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passionatebodaciouswoman

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 62 (view)

Aug 29, 09 - N. Calif. POF Meet and Greet in Livermore Posted: 8/25/2009 8:17:38 AM
I LOVE THESE NEW POF NOR CAL SINGLES MIXERS SO MUCH FUN, BUT YES LETS GET SOME DANCING AND MUSIC GOING. ALSO MORE GUYS NEED TO SIGN UP, YEAH I BET THEY JUST SHOW UP OR SIGN UP AT THE LAST MINUTE

huggablelovable45

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 76 (view)

Damned if you do - Damned if don't Posted: 9/1/2008 7:05:29 AM
Often men dont have anything on their mind except for sex, football and where is their next beer coming from, so why ask, unless he is going to tell you how much he was thinking of how beautiful you are and how great you look todya and how much he loves you. Other than that, I dont want to hear about his manstuff.

huggablelovable45

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 108 (view)

Do you still have faith in love? Posted: 9/1/2008 7:00:48 AM
Yes I do. I feel that if love is meant to be, it will come, if it isnt than i am prepared to live out my life without the love of a man.

sweet037

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 2 (view)

Creepy POF Meetup Advice Plz Posted: 4/6/2008 6:55:12 AM
Call the police and file a report. Request a restraining order. All of the things he is dong are illegal in the eyes of the law. Very very important to immediately file a police report. Do not ever feel stupid about it. Just do it. Please. We need to stop men like this.

sweet037

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 90 (view)

how did you know when you were done with a former relationship? Posted: 3/22/2008 7:40:18 AM
When My Husband of 15 yrs asked for a divorce to marry the one he cheated with for 2 dang years

sweet037

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 216 (view)

Are you willing to relocate for LOVE? How far would you go for LOVE? Posted: 3/20/2008 8:12:29 PM
To the ends of the Earth. If it was real true LOVE.

sweet037

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 493 (view)

Why do women date mutiple guys at once? Posted: 3/20/2008 8:10:40 PM
You have to go through ALOTof Frogs to get to your Prince. If you do them one at a time, it may take forever. lol

sweet037

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 316 (view)

Would you date a married man or woman? Posted: 3/18/2008 12:30:38 PM
My ex cheated on me for 2 years. I was last one to know. No I would not. By the way if you go out with a man that cheats or a woman that does and then marry them like my ex did you can be pretty well assured he or she will do it again when his little male brain finds someone better and more exciting then the last. 3rd marriage I was the 2nd wife of 15 yrs. His 1st was less than a year. His third they got married right after our divorce and my guess it will last under 5 years. His 4th i envision him getting cheated on. It breaks up families confuses the heck out of the kids and makes them mad and angry. It NEVER HEALS. No I wouldnt even tho Ive been asked by a married man repeatedly.

Sweet037

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 51 (view)

How long does it take men to fall in love? Posted: 3/16/2008 7:24:29 PM
I think men fall in love in 2nds every morning when hard waking up

Sweet037

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 7 (view)

who can you trust Posted: 3/16/2008 7:09:01 PM
so far i say 75% lie. I trust ME, MYSELF AND I.

mojo37

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 120 (view)

cheated on...second chance's? Posted: 3/2/2008 8:57:22 PM
If you can Forgive & Forget do so, but dont ever bring it up again, My standard is cheat once then its bye., because I do not forgive & forget so easily. My husband cheated on me for 2 years before I knew and then asked for a divorce so he could marry his 2 timing cheating sl^t, like himself. So for that he will suffer and his karma will get him, maybe soon or in 20 years, but it will get him, that I have no doubt.

mojo37

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 129 (view)

Do you find yourself becoming apathetic about finding love? Posted: 3/1/2008 6:29:05 AM
Yes, on dating sites. When I stop looking, LOVE will find me.

mojo37

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 411 (view)

What have you learned about online dating here? Posted: 3/1/2008 4:38:42 AM
MEN LOVE BOOBS ,SEX,WILL DO almost anything for it. LIE, CHEAT & STEAL.

mojo37

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 3 (view)

Guys use IM just because? Posted: 2/28/2008 7:48:26 PM
I think guys use it to discuss things they would rather not discuss in person. But hey I could be wrong. A guy or guys that I thought liked me just liked what I could give them. No chance for a LTR, just want to chat about sex because in person its harder for them to discuss it.

mojo37

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 398 (view)

What have you learned about online dating here? Posted: 2/28/2008 4:12:25 AM
MOST MEN HAVE SEX ON THE BRAIN 24/7.

mojo37

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 28 (view)

Anybody just not interested in dating? Posted: 2/27/2008 9:07:16 PM
I like dating and long term relationships. If you have lost interest maybe you should just do forums.......................

mojo37

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 39 (view)

Skin-to-skin contact and the benefit of human touch Posted: 2/27/2008 4:35:34 PM
Yes it is proven touch heightens the sensuality of lovemaking

mojo37

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 176 (view)

for the ladies....can you TRULY say money ain't a factor? Posted: 2/27/2008 1:49:03 PM
Well I always made more than most men so it didnt matter to me

mojo37

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 83 (view)

Are Woman better players then men ? Posted: 2/27/2008 7:18:22 AM
Of course they are. They learn from an early age then perfect it.

mojo37

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 76 (view)

Why would a man do this? Posted: 2/27/2008 6:02:02 AM
Becuz most men think with their male brain. Want their cake and eat it too

mojo37

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 8 (view)

Close friends, what if one of them want more? Posted: 2/21/2008 5:23:18 AM
All close couples or marriages should start with best friends. Really since you are so close and have loved each other as friends for so long, you should start a relationship with her and you will probably find that your best friend is the best mate.

mojo37

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 314 (view)

Her sexual past.....ur business? Posted: 2/20/2008 6:28:45 AM
Unless the other has a disease from priors, NO its nobobys business but your own. I have found a great quote that I live by emphatically: by George M. Lamsa: As long as a secret is secure in your heart, you are its master, and you can ride on it. As soon as you disclose it, it becomes your master and rides on you. Never did I find this so true until my ex asked for a divorce, the secrets were used as a weapon. Nobodys business but my own.

mojo37

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 92 (view)

what's wrong with saying thanks but no thanks Posted: 2/14/2008 5:06:17 PM
Nothing why dont more people do it IT IS SO RUDE not to respond; I send a nice email and people just ignore you. If y'all dont like to respond dont go on email sites.

mojo37

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 711 (view)

Women who smoke are far more promiscuous. Posted: 2/13/2008 4:47:29 PM
UNTIL U have 100% of facts STOP making FALSE statements. It is wrong and unfair to make a BLANKET statement "women who smoke", what if I said women with red hair, Musllims, southerners etc. that wouldnt go over well. Please do not make it a far reaching all or nothing statement. That is bad journalism at its best.

Mojo37

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 403 (view)

Why do men do the diappearing act? Posted: 1/24/2008 6:47:17 PM
Men disappear a lot when they dont get their way. Basically men are looking for their mother and if they dont find her then poof bye. They have no consideration as it is only a game not a real life experience to them. And yes when guys ask me I flat out tell them either we can be friends only, call me anytime, nice being with you, but it isnt going to work out. Also I have had a few that did the gentlemanly thing and wrote to tell me i was GREAT just not their idea of Great. What an exciting and exhausing game it is. I think Im going back to the bars. My arms hurt from typing

Mojo37

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 541 (view)

Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters! Posted: 1/18/2008 6:39:02 PM
No one can trick you if ya dont wanna go say NO

Mojo37

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 9 (view)

My first love Posted: 1/15/2008 7:34:07 AM
Was with the cutest skateboarder on earth. I'll never forget him as long as i live.

Mojo37

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 50 (view)

What have you learned from online dating ? Posted: 1/14/2008 6:54:42 PM
1. Men REALLY like boobs. 2. Men LIE ALOT

Mojo37

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 58 (view)

How many times have you been called 'THE ONE'? Posted: 1/8/2008 7:13:04 PM
Once when i was proposed too. 15 yrs of marriage & then poof im not the one anymore, there is another the one. I really feel that the one doesnt exist and if he/she does they are on the other side of the equator.

WildCherry62

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 7 (view)

Why Do Guys Like to Play Games... Posted: 1/3/2008 8:34:13 AM
Becuz the ones who do it want to have their cake & eat it too. Sorry for your experience. Girls play lots and lots of games too, just different ones.

WildCherry62

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 61 (view)

Willing to settle??? Posted: 1/3/2008 6:52:03 AM
Yes absolutely will settle. Wait for a dream guy.. I'll miss the boat.

WildCherry62

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 498 (view)

Women who smoke are far more promiscuous. Posted: 1/1/2008 7:06:03 PM
That is entirely inaccurate and has no merit.

WildCherry62

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 244 (view)

Why are older women scared about dating younger men? Posted: 12/30/2007 9:01:39 AM
I married a younger man-for15 yrs. I search in 33-40-as they give the most compliments and highest ratings and appreciate older women.

WildCherry62

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 123 (view)

Why do women date mutiple guys at once? Posted: 12/28/2007 7:15:46 PM
Because we can. We have to eat several oysters to get to the pearl.

WildCherry62

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 99 (view)

OMG! Found my friends' husband on this site! Posted: 12/26/2007 7:21:44 PM
Definately tell her she needs the info. That is so wrong. I had a similar situation and told my friend and all 3 people involved ended up hating me for getting involved. Sometimes your damned if you do and damned if you dont.

WildCherry62

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 11 (view)

Obsessive behavior Posted: 12/26/2007 7:06:57 PM
I am similar but reversed. If I like the person I send emails and sexy voicemails. I think that it a nice way of showing you care and would like to get things going. I do not consider this obsessive, but unfortunately many men do not like all that attention so early in the game. And i do believe yes that dating is a game you find out how to play once you know what the other person wants.

WildCherry62

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 158 (view)

Is a 9 year age difference too much? Posted: 12/26/2007 7:17:23 AM
Absolutely not a problem. Women mature faster so really she is around the same age as you in her maturity level and therefore should be a good match.

WildCherry62

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 29 (view)

Public opinion - is there 'the one'? Posted: 12/25/2007 9:02:57 AM
There is "the one" but he probably lives in Germany or Russia. So we just settle for closest to the one, which if friends can work a long long time.

WildCherry62

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 11 (view)

Women who smoke are far more promiscuous. Posted: 12/25/2007 3:18:08 AM
I smoked since I was 11 and love sex, that doesnt make me promiscuous. And I do not believe that this study or any study is based on reality only skewed to get the answer the person doing the research is looking for.

WildCherry62

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 25 (view)

Do you enjoy DANCING for a 1st Date? Posted: 12/25/2007 2:57:21 AM
Yes I love dancing on a 1st date, best way to get physically close and see if they smell good,,,lol

WildCherry62

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 28 (view)

the ultimate orgasm Posted: 12/20/2007 3:57:36 AM
Ah yes, the ultimate orgasm being oral and then being held so you keep having them over and over again. My ex use to do that a lot. By the time we divorced both he and I could do many many multiples. So exciting.

WildCherry62

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 15 (view)

Love Like there's no tomorrow Posted: 12/18/2007 9:56:53 AM
Compromise has a lot to do with romance. Like if he wants to do it a certain way and she doesnt want to then you need to compromise about the situation to keep the love alive. Otherwise there will be less and less love as time goes on. Compromise is an absoulte must. That is what all people married over 25 yrs will tell you is the number one thing keeping their marriage going. If not number one, always number two after number one being COMMUNICATION!!!!!!!

WildCherry62

Joined: 10/19/2007

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Love Like there's no tomorrow Posted: 12/18/2007 9:52:02 AM
Bout the 7th year start weekend getaways and do it all wknd.

Needmymojo37

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 10 (view)

trying to get my head around a mans way of thinking Posted: 12/8/2007 1:55:14 AM
To tell you the truth women do the same thing. I dont think women will ever figure out men as men will also never figure out women

Needmymojo37

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 279 (view)

Why Do We Women Continuously Put Down Men? Posted: 12/6/2007 3:52:27 PM
Cause its so much fun. Besides its payback

Needmymojo37

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 261 (view)

Men who arrive for the 1st date with a rose.....do women like it? Posted: 12/6/2007 9:26:47 AM
Oh yeah a definate turn on - love it

Needmymojo37

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 86 (view)

Younger guys that prefer dating older women but not getting far? Posted: 11/29/2007 4:46:42 AM
I am older and love young bucks for their energy, I could go out with one for a while but unless they could provide the wisdom and wit an older gent brings it would be hard to stay with the younger one. You can only listen to the Hokey Pokey so many times......LOL

Needmymojo37

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 46 (view)

Do you really support our troops? Posted: 11/20/2007 6:55:56 PM
ABSOLUTELY 100%!!You know if wasn't for our troops who stand out on the battlefield or in the little houses where snipers are hiding or into caves where fanatics are building bombs against the INFIDELS (US) then we would be in a state run by dictators, or kings, or fanatics. I thank God everyday for our troops since the beginning of time who gave their life so that we could have our freedom. Freedom is definately not free. Some do have to die to keep the fanatics from entering our borders. And I thank the Veterans and the current troops for fighting and dying so I can be allowed without prejudice and without threat of arrest to tell off all the liberal nazis and their gay propagandas. I love my Country and if wasnt for the 18 year olds who risk their life everyday in World War I, WWII (where my Dad served), Korean, Vietnam, Grenada, Afghanistan, Iraq, and many many more I did not mention you would not even be allowed to express your stupidity in this type of a manner. Whether you believe in the war or not you MUST ALWAYS support the troops. They are just young kids who believe in a way of life, an American way of life. SO YES I DO!!!!!!!

PassionateLvr

Joined: 10/19/2007

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You just have to move on.... Posted: 11/10/2007 8:36:07 AM
I found out one day my husband wanted a divorce a few days later that he had been cheating on me for 2 years. Both he and her told me to MOVE on & Get over it. Well after 15 years you dont just move on and get over it. But for Seavoyage my suggestion is to stay in contact with several women on pof that way when one goes south you have back up. Cause you just never know when they are going to tell you well Ive moved on and you should too.

PassionateLvr

Joined: 10/19/2007

Msg: 14 (view)

Why would someone steal potted plants??? Posted: 11/10/2007 4:22:49 AM
When I was around 15 my friend and I drove around on our bikes doing that exact thing, why? Because we were a bit tipsy, and bored and wanted to get into some mischief. I guess we were trying to prove to each other how "bad" we were. Everytime I think back on that night, I think how stupid it was and wish I could go back and put those plants back.

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