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sweetkitiee

Joined: 10/26/2007

Msg: 85 (view)

Can somebody help? Posted: 7/23/2009 1:27:15 AM
Hi there, the way i see it. You know what you want and if a guy cannot accept even that, your meeting the wrong types. A decent guy would respect your intellectual feelings , and not disrespect you. My god, if that is a problem, just think what else he will be trying to control you with!! Goodluck and there are some nice guys out there too.

sweetkitiee

Joined: 10/26/2007

Msg: 127 (view)

How to forget someone? How to let go? Posted: 10/18/2008 4:19:16 AM
That is exactly what i am talking about, what mykiee is saying. At the time when i posted i wasn't even speaking of friends with benefits, as that is just wrong. I was speaking in general about friends, that you shouldn't keep it going. Mykiee's post is 100% right and as you don't agree with what i said i don't care. You are going to hurt someone else and that is wrong. You should really think of what you are doing with yourself. Goodluck

sweetkitiee

Joined: 10/26/2007

Msg: 110 (view)

How to forget someone? How to let go? Posted: 10/8/2008 2:48:36 AM
You know i have come to realize that you can't stay friends. There are too many feelings and you can't move on. It seems like time is standing still. Just from a recent experience in my life, it dosen't work for me. Goodluck

sweetkitiee

Joined: 10/26/2007

Msg: 66 (view)

If you came home and found your partner in bed with another... Posted: 9/20/2008 5:20:31 AM
I like your style WindRoper, LMAO! hey, don't call yourself a bi*ch that would be norma to do, he would deserve that and more!! lol.

sweetkitiee

Joined: 10/26/2007

Msg: 99 (view)

all guys wants from me is sex.. but not a relationship... why is that? Posted: 9/20/2008 5:08:38 AM
Hey hun, don't you dare give into them! Good for you, although i would be telling them to not bother you, and get on with their own lives, cause you can't get on with yours with them driving you insane. Just watch out when your dating cause same thing will happen, and if a guy truly likes you and there seems to be a spark at the beginning he will definately WAIT for you. Been there done it, and they will wait. If they don't then they weren't worth your time in pennies! then just move on, no big deal. And take your time. Goodluck

sweetkitiee

Joined: 10/26/2007

Msg: 98 (view)

Good man versus the man who actually GETS you Posted: 9/20/2008 4:50:00 AM
I was married for around 13 yrs, and that is one thing that first and foremost attracted me to him, was his emotions, of course us woman take actions into consideration too. We have too so we can weed out the so called "not so great for us". Anyways, any woman who tries to say that she dosen't care about that i believe is lying. Emotions are important in any relationship. What would it be like without them? lol.

sweetkitiee

Joined: 10/26/2007

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How do you live on your own when you do not like that person? Posted: 9/2/2008 4:36:12 AM
Hi, as life throws us those wonderful curve balls, we as humans deal with it the best that we can. I understand perhaps these others were probably rebounds, and sometimes that is what happens to us. I believe you need some time on your own, no matter how scary it is for you. Need to smell the roses, so to speak (in a positive manner). Life will get better for you, it takes TIME. Goodluck! Lisa x

sweetkitiee

Joined: 10/26/2007

Msg: 52 (view)

Why do woman do this Posted: 8/30/2008 5:23:09 AM
This seems to be a huge problem and how long have you been on this site, looking for sex on the side? I would imagine your wife knows exactly what you have been doing prior to her turning you down. Woman have great senses, and why would she want to even get close to you? If you even want to save your marriage, you should be the one to start with counselling, and then as a couple go seek help.

sweetkitiee

Joined: 10/26/2007

Msg: 162 (view)

Would you open you marriage to save it? Posted: 8/30/2008 4:23:51 AM
There is no way i would even consider such a drastic change like that! They don't have counsellors for nothing. This is an underlying situation, not about the sex. If counselling didn't work, although having to be taken seriously, than i don't agree changing to other couples as being the answer. Unfortunely, breaking up would be the only answer.

sweetkitiee

Joined: 10/26/2007

Msg: 62 (view)

Whay do Men complain about Women cheating on them?? Posted: 12/27/2007 12:30:16 AM
This is pretty straight forward!! You get what you go after! If you are looking for easy and sleezy, then that's what you get. Then you wonder why they have screwed around on you?? TOO FUNNY!! Goodluck to all Lisa

sweetkitiee

Joined: 10/26/2007

Msg: 61 (view)

Whay do Men complain about Women cheating on them?? Posted: 12/27/2007 12:19:47 AM
op you are right! 100% !! I want a man whom is NOT in a rush too. If they are then too bad for them. I have respect for myself and don;t want to be with a guy who wants a so called "FUN NIGHT"!! They should go look for Hookers on the street and not bother with descent women like ourselves! WASTING OUR TIME TOO!! Goodluck Lisa

sweetkitiee

Joined: 10/26/2007

Msg: 157 (view)

Women who smoke are far more promiscuous. Posted: 12/25/2007 8:31:52 PM
Okay, lmao!! this is the most craziest post i have read, not to mention that it is not true! Lisa

sweetkitiee

Joined: 10/26/2007

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Is it really that difficult to find a suitable partner? Posted: 11/18/2007 4:45:51 AM
Dave, i feel the same way as you do, about the changes that have taken place, over the years. Everything has changed so drastically, as i don't agree with it. Especially, people that don't even know the person very well, and jump in bed with them , barely knowing them. It definately takes two, and i am not judging those who do, do that. Yes, it's their business , although i don't have to agree with it, for myself. My advice would be to take good care of yourself, and when it happens, it will. Hopefully, in due time, and with that special person. Good Luck Lisa

sweetkitiee

Joined: 10/26/2007

Msg: 186 (view)

men don't listen Posted: 11/18/2007 4:29:31 AM
This man is amazing. He has hit the nail right on the spot. Everything he has mentioned is so true. Not bringing your date home right away. Children do also have a sense about the person, and would tell you, how they feel. So true, in so many ways. Not rushing into a relationship and I could go on and on, although he is doing it for me. LOL Lisa goodluck to everyone

sweetkitiee

Joined: 10/26/2007

Msg: 47 (view)

Confused about my guy to an extent Posted: 11/18/2007 4:07:26 AM
I would say run as fast as you can!! Never look back, and get your self settled in to a place and work on getting your daughter back. Lisa , good Luck

sweetkitiee

Joined: 10/26/2007

Msg: 140 (view)

Serious relationship after sex the first day? Posted: 11/13/2007 12:09:25 AM
No way, sure may have spoke alot and so on, but that is intimacy and people these days are making me sick, no morals connected to that. I feel you have to be in love, can't be without being IN LOVE with the person, period. That's how i feel about it anyway. If there's a spark and the person can't wait for you, then forget it and move on cause that person didn't deserve you, in the first place! happy fishing Lisa

sweetkitiee

Joined: 10/26/2007

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Why do some men and women get off on using people? Posted: 11/12/2007 11:44:01 PM
I understand it was the first date, although very premature to let it get to you, to this point. Sure, he could of explained something but sometimes you have to look at where its coming from! Some people have no class and just leave it at that. You have your whole future ahead of you, so just let it go! One date remember that, your stronger then that. Happy fishing Goodluck Lisa

sweetkitiee

Joined: 10/26/2007

Msg: 74 (view)

Chances Are... Posted: 11/12/2007 11:36:23 PM
You know i am really getting tired of hearing about this subject. If someone is separated , it dosen't mean they are getting back with their husband at all. Period! As a separated women myself, the way i look at is if he wants the divorce he can pay. Why would i waste all that money when i don't have to. Yes, everyone's situation is different and i would date a guy who is separated. Now, i have been separated for over four years. If i met someone that was recently separated, that would be a different story. Each situation is different and people are judging tooo much. I told him to leave, and i am confident with myself to know that if we were the last two people on the face of the earth, i would still turn him down!! lol (not that he was bad in bed or anything) not the point!! happy fishing

sweetkitiee

Joined: 10/26/2007

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Found my soulmate for life!!!!!! Thanks POF!!!! Posted: 11/11/2007 12:44:33 PM
Well congratulations!! I am happy for you two. It is nice to hear about the love at first sights, once in while. I have had a few of those. The only difference, is that i waited it out awhile to make sure. Sure enough my instincts were correct. I do believe in love at fist sight (far and few between though) so if it is then that's great!! Goodluck to both !! Lisa

sweetkitiee

Joined: 10/26/2007

Msg: 44 (view)

Would you stay with someone who cant communicate or bores you? Posted: 11/11/2007 12:37:34 PM
Hi, i wouldn't want to be with someone where there is no spark. If the person bores you, there is ultimately nothing there besides friends. Friends if good though, although to cross that line is wrong, i feel. That's why maybe perhaps you feel bored with that person. The friends was great, but no futher. Goodluck, fishing everyone!! Lisa

sweetkitiee

Joined: 10/26/2007

Msg: 182 (view)

Online Dating............. Posted: 11/6/2007 2:10:23 AM
First of all to say the least that would be an insult. If your in a relationship then why the need to check emails.......what emails?? other men when you are with someone already? To me that is wrong, plain and simple--no excuses. Where has loyalty and values gone? right the hell out the window! I would of dropped the person right then and there! And tell him if talking to other people is more important than me then hit the highway bud!! lol Lisa

sweetkitiee

Joined: 10/26/2007

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First meeting attraction, second date scare! Posted: 11/5/2007 10:35:39 PM
Hey you did excellent, usually takes a least a month or so for them to show their true colours, or at least some of them!! Be happy that it was actually on the second date. Not to be cruel to guys but sure at first they may open the door for you and show that they like you and not expect sex for awhile ( that's if there's a spark) and then not all guys either, not trying to offend any men out there. There are sincere guys out there, although far and few between. I always have fun on dates preferably if he is a gentlemen. If he wasn't i would just walk out on him lol. Hey , there are some guys because they take you out for dinner expect that? that is why on my profile i have no intimate encounters on date. If your worth it they can wait until your ready, and that's obviousy if they like you alot , then they will. Goodluck and thank the lucky stars above............ Lisa

sweetkitiee

Joined: 10/26/2007

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How young is too young??? Posted: 11/5/2007 10:06:32 PM
I really think that if things are there (spark) which is early to tell infactuation from falling in love with the person within at least three months. Thats my opinion. As for the age difference i really don't see the big deal. As long as you are a very confindent person, than it shouldn't affect the age. Some people have a problem with that in which i really don't understand. Age is no barrier, as in the event you guys fall in love, all the power to you, as life is too short to analyse the ages. Be happy if you have found the one for you. Its your life, do as you see fit. Goodluck to you, Lisa

sweetkitiee

Joined: 10/26/2007

Msg: 26 (view)

Have you ever felt more like a counselor or sounding board than date on the 1st date? Posted: 11/5/2007 3:59:26 PM
Now this one is very simple. No never felt like a counselor , i like to have fun (nothing inimate) though. But what the hell just be yourself, and if there is something then great, if not move on to the next. Its just that easy. I feel people make the date tooo hard on themselves and that is just plain crazy. Its not like your joining the army or something difficult. Remember your going out to meet someone and it might or may not be the last. Goodluck and remember its not that hard to do. Lisa

sweetkitiee

Joined: 10/26/2007

Msg: 30 (view)

had a very bad experence, advice needed please Posted: 11/5/2007 3:18:04 PM
well if life was guaranteed we would all be happy. hey i think personally that the girl drank too much and no i haven't been in this position before, but i do know a couple of people that have. Let her have her time to herself and you move on as time does heal a broken heart. Maybe let her know that she has too chase you abit. But in the meantime move on and take lots of cold showers lol. Your a good looking guy you don't have to settle for that grap. Goodluck, Lisa

sweetkitiee

Joined: 10/26/2007

Msg: 176 (view)

my ex is dyeing with cancer what do i do Posted: 11/5/2007 3:09:43 PM
Hi, i know you have been through alot with him, and i do feel for you. Although there is one big problem. He abused you soooo bad and you don't have to feel any remorse, cause you don't need to take that person back. He has hospice and nurses and homecare coming in to take care of him. I know this cause of my dad is dying of cancer and still insists on taking care of mother who is handicapp. So belief me when i tell you someone with cancer and surely my dads days are numbered get treated pretty decent. Please don't put yourself in that situation, sometimes its better to leave well enough alone. Goodluck, Lisa

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