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Msg: 28 (view)

Genuine NON-Cheatin Man Posted: 5/17/2008 11:37:44 AM
What will become of the Children? Fathered by this cheating ways? Wow we all have **stards. No thanks not for me. I rather live alone then cheat or be cheated on.

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If you knew you were going to die Posted: 5/17/2008 11:28:00 AM
I spent my time with my grown up children and grandson, close friends. Write a book on POF on the dating the soaps opera that goes on. Why not? I bet it will be interesting to read aside from being a BEST seller! If anything POF will become world known

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Genuine NON-Cheatin Man Posted: 5/17/2008 11:14:47 AM
Good Luck Finding Him On POF! If you do he must be a real peal among swines . Same goes for women they cheat also. Which makes it hard for the honest men/women to find honest people in here, to date.

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Genuine NON-Cheatin Man Posted: 5/17/2008 11:03:41 AM
I met someone who I thought was the ONE and he was off and on POF whenever he got online. He wasn't as serious as I thought he was . He wasn't a God's gift to women, he even had most of his teeth missing in his upper part of his mouth , but I thought that can be fix. His wonderful personality , caring, his appearance to be honest serious sincerity won me . He was on line and to a some women on his cell /online . Behind my back He can really play the part by saying he is 60 yrs old . But don't believe anything he says. By the way even on his profile his age is a lied. If you see him with teeth on his profile it's an old picture yes men lied so much, to have their way . As well as women .

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Genuine NON-Cheatin Man Posted: 5/17/2008 10:51:19 AM
Welcome to our world Mezz. Well this happens to many women / as well as men ,in here. I am sure , the men/women have good intention but then some where along the line they forget . Their true colors show and back they are sneaking on POF to find someone else. I don't know if we are allowed to give the name of the profile men/women who cheat ? Would be nice so others could stay far away from them..... Yes women /men message your man /women too knowing they are dating. Then again why would they message or call on the cell if he /she didn't give them the cell number! I am sure there are honest men/women just hard to find.

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What's this Men are not monogamous by nature' line all about? Posted: 5/14/2008 8:10:55 PM
Nope a man will still be on the look out as long as he can get away. A women can trust her partner ..completely , and really release her passion , most inner feelings , love him , worship him and still he will be on the hunt for other women . Especially if he is from POF and still on the re bounce from his divorce . The older men get the more they hang on to their memories of their last affairs, relationship or exs . Why because they are older and that's all they have to hang on to Memories . Any other women that comes into their life is just for a short time for sex and they move on or used any excuse to make her leave....One of their lines is I am taking medications it's the medicine! I need my space. Oh yes they talk a lot about their ex till they drive you away. Then they will talk about women they met on line what they did . Ok

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What's this Men are not monogamous by nature' line all about? Posted: 5/13/2008 5:56:46 PM
Men are born to not be monogamous . They married but tend to wonder. They date but still, are seraching while they date. They love but still in search, of loving as many as they can even when they have someone to love them.

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Do You Resemble a Famous Person or a Movie Star? Posted: 3/20/2008 8:15:08 PM
I don't know if you looked like my cousin Eric Estrada, but my brother resembles him a lot because of Al (my brother) , being his cousin too.

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Are too many favorites a turn off? Posted: 2/3/2008 12:29:59 PM
Maybe for me it will if I am interested in a guy, I feel why bother he has millions of choices of women ,already I am but a pea in the pot.... just me thinking in black and white....

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The scariest meal you ever ate...and lived to talk about Posted: 2/3/2008 12:19:00 PM
I was traveling in Mexico and stopped at a restaurant because then my son was like 4 yrs old was hunger ,my husband and I were tired of driving from Californian and needed a break we stopped in a small town , happen that the owner of the restaurant had the same last name as my step dad's so my husband asked them if they were related to him.. could be anything is possible...after all the French travel all over .... well they didn't have any cow milk for my son, it was a choice between goat milk and some weird drink they make out of corn... I choose goat milk.. for him and myself.. we ask for tacos ... the best tacos we had... I should post the pictures we took they look like an advertising ad for a vacation lol ...the way we ate with savor .... lol till they told us it was horse meat .... Did I get sick , I loved horses , I grew up with them..and are the most noble animal you can encounter...

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Do men ever stop looking for another woman? Posted: 2/3/2008 11:52:20 AM
Oh my "God" girl you really have been deeply hurt... one needs to seek help ... for the process of healing to take place... Not all men are accountable for the misbehavior and actions of some men , towards women... Men are God's creation by "God's " very own hand and he blew his own breath into his nostrils and gave him life.. he called him Adam.. without man we women wouldn't existed.. for "God" created woman out of Adam's rib... I like to say so that man can protect his woman, love her, hold her close to his heart... You notices he made woman out of man's ribs? the purpose of the ribs are to protect human internal organs such as the lungs, heart, etc .. get it we are from his ribs with in turn protect his vital organs... which makes us his protector of his Heart and life... ahhhhhhhhhh aren't we so lucky .. So men take care of us ladies and in turn we shall protect you.... well the few ladies that are loyal , strong, faithful,honest and of course monogamous. blacksuperwoman : You are very young still ,beautiful, I am sure you have your qualities. But give all your troubles to "Lord Christ" he will carried your troubles as he has already , you just need to let go of them .. so you can move on ... Blessing And Peace With You , A sister in "Christ".

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Do men ever stop looking for another woman? Posted: 2/3/2008 10:28:29 AM
Because the Computer /POF owes them .. as one guy put it to me and he is very honest .... he happens to be my friend ...it happens to women also... I know I am hooked on the forums and love to read them and reply to them... After all we are all here after our dream, one can't find it just by meeting and sticking to that person if the chemistry isn't there.... When it happens it will be like magic , a room can be full of people and you will only feel like it's the two of you in the room ONLY ... and POF will be history ....

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One night stands?? Posted: 1/31/2008 9:49:59 PM
Never tried it ... so I don't know about it...it might work for some ,not for me.

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One night stands?? Posted: 1/31/2008 4:36:27 PM
Shame shame! you slept with another woman's man... like there aren't plenty of single men to date or sleep with..Do unto others as you want done to you... would you like some woman to sleep with your husband ? A woman can say no and the man will respect her wishes.... then again some married man cheat , so why encourages them? just my way of thinking..

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Christians belive that there is no hell??? Posted: 1/31/2008 10:41:38 AM
Of course there is a Hell as well as well as a Heaven... God made them both.. God is a loving God..that is why he gives us the choice to choose between right and wrong... Is he going to reward the sinners by sending them to heaven? Mothers /fathers are loving parents ... Are you going to reward you child for disobeying you? ... when your child gets a reward he earned it.... Just like we have to earn our way to heaven...

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Has anyone ever seen an angel or a demon? Posted: 1/31/2008 10:24:01 AM
Praises to Christ our "Lord" and Redeemer for he has always send his angels to save my children in the time of need.. When my son was in the Air Forces he was in the middle east as some of you made recalled when the enemies sent in a truck full of explosives into the American units that was where our services men were living.... what happen while watching the News in one of the patient's room as I as caring for him... I had this weird feeling over come me.. as I heard it broadcast,I went pale because one of the nurses walks in and say what happen are you feeling ok? I said yes I 'm just worry about the exploration they just had in them apartments in the middle east.. She knew I had a son in the Air Force... She said your son is okay don't worry.... (God could have put it in her to tell me this , one never knows ... I have been used by God for healing as some of you know that I chat with I am a healer ... ) I composed my self and went to the nurses station to make a phone call to my son's commander, being he and I have became acquainted by phone after all my son was dating his daughter(married her later) he said don't worry , our boy is just fine he was just deployed to Turkey a day before this happen.... My son never told me he was being sent there. He just call me and said mom pray for me , I am being deployed to never said where just said he had a mission to take care of. He was in the intelligent department ,he would always say it's top secret mom , can't tell you.. I have to kill you if I do... anyways.. but I always had this feeling over come me when ever something happen in a certain area of the world , and the military was involved, not knowing he was there .. or not.. but I always .. got the same responded from the Commender how did you know he was there.. I know he didn't tell you... I said I have my ways.. the Air Force can't keep my son away from me .... It's strange how one as a mother connects with "God" and "God" connects us to our children when they are in need of us or prayers... when away from us so far or near. One must always be in communication with our "God" for we never know who we are praying for.... I wish you peace and love in the most holy of holies name "Christ" our Lord" and Redeemer

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How do you tell a scam (female) Posted: 1/31/2008 9:43:11 AM
If it's too good to be good to be true , then it's probably is a scam...

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What makes you horny? Posted: 1/30/2008 8:14:55 PM
A good all over work out ,accompany by an all body massage given to each other ... so we can have another all over work out ... Oh yes let the fingers do the walking ...

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I'LL TREAT YOU LIKE A QUEEN ??? Posted: 1/30/2008 9:37:38 AM
My ex husband treated me like a Queen , before he cheated on me... I guess some men will always be looking for another Queen to replace the one that he has in his castle...

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Do men like to be seduced? Posted: 1/30/2008 9:31:29 AM
Do they ever ! Just ask my ex husband

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Dating Mr Invisible Posted: 1/30/2008 9:14:26 AM
I was chatting /emailing some guy I met in another site... about a year ago.. then we he called me on the phone, he say how lucky he was to have met me on line.. omg he says he was in love with me after we been in touch for a few month. I never say I love you to anyone I don't throw my pearls to the wind... I believe they are words that come from the heart not to be cast at every guy...you meet...then some time later about 4 months down the line he changes his changes isn't as friendly and sweet as he was... I figure he was talking to other women .. I am no dummy... he email me still, tell me he missed me and loved me , but just to tell me he was on his way to do some work in the middle east , he said he was an engineer so I figure ok ... he come on MSN I see him , but he would take for ever to answer me if I sent him a message... I did my part .. so I finally gave up I am not going to chase a man ... it's supposed to be the other way around...

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Is this rude behavior? Posted: 1/30/2008 9:03:53 AM
I believe one shall tell that person , whatever you felt that first meeting went like....Then again email him if you don't want to tell him /her in his face... but at least let them know so they acknowledge it...and move on...

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How to keep feelings in check? Posted: 1/30/2008 8:18:53 AM
It's too soon to tell her on your third date .. she might be discourages .. take it easy get to know her, relax enjoy her company ... live life and enjoy!

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How do you tell a scam (female) Posted: 1/30/2008 8:15:20 AM
#8 they say they went to school in American but are in African doing some kind of work... and speak with a broken English that I can't even understand..and I am an American by birth. 9# he ran out of money and needs your help , because he and his little boy have to get back to the states to be with you....

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How do you tell a scam male) Posted: 1/30/2008 8:10:17 AM
They should not allow anyone on here that's separated... if they are still married.. dating should be the last thing on their mind. In regard to your comment: How can we disqualified them from allowing them in this sight? People can put anything on the marital status single , married, separated, divorced. It will probably be time consuming for the site to take time to screen them. Best thing to do is just meet them , you usually can tell if they are lying... you will have that gut feeling. I have had men studder when they are lying or avoid the question.. on the phone.. . by the way I ask them for their phone number , after we chatted , so that I may call them . From another phone that isn't mine because I don't want my name, address in their hands...Or *67 blocks your number from them seeing it.... you feel safer and free. We have to take a chance every day so ... if we can prevent it why not...

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Has anyone ever seen an angel or a demon? Posted: 1/28/2008 9:29:58 AM
Angels are around us every day, they can be anyone or can be unseen... My youngest son fell down the stairs ... long way down for a 16 months baby , some how he came out of his room and as i was coming out of my room i manages to see him fall , the only words that came to my mind was , Oh my God my son is going to died ! Then I said The Blood Of Christ saved my son.. everything was in slow motion as he was falling, it was like a slow motion movie, he never touch the floor he was lifted as he was lifted he looks ups towards his side and smiles and laughs ... I thank God for sending his angel/angels to save my beautiful son who now is 18 yrs. old . I tell my son he has been touch by an Angel ...

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Best before date? Posted: 1/27/2008 10:40:20 PM
Yup , Longterm relationships don't fall from the sky, you have to date a lot to have a longterm relationship unless one gets lucky .. I haven't even gotten to a first date yet....

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Do women find a sensitive men a turn off? Posted: 1/26/2008 10:04:52 PM
Oh my God of course it turns me off when he turns on the water works for anything... I do like some sensitivity in a guy but please not a crier for anything... I can understand if he is in pain, hurting, grieving, etc etc... but I am a caring ,sensitive person but I am used to a man who is a man ... I like a real man who protects me and stands by me... of course I will do the same also.....

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Ex wife is best friend but women see her as competiton Posted: 1/26/2008 9:56:27 PM
My children are grown up , we are still friends . I just don't meddle in his affairs , he comes or calls me for advise .. Of course I do keep it friendly after all why be enemies with the person you once loved and is the father of your children. But I stay OUT OF HIS AFFAIRS....

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How do you tell a scam (female) Posted: 1/26/2008 9:35:17 PM
Some guy email me , we chatted for a few times ... he ask for my phone number I sent it to him . On my way to a meeting on a week day he calls me. Ask me what I was doing. I told him I had an investment meeting to attend. On my way to the meeting he said he like my picture, body and my exotic looks , I am European decent , I told him , he wants to meet sometimes in a weekend.. maybe a Saturday.. hmm too soon for me , but what the heck we are adults I said..he processed to ask me if I had a nice behind , he loved big behind. I told him I am not that young 90lbs person I used to be.. back when I was a model.. He then ask me if I loved to make love , was I a good lover .. I told him now I am blushing, good thing I arrive where i was going ... I cut it short . I told him I am at my location now time for me to leave , he said ok I will call you during the week ... He didn't call me again for that date I guess I scared him away , because I didn't following his invitation to talk dirty... The point is he has a profile as Romantic Sunset .... he appear to be an older man ...with a beard ,very nice body for his age 51 yrs, he told me he was into martial arts .. Recently he had a picture of a younger man with the profile name Single Man**** with a much younger man picture with a body , every woman would love to hold... age 51 it said but for some reason it didn't look like him... maybe it was one of his younger days picture ,who knows... I saw it and knew it was the profile of the same guy who had spoken to me , because he didn't delete the emails he sent to me plus the fact that he had me on his favorite list still as I also did. This time he was on only with a different profile and picture in this profile he says he is , newly single , was married to the model /actress type didn't want one again ,or join him in his yacht to accompany him at sea and that he is leaving soon... if she doesn't want to go she can watch his house in La Jolla... I decide to sent him a message knowing that he had spoken to me before . I wrote to him ,Wow! addressing him by the name he gave me on the phone, what have you done to yourself you looked younger and tanner. Can I have your secret. He read and deletes my mail ... He redid his profile .. ends it with a different name Lances ... when he spoke to me his name was something else... what do you think this guy is up to? I seen his old picture again on this new profile ... again but he change the scenario in it saying he prefers women with a few pounds on them some where like his very first profile... what is wrong with this guy? Sounds Freaking to me .....

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Msg: 95 (view)

Ex wife is best friend but women see her as competiton Posted: 1/26/2008 6:37:02 PM
Exs wives, girlfriends and daughters Oh mine God are trouble , they give you the 3rd degree before you can date their ex husband, father, come to check you out , see what you look like , how you carry yourself. I seen it and I am glad I didn't have to go through that.. Although my ex husband and I are good friends , I never meddle in his life. He does confined to me ... whatever troubles he has with his girlfriend/girlfriends , but not much I can do . He doesn't take my advise anyway, as his mother used to tell me , he will fall and still keep falling.. Some women do see it as competition... because the exs are always around.. Me I stay out of his affairs....

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Msg: 95 (view)

First contact... how many times do you attempt contact before giving up? Posted: 1/26/2008 6:22:41 PM
I agree once, or is about right. But you have to keep in mind that sometime when they IM you, you may be away or busy to notice the IM Messenger coming in.. It's not that I am rude many times it has occur to me , when they finally get a hold of me they ask why I rejective their in coming IM. I didn't see it I am hooked on forums and am busy reading or replying to them.. at times I am checking my email , typing emails, paying bills, and yes I am writing my first book .. hopefully it can be done this year.... crosses her finger in hopes that it is...

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Why can't I heal? Posted: 1/26/2008 6:11:28 PM
Time will heal , you're still in mourning process.... read, do something to keep you mind off her.. pray, mediate , go out with friends, do something you like to do... it will help... talk about it to a close friend it helps to talk.... If you confront her to get closure , may help you but then again your old feelings, if you still have them made come out again.. better to let her go and move on.. She has tasted forbidden goods and may feel the need for them at some time or another . Weather she is with you or someone else .... she will be tempted ....let it go . I hope you over come you pain OP...

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Msg: 55 (view)

If someone asks, Are you married? Posted: 1/26/2008 2:55:48 PM
No ! I was born a single baby ..

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Msg: 58 (view)

what does a guy mean when he says you deserve better? Posted: 1/26/2008 2:45:23 PM
Be easy on her everyone . She is in china and her man was somewhere in another country... it could have been she was too far for him to connect with her... so he let her go .. no sense carrying on if they weren't going to see each other anyway ... he might have not had the money to sent for her.. most likely or go see her.... ease on her she is heart broken after all it was an online relationship for over a year.

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what does a guy mean when he says you deserve better? Posted: 1/26/2008 8:58:24 AM
He is telling you , to find someone closer to you if your are in different countries... maybe he can't come to you, or you can't go to him.. sometimes we have to let go of someone we love for the best ....it's called love.. you love that person , that you are willing to let him/her go in search of their happiness... A year is a long time to spent on line with someone , I can say time heals but then you know that... take care and remember there is a greater love in "Christ" who heals and take away your pain...

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If someone asks, Are you married? Posted: 1/26/2008 8:52:28 AM
If you're married you answer yes..... If you're not married you, say no...simple as that. Be honest!

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Msg: 152 (view)

Do men still look for old fashioned girls? Posted: 1/25/2008 5:36:34 PM
I still do the old fashion cooking , but healthier , just sewed up some hems on my skirts/pants the other day .. hmm Honey I think I am shrinking ! I make my daughter's and my scrubs for work... my daughter is a chip off me... she also is works in the health field(only she is studying to be a doctor ) ...I clean my own home, wash my car , check the oil , make love (wishing) make some of my clothes still since a teens , I do my own nails /pedi cure too, old habits are hard to died.

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Msg: 65 (view)

Guys I Need Your Perspective Posted: 1/25/2008 11:40:51 AM
Why do some men preferred that the woman initiate contact with them first? Is it me or does it happen to many? I feel it's not my place as a lady to do so.. when they say I'll talk to you later and they don't it puzzles me . I don't want to make myself annoying to anyone so I just stop contacting them... if they want to they will contact me...just my way of thinking .

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Msg: 162 (view)

What to do when a guy says it's between you and someone else? Posted: 1/25/2008 11:05:14 AM
Well , wish him all the luck in the world , with her.. because if anything she is going to need it because he will keep dating other women . No big lost you did right.

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Thinks she a keeper but to find out... Posted: 1/25/2008 9:45:42 AM
Just by saying they 're still in love with their ex make sure be reason enough to run! They are not over their ex , still connected to them.. and do you blame ? After all they have a long history...

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Thinks she a keeper but to find out... Posted: 1/24/2008 9:32:28 PM
I chatted with some guy who say they still love their ex girl friends/ wives ... Then why are they in POF looking for a woman... they should be out there trying to make things work with their ex girl friends/wives..... or they need to seek some help to over come their break up.... just makes me wonder why they even bother to come here ... I expect the worst from anyone so when it happens it doesn't surprise me .........I met one guy about 1 month ago, who told me he was tall and when I met him he was shorter then me . I am5feet 2inches and a half.. I only met one guy in here and , I am not to thrilled in meeting anyone else... too soon. I work a lot and am my own boss so I don't have time to be fooling around with people who are not honest with themselves or others.. be honest some women love short guys.. I preferred them taller then me or tall... I love to wear heels ...

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Angry replies upon discovery of a sex site profile... Posted: 1/24/2008 9:21:09 PM
Ubkobalt : In reply to Can't he look for both at the same time? I guess he could but why not find a girlfriend at the site where he is advertising for sex? because men want to have their sex with one woman and have a nice girl friend they can show off to their friends and family....The question is will they give it up for that nice girl?

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After the break-up: What to do with all the gifts from your ex? Posted: 1/24/2008 9:05:27 PM
If she gave them to you .... as gifts their your's to keep... any court will tell you that... and I am not a judge... then you can do whatever yo want with them if you don't want them..

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Msg: 186 (view)

My New Girlfriends Nuts! Posted: 1/24/2008 10:02:54 AM
She's got the green monster sickness, she can escalate . She has issues from past relationships ,she needs to take care of before she moves on. Be careful, that's the sign that she can or made be a woman who abuses her man...

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Thinks she a keeper but to find out... Posted: 1/24/2008 7:19:49 AM
There is all kinds of people on POF so it doesn't surprise me at all... Just have to be careful. for the sharps ....it's a world of wonders in here , we just have to be prepare for it and dismiss it....

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Angry replies upon discovery of a sex site profile... Posted: 1/23/2008 9:25:29 PM
They shouldn't get angry for getting busted on a sex site profile.. they should say yea I am looking for sex till I find my Mrs... then your a fool if you believe that line... like they're going to give it up...

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The BIG question! Posted: 1/23/2008 6:44:46 PM
apology accepted , scoterpop no hard feelings .. i was just reversing the female role to male , trying to be sarcastic ....

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Msg: 234 (view)

Christians belive that there is no hell??? Posted: 1/23/2008 9:46:39 AM
Of course there is a Hell and Heaven.. there is good and evil right? We make our choices between good and evil every day. Yes God created heaven and hell . ppl don't go to heaven just because they lived a good life what is a good life? then again who am i to say. we are judged on our actions at the end. one must live by his word in his word under his grace , be forgiving to one another , love thy neighbor as well as our enemies .. So much to learn to and yet not enough time to learn .. Bible speaks of accepting "Christ " as our savior and acknowledge him in every way. We can ask for forgiveness and accepted Christ as our savior in our death bed , for God is truly a forgiving loving " God". For " God so loved the world that he gave his only beloved son so that we can have ever lasting live , John 3:16 . Take for instance the man who died on the cross who was a murder , Christ told him , I tell you now , your sins are forgiven , I shall see you in heaven. This man didn't know the word of God but he did acknowledage that Christ was the son of God." Dose one become a doctor just by hanging around a doctor? Dose one become a Christian just by living the good life? One can be good and live a righteous life but not know or practices the word of God". I know many wonderful ppl who don't go to church or read the Bible some are my friends .. then who am I to judge , I am but a sinner myself and come short of the grace of my father in heaven. But I tried to live , by example, teach, and learn, because we are always students in the class room learning till we live no more. Just sharing what I've learned. Pray for one another and be forgiving .. pray for me also .. "God " be bless and may he bless us all too!

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Joined: 10/15/2007

Msg: 36 (view)

The BIG question! Posted: 1/23/2008 9:05:39 AM
scotterpop: take in consideration that men my age are either married, working, semi retired or retired, (most are semi retired or retired I believe) So while I am working he can take care of me at home plus . He will get a bonus for all his hard loving work I am not a male chauvinism .... fair exchange

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