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buck711

Joined: 5/15/2005

Msg: 83 (view)

lonely in public?? Posted: 8/9/2008 9:12:16 PM
I think that all of us at one time or another feels alone at a public function. I too have felt like the fifth wheel. My siblings and friends are all married and have families that occupy most of their time and when we all get together, they allways seem to pair off and there I am by myself. But when I start feeling down, I start to think of all the things I can do that I don't have to get someone's permission to do. If I want to go fishing, I just go. If I want to sit up all night & watch movies, I do. If I want to go on a trip, I pack my bag & head out the door. Don't take me wrong, I wish I had someone to share these things with, but I try to look on the brighter side and enjoy life rather than sit home and be depressed.

buck711

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Whats gonna be the difference Posted: 8/10/2007 9:00:22 PM
What's going to be different.... First your hair migrates south & you can't remember why you bought shampoo. Hair starts growing in places you didn't think could possibly grow hair. You start to refer to the younger generations as "Those darn kids". You start every sentence with "When I was a kid" or "Back in my days". You see a gal in her 20's and you ask "Why didn't they build them like that when I was younger". You worry more about your lawn than about the boxer shorts, black socks and flip-flops you are wearing. As for the dating aspect, the pickings get slimmer and with you being bald with a hairy back and bushes growing out of your ears, your chance of getting a date is as good as finding that lost sock in the dryer...... Just kidding..... It's the same yet different. You want something but the something you want changes. Buck

buck711

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Guys over 38 - What would you think if.... Posted: 8/10/2007 8:46:33 PM
a.) be flattered, and if interested, call her If most women would only be so brave. Most women don't realize that some men are afraid to take the first step due to a past of rejection and let downs. And as we get older, it's harder to tell who is available AND interested. Oh by the way... could you e-mail me your number.... the note blew off my vehicle..... Buck

buck711

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Need Vs. Want Posted: 8/10/2007 8:37:39 PM
Nurse.. I ask myself the same question about women every day...lol. I don't think there is a signal given off, it's just like everything else, you learn from past experience. As for myself, I would prefer a lady that needs and wants me equally. I like to feel needed and wanted, one with out the other is unbalanced and for me, only leads to unhappiness. Buck

buck711

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What would you do? Posted: 8/10/2007 8:29:55 PM
The male mind is complex and yet simple. It is hard for some men to let go completely of someone who has once meant so much to them even if there is no chance of rekindling the flame. As for his comment of "being surprised", maybe he thought or hoped that you still had feelings for him and seeing you with someone else had never crossed his mind. Buck

buck711

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How can someone love you? then get drunk and call you the worst names Posted: 8/10/2007 8:17:48 PM
sweetred, This comes from someone who has been in both of your places. I am a recovering alcoholic who has been abused and has abused. I am not proud of my past, but I got the help I needed to regain my life and live happy again. I use my past now to try to help others in situations like mine. Verbal abuse when drinking is the first step towards domestic violence. Unless he gets some help, whether counciling, AA, or Anger management, things will only get worse. There is also a group that can help you. It is called Al-Anon. It is for family and love ones of alcoholics. You have to ask yourself these questions. Do I love him enough to risk my safety and those I love? Is he willing to get help to change his actions? Alcohol is cunning, baffling, and powerful. If something does not change, the forecast is grim. Sorry for being blunt, but you deserve a much better life. Buck

buck711

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girly girls Posted: 8/10/2007 7:57:30 PM
I enjoy having a lady that is willing to do some of the "outdoor" activities I enjoy. That tells me she enjoys spending time with me. I love when a lady dresses to the nines for me even more. It tells me she is willing to spend time making herself up for me. For me that is the difference...... Buck

buck711

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is being single so bad? Posted: 8/10/2007 7:48:15 PM
Single vs married....... again both have good points. Unfortunately my marriage had more bad points to it than good points, thus I am single again. Would I do it again? Lets just say if the right gal crossed my path, I might take that chance. As for right now, I like single life, but not love it. The down side to single life: 1. Cooking for one. 2. No one to wake up next to. 3. When you need a hug, no one is there. and last 4. Having to go back to playing the field for companionship. So I leave it up to personal preference, some enjoy being single, some dread it. The same goes for marriage & relationships. Both have up sides and down sides. What you have to ask is what makes you the happiest. Buck

buck711

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so, why are you still single? Posted: 6/11/2007 10:17:31 PM
you mean there is an alternative???? gee I thought this is the way it's supposed to be.

buck711

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North Dakota-Manitoba POF Visit Posted: 6/11/2007 10:13:07 PM
i need help from any NODAKers out there. Are there any decent adult toy stores in either GF or Fargo? There is one in GF, 2 in Fargo, and one in Moorhead... e-mail me for more info...

buck711

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Better SEX: Before or After 30? Posted: 4/13/2007 4:47:24 PM
Stlii trying to remember what sex was again..... did it have anything to do with whipped cream and a feather?

buck711

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Pressure from my mom Posted: 3/26/2007 8:39:38 PM
Torent.... I'm sure you have been honest with your mom in your feelings, so time to get to the nitty gritty. From reading your posts, I can see you have a full life now, which means you are happy. Ask her if getting into a relationship that you don't have time for now, having "her grandkids", being unhappy in a relationship, and eventually ending up in a divorce is what she wants. Remind her that it's not totally out of the question for sometime in the future, but not right now. Tell her you know it would make her happy and "fullfilled" but right now it will do neither for you. Remind her that if you end up in a divorce that there might be a chance that your ex could end up with custody and she might not get to see "her grandkids" anyway. In other words, that day might come, but today is not the day... so lighten up on me and let's enjoy today for what it is and not morn because of what it's not. Buck

buck711

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Help out a born prude! Posted: 3/26/2007 8:19:19 PM
What was sex again??? Unfortunately yes there are men out there that are just looking for sex. But there are also a few of us out there that still enjoy sex, but it's not a reason for dating, it's a reward for finding someone special. That someone who fills an empty void and makes life fun to live. If I was out looking for sex, I'd be at the meat market bars, strip clubs, and other places where "if your there you're just looking for sex". But I choose to be here, where I can learn more about a person by chatting and they can learn about me. BTW.. you are not a born prude, you just have higher standards and are looking for more in life than a roll in the sack... Kudos to you !!! Buck

buck711

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Guys and their pictures Posted: 3/26/2007 8:08:30 PM
Sorry kiwi that I don't have any pics like that on my profile... it's just because I don't have any. Want to get together and take some for my profile?..... JUST KIDDING!!!!! I have to say though in all honosty that it does go both ways. There are women out there too that have pics posted of them with exes, but I look at it this way.... what you catch depends on what you use as bait (POF pun intended). If you post pics like that then you will get the same thing, but if you post not intending to impress but rather to show, then you have a better chance of finding that person who will light up your mornings and make your nights blaze bright. You just have to pass the chum and keep trolling for the keeper.

buck711

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Flirting And The Older Male Fish Posted: 3/26/2007 7:42:32 PM
Our "can't miss" shot is now 50/50. Lousy odds. Our odds now a days are less than 50/50. There are a lot more of the gals out there today that are either married or dating than when we were in school. And don't forget the ladies that have been done wrong by idiot men and have made the ladies gun shy of even a wink in their direction. I'd have to say that the odds today are much much less than 50/50. But on the brighter side.. knowing that the odds are lower doesn't make it any less fun in still flirting with a gal across the room with the twinkle in her eye and a pretty smile.......

buck711

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Do You Have a Self-Imposed Age Limit for Dating (or Whatever?) Posted: 3/26/2007 7:32:13 PM
My age limits of someone I'd date.... over 18 and under 200.... but must still be breathing. But honostly... I saw somewhere that the "acceptable" age limit for someone younger that you is half your age + 6 yrs. For example for a 44 yr old, it would be 28 (44/2+6) for the youngest and 76 ((44-6)*2) for the oldest. Just remember it goes both ways. My feeling is that if it's legal and you both are happy, more power to you. Have fun and enjoy life. Buck

buck711

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What makes a woman over 40 sexy? Posted: 3/26/2007 7:20:14 PM
If she's breathing.........

buck711

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something wrong with us? Posted: 3/26/2007 7:16:35 PM
There is nothing wrong with us. Some people today are more cautious. With divorce rates as high as they are, a lot of people want to be sure it's going to last and not be a statistic. Society is changing too. Here in North Dakota this month, they finally removed a law that made cohabitation (two people not married but living together) illegal. Yes I am divorced, but if I knew than what I knew now, I wouldn't have gotten married. It goes back to the long and many time asked question "Why are you single?". My answer is because I choose to be right now. I might find that perfect person for me in a month, a year, a decade, or more, but for right now I'm satisfied being who I am how I am. You seem to be single because of a rapid life style and there's nothing wrong with that. As for not having made a connection by the age of 36... shoot your still young and have many years to go so don't bother it. Just enjoy life, make friends, and you never know what or who you'll find in the next year. Buck

buck711

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dreading turning 30 Posted: 3/26/2007 7:03:23 PM
Turning 2o single was cool, turning 30 single was fun, turning 40 single was stressful, just hoping turning 50 I won't be single so it it can be cool and fun again.

buck711

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Mismatched sex drives - he just can't keep up! Posted: 9/6/2006 10:10:32 AM
if keeping up is your tape measure to happiness you'll lose most of the time. get the good man who loves you. who wants a relationship 1st and work on your sex. I never have thought of sex as work or something to work on. I guess I know why I'm still single then, because I want both a great lady AND great sex..... is that too much to ask for? Buck

buck711

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Mismatched sex drives - he just can't keep up! Posted: 9/6/2006 5:26:36 AM
^^^ This is true.....but you do what you have to do. As for the free license, maybe it was way of easing out gracefully. Buck

buck711

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can too much porn and masterbation ruin your sex drive? Posted: 9/5/2006 10:50:34 PM
i juust dont want my hand to EVER replace a woman. I wouldn't worry too much unless your hand falls asleep in the middle of it.... now that is the ultimate rejection........

buck711

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Mismatched sex drives - he just can't keep up! Posted: 9/5/2006 10:22:16 PM
a related question...how do you keep YOUR sanity when your partner lags behind you? I know what you mean sxyvirgo, I too have a high sex drive. 4 times a week would be great, once a day would be a dream come true. For myself I was married to a woman that thought once a month was too much. I resorted to satisfying myself. Right now I don't date much, and I am trying to remember what sex with someone else wa like (lol) so Rosey keeps me sane. I would love to find someone who has the same sex drive. As for being too tired for sex, just let me grab a quick nap & I'll be ready. But if someone is constantly saying that, it does make you wonder if the spark is gone or if there is some other problem. You have to remember that as men get older, our sex drive usually decreases (ask me this 20 yrs ago and I would have said 3 times a day) and with some men the hardware isn't able to deliver even if the man is willing. Just a thought... slap me if you want.... want to move to ND?.....lol Buck

buck711

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What's wrong with stating you would like to see a pic in emails..?? Posted: 9/5/2006 10:03:33 PM
There is nothing wrong in asking for a pic. If someone interests me or is interested in me and they don't have a pic posted, I'll ask for one. Having that physical spark is just as important as having things in comman. I also respect guynamejeff's view. If I was to ask for a pic, and was told "I'm not comfortable with sending you a pic because of personal reasons, can we get to know each other better first.", I would respect that. But at the same time, I don't like it when someone doesn't post a pic, but when they send it to you, and there isn't that physical attraction, they get hostile. It's a chance you take. I post a pic and I mainly respond to posts with pics. This is a "100% Free Dating Site" and I don't think many of us here would date someone that we are not attracted to. My Opinion...... Buck

buck711

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Guys opinion men, please respond Posted: 9/5/2006 9:43:26 PM
Have you thought of this...... I didn't see anyone else mention it. Yo said you see 4-5 times a year, which averages out to every 2 1/2-3 months. Next time you have a class with him, after class is done for the day, ask him if he'd like to go out for coffee, or would like to get something to drink later. If the chemical attraction is both ways, he'll say yes, and take it from there. Another thing you might tryis to ask him for help understanding something in class. As for calling him out of the blue, it might be unconfortable for him. You stated that all you know about him is he is an instuctor at classes you attend. Is he married? What do you think might happen if you were to call his house and his wife or girl friend answered? Do you want to open that can of worms for him? Just my opinion..... Buck

buck711

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GUYS: Why the fascination with auto racing??? Posted: 9/5/2006 9:22:11 PM
I watch NASCAR. First it's more than guys in cars holding the gas pedal down driving in circles. I watch it for several reasons: 1. I have always dreamed of driving fast. I don't own a race car so I get that thrill by watching someone else. It's no different than armchair quarterbacks watching the Super Bowl. 2. There is the excitement of the unpredictable. Anything can happen from loosing grip on the track and hitting a wall, hitting someone else that has spun out, or running out of gas. 3. It's much more than the driver. You have mechanics, pit crew, other drivers and pit crews. If anyone of them makes a mistake, it changes the entire race. There is strategy at every race, when to pit, change 2 tires, 4 tires, or no tires, or what adjustments to make to the car. Every decision the driver and the crew cheif make has a direct impact on whether you win or even finnish. 4. There isn't a race track over 1/2 mile withing 600 miles from where I live. I can't see them live every weekend, so I watch them on the TV. Beleive me, if I could, I much rather be sitting at turn 1 at every track. To me racing is as much of a sport as any other. If racing is just driving around in circles, then football is just running a ball back & forth, baseball is just running in circles, hockey is just fighting, and golf is just hitting a little ball and chasing it. Buck

buck711

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Okay heres another one? Posted: 7/31/2006 6:23:07 PM
Is this the same man who said you were "alright"... If so....enough said....

buck711

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Do Good guys...... Posted: 7/31/2006 6:19:32 PM
I can't answer for all men, but for myself....NO!. Your past is your past, you can't change it, it has made you who you are. I don't care how you got where you are today, just who you are today. Buck

buck711

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what do i need to do to get the man i want? Posted: 7/31/2006 6:17:14 PM
Hmmmm..... There is always the USA also.... never know.......

buck711

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Over 40? Posted: 7/31/2006 6:11:28 PM
Yes we are out there... it's just that most of the ladies live in British Columbia, Texas, New Jersey, or somewhere else that is 1000 miles away. I remember Nixon , the first moon landing, and when "Bugs" were the neatest cars around. BTW...I may grow old But I will never grow up. Life is no fun without a little youth to keep it fresh. Buck

buck711

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Why are you single? Posted: 7/4/2006 8:38:48 PM
Why a, I still single.....because Canada refuses to export ALL of their women....

buck711

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Do men just not know what really constitutes an average weight? Posted: 7/4/2006 8:28:35 PM
Does anyone????? I agree some men lie or deny their body type. But women never do??? There are no women here at POF that are 160 lbs and say they are "average"? 250 lbs and have "a few extra pounds"? I am average... 5' 10", 150 lbs and am told all the time I look skinny. Yes, diabetes is a problem, obesity is a problem, and so is denial. Men and women alike. Sorry if I offended anyone.... Buck

buck711

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Just Wondering!!!! Seem so unfair. Posted: 7/4/2006 7:58:21 PM
WM.. life is just unfair. BTW.. you ask " what is so great dating a woman old enough to be your mother" how about "what's so great dating a man young enough to be your son" even though there is only a 15 yr difference. Dating and finding the right person is and never will be easy. Some people date alot, but they aren't happy. If they were, they'd be married. Most of us though, it's hard to find that right person.....maybe that's why we are all here. Don't give up hope. Maybe that confused looking guy at the grocery store is just trying to figure out how to ask you out. You never know.......... Buck

buck711

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What 'little' things could a lady do for you? Posted: 7/4/2006 7:48:49 PM
Since you said he has a "wacky SOH and everything is flowing in the bedroom dept", you might try this. Slip a pair of panties into his suit case next time he goes out of town with a note saying "The rest of the gift waits for you." I would say put it in his lunch box or briefcase, but that could cause problems at work if found at the wrong time. Dinners and back rubs are nice. Since I don't know his likes or dislikes, I can only speak for myself. Yes, some men are still romantics. I'd like to come home to a candle lit dinner. After dinner, let the dishes go until tomorrow, sneak into the bed room and slip into some sexy lingerie and seduce him all over. But that's just one man's opinion. Good luck and he's one lucky guy. Buck

buck711

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slightly confused.... Posted: 7/4/2006 7:33:33 PM
Butterfly... I agree... it's not the type of woman, but the character of the man. Some men only are looking for sex, not a relationship. They are the ones to be more abrupt than the man that is looking for a reationship. They have nothing to loose...either yes or no, and if no, they just move on. With a man looking for a realtionship, he is more careful, not wanting to do anything that will scare the lady away. Here's an idea, the next time a guy asks to be a "sex buddy" tell him first it will cost him a $750,000 house, $500,000 a year until he dies, and a $150,000 ring. You'll love the look on his face....lol. Buck

buck711

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Help me Understand! Posted: 7/4/2006 7:14:51 PM
So many points to cover, so little time....here comes the honesty.... First.... if someone was to put physical restrictions on who could or should contact them, they would be marked as a biggot, cad, or a$$. It would be a good idea, but too many people take it the wrong way. Second.... no one said that someone that "may not be perfect because of injury, genetic problems, or time" doesn't deserve to be loved. Everybody has different likes and dislikes in a mate. Yes, all people deserve to be loved. It's ok to turn down or ignore someone who smokes... but I goto he11 if I look the other way if someone is overweight. Third.... everyone at least deserves a response. It goes both ways ladies. I quit counting the number of e-mails I have sent, never to get a response. If a woman doesn't respond... she's too busy or gets too many e-mails. If a man doesn't respond, he's cruel or mean. In other words, yes, be nice and respond, but remember, be nice about it. I know that not everyone can help the way their body is, some things are out of our control. But don't think that the whole world is against you just because you are not perfect..no one is perfect. Everyone has faults. What a person wants or is looking for in a mate or friend is up to them. I would never want the gal that takes my heart to "settle" for me, just like I will not "settle" for anyone. We all have been rejected. We all have been ignored. That's life. Just dust yourself off and dive back in. If you refuse to take a chance because you "might" get hurt or ignored, you will be alone until the cows come home. Happy fishing and I hope you find what you are looking for. Buck

buck711

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North Dakota forum rules Posted: 7/4/2006 6:41:57 PM
Happy 4th to you too Violet

buck711

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Help me Understand! Posted: 7/3/2006 4:33:24 PM
people are afraid of being mercilessly flamed if they included must not be overweight, etc on their list of requirements hmmmm maybe if I did that I would GET some e-mail.... I have to agree though... both women and men are way too fague in the physical descriptions of the partner you are looking for... and unfortunatly no one here or on any dating service is perfect.... otherwise we would all be happy, married, and content with what we have. But it's human nature to always be looking for the bigger and better deal. So I guess I'll throw my hook back into the water and see what bites.... it's mainly been the skeeters here...... Buck

buck711

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what is the first? Posted: 7/3/2006 4:20:31 PM
First smile, then hair (sorry have a soft spot for aurburn), her eyes, the way she dresses, and then her hand.... I guess I like building up to the great let down...... Buck

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aaaaaaaaaaaagh Posted: 7/3/2006 4:17:21 PM
Pisces83... best thing you can do is move on... this guy is a tease... he likes to flirt and come on strong just to see how far you will go. And as soon as it reaches a point....he runs. I've seen men and women of all ages do it. I appologize for him in the name of all good men..... Buck

buck711

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Do guys think it's okay...? Posted: 7/3/2006 4:06:55 PM
That is out of the question. All the guy should expect is good conversation and platonic company.....nothing more. Buck

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Guys over 30...do they even exist? Posted: 7/3/2006 4:04:01 PM
I understand your problem..... as I was once told, when you are looking for a date, you are selling yourself, and the 3 rules to selling are "Location, LOCATION and LOCATION!!!!!". I am also in the same situation, only it's with women in my age range in the area I live. I guess I might have to move to NF to find a lovely lady....lol...or at least Canada. I hope this has at least made you smile a little, knowing that you are not alone. Good luck and happy Buck

buck711

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POF get together Posted: 7/3/2006 3:48:26 PM
Let us know when you get in the area medicgirl. Unfortunatly there isn't many of us ND's that visit the forums. Maybe over coffee we could try to plan something. Buck

buck711

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If you know you are going to die tomorrow,what will you do today? Posted: 6/22/2006 5:06:07 PM
Tough question.... I guess I'd down a bottle of Ginkgo Bilboba so I could remember the last time I had sex , eat a bag of coffee beans, and then go skinny dipping (just hope the ice is off the lake this time). Buck

buck711

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The WAR On Mosquitos! Posted: 6/22/2006 4:54:21 PM
hey now.... you can't get rid of the Mosquitos!!!! They are the state bird of North Dakota. BTW.. our state tree is the telephone pole, state flower is the beer can, and the state's favorite pet is the tumble weed. Buck

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Confused Posted: 6/22/2006 4:45:32 PM
kolt21.... I would have called too, you might still have a chance if you do call. If not, could I have her phone number...j/k....lol. As for deleting the old e-mails, I delete mine as soon as I read them, not like my inbox ever overflows. I just like to keep a tidy inbox. Now OffTopic..... fleurtee... in answer to your profile....ok, yes, yes, if you don't mind having me and my ant farm, 16 goats, 4 pigs, 27 chickens and 15 kids move in. My kids will be moving in later after the animals settle in. jarbarian... I don't want to hear that you shrunk and mounted on a stick poor fleurtee's head...... I know she's pretty, but that's going too far.....lol. Buck

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Long dark road Posted: 6/21/2006 6:16:23 PM
Sorry allh2h, didn't know I needed to post the whole song.... Unanswered Prayers Written by: Pat Alger, Larry Bastian, Garth Brooks Just the other night a hometown football game My wife and I ran into my old high school flame And as I introduced them the past came back to me And I couldn't help but think of the way things used to be She was the one that I'd wanted for all times And each night I'd spend prayin' that God would make her mine And if he'd only grant me this wish I wished back then I'd never ask for anything again Sometimes I thank God for unanswered prayers Remember when you're talkin' to the man upstairs That just because he doesn't answer doesn't mean he don't care Some of God's greatest gifts are unanswered prayers She wasn't quite the angel that I remembered in my dreams And I could tell that time had changed me In her eyes too it seemed We tried to talk about the old days There wasn't much we could recall I guess the Lord knows what he's doin' after all And as she walked away and I looked at my wife And then and there I thanked the good Lord For the gifts in my life Sometimes I thank God for unanswered prayers Remember when you're talkin' to the man upstairs That just because he may not answer doesn't mean he don't care Some of God's greatest gifts are unanswered prayers Some of God's greatest gifts are all too often unanswered... Some of God's greatest gifts are unanswered prayers Buck

buck711

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Can men and women be friends without sex? Posted: 6/19/2006 6:54:04 PM
Now, refresh my memory since I'm just an old fart......what was sex again?????? I have many Lady friends and there is no chance that either of us what more. And no I'm not gay...lol. I believe that you can be friends with both sexes and not have sex hanging over to spoil a good friendship. I'm not saying that if something started to grow between us, I would try to put out the fire, but how can you have a meaningful relationship if you don't start out as friends. And last, I guess I'm just old fashion, but I have never believed in "one night stands". It's all or nothing........ Buck

buck711

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Long dark road Posted: 6/19/2006 6:48:15 PM
Yes airmech, it is Garth Brooks that sings that song. To quote the lyrics: Sometimes I thank God for unanswered prayers Remember when you're talkin' to the man upstairs That just because he may not answer doesn't mean he don't care Some of God's greatest gifts are unanswered prayers I myself have been alone for many years, not that I haven't been looking, I just haven't crossed paths with that one person that makes my heart glow. I don't care if it takes another 40 years, but I will continue to look, and hope, and pray, and believe that someday I will be the luckiest man in the world. But, until then, I'll be wandering these pages, and looking for love in all the wrong places. Good luck to all........ Buck

buck711

Joined: 5/15/2005

Msg: 967 (view)

I am single because... Posted: 6/19/2006 6:29:30 PM
Why am I single......because all the lovely ladies live in Canada or 1000 miles away, and I am not a good enough smooth talker to convince them to move here where for fun we watch pavement crack. Buck

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