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 Author Thread: what should i say to woman as a pick line?
 Shiny New Dime
Joined: 5/17/2005
Msg: 49 (view)
 
what should i say to woman as a pick line?
Posted: 5/28/2005 9:03:36 PM
Ultimately, it isn't what you say, but how you say it. One guy could have great success with some of the cornball lines with a certain woman, and another man could try the same cornball lines and fail miserably.

I have successfully used:

1.) "Hey, slow down. I am trying to follow you." (The woman was about a half block ahead of me. She stopped. It was good.)

2.) "Geez, I'd sure like to f**k you."( She replied: "You'd f**k anything." I answered: "You're right." She cooked us breakfast.)

3.) "Are you guys messing with my fiancee?" And then I put my arm around the woman two guys were harassing. (I wound up married with her. This event might have been my single biggest mistake.)

I wouldn't dream of using these lines or lines like them now. I think whatever you say, mean it. Don't try to be funny. Be funny. Don't try to be cool. Be cool.

Case in point: one of my closest friends was hit on outside a club by a guy driving a Z-28. He rolled down the passenger window, and leaning on the passenger seat, he said to her: "Wanna party? I have a 10-inch****" She leaned into his window and replied in a loud voice: "If your prick is so long, why don't you just go and f**k yourself."
The look on his face was worth the price of a tray of tequila shooters.
 Shiny New Dime
Joined: 5/17/2005
Msg: 43 (view)
 
My humble opinion on the fear factor of loving another.
Posted: 5/28/2005 8:13:57 PM
Sweetie, in answer to your question: Question ...Does anyone here believe in SOULMATES

The answer is yes, there are soulmates, regardless of whether a person believes in them. I am not sure what your idea of a soulmate is, though. There is definitely not just one girl for ever boy cos I I know I found mine . . .

Also, falling in love is "kinda slow." Without trust, respect, and friendship, you have nothing, except the rush of lust, which like any good high ends, often with a terrible crash.
 Shiny New Dime
Joined: 5/17/2005
Msg: 34 (view)
 
male input on... younger men and older women
Posted: 5/28/2005 8:02:13 PM
When I was in my early 20s many women in their late 30s and 40s hit on me. It was cool, but back then it was no hassle sex for me and nothing more.

There's no question in my mind that the folk legend of older women being easier is as prevalent now as it was when I was a teen. This legend is the reason I spent so much time at the OK Corral back in the day, it was the place to pick up lonely (desparate?) older women. You are beautiful, Beaverly, so there is a better than even chance that the young guy is looking for an "easy" trophy.

Another possibility is that the boys who seek a long term relationship with older women have Mommy issues, just as some girls who seek long term relationships with older men have Daddy issues. (Personally, if a 20-something expressed long term interest in me, I would be wary: I don't want to be a therapist, substitute father or sugar daddy, period.)
 
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