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catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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You found your 'look!' part deux... Posted: 4/18/2009 7:30:29 PM
So I posted a similar question earlier and half the responses were people complaining I didn't have a picture up. So you decided to post the same thing again, what was it that Einstein said about insanity. Get over it OP, if you didn't like the responces that you got the first time why would think that they would change now.

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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What do guys think about virgins? Posted: 4/18/2009 7:25:19 PM
Here is the thing OP at the age of 18 you still have your whole life ahead of you, when you are ready to make the choice of your own free will you will do it but until then I say that you should try to get out there and live your life the way that you want. Some of the people that I grew up with made there choice to have sex at a very young age and others decided to wait a little longer, so you see that it is always up to the individual. What it all boils down to is that when you are ready you will have to make the choice, it is not up to the guy that you are with to tell you that you are ready for sex. You also have to keep in mind that there will always be guys that are trying to just get in your pants, they are called creeps. Someone that cares about you and accepts your choice to stay a virgin is what you need to find. Good luck.

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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Do guys prefer? Posted: 4/18/2009 12:13:16 PM
I am one of those guys that realy likes the "gamer chick" they are fun to hang out with because it is so much easier to talk to them. For example, if I was to say that I just got done slaughtering a whole mess of zombie nazies, you as a gamer probly know what I am talking about and most girly girls have no clue as to what I am talking about. Even if you had no clue you would still act like you did. But the biggest problem that you might be facing is that you are so young, not old enough to get into clubs or bars. This is where alot of your problems may be.

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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UPDATE he doesn't know if he loves me, needs some time... Posted: 4/18/2009 11:51:44 AM
Not going to read thru your other posts that you have made because you should read the forum rules, no continued threads means no continued threads. And I think the other thing that you realy need to do is finish getting divorced before you try to find another man.

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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liking me Posted: 4/17/2009 8:00:39 AM
I would have to say that if this is the same guy that you have talked about in your other posts then he just wants to be friends. If this is a new guy then it might be that he wants to take things slow, either way he likes hanging out with you.

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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he doesn't know if he loves me, needs some time... Posted: 4/15/2009 7:41:20 PM
The "L" word, sometimes it is the hardest thing for someone to let pass thru there mouth and sometimes it just comes out without them thinking twice about it. Have you givin it any thought that his troubles may stem from the fact that you are still legaly married to your husband, just going by what you have on your profile. You say that you have been with him for a year, if you realy cared about him then you would not still be married and trying to pursue a relationship with him. I hope that you see where I am coming from on this because if you don't see it and he does then you have lost another one.

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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What the hell is wrong with my profile Posted: 4/15/2009 4:40:34 PM
You ever think that the women that you are trying to contact feel the same way about you being not what they are looking for? If you don't like this site then all you have to do is delete it but if you like it and you want some help with your profile then you should take it over to Profile Review.

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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Help receiving responses Posted: 4/14/2009 5:11:55 PM
Take your profile over to Profile Review section.

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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Are you successful? Posted: 4/10/2009 10:35:28 AM
Pizza is here, crap just another troll

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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What type of book? Posted: 4/9/2009 8:57:42 PM
Did a search and it turned up nothing so I figured that I would ask this question, and I am prepared for some smart answers. Ok the question that I have deals with meeting women in book stores, since I have heard that is a good place to meet new people. If you walked into a book store with the intentions of not purchasing a book but instead you are trying to see if you can meet new people, where would you start, is there a secret section in the store where only single people hang out? And don't worry I fully expect people to say something like "the idiots guide to dating" Like I said I have always heard that the book store is a good place to meet people and just want to put this to a test soon but would like a little bit of your advice before I see if it is true. Thanks everyone for your input on this one, just figured that it is a valid question for those that do not like the whole bar scene.

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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getting partner to be more aggressive Posted: 4/9/2009 5:57:08 PM
Smells like a troll to me but I will answer anyway. Tell her that you want to be treated like a monkey boy and she might do it.

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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Playoffs Posted: 4/9/2009 5:34:13 PM
Look if you have a question that pertains to this forum then by all means ask away.

catchabert

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Playoffs Posted: 4/9/2009 5:20:23 PM
Go to the sports forum>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> it is down the hall and to the left.

catchabert

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Do i know what i want? Posted: 4/9/2009 5:07:36 PM
we get on really well - we share the same sense of humour, enjoy similar things and have never argued once! Some types of arguments are healthy for a relationship, it makes the relationship grow. And judging from what you have said so far, your relationship will peter out soon from the lack of communication on your part. You should always be up front with somebody be it a friend, co-worker or partner. Please take the time to sit down with her and have a heart to heart conversation, it will help both of you understand why you feel this way and she will likely tell you what it is that she finds so attractive about you.

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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why don't guys give girls flowers anymore Posted: 4/9/2009 1:08:53 PM
Don't know take your pick........... cheap a$$ does not like going to flower shop didn't have any money to drunk to find his phone left his phone at his other girl friends house doesn't know how to write forgot that you have to open the phone before you can text or maybe the two of you were on the way out as far as your relationship goes or possibly he does not believe in Hallmark holidays

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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Succumbing to Societal Values? Posted: 4/9/2009 12:42:24 PM
I for one think that the "Barbie's" of the world, people that subject themselves to things like Botox and plastic surgery, are way too fake. All these people, men and women alike are doing is teaching people that it is ok that if you don't like what you look like all you need to do is get an operation and everything will be better. Plastic surgery was intended to help people that have either been in an accident or have a birth defect live out a normal life and not transform the world into walking "Barbie & Ken dolls"

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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jealous over a dog Posted: 4/9/2009 10:50:25 AM
Still learning the difference between playing and hurting? And who are you trying to please by training a dog to do this.

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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Are there alot of pigs ruining it for us good men? Posted: 4/9/2009 10:13:32 AM
Might I suggest that you do 2 things, first read the rules and second do a thread search. Let me try to put this into terms that you may understand. If you find yourself walking down the street today and you pass by a building with a pan-handler outside do you give them money or just walk away and say to yourself no thanks. Some people do give and some others do not, this is like the emails that you are sending. You want them to respond and they are saying no thanks.

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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What do you mean? Posted: 4/8/2009 3:53:15 PM
Ok this has to be the first time that I have to agree with Korky. It all sounds too high school to me, maybe even jr. highish.

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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Should i tie the knot? Posted: 4/8/2009 3:49:49 PM
Something is not adding up, your profile says that you are single and looking for dates. So which one is it?

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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Anything left here Part 2 Posted: 4/8/2009 2:53:53 PM
And when this one dies he will probly try to bring it back to life in a part 3, little does he know that will more than likely get him booted from here.

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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Anything left here Part 2 Posted: 4/8/2009 2:43:09 PM
Since you have been on here for a while I won't sugar coat this. Take the time to read the forum rules because you can not continue threads, if you have a valid question ask it and if you are just wanting more feed back from another thread that is already closed you are in the wrong place.

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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what exactly do you ladies mean by intimate encounter?? Posted: 4/8/2009 10:36:21 AM
your 45 and you are the one that needs to get a life. thread dead

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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what exactly do you ladies mean by intimate encounter?? Posted: 4/8/2009 10:32:14 AM
These are true words of wisdom that came from the forum when someone asked a realy dumb question. I just had to share them with you. Y'know...I have some old sneakers...and sometimes when I don't want my old shoes I just put my foot up some clown's ass. OP is about ready for a new pair of old shoes. I hope you don't mind a size 14

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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what exactly do you ladies mean by intimate encounter?? Posted: 4/8/2009 10:24:27 AM
Here is the thing OP, you should always read the rules because they are there for a reason.

catchabert

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How do I know when I can let myself jump? Posted: 4/7/2009 6:37:58 PM
First off I must say that your statement has to be the longest run on sentence that I have ever seen. It made it so hard to read and totaly understand what you are saying, but I think that I see your question anyways. Ok, here is my take on the situation...............ready................talk to him about this because this affects him, you and your children.

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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Curious to hear what 3 main things all men desire? Posted: 4/7/2009 6:19:40 PM
- Someone that tells the truth - Someone that is willing to put into the relationship as much as I do - And communication, she is able to tell me her problems and I am willing to share with her the troubles that I am having and thru this we are able to work out any bumps that we may be having in the relationship Even though everyone is different, I think that most would agree with some of these that I have listed. Good luck OP.

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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What is a good girl? Posted: 4/6/2009 3:00:46 PM
Him saying that you are a good girl might also mean that he was just trying to get you to do something that he knew you wouldn't unless he called you out on it. It is sort of like calling someone chicken just to get them to do it anyways. Oooops I just gave away the secret.

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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Okay what is the right size to be??? Posted: 4/4/2009 12:53:12 PM
I think that some of the cofusion is from the misunderstanding of the terms "unhealthy" and somebody that is just "BBW". To me a person that is BBW is someone that is plus size but still is very attractive and knows how to carry themselves in a positive manner. And somebody that is unhealthy is someone that realy needs to work on their personal appearence, be it be dieting, exercising and believing in themselves so that others will do the same. Me personaly, I like different features on different people; one thing that I like on a smaller woman is not always going to be something that I find attractive on a bigger woman and vice versa.

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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Independent Men Posted: 4/3/2009 8:25:02 PM
Was addressing men i have no oppinion on women and if you are engaged you are out of the dating pool but marriage is not a definite and not something to base ones life on. i went home as well but moved out. but really was not addressing women. I date men. they are my concern Maybe you should check out the rules You can't say only men can answer........it is under the polarization rule.

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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Independent Men Posted: 4/3/2009 8:16:43 PM
You are 40 years old and asking a question like this . And where are you meeting these guys?

catchabert

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I see a pattern here... Posted: 4/3/2009 8:06:24 PM
Fav's don't mean crap, it is like the roses and image voting . It realy doesn't matter how many people a woman has on her profile, if she wants to talk to you she will.

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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How do I get the attention of women? Posted: 4/3/2009 4:59:41 PM
Drop your pants around your ankles, she will either come over laughing and feel sorry for you or she will come over because she sees what she wants. All joking aside, just go over to her and say hello and always remember to smile. The worst thing that she will say is drop dead or something close to that. Good luck OP.

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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For guys that have been married before . . . Posted: 4/3/2009 4:49:59 PM
I can only speak for myself when I say that both times that I was married, the blinders were on and I didn't see the faults in the relationship until the end of both of them. Yes some of them mine and some of them were the other persons. As far as believing in a soulmate I think that person might be out there but I am not going to be holding my breath on it. And as far as the love of my life thing, I have three of them, they are my children. So my thoughts on this is that even if you don't find your soulmate it does not mean that you can't have the love(s) of your life. Good luck on this OP.

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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Why??? Posted: 3/27/2009 8:44:11 AM
If a woman that I was talking to said call me on a certain day if you want to go out on friday, I would make sure to call them on that day. Sorry that he did it to you, sounds like he has some growing up to do.

catchabert

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how to tell flirting from friendly Posted: 3/25/2009 6:24:09 PM
She might just be seeing if she still has what it takes to be able to flirt with guys, since you are a friend she can do it and not offend you. Don't let it cloud your head, just take it at what it is; a simple compliment.

catchabert

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Guys, help me out here! Posted: 3/25/2009 6:14:02 PM
So what you are saying is that you have a crush on one of your bosses and you want advice from us to see what to do? If I understand what you said correctly, my thoughts on this is not to do it, have you ever heard of the saying "You shouldn't sh!t where you work because it will only get messy in the end?" Enough said.

catchabert

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What do women think of affection oriented men ? Posted: 3/25/2009 4:49:34 PM
First of all, I've never had intercourse with a woman. Can't say I'm a virgin or haven't fooled around once or twice in my life, You either are or you are not.

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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Why are men so offended when a woman has a preference? Posted: 3/25/2009 4:45:23 PM
I looked at your profile and thought the same thing that Cowboy said. Other than that you are very detailed about what you are looking for so you shouldn't worry about it to much. And just to let you know you are using up all your posts with the thank yous. And yes I believe your last point to be true.

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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Paying Posted: 3/25/2009 4:00:18 PM
I have to agree with everyone else, he asked you out so he should be the one to pay. My only other suggestion is that you meet him there and take some money just incase he is a total jackass and you decide to leave early.

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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What makes a girl a tease with just a kiss? Posted: 3/25/2009 12:25:50 PM
It may be how you are kissing them that makes them want to be closer to your body while kissing. As far as knowing if it is just that you are a good kisser, I don't know because we have never kissed. My only other thought is that since you are trying to impress the guy with your kiss, it may be that he is trying to impress you with where he is putting his hands.

catchabert

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Are flowers dead? Posted: 3/24/2009 10:28:49 PM
Old fashion at the ripe age of 22. My thought is to not worry about the teddy bear thing, as long as you remember to treat her like a nice young lady you should be fine. Just don't burp, fart or pick your nose and the both of you will have a good time.

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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What does read and not deleted really mean? and more Posted: 3/24/2009 9:57:46 PM
It is the same thing as read/deleted, just they have not gotten around to deleting them yet.

catchabert

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I need some advice please Posted: 3/24/2009 9:49:38 PM
Wack, you hit that one on the head. I am going to have to remember that one

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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non responsive Posted: 3/24/2009 9:05:33 PM
Before this gets deleted by the moderators for being a redundant thread, should have done a thread search because this one gets asked all the time. You are correct by thinking that it is because they are not interested. Some men can not take no for an answer and they get very rude when rejected and that is why most everyone uses the read/deleted method. If you are having troubles with getting responces then you might need to think about what you are saying to these young ladies when you write them or you might want to take your profile over to the fine people in the profile review thread. I did not look at it but maybe there is something in there that is killing your chances at meeting women.

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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Approching Girls Posted: 3/24/2009 8:46:56 PM
I have to agree with shadowofenigma. Start conversations with no expectations and you will be fine. Being shy when it comes to women is not a crime, but you have to be able to get over it. I have been to Canada a few times and found that most of the people are very friendly, so you should not have too much problem finding good conversation.

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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What's a guy looking at in a profile? Posted: 3/24/2009 10:44:34 AM
Just be yourself, that is the best thing that you can do. As someone else said post a few full body shots on your profile, you need to keep in mind that some guys realy like a bigger woman. The things that I look at when it comes to peoples profiles are - location, do they live close - photo, usualy if the person does not have a photo on there profile I will not even look at there profile because it is a waste of time. - spelling on the profile is also very important.

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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How to get a straight answer Posted: 3/23/2009 3:49:12 PM
Ok I stand corrected on some of what I said. But the part about her giving you a half a$$ed hand job is all about you though. Because lets face it, when you flog the dog I bet you don't have a big ol' smile on your face while you are doing it so why should she.

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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How to get a straight answer Posted: 3/23/2009 3:27:52 PM
I am going to chime in on this one. All I am seeing in this question is you, you, you, you when you are talking about the bedroom problems. Have you ever thought about giving her a little oral pleasure, your mouth is there for a couple good reasons. It might just be the little spark that the both of you need.

catchabert

Joined: 10/24/2007

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how a guy should first introduce himself? Posted: 3/23/2009 12:55:19 PM
A photojurnalist that does not know how to talk to women, you have to be pulling my leg. How is it you can do your job and not be able to find something to start a conversation with?

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