After reading your profile, I am flabbergasted that you are so completely irrational. Get a life, (you haven't had a relationship in years) - I suppose too much time trying to live up to your parents "intellect" with all of their degrees and imagined expectations for you.
It seems like you are responding to him this way from your friends and family "approval"of him. I wonder if you had met him completely away from friends & family and had no connections to them if you would have "fallen" in "love" like this ???

For a minute, boo, I thought you wrote "I just ask one of my girdles"...

So why would a never married guy be interested in a DIVORCED woman? she already PROVEN she can't maintain the realtionship she vowed to hold above all else. While trite, marriage is a word written on paper, committment is in the head, heart, and character of a person. Perhaps, he may believe "marriage" encompasses much more than a ceremony, honeymoon and divorce.

Are you for real? I think your off by about 20 years.

Who the hell would look into my "history" and what would it tell you? The woman in question, I met at ANOTHER dating site!

girl, that is right.. dont go to bed with men you like.. what do you think men.. dont like easyl. as well as some women..

I think it's possible when you're looking for someone
and you meet someone that you like, you get carried
away in the moment and the moment lasts as long as
as you can see them. Then you step away and the realization
of what happened hits you and you think maybe you
moved too fast and you realize that the attraction was
the attention and the affection that you've missed.
She's making you go away.
She'll keep doing this until one day she realizes another
10 years has passed and she'll wonder what the heck
happened.
I'm just guessing really. But I don't think you should
contact her, nor do I think you should respond to her.
The harshness with which she asks for space and asks you
to chill and the taking back of emotions that were freely
given suggests she's having second thoughts about you.
I'm sorry you were hurt.
You didn't give too much...you made the leap of faith
and she didn't catch you...it's pretty much that simple.

All of which is why God invented handguns.

Be aware of yourself with your unkempt look!!!

So young parents are peppier, but may be too occupied to BE good parents. . . . Perhaps they should rethink their priorities? Are they *really* good for their children? They're impatient, know very little about the needs of other human beings, and are very arrogant about what they *think* they know. Maybe there should be a law that NO ONE should have children before the age of 35. . . .

I'm thinking more along the line of what will come of their relationship.
how does someone go from procrastinating their whole life to rushing into things in their next. i can't see it working out in the long term and am just curious what others think in that regard. how about her snagging him to have a baby? she is 41.

You started the thread and wanted everyone to discuss your question. If you can't suffer what you don't like, you should keep quiet and don't try to get attention from everyone. What I mentioned is from your profile and your question. Did I ask "who pays" the question to lower myself? You don't know what is low. Under your condition with your idiot question, how are you able to ask everyone to say good things to you?

Promiscuity is animal behavior, which is quite lousy

Ignore and focus, Rickxyz..................

That equal rights, equal pay thing is all a farce. that is a bunch of liberals controlling things. It is simply ridiculously stupid.