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irish397

Joined: 10/22/2007

Msg: 17 (view)

Should I move on?????????? Any suggestions!!! Posted: 2/22/2008 1:31:08 PM
Some people like to be treated like trash. I think your kindness is overlooking that your being treated like trash. If you like how he is treating you, by all means stay. If you don't, let him know what is going on is upsetting you, and if there is no change within a week. Cut bate, and make this guy chum. Brian

blackirish397

Joined: 10/22/2007

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He Says Lose 30 lbs and He Will Give you an Engagement Ring.....Would Ya???? Posted: 1/29/2008 4:08:47 PM
Here is my unbiased view, have her lose 200lbs but dumping his ass. Thats just wrong, your supose to adore the person your with for what they are inside and who they with you. Too tell a woman to drop weight prior to saying that he respects her enough to make a commitment in front of her friends and family. I have dated some very hot women who are the ugliest people you have ever met. At the end of the day laying next to someone who loves you for who you are, cares for you as much as you care for them, and can make you smile as only a friend can. That is what that ring means, a token that someone is yours and you are theres. The 30lbs will come and go, its called life. Loving that one is something you don't let go of. If she ment to him as much as he meant to her .............................. small tangent ( got my irish up )

blackirish397

Joined: 10/22/2007

Msg: 177 (view)

My New Girlfriends Nuts! Posted: 1/23/2008 5:27:09 PM
I had the same thing happen. Bubba cut bait and just walk away. Relationships are built on trust and good times. She may be hot but she is nuts and cares nothing about respecting you and yours. Remember the looks to crap ratio, the better the looks the more crap your willing to put up with. lol You have nice guy written all over you, spend your time with someone who does not pull that kind of crap and don't waste your time. It does not pay off in the end. Brian

blackirish397

Joined: 10/22/2007

Msg: 47 (view)

How do single parents meet that special someone? Posted: 12/28/2007 5:49:56 PM
Here is the thing, when your with the right person. They should enjoy being with your kids as much as they do you. Being a single parent is so hard when it comes to taking personal time to get to know someone, be honest and open about how much your kids mean. If the guy is interested in you he will be honest and talk about that with you. On a first date, I will talk about my son, if the person shows interest then great, if they do not, I know that it will not go any further. My gift in life is my son, the relationship I am in should understand this. Seems all you need to do is just be open about what your looking for. Brian

blackirish397

Joined: 10/22/2007

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When the kids are sick and you are too Posted: 12/28/2007 5:35:52 PM
When my son is sick and so am I, its a clear path to the bathroom and cartoons all day long. Lots of baths to bring down temps and lots of sleep. Little ones just see it as cuddle time. You sound like a good mom. Dads loss for not being there for his kids. Brian

blackirish397

Joined: 10/22/2007

Msg: 44 (view)

What am I doing wrong Posted: 12/28/2007 4:59:39 PM
DUDE!! Your a guy, stop the nice guy thing. Be nice when you talking to a woman but be a man when it comes to sex. Be honest, upfront, and man it up. We like sex, and being with the right woman she is going to want you as much as you want her. Relax thinking your different. We all think about it no matter what we so.

blackirish397

Joined: 10/22/2007

Msg: 197 (view)

When men get all GIRLIE. Posted: 12/28/2007 4:30:36 PM
lol I just thing this is awesome. Guys I have to say it is to funny to watch so many guys just tear it up about so many issues. True we dont have to be ***holes, and treating a woman with repect, is a must. But My god, talking about feelings, and tearing up at the smallest thing. I like being an alpa male, I like the fact that being a man, is what I am. These women tho sit there and say why cant you express your feelings and then get offended when I tell them that im not gay. I express my feelings when I am around my kid, or shot. Other then that .......... lol

blackirish397

Joined: 10/22/2007

Msg: 113 (view)

Why do women date mutiple guys at once? Posted: 12/28/2007 4:20:29 PM
Because some women play games and others do not. Just like guys do. Here is the thing. If someone plays games. They are not going play games your not going to know about it. Here is the thing those people who lie, will be lied to as well and you want nothing to do with those people. If they lie to you, they will lie to everyone. This is not the person you want to date anyways. Think about it, do you want someone who wants you or do you want someone who is going to be with anyone. Man up and just say that your not interested in being with someone like that. Brian

blackirish397

Joined: 10/22/2007

Msg: 28 (view)

Is there anything wrong with women who wear nighties with teddy bears, or other patterns on them? Posted: 12/27/2007 6:34:20 PM
If a man complains about your outfit in bed, ready yourself to hear that he is gay and your not getting any.......

blackirish397

Joined: 10/22/2007

Msg: 29 (view)

Why do guys ask for a girl's phone number... Posted: 12/27/2007 6:10:45 PM
Because women are grown up and men for the most part are not. Its a game of who can get the most numbers, if you would give us anything else we would be driving home with 20 bras in the back seat. Think of us this way, we hit about 13 and just get bigger. A man would have shown up with the right girl and spent the night with her and not chasing numbers. Those are not full men yet.

blackirish397

Joined: 10/22/2007

Msg: 19 (view)

why do guys have girls call the ex? Posted: 12/27/2007 6:07:06 PM
Being Irish (blackirish) we have a way about us that is this..... If we cannnot have it then you can't eather. This guy is hurt and is acting like a child. Men do this, they want to hurt you because he has not healed. If he hurts you back then he is able to feel in some way that you feel the pain to. The problem is your a mom and you to busy to play childrens games from a man who is supose to be a father by now. He is going to be pissed, because your not getting angry or emotional over his bullshit. I am a single dad and I have no drama with my ex. She tells me stories about men who do this to her friends and I just have to laugh. Brian

blackirish397

Joined: 10/22/2007

Msg: 39 (view)

How long is too long in legs? Posted: 12/27/2007 6:01:05 PM
HMMMM lets see how stupid is too stupid!!!???? If a man says to you, your legs are to long, he just admited that his****is to short to reach. lol Look him dead in the eye and let him know that all sweet and good things are put up high for safe keeping. Brian

blackirish397

Joined: 10/22/2007

Msg: 47 (view)

can u climax while on anti depresants? Posted: 12/27/2007 5:11:59 PM
Anti depresants kick the crap out of your sex drive. Your covering up your emotional state with a drug, your going to be able to enjoy the wave but your not going to enjoy the peek of the wave. your conductors are already active with another drug. Enjoy

blackirish397

Joined: 10/22/2007

Msg: 163 (view)

DOES THE G-POINT REALLY EXIST Posted: 12/27/2007 5:08:15 PM
I could not stop laughing when I read this. Do you think its a vaginal roadrunner that is eluding you in the happy cave of delight. Its emotional as well as a location. Remeber that a woman needs to feel safe, able to open herself to you and most of all that there is a connection she will emotionaly be able to enjoy herself. if you think your working on a gofer hole and trying to flip up a dime, that is your one sure way to have the woman your trying to please, think your a****ead and shut down. Because your not with her and there for her your there trying to reach a goal and losing all meaning of spending those special times together.

blackirish397

Joined: 10/22/2007

Msg: 28 (view)

Hair pulling during doggystyle Posted: 12/27/2007 4:56:06 PM
Here is the thing your missing. It is not the act it is the person your with and what you and she enjoy. Sometimes the passion is running, you man up, take your woman, grasp her hair, bend her forward, tug her hair back, slide into her, knowing that eachother enjoy what is hapening and showing that your a man. On the ohter hand if the woman your with does not find this as exciting as you do she will turn around grab your hair and beat your ass. Todays lession: Ask prior to mounting if the ride is safe. Brian

blackirish397

Joined: 10/22/2007

Msg: 73 (view)

is there something wrong with a Woman asking out a guy? Posted: 12/19/2007 6:56:30 PM
OOHHH I HAD TO SAY SOMETHING ABOUT THIS...... Ok women are the ones raising the banner of " I want someone who does not play games " lol soooo if you like someone why not walk up, e-mail, call, someone your interested in and just strike up a conversation to the point that you can ask someone out. We like it. :) Brian

blackirish397

Joined: 10/22/2007

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ex's rule?? Posted: 12/17/2007 8:21:46 PM
Here is the thing you have not asked her. You think you might know, but if things where that good you should be able to be honest and just ask what is going on and talk about it. it may just be she does not like your socks or that she still has feeligns for him and does not want to stress the waters of what they have or might have. Just ask, nothing wrong with a call about testing what is going on. Brian

blackirish397

Joined: 10/22/2007

Msg: 311 (view)

can we change somebody Posted: 12/17/2007 8:17:37 PM
Depends on what you would like to change and why. I used to date a woman who went to the bathroom with the door open, I said it bothered me and she was happy to change that. I have a son and she said it bothered her that I spent so much time with him and she wanted me to cut my 3 days a week down to one. I told her that she could start peeing with the door open again, because we where no longer dating. Brian

blackirish397

Joined: 10/22/2007

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What does it mean to honor another ... in the context of your comitted relationship? Posted: 12/17/2007 8:13:21 PM
Honor means that you would behave the same way if that person was there or not, would you flirt, if your special someone was next to you, would you say that you where just friends if that person was just out of the room. Honor is a self check thing. A man with honor threads his life the same way if he is being watched or if noone is looking. So to honor your relationship when someone ask if your able to go out with them the answer would be thank you but I am seeing someone, and no I could not. Brian

blackirish397

Joined: 10/22/2007

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Dating a close friend Posted: 12/17/2007 8:09:01 PM
Depends on the person whom your with I tried that once and she turned around and everything that was not there in our friendship started in our relationship. When I tried to talk to her like we where friends it was different, the friendship was never the same.

blackirish397

Joined: 10/22/2007

Msg: 110 (view)

I’m separated … is this a problem to get a new love… with out divorce???? Posted: 12/17/2007 8:05:50 PM
wll look at it like this being married is married. Just like being progo for a woman if you are you are. You should respect the woman your dating and be single if you meet her. That is why this is called a singles sight, not a well my marriage is not going well today sight. lol Brian

blackirish397

Joined: 10/22/2007

Msg: 264 (view)

Men-does it bother you if a woman's legs are not shaved? Posted: 12/17/2007 7:15:35 PM
OHHHHHHHHHHH THATS JUST WRONG!! SHAVE! Give me the illusion that in a dark corner of a dimlet table that you rubbing your legs together is not going to create a spark of fire. :) BB

blackirish397

Joined: 10/22/2007

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ex responds to post?? Posted: 12/17/2007 6:56:12 PM
OK, this is not ment ot be mean in anyway. But that is funny..... so this guy is going to go to court and say what? Well judge she talks to people! Your a very good looking woman and I had to think, wow at some point you must be very happy not to be with that person anymore. Brian

blackirish397

Joined: 10/22/2007

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Need your honest opinion.. Posted: 12/17/2007 6:43:06 PM
You are sounding way to nice on your profile, and I am sure that you are a nice person. It sounds like your trying to be cute about your whit, and not charming or upfront. Put something on there about you that is true, about what you like and man it up a bit. Take out the pic of you in the red stripe shirt, and show some active shots. Yes the women like the personality but they like to know they are with a man who they would like to hook up with at some time. BB

blackirish397

Joined: 10/22/2007

Msg: 24 (view)

I cant move on. Posted: 12/17/2007 5:48:17 PM
Sounds like you have an attachment to this person. Feelings are hard to get over, you still would like to end up with this person and have left the door open for this relationship to happen. The truth is you would not like your feelings to end, something about him makes you happy, yet sad. This may continue for a very long time until there realy is a reason to move on. Just make sure that your not full of regrets of what might happen and not lose out on being with a young man who wants the things that matter in life, like love and trust. I am sure that you feel close to him when you are with him, sharing your old feeling and personal time. The look, the glimpse, the feel of the romance without saying anything. Yet when the door is closed the bed is cold and the creeks of the night are not eased by the touch of a hand to show you that your not alone. You may reach over and know that you are alone and the night is yet colder still. Those nights are eased when only when that person is there. You should stop, think about what is best for you and your child. If that rolling stone relationship is what you like, be happy. If not, close the door, it just gets colder as the fall ends and winter of our life is only warmed by that person holding our hand. Brian Brian

blackirish397

Joined: 10/22/2007

Msg: 59 (view)

Am I being unrealistic? Posted: 12/17/2007 5:28:37 PM
Lets put it this way, your not looking for anything other then a man that was raised well and has self-respect. Your not asking for to much, your just need to be upfront, like you have, and give it a bit of time. You sound like a young woman that has allot to offer. You only get what you ask for in life. Brian

blackirish397

Joined: 10/22/2007

Msg: 222 (view)

is it ok for a guy to cry when he gets upset Posted: 12/17/2007 5:22:32 PM
No its not.. man up shooting your self with a nail guy - no crying girfriend leaves - no crying irs takes your house - no crying finding out that nothing happen when you took twins home drunk - yes 2 tears

blackirish397

Joined: 10/22/2007

Msg: 37 (view)

Insane guy? Posted: 12/17/2007 4:11:40 PM
" Parents, kids, weekend trip, temper, massive amount of compliments. " and you where what a month into this guy? Ok here is the deal, tempers are a deal breaker, he was throwing so many buckets of compliments over your way, did you ever have time to just hang out. Saying that you would not make good friends should have been a huge warning, the person you want to be with should be one of your closest friends. Saying he was scared of hurting you is a great way for a guy to be standoffish. Truth be known you waisting time thinking about a guy who is not calling and missing the guy who would like to spend time with you. If he respected you, was able to act like a man he would return your call, give you an honest answer and show you how special you are by treating you like a friend and not a month fling. It's understandable that your hurt and wondering what happen. Just think of this guy as getting on the short bus for men and you will be with someone who wants a great woman with such a nice smile. Brian

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