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 Author Thread: Losing a loved one to death
 fantasyflavor
Joined: 10/21/2007
Msg: 231 (view)
 
Losing a loved one to death
Posted: 9/26/2008 4:45:59 PM
I've lost many loved ones over the years & with each one,with time & going through all the emotions & feelings,I was able to cope & move on.I think they'll always be tears at times,at least for me there is.But,the death I'm facing now I can't conceive of ever getting over.I'm losing my Dad,my hero,the greatest man I've ever known.He's always been there for me & now I think,who will be there now? My heart is breaking & I don't think I'll ever be able to mend it.There's so many emotions & feelings that I'm overwhelmed.This is a man who has faced,battled & won every illness that ever attacked him.Now,it's his own body & its one he can't win.As I go & see him,lying in that bed,I just want to say Dad,get up,you always have.Yet,I know it would only upset him if I did because he can't.And my Dad never knew the word can't,just how long til he could.I want to ask God to keep him here with me no matter what,yet that would be selfish because my Dad would never want to live like this.I want to be angry with God but how can I? He's rejoicing in the fact that one of His Angels are coming home.And an Angel my Dad is.I would not be who & what I am today if not for him.He has no enemies & anyone who knows him,loves him.
You ask,how do you deal,cope,move on & stop the tears? Before now,I could've told you.
 fantasyflavor
Joined: 10/21/2007
Msg: 2722 (view)
 
DAILY QUOTES
Posted: 9/26/2008 4:07:38 PM
Failure isn't falling down...It's not getting back up.

Stand for something or you will fall for anything.
 fantasyflavor
Joined: 10/21/2007
Msg: 6139 (view)
 
Your Favorite Music Lyrics
Posted: 9/26/2008 4:02:11 PM
OZZY OSBOURNE-LAY YOUR WORLD ON ME

I know you think you're all alone
I haven't been there when you needed me
I didn't deserve the love you gave
But now I'm telling you I'm here if you need a friend

Give me your pain
Give me your anger
Let me be your rock
I can be the pillar of strength that you need

I'll help you keep it all together
It's better late than never
Lay your world on me
I can take the weight

Don't let it twist you up inside
Time never fails to make the heartache stop
You've got to let those feelings go
I'll give you everything I can if you say the word

Give me your pain
Give me your anger
Let me be your rock
I can be the pillar of strength that you need

I'll help you keep it all together
It's better than late than never
Lay your world on me
I can take the weight

We all laugh & we all cry,we all hurt the same inside
We all fall down & we lose faith in who we really are
But if we bend instead of break
The choice for us is to make it together,lay your world on me

I'll help you keep it all together
It's better late than never
Lay your world on me
Lay your world on me
Lay your world on me
I can take the weight.
 fantasyflavor
Joined: 10/21/2007
Msg: 77 (view)
 
If you hit an animal do you stop?
Posted: 9/26/2008 3:46:08 PM
I've only hit one animal in my life & that was a rabbit.Not only did I stop,I sat there & cried,then removed it from the road.That was many years ago yet I've never forgotten it.I don't like to hurt anything or anyone & I don't understand anyone who does.
 fantasyflavor
Joined: 10/21/2007
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Ozzy Osbourne
Posted: 9/26/2008 3:33:46 PM
I luv Ozzy,always have,always will.He is a legend.I remember the first time I saw him,he was playing back-up to Deep Purple.Needless to say,he rocked us all then & continues to do so even now.I luved his show & never missed an episode.I think it showed sides of Ozzy we would've never known or guessed.Though I like all of his music,I have to say my favorite is one of his newest ones,not his norm but definitely one of the most beautiful songs I've ever heard,it's Lay Your World On Me.
 fantasyflavor
Joined: 10/21/2007
Msg: 16 (view)
 
why are sports important ????
Posted: 11/17/2007 10:23:01 PM
Not sure about the importance but the passion sure is ther efor some.
 fantasyflavor
Joined: 10/21/2007
Msg: 35 (view)
 
The Car you prefer driving: What is it?
Posted: 11/17/2007 10:21:04 PM
I'd prefer a Lamborghini...
 fantasyflavor
Joined: 10/21/2007
Msg: 35 (view)
 
How young is too young???
Posted: 11/17/2007 9:55:42 PM
When there's no connection anywhere.
 fantasyflavor
Joined: 10/21/2007
Msg: 46 (view)
 
How far is to far to meet someone ?
Posted: 11/17/2007 9:53:56 PM
Distance should never be an issue.
 fantasyflavor
Joined: 10/21/2007
Msg: 106 (view)
 
The Bell
Posted: 11/17/2007 9:38:50 PM
Ahh...The Bell! yes,it's been awhile...but the good thing is...it's all the same!

Humorous yet serious,safe yet not sane,comfortable yet honest,honest yet...what is???...this thread all about?! Besides the place to be for friendships to flourish...Oh...& hi Will... ...been waiting on your arrival to spiced this thread up! lol
 
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