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Posted In Forum: All Forums Alabama Alaska Alberta Arizona Arkansas Art/Music Ask A Girl Ask A Guy Australia British Columbia Broken Hearts California Colorado Connecticut Dating & Love Advice Dating Experiences Dating Sites Delaware District Of Columbia Event Hosts forum Florida Georgia Hawaii Health & Fitness Humor Idaho Illinois Indiana Introductions Iowa Kansas Kentucky Louisiana Maine Manitoba Maryland Massachusetts Michigan Minnesota Mississippi Missouri Montana Nebraska Nevada New Brunswick New Hampshire New Jersey New Mexico New York Newfoundland News/Current Events North Carolina North Dakota Nova Scotia Off Topic Ohio Oklahoma Ontario Oregon Over 30 Over 45 Pennsylvania Plentyoffish Get Togethers Plentyoffish Site/Suggestions/Help Poems And Quotes Politics Prince Edward Island Profile Reviews Quebec Recipes & Cooking Relationships Religion/Supernatural Rhode Island Saskatchewan Science/Philosophy Sex and Dating Single Parents South Carolina South Dakota Sports Stories/creative writing Technology and computers Tennessee Testimonials Texas Uk Forums Utah Vermont Virginia Volunteer Moderators Only Washington West Virginia Wisconsin Wyoming Home   login   MyForums   Show ALL Forums      Author  Thread: Beware: eHarmony sucks...  bluemayfly Joined: 10/27/2007 Msg: 160 (view)   Beware: eHarmony sucks... Posted: 11/18/2007 7:33:54 PM Yup...had a similar experience. I will not ever go back on there.  bluemayfly Joined: 10/27/2007 Msg: 10 (view)   Questions w/no answers. How do I cope? Posted: 11/18/2007 7:29:02 PM You say you're in counseling. Stay there and work these issues out with your therapist. As for the money, either get a lawyer or research what it would take to get her into small claims court and sue for breach of contract. She owes you money and obviously is not going to pay it back if she can help it. Make it so she HAS to pay it back or face some kind of punishment. It's tough to be in this kind of situation. All I can say is sometimes you have to fight for what is yours. As for the woman, at the least she's totally insensitive, at worst she's got some major issues going on in her own life that you don't need to deal with.  bluemayfly Joined: 10/27/2007 Msg: 21 (view)   What the hell is wrong with this girl/guy. Posted: 11/18/2007 7:20:09 PM crayonzz, I think all the women on here were also telling Andrew to run as fast as he could away from this person and the situation. Most women have had something like this happen to us at one time or another so we are in complete sympathy with Andrew. No one wants to deal with a psycho, male or female.  bluemayfly Joined: 10/27/2007 Msg: 57 (view)   I usually date small, thin women, but I'm really attracted to YOU! Posted: 11/6/2007 3:26:46 PM Well, I've had the same thing said to me as well as the "I'm actually more attracted to much taller women" or "If you gained 20 pounds you'd be perfect" (when I was 90 pounds). I've also had a guy tell me that he was totally attracted by thin, small, nervous women, but that he liked the way I "felt". I wasn't sure if I should be insulted or complimented on that one. Oh, and yes, I'm very short, under 5 feet but definitely not thin nor am I the nervous type. I think men say things like that without thinking. If he's apologized and tried to make you feel better, let it go and just enjoy being with him.   Show ALL Forums