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kevinomiller700

Joined: 5/17/2005

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Ladies, you have one option to choose from...which one would you choose? Posted: 4/16/2007 9:12:20 PM
LOL... Interesting. But PLEASE! What woman would choose a restaurant over a relaxing evening and pampering? Or what guy for that matter? Unless maybe if you know this guy and his dinners are all frozen in tin foil and then burnt in the microwave. The wine was left over from three weeks ago when you drank half of it at his house. And he washed his dog in the tub before running your bath? Aw.... Ain't love wonderful. Oh, my sons have been asking for ideas for Mother's Day :-) Mmmmmm. Just kidding. I'm not really evil.

kevinomiller700

Joined: 5/17/2005

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Anyone have a glass dildo? Posted: 3/25/2006 9:28:42 PM
Nooooo, I do not... But OMG, thank you women for sharing all this. Not sure I will ever think of my non-glass version quite the same.

kevinomiller700

Joined: 5/17/2005

Msg: 43 (view)

Does anyone else here pay attention to the backgrounds of the profile pics? Posted: 3/18/2006 10:18:01 AM
Oh yea. What about the married guy profile thats looking for an encounter. And the profile pict show him surrounded by children. I think that would scream "Run Away, Far away". God, think of the support payments! LOL... Great post WG..

kevinomiller700

Joined: 5/17/2005

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i have a question & a comment or 2.. Posted: 2/27/2006 5:16:14 PM
Hey good luck Treez. Know exactly what you mean. As most guys will send out dozens of messages without a reply. Oh well, it is their loss too. The women that do take the time to read your profile and reply, well those are the gems we want to meet anyway. Granted that most women get dozens of messages and do not have time to reply to them all. But the real cute ones that are too self centered, or too afraid to say Hi to a stranger..... Well, I might not be interested in them either. You are not picking a wife out of a catalog here. You are just trying to find a friendly person in this sea of humanity. Develop friendships here. Girls and guys. One of those women will see your personality and become interested enough to say Hi. The internet dating is not all that diffrent from the real world in that regard. Get out there and be seen. Spend time in the forums. Offer opinions. Let the women see who you are. It is hard to blame the women. You know how many guys are in the world that are complete as-holes. Yes, I've had a few women block me after I had sent a quick "Have a nice day" message. They never botherd to say they were not interested. No reply of any sort. Just blocked. If they are like that they are not my type anyway. And as they say.... There are plenty of fish in the sea.

kevinomiller700

Joined: 5/17/2005

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meeting his family on 3rd date Posted: 2/27/2006 4:56:48 PM
Ummmmm... Think I'd run for the hills. It is easy to look back a year later and say "Yes I knew it the day we met." But I think that there is no substitute for spending time together to see if you are really compatable. Marriage should be forever. And that can be a hell of a long time if it is the wrong person. I'd want to be sure of the relationship before I introduce them to my children or parents.

kevinomiller700

Joined: 5/17/2005

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Must love dogs Posted: 2/27/2006 4:14:51 PM
LOL... That is just too funny. Yea, I love dogs too. Had a horse that tried that trick... Once.... He is a gelding now!

kevinomiller700

Joined: 5/17/2005

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Walks on the beach.......or a day at an amusement park... Posted: 2/18/2006 8:03:22 PM
Hummm, The muddy banks of the Ohio river. Does that count? Oh, when I was doing a lot of flying, I took a date with me to the Bahamas for a day. Nice beaches there. LOL. I do see this suggestion quite often. What percentage actually live anywhere near a beach? Got to be small.

kevinomiller700

Joined: 5/17/2005

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sex before the first date has ended Posted: 2/18/2006 3:04:58 PM
No.... But is sure as hell would leave a lasting impression!

kevinomiller700

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I caught my date peeing in the shower!! Posted: 2/16/2006 10:18:37 AM
I prefer the shower. Too damn cold to pee on the fire hydrants in the middle of winter.

kevinomiller700

Joined: 5/17/2005

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Dating an amputee Posted: 2/13/2006 7:23:34 PM
I don,t think anyone here has a disability or amputation so we may be sympathetic but how do we understand what they are going through?? uhh... My Ex has said that I don't even have half a brain... Does that count? OT.. Of course I would. Love is about the person that they are. Not a little piece that is just the outside anyway. Any mature person would realize this. What would be more important was how THEY dealt with the loss. Meaning their personality.

kevinomiller700

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Would you date a convicted RAPIST?????? Posted: 2/8/2006 10:03:35 AM
Ah yes. I can see that as a government worker, Jessie has been brain washed with the dogma that Big Brother, aka, The Man, always knows best and can do no wrong. You are accusing others of jumping to conclusions. However this is just what you are doing. Believe me (though you probably will not), I would be the LAST person trying to defend a violent predator. Per another post, if it were my daughter, mother, or girlfriend; and I knew it to be a fact. Well the guy would never be seen again. However, if you READ the original thread there were no details given. So I stand by my, and several other’s, opinions that YES, get to know the person you are dating. Long before the issue of sex should arise. But, do some research. There is a ton of erroneous information out there. And there are a ton of people that have a criminal record that does NOT tell the whole story. Oh, and by the way Jessie, on the rare occasion when a wrongly accused and convicted person is able to finally prove his innocence, we never hear of any judicial apology. Or, come to think of it, any repercussions for the wrongdoers. Hummmm?

kevinomiller700

Joined: 5/17/2005

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Would you date a convicted RAPIST?????? Posted: 2/7/2006 7:15:13 AM
My first response is F--k all you who just instantly jump to conclusions. The only thing I can really blame this guy for is for not being up front in the first place. But seeing this online reaction, I guess I can understand too. Not agree with but understand. However, did you even ever talk to this guy? Ask what happened? Go pull some public court records? I know from personal experience (no not sexual crimes, traffic mostly) how screwed up the American judicial system is. So many times, a person is wrongly convicted because a witness lied in court, the "system" needed to show they had caught the guy, the defending attorney was not putting out much effort, maybe the defendant could not afford a lawyer. And that stuff about getting a "free" lawyer if you can not afford one? Yea, what a joke. I just spent this past weekend touring an exhibit at the local art museum. It portraid dozens of people (mostly African American men) who had been falsely accused and convicted of crimes. A lot of them involving rape also. Some of these men spent 20 and 30 years in jail, some of them were only days away from a death sentence, when new evidence proved their innocence. Any moral? Yea, communicate and get to know someone well before you are in bed together.

kevinomiller700

Joined: 5/17/2005

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Beware of Russian bride scams Posted: 2/3/2006 8:00:24 AM
Never buy ANYTHING without a warrantee. I wonder if my Visa card warrantee would cover a purchase like this?

kevinomiller700

Joined: 5/17/2005

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Beware of Russian bride scams Posted: 2/3/2006 6:46:16 AM
Ya' think Jean! LOL. Yes I think you are right. I knew, well knew of, this one woman that had an Ira-- (OK, eastern nationality) boyfriend and married him 3 weeks before his visa ran out. But then he disappeared. She did this 6 different times with 6 different guys. Last I heard, she was in prison for bigamy and INS was looking for the guys. Guess it could happen to guys or girls. Are there any Russian husband web sites? Just wondering.

kevinomiller700

Joined: 5/17/2005

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im in love wit my bestfriends girlfriend. PLEASE HELP Posted: 2/2/2006 9:46:54 AM
Welcome to the world of games sweetie. A lot of my guy friends would have treated you the same way. They too are very inmature in my opinion. You were what she could not have, so she was interested in playing the game. Trying to "get" you. Like a guy is all nice till he has you. Like a cat goes after a mouse. But once she felt like she had you and controlled you she got bored and moved on to something else. Again, the cat gives up and walks away when the mouse is dead. So you learned something (I hope) and got hurt a little. Move on and don't make that mistake again. Guys, or girls, that mess with your heart are a dime a dozen. True friends are worth a million. How would you feel if your friend did this to you? Believe me, guys will do this ALL THE TIME. Until they grow up, meeting women, love & sex are all just a big game. Good luck!

kevinomiller700

Joined: 5/17/2005

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TELL THE MOST CARING THING DATE HAS DONE FOR YOU Posted: 1/26/2006 7:54:19 AM
Yes Virgina, there are still a few decent guys out here. Who buy flowers or a card for no reason at all. Who open doors and end the night hoping for a dazzelling smile and a kiss. Not expecting more! Who truely appreciate the companionship of an attractive, charming, intellegent, and articulate woman. Who can strike the balance between treating you as an equal person and a beauty queen. Good luck with this guy. Sounds like the first impression is positive!

kevinomiller700

Joined: 5/17/2005

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Sex feels better to women??? Posted: 1/23/2006 10:02:30 AM
Oh come on. Is there possibly any correct answer. I am sure there are about a bizzillon opinions. Maybe if you asked a tranny you MIGHT get an informed opinion but I think even that would have some bias! Oh, what about SUCKING on your finger? OMG, my finger LIKES THAT.... Is that the same? Who the hell cares. I like it... My partners have said they do. Good enough for me!

kevinomiller700

Joined: 5/17/2005

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 1/20/2006 10:10:20 AM
Kind of depends on why you are here? If you are looking for just a booty call or a hot body to fantasize over, well then I guess a pict is important to you. If you are serious about developing a friendship/relationship then sometimes it is nice to learn about the other person with out the complications of looks. Do not know anyone who still looks the same as when they were a teenager. Maybe I was just lucky but I met a POF member without a pict. We messaged for a while and even spoke on the phone. She described herself but I had already gotten a feel for the person she was by our conversations. She seemed astonished that I was not demanding a picture like so many other guys. Even went so far as to send a rather fuzzy but explicit photo without me asking. I have since met her for several dates and can say that she is one of the most beautiful women I have met. Maybe not a super model with all their maintenance requirements, but very beautiful to me. So… Pict or no pict? Guys, or girls, take a chance. It might be the best thing you ever did.

kevinomiller700

Joined: 5/17/2005

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One woman's tale of woe... Posted: 1/20/2006 5:51:53 AM
Oh My God... That is soooo funny it must be true! But... FYI. Let your guy friend do the job with scissors and razor. Unless he is the red-neck type of course. Most guys will be soooo careful with that part of your body that you will wonder if they will ever finish. I’d know that if I hurt you I’d be without for weeks or months…. Oh…. And we are a tiny bit smarter than you think… Ever see a guy wax remove the hair from his face? We learn from all the band-aid removals while we are young… LOL.. LOVED the story….

kevinomiller700

Joined: 5/17/2005

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guilty of narcissism Posted: 1/16/2006 5:48:32 AM
Must be the techno equivalent of “talking to yourself”. But shoot, sometimes it seems I’m the only one that gives a hoot about what I have to say. Could be I should try this too. LOL

kevinomiller700

Joined: 5/17/2005

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SSHHHH... don't tell anyone.... Posted: 1/4/2006 10:00:05 PM
Yes, you know it in your heart. He is playing you.... Or holding you in reserve.... Or afraid someone who knows him will alert you to something negative about him. ANY guy that is really in love with a woman will feel proud to be seen with her. I am sure he is hiding something. When meet a woman I want in my life I offer her my entire mind, body, and my life. if this is a relationship, you deserve the same at least. good luck. Follow your heart.

kevinomiller700

Joined: 5/17/2005

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Bad Performance! Posted: 1/1/2006 12:19:46 PM
Oh crap. Is this another "I am so great" thread. OK, guys are so damn competitive that I would claim to have NEVER given a bad performance.. Oh yea, Right! Hey Sparda... She knows! Women are much smarter than you think. If this was a one-nighter and you blew it? Tough! Get over it and move on to the next. If this was in the context of a real relationship with the possibility of a future, then I can guarantee she will give you another chance. Because if she invited you to her bed then there is a lot about you that she likes. And that being the case, she would be smart enough to know that practice makes it better. Good luck.

kevinomiller700

Joined: 5/17/2005

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Why can't I find friends? Posted: 12/30/2005 7:15:03 PM
I second this. A picture of yourself barely wearing a bikini doesn't exactly shout, "I'm looking for a friend." Uh, I'll quadruple this comment. I mean like GEEZE what do you possibly expect looking as hot as you do. If the local jewlery store was handing out diamond rings would you take one? Yes there are some, er, a lot, of guys that think with their smaller head. But that is usually from the shallow end of the genetic pool. Most of us can and do appreciate female friendship for all the wonderful things that a true friendship can be. My three best-est friends are women. It never has been, never will be sexual. That would likely ruin the friendship.

kevinomiller700

Joined: 5/17/2005

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Whats with the sex?? Posted: 12/30/2005 6:54:22 PM
Hummm, OK. There are soooooo many things that go into making a relationship work. Generally, sex happens because a relationship is working. Not the other way around. If the relationship is a good one you find you want to be there with the other person just for the sake of the mutual happyness. Yes I think sex can be a fantastic part of a relationship but I would not call it the glue. Ummm, does get kind of sticky sometimes..... But I would maybe think of sex as being more of a barometer to measure a relationship. If you are in a wonderful, loving, relationship, you are probably having pretty good sex too. And your not even thinking about the sex part of it. And you probably think this thread is a waste of intellect. But if you are obsessing about when you will having sex, well.. You need to get a new companion me thinks.

kevinomiller700

Joined: 5/17/2005

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For guys, What would you do? Posted: 12/30/2005 10:14:06 AM
Nice thread. Notice the overwhelming advice.... Communicate. Ah, the key to any LASTING relationship. My personal opinion is that I would tell her, at the end of a hug maybe, "I'd LOVE to kiss you. You brighten my day. You make me smile. You make me feel so good just being with you." Assuming this is all true, she will have to respond in some manner. Maybe she is not into public displays. Maybe she had a headache. There are a thousand possibilities. Open the dialog. Let her give her opinion. And, if you can not truthfully make the above statements... Then why are you even wasting her time.

kevinomiller700

Joined: 5/17/2005

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what would you say? Posted: 12/27/2005 9:50:34 AM
I've always wondered about this. How do men feel when a woman willingly has those nerves severed, and loses that incredible sensitivity? They might be bigger, but are they less fun when they have less feeling? A-men to that. Size does not matter to a guy that loves you. I'd never understand someone giving up sensitivity in your nipples. Unless they were rather dead to begin with. Would you rather have beautiful art hanging on a wall just to look at? Or a toy to touch and play with? They are a WHOLE lot more fun when they cause a reaction. After all, foreplay is wonderful.

kevinomiller700

Joined: 5/17/2005

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Assault thrown out -- sleep sex blamed Posted: 12/16/2005 4:51:30 PM
OK. It has been said before but I will agree too. Yea, I've had a g/f try while I was asleep. Woke up in the middle and still remember how incredible that was. But specific to this thread, yea it sounds like BS. Too many details do not fit. But then again, there have been a whole lot of nights that I did NOT have sex in my sleep. So I guess it is possible to engage in your normal activity while asleep! I'd like to hire THAT attorney next time I need one!

kevinomiller700

Joined: 5/17/2005

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Sneaky Pete Pulled Off the Condom... Posted: 12/16/2005 4:32:16 PM
Geeze, this thread has taken some ugly turns. I respect that everyone has an opinion but referencing the ORIGINAL topic, I'd have to say the guy was a butt hole. Or worse. What was wrong 20 years ago is still wrong. Sure you could blame it on communication error. Yea, right. In my view, what he did was no diffrent than forcing himself on her. In other words - rape. One of these days he'll try that stunt with the wrong woman and the story will end diffrently. Anyone remember Loretta Bobbit?

kevinomiller700

Joined: 5/17/2005

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Mile high club! (sex in a plane) Posted: 10/27/2005 11:01:25 PM
Yes.. But that was a LONG time ago... LOL But... What are the charter rules of the Mile High Club. I was told that: 1. It must happen in an aircraft. 2. At least one of the participants must be a pilot and that one of the participants must be the PIC.. (Pilot in Commant) 3. The aircraft must be 1 mile (5280 feet) above the ground. We were near Denver and a mile high... The air is a bit thin up around 13,000 feet.

kevinomiller700

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Double sided: Girls Gone Wild Posted: 10/25/2005 9:30:07 PM
Hey.... What in the problem with women being slutty objects. fact is, I still wish we could rent them or buy them at wall Mart.... put them back in the closet after you are done screwing their brains out. But hell, they are only here for the purpose of sex.

kevinomiller700

Joined: 5/17/2005

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How long do guys last? Posted: 6/15/2005 10:29:53 AM
From this guy.. Come on girls... It depends on soooooo many factors. The two bigest factors are a guys age and his sensitivity. I seem to recall poping the cork at age 14 simply by looking at a great picture. Now at 40 something, I can be inside a woman for more than an hour most times. Occasionally, with a lot of foreplay (beginning over dinner maybe), it will happen in 15-20 minutes. But sometimes I will stay hard but never, ever, climax. That seems to be good for several of her climaxes but very frustrating for me. Now I understand why women **** (OK, complain) about guys who come before them. Takes a lot of love and consideration to quit when she is done but I am not yet. Oh well. That is life.

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