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 Author Thread: commitment fears?
 eantonio
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 34 (view)
 
commitment fears?
Posted: 1/6/2009 1:08:56 AM
one often meets their destiny on the road they take to avoid it!!!
 eantonio
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Panties
Posted: 1/6/2009 12:58:18 AM
I am very fond of the word drawals...as in big drawals for Lou Rawals...lol
 eantonio
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Why Dating is Hard...
Posted: 1/6/2009 12:33:35 AM
The antagonist to good is better...think about that for a sec. when we have something that is good, we try to make it better or we go in search of something better which in turns ****s it all up, and we lose on both good and better. In addition to the aforemention way of thinking, I thnk dating is hard because we are all in search of " the one" that has instant chemistry...like we are scientist or something. Personally I think this is a flaw to dating because rarley does one find instant chemisty on a 1st date or 1st encounter because of many other variables such as but not limited to nerves . And because that chemistry has not manifested itself, yet, the prospect of getting to know somenone really wonderful has come and gone. So, I am going to pass on to you some advice my mom gave me. She told me when I am going out on a date with someone, don't ask yourself if this someone I would want be romantically involved with forever, but ask yourself if you can see this person as someone who I could be friends with for a long time. friendship begats romance!
 eantonio
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 93 (view)
 
Last time you were told I Love you?
Posted: 1/6/2009 12:08:51 AM
WOW! I hear it all the time from my "Lil One." but she is six, not that her age dilutes the feeling or imputus behind it. I esp. love hearing her say it after we say our prayers and I am tucking her in for the night " Daddy, I love You." Melts my heart everytime. Iknow that her love is so very different from romantic love, however it is very real and unconditional and has sustained me and kept me full to the point that I have not even recognized that it has been several years since I have heard those three words from a unrelated female.
 eantonio
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 179 (view)
 
Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 11/28/2008 3:20:27 PM
The C U next Tuesday word is the most disgusting, degrading, and disrepectful word in the history of words. I chringe when I hear it, which isn't often. If I were a women and someone called me that word, I would be out the door quicker than a NY minute.
 eantonio
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 66 (view)
 
She pretended... to get him to marry her.
Posted: 11/28/2008 3:16:34 PM
I think any form of deception, dishonesty, or a breach of trust early in the relationship is not good. The idea of courting is to explore the compatibility and commonalities. Home's with a foundation built on sand don't last very long.
 eantonio
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 667 (view)
 
What did YOU do wrong in your last relationship?
Posted: 11/25/2008 6:01:46 AM
This is a great question! Where do I start..Geez. I ended up marrying a rebound. I had just broken up with my long time college sweetheart of 6 years and I jumped into another relationship within weeks of the break-up. I told her I loved her when I didn't. I said "I Do" when I didn't. The fact that I fainted at the wedding should have been a tell tale sign. I should have ended it way sooner than I did, but was too scared to hurt her feelings... these are the differences between boys and men!
 eantonio
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 85 (view)
 
Ladies, If A Guy Called You The C Word, Would Continue Your Relationship With Him?
Posted: 11/21/2008 1:47:02 AM
The C U Next Tuesday word is by far the most degrading word in the dictionary, bar none. I cringe when I hear this word. I would question anyone who allows someone to call them this word, joking or not.
 eantonio
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 570 (view)
 
over 30 and still living at home
Posted: 11/19/2008 11:57:59 AM
I have to preface this with it is not for me but I don't judge. Only in America is is disgraceful and looked down upon that grown children live at home with their parents. It is a common practice in many civilized cultures that there are several generations living under the same roof.
 eantonio
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 388 (view)
 
oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it
Posted: 11/19/2008 4:38:57 AM
I remember when I ws child, my parent thought that leading by exmaple was the way to go. When there were foods that I did not like they would eat it in front of me and tell me how good it was and to reassure me that nothng bad was going to happen to me like a vegtable monster would pop out of my bellie or something. There efforts paid off, b/c most of the time I would trust them and try it for myself. I write all that to say this. maybe you should try it first with her. Allow her to take a big mouthful and then swap it back in your mouth for you too swallow. In addition to that act being a complete turn on, for most women, it shows her that you are not going to ask her to do something that you are not willing to do yourself. lastly, take a look at your diet. Lots of fruits and healthy foods do make a world of a difference in the taste.
 eantonio
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 182 (view)
 
What do you NOT like about sex?
Posted: 11/7/2008 12:24:19 PM
I really dislike it when the air leaks out and I have to blow her back up again...instant mood killer.

I also dislike all the "oh baby's" "give it to me's" before I even have my pants off.

or someone who just lays there

Socks...need I say more.

Besides that it is all good.
 eantonio
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 72 (view)
 
Some men are so good - they juggle two women at once!
Posted: 11/7/2008 11:25:04 AM
Sounds like you were dating and he was playing the field.

I don't know about anyone else, but I found it extremely hard to be a player. I can't afford all those damn dinners, movies, etc let alone get all the names, activites, likes and dislikes in check.
 eantonio
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 76 (view)
 
Things to do and NOT do on a date!
Posted: 11/7/2008 11:17:55 AM
I would not recommend taking them to meet your parents either. In college my date was meeting me at my house and it just so happened that my mom was home and wanted to meet the lady I was going out with. To my dismay she agreed. My mom told her that she was glad to see me going out with her b/c she had never seen me with a girl and thought I was going to grow up gay. Thanks Mom.
 eantonio
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 62 (view)
 
She used to do escort. How can I get past this tough time and move past her history?
Posted: 11/7/2008 10:58:08 AM
I don't know the answer to you getting over this. What I do know from what you wrote is she loves you dude. and she wants to do right by you. She respected and loved you enough to tell you her "darkest hour" which might I add takes big balls to put yourself out there like that.

We all have a past dude. I would love to think that the person I am dating/marrying was only with me but I know that is so not true. For me and only me I do not even ask about someone past sexual history. I dont think it is any of my business. The reason I don't ask is again it is none of my business and secondly and more importantly I don't want to see myself as number__. I would much rather see myself as the guy she is with now.

The only thing I care about relating to sex is the Dr. note saying she & I have a clean bill of health which may allow us to stop using condoms. I guess what I am saying is numbers are relative Love isnt.

Perhaps you could seek counseling to see why this is bothering you so much...I will say it is not about her as it is about you. Good luck
 eantonio
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 78 (view)
 
Dumped cos I didnt cum!!
Posted: 11/7/2008 10:41:16 AM
That is not your problem. We can make plans but we can't predict the outcome! In sex the plan is always for everyone to have a good time that results in a amazingly fantastic, mindblowing, earthshattering, eyes-rolling in the back of the head, toes curling, orgasm. However that does not always happen. It is no ones fault if both parties did their best to reciporcate the pleasure. as a result it is in no way anyone's right to balme someone or break up with them. Sounds like many other insecurites he may be dealing with. Count your blessings you are no longer with him.
 eantonio
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 55 (view)
 
So I was supposed to meet this guy last night.
Posted: 11/7/2008 10:23:25 AM
now now! There are good and bad in both sex's and women stand guys up just as much.
 eantonio
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 179 (view)
 
Worst Breakup Line you ever used or heard
Posted: 11/7/2008 10:20:45 AM
I was abducted by aliens and I need time to get over it.

I think I am a lesbian
 eantonio
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 154 (view)
 
Worst clothes to wear on a first date...
Posted: 11/7/2008 10:14:01 AM
what about a t-shirt that says " i have sex on the 1st date"
 eantonio
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 175 (view)
 
Best place to meet some one other then the internet
Posted: 11/7/2008 10:10:35 AM
My Mom keeps telling me to go to church. My collegues tell me the produce section of the grocery store.
 eantonio
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 266 (view)
 
Do you wish the worst for your ex?
Posted: 11/7/2008 10:05:32 AM
I wish nothing but the best for my ex b/c I know that if she id doing well my daughter will do well too. And that is really all I care about is that my lil one is well taken care of when she is with her mom.
 eantonio
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 70 (view)
 
What Is Your Favorite Way to Have Sex And Why?
Posted: 11/5/2008 9:21:34 AM
I have to say there is nothing greater and hotter than conjugal visit sex...lol. Anything that involves the opposite sex at this point...my hands filed for a divorce.
 eantonio
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 721 (view)
 
What is your biggest turn on
Posted: 11/3/2008 6:47:53 PM
I am turned on by confidence. I also think it is sexxxxy to see a women putting on her lipstick using the rearview mirror. Also, cant forget well taken care of feet/toes.
 eantonio
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 162 (view)
 
Unusual Compliments
Posted: 11/3/2008 6:34:27 PM
I was standing in the elevator on my way to my office when I got the wierdest, but funniest, compliment ever. The lady told me my hair smelled so good, good enough to eat. Nothing too strange there until I tell you she was a midget!
 eantonio
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 555 (view)
 
How do you feel about interacial dating?
Posted: 11/3/2008 6:22:51 PM
I, too, am amazed that we still have this conversation in this day in age. I was raised to believe that one should not discriminate based on age, color, sex, religion, sexual orientation, etc...I was taught that character is so much more important than race. With that being said, I am a man who like variety and diversity. If there was a green or purple lady out there, I would be one of the first people to see what it was all about. My motto is this: when the lights go out, we are all dark!
 eantonio
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 181 (view)
 
have you ever tasted breastmilk?
Posted: 11/3/2008 6:13:16 PM
I have haphazardly tried it twice and both times were disgusting because of the circumstances surrounding how I tasted it.

The first time I was about 9-10 years old. My sister had her first child at 13 and she use to pump the milk into a container so my mom could feed the baby. Well, she put the breat milk into a old milk container and set it back in the fridge. Well, needless to say, I thought it was store bought grade D whole cows milk and poured it on my corn flakes and ate it up. About the third bite into it I noticed it tasted wierd, so I added more sugar to it. Around the fifth bite, my mom came in the kitchen laughing at me. I do believe that I vomited shortly after.

The second time was when I was in college. I college roommate and I hooked up with two girls at a party and took them back to our love spot (dorm room). The mood was right: we had dim lights courtesy of x-mas lights strung around the room, we had Silk and Jodeci playing for tunes. I was feeling like the night belong to me. I laid her down on the bed and kissed her all over: started with her lips and neck, kissed all around her breast workig my way down to her stomach, then continued to explore the more southern regions for a lil while before returning north to pay some attention to the area that I intentional skipped...the boobies. As I opened my mouth up and placed my moist lips on her breast, I felt this warm milky fluid gush into my mouth. I didnt know what to do...I know I swallowed some. I pulled back, looked both ways frantically trying to decide where to spit this "stuff" out at until I just spit it out of my mouth. I remember saying WTF was that? She reesponded by saying "I thought you knew!"
I said, thought I knew what? She said I just had a baby. I was like, how in the F**k would I know that shit. I cut her off and said get out. My roommate and his hook-up, who were in the bed next to us were laughing thier ass's off. I have the antibodies of a potential one nightstand stranger inside me.
 eantonio
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 552 (view)
 
Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs?
Posted: 11/3/2008 5:47:46 PM
Speaking only for myself here. I do like to have oral reciprocated, however it does not have to be a staple or a standard in the bedrooms sexual activities. Now, if you told me that I could not perform oral we might have some problems.
 eantonio
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 289 (view)
 
Are virgins more attractive?
Posted: 10/17/2008 3:38:32 PM
I would much rather have experience.
 eantonio
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 124 (view)
 
Any other women out there in love with a married man???
Posted: 10/17/2008 3:23:59 PM
the questiion is not weather or not you should let him go and move on, becasue we all, as well as you do, know the answer to that. The real question, that no one can answer but you, is what are you getting out of this relationship? This relationship is working for you in some confusing way. The reason I say that is because if it wasn't you would not be there. It may be the thrill, it may be the drama, it may be the attention and drama. I don't know...only you do. I beleive people do the best they can with what they know and what they have and when a better way of doing things is learned, people will employ the new way. You know this is a bad relationship...and if you don't perhaps you should re-read the tons of responses that tell you so. So again, you ignore what EVERYONE is telling you because it is working for you. It is also as if you are in search of that ONE person who is going to support you on your decision so then you feel validated to do what you do.

There was a guy I use to counsel who told me he found the best way to lose weight however no one would agree with his method. He was smoking crack. He was trying to make losing weight as this big positive for such a negative behavior. When infact he was looking for an excuse to continue to smoke crack because he knew it was wrong. I think you are in the same boat...using the kids as a excuse to justify this very uni-lateral and unhealthy relationship.

Lastly, if his children are his life, then why is he teaching ( through his behavior) them that the institution of matrimony is not sacred anymore, rather that it is vow with no meaning and adultry is ok. Just my opinion. Good Luck!
 eantonio
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 76 (view)
 
Have you slept with a partner's parent??????
Posted: 10/17/2008 11:46:11 AM
OMG!!! That is way too funny! Hey, to each his own.
 eantonio
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Telling off your ex!
Posted: 10/15/2008 10:53:35 AM
I so agree with you daisypetals. I think that someone has to take the "high road" and you do that by closing that chapter in your life and moving on to the next. When I was going through my divorce, my mom always told me the sweetest revenge is to be very successful without her. I wanted to a much great feeling of revenge...like instant gratification revenge. I did not want to wait to be successful...hell that could take forever and what if she beat me to it first. However, my mom reminded me that reacting out of emotions can be very dangerous and humiliating. she also told me it is important that my daughter see me treat her mom with dignity and respect at all times.
 eantonio
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 60 (view)
 
Your Most Romantic Date Ever
Posted: 10/15/2008 10:11:22 AM
Tinker Bell, I am sorry that it ended the way it did. I am sure that it was just a error in communication. If it were me, I would send a note to say hello. Perhaps I will will do that b/c it sounds like we both had a really wonderful time.
 eantonio
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 37 (view)
 
Help me....im driven wild by ladys in there killer heels
Posted: 10/14/2008 1:28:57 PM
ooh la la!! I agree with you "Tinker Bell" those are some really hot & sexxxy shoes Candid has. For Halloween I will dress up as Ricky Ricardo and you can wear your sexxxy "I love Lucy" shoes and we can have a reunion.
 
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