours. The server cannot reseat the table. Grats on larger parties just insures that a server will not lose money.
If service is bad, the time to complain is then, not after the fact.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 88 (view)
 
Are ya ever just really relieved.....?
Posted: 11/20/2009 4:27:01 PM
There have been a few 1st meets that I wished I had stayed home and sorted my sock drawer.
#1 Mr. INYOURFACE- He invades your personal space. After a 1st meet, one can give a detailed description of his nares.
#2 Mr. ISLEPTINMYCLOTHES- Nuff said
#3 Mr. NOSHOW- After being stood up, I receive a message saying he had to have a tooth pulled at the mens homeless shelter and would I like to try and meet again.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 1010 (view)
 
are women playing GOD when they become pregnant
Posted: 11/19/2009 5:54:41 PM
njbris, if you were to father a child through misadventure, would you really rather have them know you chose an abortion for them or to be absolved of all responsibilty to them?
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 1004 (view)
 
are women playing GOD when they become pregnant
Posted: 11/19/2009 5:26:41 PM
2. If the man claims that he doesn't want the kid during pregnancy, he should befree to have an abortion. Fixed
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 942 (view)
 
are women playing GOD when they become pregnant
Posted: 11/19/2009 10:49:52 AM
People need to quit treating anothers body like an amusement park.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 129 (view)
 
Introduction of Islam
Posted: 11/18/2009 11:59:55 AM
I would like to understand the premise of jahiliyya and how it is applied today.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 75 (view)
 
The other side of WTF was he thinking?
Posted: 11/18/2009 10:09:39 AM
Geeze, now I am paranoid. I have never had a man make a pass upon a 1st meet or even the 2nd.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Calvinism Vs. Arminianism
Posted: 11/15/2009 5:42:34 PM
I believe that mankind has no desire for God and will not choose Him. I also believe that the healings Jesus performed during his 3 and 1/2 year earthy ministry were not only physical . I believe them to be a restoration of "spiritual senses". Ears are open and blind eyes see. It is interesting to remember that Christ did not heal all. His sheep know his voice. "He that has an ear" takes on a new perspective when reading the 7 letters to the 7 angels of the 7 churches.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Horible New Fasion Trend
Posted: 11/15/2009 3:18:24 PM
NotTooFishy, dont diss the fishnest stockings!
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 496 (view)
 
are women playing GOD when they become pregnant
Posted: 11/14/2009 9:56:58 PM
Adults know how a female gets pregnant. Whats so difficult about being responsible? Both partners should take precautions. If they did, this thread would not exist. Guys need to take care where they spread their seed. The bottom line is, they will pay child support if it is indeed their baby.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 129 (view)
 
I don't care that he did, but WHY DID HE HAVE TO LIE?
Posted: 11/14/2009 5:31:40 PM
I am old and CRANKY dammit! Just kidding about the cranky part or did I mean to say "creaky"? OP, be done with the jerk and move on. Next time, agree to nothing unless you are 100% comfortable with the relationship.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 13 (view)
 
what to do?
Posted: 11/13/2009 6:48:37 PM
OP, the man I wanted at age 20 was not the same type of guy that interested me at age 25. You are going to do some serious growing/maturing in the next few years. Cut yourself some slack and enjoy being young.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 26 (view)
 
When do I ask again, or do I?
Posted: 11/12/2009 4:35:14 PM
OP,I spoke with a customer at work last week. She told me about finding "the man of her dreams". He also lived in another country. I asked her a few red flag questions and sure enough... he was a scammer. Be careful OP. The scams are getting more and more clever.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 637 (view)
 
Very long hair on a woman is very femine and sexy, but few women have long hair
Posted: 11/11/2009 9:29:35 AM
I adore the cut whitetigress has! She looks great. I prefer my hair a bit longer so I can be lazy and put it in a ponytail during high humidity days.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 249 (view)
 
Fort Hood shooting - What are the questions? What are the answers?
Posted: 11/10/2009 9:53:46 PM
Excuse but dont radical islamist do the same?
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 243 (view)
 
Fort Hood shooting - What are the questions? What are the answers?
Posted: 11/10/2009 9:20:14 PM
This discussion ceased being rational long ago.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 180 (view)
 
Fort Hood shooting - What are the questions? What are the answers?
Posted: 11/9/2009 11:06:20 PM
I do not think many in the west are familair with Qutbs' writings. He was a mentor to Ayman Al-Zawahiri . I agree with Dino, that this fraction of extremists are not tolerant of any outside of their own manifesto. To trivialize them, would be folly.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 161 (view)
 
Fort Hood shooting - What are the questions? What are the answers?
Posted: 11/9/2009 7:05:58 PM
The bottom line is no ones knows the shooters motives but him. This thread is an exercise in posturing. Carry on!
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 153 (view)
 
Fort Hood shooting - What are the questions? What are the answers?
Posted: 11/9/2009 4:59:13 PM
There is a BBC documentary called "The Politics of Fear" "Baby its Old Outside". I recommend a viewing of this 4 hour production. It demonstrates how fear ( even an imaginary fear) can manipulate the masses politically and socially.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 434 (view)
 
New Swine Flu vaccine is dangerous business
Posted: 11/8/2009 10:54:40 PM
I have to wonder what other vaccines people frightened of the swine flu vaccine are leary of. Every vaccine has a risk. The polio and smallpox vaccine without a doubt caused bad outcomes in rare instances. I wonder how many iron lungs would be fired up right now, if people were so paranoid about the polio vaccine.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 117 (view)
 
Fort Hood shooting - What are the questions? What are the answers?
Posted: 11/8/2009 10:29:42 PM
I am not a psychologist or nor do I think I possess any real insight into Maj. Hasans' behavior. I do know many young men get caught up in "causes". Some of the reasons may be a perception of hopelessness, disenfranchisement etc. I think we see this phenomena manifest in gangs, hate groups etc. If one is alienated and hurting, they will gravitate to a group that will sympathisize and make them think they are a part of a greater calling.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 34 (view)
 
Religion - The universe is NOT 6,000 years old.
Posted: 11/7/2009 5:36:57 PM
Csonka, I agree with your estimation. I although do not think Adam was the 1st human. I believe he was the 1st to be made into the image of God as Adam received the breath of life.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 107 (view)
 
Your case for/against God.
Posted: 11/7/2009 5:23:55 PM
James 4:3 When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.
NIV
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Fort Hood shooting - What are the questions? What are the answers?
Posted: 11/6/2009 10:17:07 PM
I guess I need the question "why" answered. My cousins' son was badly wounded at the melee at Fort Hood. How could an obviously educated person murder so many people he did not know. What benefit did he gain my shooting my relative? If this crime was carried out to protest a war none of us are fond of, why shoot innocent young soldiers?
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
PIC UPLOAD!!!???
Posted: 11/6/2009 6:16:04 PM
Are you getting an error message?
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Fort Hood shooting - What are the questions? What are the answers?
Posted: 11/6/2009 4:40:08 PM
I made no inference to his race. This man had the american dream of education and potential for wealth. I dont know how killing 13 fellow soldiers would benefit Hasan. It makes no sense to me. It will not stop the war.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 102 (view)
 
Your case for/against God.
Posted: 11/6/2009 4:01:41 PM
Prayer is not always answer. The psalmist David wrote in Psalms 37, " Delight yourself also in the LORD, And He shall give you the desires of your heart. " This tells me that I am to pray Gods will and not that of my own. David wanted his own desires to be the same as the desires of God. If I pray a fleshly prayer for cash or a new car, I dont think God hears these. Jesus on many occasions asked for Gods will and not his own. It is prayers such as these that are heard.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Fort Hood shooting - What are the questions? What are the answers?
Posted: 11/6/2009 3:46:47 PM
Hasan is an American citizen. He received a graduate degree courtesy of the gov. What motive or motives could he have to turn on fellow soldiers while on US soil?
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Fort Hood shooting - What are the questions? What are the answers?
Posted: 11/6/2009 3:14:14 PM
American soldiers do not carry weapons on base unless they are military police or in a target shooting excercise. Try again.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 391 (view)
 
Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 11/4/2009 10:57:47 PM
*In my experience, it's rather rare to find a fit older woman. Not trying to be mean, but a lot of mature women want to rationalize the "few extra pounds" rather than do something to reduce their weight.

Ever notice how many suddenly single women go on a diet?*
It doesnt seem to matter levi, I am thin and I am not getting many dates. I recall being 20 something and getting hit on by men 40+. I suppose older men still try to hook up with younger women.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 93 (view)
 
When photos lie
Posted: 11/4/2009 8:31:59 AM
I havent met anyone that did not look like his photo except the dracula man. His photo was a bit blurry and I couldnt tell he dyed his air pitch black.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 369 (view)
 
Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 11/3/2009 9:44:30 PM
I am a realist. I dont see any older men or women as being sexy.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 89 (view)
 
Your case for/against God.
Posted: 11/2/2009 7:22:19 AM
Isaiah 29 is one example. I had already mentioned that Peter severed the ear of a servant of the high priest and Christ restored his ear. I believe this passage is found in the book of Luke.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 355 (view)
 
Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 11/1/2009 9:32:46 PM
^^^ They think they do.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 81 (view)
 
Did I do the right thing in telling...
Posted: 11/1/2009 9:28:30 PM
If a man is so casual about having sex with a woman and trying to hit on another at the same time, I would say ewww... no thanks. I hope his next girlie friend is a hankie.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 353 (view)
 
Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women?
Posted: 11/1/2009 9:19:09 PM
Isnt "sexy older women" a misnomer? Same as a misnomer for a sexy older man.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 52 (view)
 
who gets your stuff?
Posted: 11/1/2009 8:08:02 PM
The most valuable things I own are my home, Fenton glass, Waterford crystal , china , my jewels and my fathers knife collection. I seriously doubt my nephews would understand their worth. They likely would have a garage sale. I am seriously thinking of leaving my estate to a womans shelter.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 87 (view)
 
Your case for/against God.
Posted: 11/1/2009 7:49:26 PM
I told you once before countIbli, The healings Jesus did during his 3.5 year ministry were fulfillment of OT prophecy. If God chooses to heal now, it is only because he chooses to.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 58 (view)
 
Protection From Predators
Posted: 11/1/2009 2:49:23 PM
After I saw a huge rattlesnake in my backyard, I would not go out there without a sharp edged hoe. The thing was so big it looked like a sea serpent.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 76 (view)
 
I Didnt get to say goodbye to my DADDY
Posted: 11/1/2009 1:54:32 PM
I spent most of my life in critical life support. The last thing a person loses is the ability to hear. I would tell the families of my patients to talk to their loved one. One day , a family returned with a tape recording of all the grand children telling their grandpa they loved him. I cant tell you how touched I was. It must have also given the family some comfort knowing grandpa probably could hear them.
 abby156
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Sitting solo on a scary Saturday (Halloween)
Posted: 10/30/2009 6:08:22 PM
Im dressing up as a middle aged female and watch television.
 
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