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 Author Thread: Do women cook anymore??
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 728 (view)
 
Do women cook anymore??
Posted: 9/11/2009 5:28:22 PM
I like to EAT so therefore I cook :) Anyone who can READ can cook lol. I happen to love it - I think I'm a frustrated artist, so I devote my artistic abilities to making food look yummy and appealing yay! Call me a 1950's housewife but I'll cook the dinners if he mows the lawn/shovels the driveway. And kills the bugs :)
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Genuine friendship?
Posted: 11/8/2008 10:38:02 PM
you keep attracting Sith lords !!! hahahha funniest line EVER!!
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 137 (view)
 
How to forget someone? How to let go?
Posted: 10/18/2008 6:27:29 PM
so many great ideas on here. I know for myself I couldn't do the friends thing, at least not right away, especially if you have any residual feelings for him - how horrible would it be to have to plaster a fake smile on your face when he's with someone new? i say sever all ties, take a few days to wallow in abject misery and then get on with life. Time really does do the trick. If the space in between is too empty, volunteer to help people? date like a maniac? learn a language or how to sew, anything to keep you busy :)
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Do politics matter?
Posted: 10/17/2008 6:20:30 PM
yup it makes a difference - i don't like to argue for the sake of arguing, and i know i'm not going to change anyone's mind, but it so annoys me when someone picks "their side" on every issue, just because 'their side' says so -- i'm ok with varying opinions as long as someone knows WHY they think the way they do. And that they vote - nothing worse than complainers who can't be bothered to vote.

When someone asks me a loaded political question I just say "i know you're only asking me so you can espouse what YOU feel on the subject, so go ahead...don't let me slow you down" LOL

I just know that if I'm polar opposites with someone on politics, a lot of other things will be opposites too.
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Why don't men have a guilty concious when knowingly hurting you?
Posted: 10/14/2008 9:11:00 PM
oh my, i thought you were 18 or something from that post!!! goodness you should know better!!

Why do men (or people for that matter) behave badly??? BECAUSE THEY CAN

if someone allows it, then so be it. If you say NO this is not acceptable behaviour, then they can either agree or not.
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 124 (view)
 
Does No Car Mean No Action?
Posted: 10/11/2008 1:11:44 PM
yah don't say it's for economic reasons, say it's for GREEN reasons! you don't want to be part of the problem, you want to be part of the solution!! hehe all the hippie granola chicks will be dying to bang you!

Not in your car of course


 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 17 (view)
 
I'm kind of just depressed now.
Posted: 10/11/2008 7:01:03 AM
You cutie little fluffy bunny of a girl !!! I seriously want to come through the computer and give you a hug and tell you that things will be ok!!!

You're such a cutie little girl, I can't believe boys aren't lining up to be your boyfriend ~ it's so corny and old fashioned but I'm begging you not to throw yourself away on random people; it might be fun or satisfying in the moment (and I know about a dozen women are going to jump on me and say it's a woman's right to be just as sexually promiscuous as men blah blah blah) but I think it can hurt your spirit in the long run. You might actually believe that's all you're worth. If YOU believe that, boys will believe that and treat you accordingly.

I know how hard it is to see everyone paired up and happy in love, believe me i know! But I honestly do believe that if you can be happy alone, happy with the person you are, eventually someone will come along and want to get to know that person. You're only 18, just be a little bit patient ok? you're so cutie!!!
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 40 (view)
 
the cup
Posted: 9/29/2008 2:23:12 PM
^^^ yikes, you know it's your OWN blood right??? LOL why the heebie-jeebies???
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 18 (view)
 
I have a theory about movie interests?
Posted: 9/27/2008 11:00:53 AM
hehhe that's the dumbest thing ever lol. i HATED chicago, such melodramatic overblown hype, same with notebook, same with titanic, same with english patient. When I'm watching a "chick movie" and feel like i'm being manipulated, as in some fat cat producer is saying "ok, let's do XY & Z right here to make the girlies cry" yah NO THANKS! I was the only one who kept thinking during Titanic, HEY KATE, WHY DON'T YOU GET YOUR FAT ASS IN THE WATER FOR A FEW MINUTES hehehe

Now, Liv Tyler having to say good bye to her daddy Bruce Willis in Armageddon....sobbbing every time!!!!
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 22 (view)
 
the cup
Posted: 9/27/2008 10:57:24 AM
sounds like more bother than it's worth LOL can't you just do it in the shower
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 215 (view)
 
first date- he farts in the restaurant!!
Posted: 9/23/2008 5:31:27 PM
I'm pretty sure I went out with his brother - reached over and yanked a hair out of my head to FLOSS with it!!!!!
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Do you need to have everything in common with a guy?
Posted: 9/21/2008 8:30:53 AM
ha, good lord life would be a drag if you S/O liked everything you did -- they have to be able to tease you because you won't try lobster, you have to tease them because they like monster truck things LOL that makes life fun.

As long as the core group of values are on the same page (ie, politics, religion, views on fidelity, views on raising kids, views on money) the other stuff is just fluffy. And sense of humour - if you don't find someone funny NOW it won't get better lol, a sharp quick wit can last a lifetime I think!
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Do women sense it?
Posted: 9/15/2008 2:34:09 PM
I agree, leave it alone. If she's completely myopic and can't see the feelings you have for her count yourself lucky. Just hope her husband doesn't notice either....a.w.k.w.a.r.d.
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 192 (view)
 
Is there an assumed commitment between 2 people dating, once they've had sex?
Posted: 9/14/2008 12:53:59 PM
A lot of my friends come to me with this same situation to see what I think. When I say "well, what did HE/SHE say about it when you asked them" I usually get a variation of "Oh i'm not comfortable bringing it up with them" OMG! hahahah you'll let a dude INSIDE you but you won't ASK HIM A FEW QUESTIONS FIRST??? are you even kidding me??? hahahahaha

sorry that sounds snotty, I know, but I'm always astounded by what people WILL do without batting an eye, and what they're NOT ok with doing...you know.. talking!! I think if people stumble into things without establishing some agreed-upon ground rules FIRST, then whatever happens is fair ball - no one can cry about it, no one can feel taken advantage of. If you ASK and they answer and it's what you want too, then go for it. If not...well duh!

My absolute FAVOURITE story is a friend of mine, telling me this story over coffee, and I"m NOT exaggerating I swear "Amanda, this guy I've been banging, he tells me he won't be my boyfriend, he says he'll never love me, he says he won't introduce me to his friends, he'll just drop by and if i'm available we can have sex, but otherwise not to bother him... WHAT DO YOU THINK HE MEANS BY THIS??" she said that!!! but the real zinger was "Do you think that means he's afraid of commitment??" WOW! I'm on such a rant right now, sorry LOL. But when that all blew up I was SO on HIS side, he could not have been more honest!
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 269 (view)
 
Prenuptial - maintaining physique - is it reasonable?
Posted: 9/14/2008 12:48:04 PM
I"m SO putting that in a pre-nup!! Forget it if my husband goes bald and gets a spare tire - he's gone!!! ESPECIALLY if he loses his hair from chemo from all the cancer and whatnot -- get that outta here!!

OMG that's the most hilarious thing I've ever read -- what's allowed? 3 wrinkles? 4? after having YOUR children, can she gain 5 pounds maybe? what about a stretch mark?? nope, trade her in for something fresh and new!

WOW you are so not ready to marry ANYONE
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 56 (view)
 
getting back together with an ex
Posted: 9/14/2008 12:44:57 PM
I think if you go back as a FRIEND IN NEED only, that's one thing - if he knows he's just helping you and your family get over a rough spot, than that's ok i think -- however, if you're "tricking" him into thinking you actually want him back just for your own safety and security, that's a bit dodgey isn't it? Doesn't set a great example for kids either, that it's OK to use people as long as you gain from it.
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
The best way to get over a man...
Posted: 9/10/2008 7:31:04 PM
I don't think it always has a literal translation - you don't have to get 'under' him to get over the other one, just take an interest in someone else, date a ton and have something else to do besides obsess over the other guy
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Cancer dx (her), now just 'friends'
Posted: 9/10/2008 5:19:08 PM
hmmm.. if she's only diagnosed in May, that's just over 3 months, maybe she'll come around?? .

I'm weirdly helping a great friend through a similar experience. She was with a guy for years, madly in love, and came down with a severe form of Multiple Sclerosis ~ not just paralysis, but couldn't swallow, breathing was getting to be impossible, and they told her she didn't have too long to live. She sent him away because she didn't want him to go thru it, and for him to make a new life. Took 2 years, but he finally did. Flash forward a year, she's had a stem cell/bone marrow transplant overseas, and she's FINE! (i'm crying just typing this!) and she contacted dude, knowing how thrilled he'd be for her. He was thrilled, overjoyed for her -- but, he'd met someone and moved on and couldn't bring himself to ditch the new love for his old love (ergh even tho they were together 10 years almost, and this new girl barely 8 months, but none of my business grrrr).

Anyway, long story I know, sorry!! But if she means everything to you, don't let go :)
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 384 (view)
 
Whats the Best Accent you've hear that you love... and why
Posted: 9/10/2008 3:29:44 PM
mmmm Scotish...when Gerard Butler does it anyway
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 62 (view)
 
Muscle or no muscle that is the question.
Posted: 9/6/2008 6:36:17 PM
I know a lot of women love that ripped, 6 pack ab thing, but i hate it!!! ewwww it looks like a guys organs are trying to come out thru his stomach, i find it revolting LOL a nice layer of chub is very hot!!! Not a huge beer gut hanging over the pants, but nice and thick and meaty! if he has kinda bigger arms that's nice too LOL I loveeeeeee that little muscle above the elbow that flexes sometimes swooooooooooony heheheheh
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 58 (view)
 
Why do tall big men want tiny women ?
Posted: 9/6/2008 6:30:53 PM
hehe you say in your OWN post you prefer someone with meat on 'em rather than skinny - that's called a preference! Same as a big old boy wanting an itty bitty girl, it's just one of those things we can't moan about, it is what it is. Much better to concentrate on the boys who find you their type, yes?

ha, and i have to howl with laughter at the shorter guys saying that smaller girls who like tall dudes are 'insecure' and looking for 'validation' because of our crippling 'low self-esteem' I wonder if they realize how sad and pathetic they look writing that?! Why can't a girl just find it HOT that a guy is head and shoulders bigger than some 5'8 guy? Lots of girls don't find that hot, but some do.
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 27 (view)
 
I want to give it to her
Posted: 9/2/2008 12:21:06 PM
personally I would love it - flowers are so cliched and cheeseball, but a sweet little present like that, not too expensive but thoughtful - i say it's right on the money!
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 18 (view)
 
How do I?
Posted: 8/30/2008 3:50:37 PM
I think someone asked this already but i didn't see a response - are you sure it's stuff that's bothering him ? or things you think should bother him? there's a difference. Things that bother me a guy can think pffft who gives 'you know what' lol it's infuriating, how do they do that???
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 88 (view)
 
Can a guy and girl be just friends
Posted: 8/27/2008 3:10:24 PM
I'm hoping it's easier when you're older - in my limited experience, if people are the same age and same level of hotness LOL then the biological imperative will raise it's ugly head eventually. So many of my dude friends have said something when drunk (in vino veritas, as they say) to indicate not is all as it should be. I know being just friends CAN happen, I just think people like to bury their heads sometimes, that if it isn't on their radar right now they think it never will be, or vice versa for the friend. Men and women are a curious mix to be sure, and c'mon we've ALLLLLLLL known people who've 'slipped up' with their 'friends' when in a relationship with someone else....seriously, if you're going to reply i'm childish and that you don't know a single person who's cheated with a friend, well... well...ok i've got nothing
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Would you date a transplant surgeon
Posted: 8/25/2008 7:24:32 PM
how do you get OVER 100% divorce rate?? do they marry AGAIN and divorce or something??? Just curious!

My mother is a surgeon and she's been happily married to my dad for over 30 years - not all doctors/surgeons have insane lives.
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Why is being funny so important to women?
Posted: 8/22/2008 5:46:50 PM
of course people want to be entertained! dance puppet!!! There's a lot of hours in the day, a lot of days in the week, and after 40 years together, the other person better have a sharp wit and a turn of phrase that's appealing ~ looks fade and boobs sag, conversation is forever!
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 71 (view)
 
Is this weird-Am I too caught up in looks?
Posted: 8/19/2008 3:23:41 PM
ha, it's Seinfeld all over again - no dating the chickie who went out with Newman! hellllllllo newman!!!

oh dear...what if some guy in her future won't date her because she lowered her standards to date YOU :) heheheheh

attraction/beauty is in the eye of the beholder ~ just cuz you don't find them attractive (and that's weird in and of itself, a dude commenting on another dude's hotness LOL how do you even know who they are btw?) doesn't mean there wasn't a spark there for her. Girls rarely date a guy JUST for personality, there has to be some giggity-giggity going on.
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 70 (view)
 
My boyfriend and I don't have sex.
Posted: 8/19/2008 3:20:10 PM
yikes that's weird ~ usually you have to pry a guy off you LOL If he's like this NOW what'll he be like once the bloom is off the rose? yeeeeesh I'd get out if I were you
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 31 (view)
 
What is it with shoes???
Posted: 8/12/2008 8:12:56 PM
I. Have. A. Lot.Of.Shoes :)

sometimes you're walking down the street, glance casually into a store window, and BAM! your heart skips a beat at the hand crafted italian leather heels in the window...and they're a colour you don't have...and they're comfy...and look sooooooooo gooooood?! how can you leave them behind??! how???
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Should a guy list red flags in his profile?
Posted: 8/12/2008 8:10:15 PM
hehe in MY profile i mention a few doozies dudes have sprung on me ~ my personal favourite was the filing down of the incisor teeth to resemble a vampire.

sigh.
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 236 (view)
 
Why do so many people hate Emo?
Posted: 8/12/2008 7:55:10 PM
as the t-shirt so succinctly says:

"I wish my lawn was Emo....then it would cut itself"
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Can men talk about feminism?
Posted: 8/9/2008 9:27:26 PM
pat her on the head and say "awww you're a feminist...that's so cute!" she'll like it. Seriously. Do it! hheheheh

p.s. when guys AGREE about feminism wholeheartedly, or bring it up or discuss it etc., a warning bell goes off in a girl's head "ha he thinks this will get him laid" I'm just sayin' . . . .
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 91 (view)
 
Is it ok for a person with a S/O to flirt with others ?
Posted: 8/9/2008 4:16:15 PM
there's a huge difference between a quick "thanks hun" and a wink to the cashier at the drive thru getting your morning coffee, and the people who weirdly seem to need the reassurances constant flirting brings - i've seen it with men AND women, equally... I'm not a fan gotta tell ya... yes I'm a jealous shrew, i fully admit that hahahah BUT even more, I don't like the way it makes the neon sign over a person's head flash "I have low self esteem and i have to flirt with you to prove i'm attractive in some way" LOL that's a turn off for sure! whether it's a man or woman it's hard to watch yuck

I guess just follow the old stand-by rule, if you're doing something with a member of the opposite sex that you would NOT do if you S/O were standing right there..you should stop it! LOL
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 12 (view)
 
What is the problem with age??!
Posted: 8/8/2008 10:03:10 PM
I guess i don't get the question - instead of "why not" i'd be asking WHY THE HECK would an 18 year old girl want to date a 26 year old baby daddy? makes noooooo sense!

Why not date girls your own age? Problem solved yes?
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
LAT (Living Apart Together)
Posted: 8/8/2008 9:57:29 PM
I had a University professor who said that situation is what made her 35-year marriage a happy one! They had a shared house but also a pied-a-terre! a little apartment in town that either one could live in for a day/week/month etc., just to escape the day to day stresses and annoyances of being together alllllllll the time LOL
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 55 (view)
 
What Do You REALLY want out of your relationship? Time To Be HONEST
Posted: 8/8/2008 9:54:07 PM
I would like (this is like my christmas wishlist! i wish the Sears catalogue carried boys :( )

* honesty
* integrity
* faithfulness
* someone who will cherish me, even when i don't deserve it, and let me cherish him right back
* someone who will let me fuss over him, make him dinner, make him cookies, and see it as how I might like to express love ~ hopefully not think i'm trying to mother him
* someone who can be funny, silly, ridiculous yet reliable, sturdy, dependable and grown up when needed
* someone who likes to spend a lot of time together, but not ALL the time ~ can go play on his own and leave me be
* someone who would like to smooch :)
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 260 (view)
 
How has dating become what it has????
Posted: 8/8/2008 9:43:57 PM
awesome post! I've wondered that a lot myself - granted, I've watched too many Doris Day movies for my own good heheh and think a gentleman is something swoony indeed!

I'm so sick of guys saying
"you wanna hook up later" umm no.
"you wanna hang some time" again, no.
"maybe I'll see you at so-and-so's some time" maybe so, but that's not a date my friend.

I'd like someone to say "I think you're pretty cute and pretty funny and I'd like to go on a date with you" LOL a real date! just 2 people, not a group! get a bit dressed up! corny and old-fashioned it may be, but it's what I want.

I've stopped talking to some guys on here because I just get the "friend" vibe from them because they can't actually ask me out on a real date LOL. I know it must be hard, the girl could say no and you might get embarrassed, but no guts no glory!
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 90 (view)
 
Metrosexual. Sexy or just weird?
Posted: 8/6/2008 7:47:00 PM
from MY point of view only, it's completely and utterly NON sexy for a dude to do any of those things. A bit of manscaping at home is fine, take care of the uni-brow and cut your finger/toenails, but a salon? seriously? Unless you have raging back hair that you need professional help to tame, back away from the salon immediately LOL

oh wait, that's only MY opinion! find a girl that finds it hot and go with god!

heheh I like a boy to pick ME up from the salon and look AFRAID to even venture inside ~ like everything is a weird science experiment and he feel nervous and uncomfortable the whole time LOL
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 74 (view)
 
Guys, do you want to date or not?
Posted: 8/6/2008 7:33:34 PM
I kind of get what you're saying. It's happened a few times to me too, you chat with someone, it seems kind of sparkly and fun but then you realize it's only on YOUR side LOL and the old "he's just not that into you" feeling sinks in . . .oh well, I'd rather have someone NOT into me online rather than go out with me and feel it LOL
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Stalkers are sexy...
Posted: 8/6/2008 8:29:46 AM
well...i guess if you date a stalker, at least you'll know where he is nights :)

Sounds like the ever-present lure of the EX! But still creepy! But then again I'd be creeped out if someone contacted me on craigslist because he caught my eye for a second LOL
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 41 (view)
 
do you like to test drive a girl?
Posted: 8/5/2008 5:53:20 PM
ewwwwwwww

He knows you're a PERSON right? With FEELINGS and everything? He knows you HEARD him right? LOL
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 214 (view)
 
Abusive men, why do we forgive and go back? Please help.
Posted: 7/29/2008 8:03:13 PM
I guess it's one of those things that - if it keeps on happening, time and time again, you have to look at the only common denominator - you. Unless a girl thinks she's worth a lot, no one else will see it either. I get so annoyed with girlfriends when they say their current less-than-spectacular boyfriends "treats them so good" Ummmmm how ELSE are they supposed to treat you?!? That should be the absolute bare bones to build on right???

And let's not forget the old perversely feminine trait of wanting to change someone and foolishly believing it can be done. My mama always says "pick someone you like right outta the box - they aren't changing" and it's so true!
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 11 (view)
 
what did you do to her when you were jealous?
Posted: 7/28/2008 6:18:38 PM
ha my MOM tells me that when she was a teenager and had a crush on my Dad, the girl he was taking to prom brought in a dress to be drycleaned at her parents' business -- she took SCISSORS to the dress!!!! gave it back and said the machine shredded it, oops sorry LOL

my crazy irish mom! LOL
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 57 (view)
 
I HATE when you guys do this!!!!!! What about you?
Posted: 7/28/2008 6:16:41 PM
I can't say I've ever noticed a dude doing such a thing?! ewwww!
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 20 (view)
 
How Late is TOO Late to Have Kids?
Posted: 7/27/2008 7:01:33 PM
after a certain age, it's just selfish tho, don't you think?? I mean 50?! c'mon, that means a young person would have to deal with a sick aged parent way before it's natural -- i think 40-45 is about as high as it should go... a lot of women look young on the outside, but the inner workings are still tick tick ticking away, can't stop nature I'm afraid
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 92 (view)
 
Odd Little Things The Opposite Sex Does You Find Sexy or Attracts You
Posted: 7/26/2008 10:23:44 PM
in no particular order....

* a guy who looks kinda mean to everyone else, but is all soft and fluffy with me
* a dude who gets dirty with his hands, can fix stuff, won't be deterred by anything
* a guy who will watch his language around me until he knows it's ok to say certain things
* a guy who looks like he'd rip someone's head off if they laid a hand on me
* a smart guy

c'mon I'm 22 already and haven't found this guy yet...sigh... i'm getting impatient! hehehehe
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 71 (view)
 
First time; And What Does/Did Virginity Mean To You.. Sex Before Marriage: A Must
Posted: 7/22/2008 3:21:29 PM
I always wondered - if 2 people are crazy hot in love with each other, do 'everything else' but the deed, are completely open and honest about what they like/don't like, can talk & communicate without embarrassment etc., and are dying to completely please their loved one in any way --- HOW can it go horribly wrong and be crappy? LOL makes no sense

it's one of those things on Person A and Person B can decide, together. Could be fantastic for them, disastrous for someone else. That's life.
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 152 (view)
 
Okay seriously, why don't girls reply when their profiles all say, Just send me a msg!
Posted: 7/20/2008 8:50:36 PM
I try to reply, but sometimes their profile is so vile I don't feel compelled to be nice! Other times, I just feel a smidgen bad because I don't want to say "wow I'm so not attracted to you in any way !" so you have to think of something nicer to say
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 169 (view)
 
Non-Religious Person dating a Jehovah's Witness
Posted: 7/20/2008 8:49:09 PM
If it became REALLY serious, as in you married him, would you be OK with your kids being raised in that faith??!?? I dated a guy who was so awesome, except after a discussion I discovered he didn't believe in evolution... or fossils... thought they were all laid down at the same time during the great flood. I couldn't get out of there fast enough LOL. It's fine if they want to practice whatever faith they want, but can you live with it?
 nicegirl4love
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 478 (view)
 
Why do guys always do this to me? Does anyone else have this problem?...
Posted: 7/13/2008 8:58:05 PM
hmmm if it was a one time thing, I'd call the guy a tool and be done with it -- but, your post says "why do guys ALWAYS do this to me" The only common denominator here is you, right? Maybe you're just picking the same type of guy over and over but expecting a different and better result -- probably won't happen.

Maybe next time try a totally different dude?! Can't be any worse than what's already happening, and who knows??? maybe he'll turn out to be amazing and dreamy!!! yay!!!
 
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