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4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

Msg: 236 (view)

Do men really like submissive women? Posted: 6/5/2008 6:45:35 PM
I FOUND EXACTLY WUT I WAS LOOKIN FOR AND DIDNT EVEN KNOW AND STILL DONT HOW TO EXPLAIN IT lol HE IS DOM OF COURSE BUT NO WIPS OR CHAINS, jus knows how to tell me wut to do, make me do it and get me extremely turned on when doin it LOL, we are extremely open about wut the other wants sexually and the talkin about it makes it so much better, as far as the the relationship besides sex, we are pretty damn equal, i just needed a dom behind closed doors, and wuts so funny is, had i not posted this in march i wouldnt have ever met him so yes postin on this found me my fish LOL GOOOO CELTICS love to all carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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Squirting...can this be learned? Posted: 6/5/2008 6:35:05 PM
I LOST MY VIRGINITY AT 24 AND UP until about a week ago i never squirt EVER, the man i am with insisted it could be learned, i didnt believe him, i was SOOO WRONG, u can go online and look under female ejac, and it will show u, if doin it alone, u need 2 hands, LOL if with your man, let him read this ttyl carly GO CELTICS

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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For those of you who enjoy rough sex: Posted: 6/5/2008 6:32:13 PM
I CAN DEAL WITH VANILLA AS LONG AS IM GETTIN MY STEADY DOSE OF CHOCOLATE,HA HA CARLY

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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Is getting a Round 2 normal? Posted: 6/5/2008 6:30:36 PM
let him sleep but once u hop on him or ingage in sum oral hell go for round two, im gettin rounds 4 and 5 outta my man, you shouldnt settle for less, LMAO HOLLA CARLY

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

Msg: 43 (view)

back hair Posted: 6/5/2008 6:28:50 PM
honestly if i like a guy, i like his body, if the girl is really about you, she wouldnt comment on ur back hair, or be turned off by it, i have dated guys with both, i could care less, unless u look like bigfoot, i dont think its a big deal at all, your a man and men have hair, thanks carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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Do men really like submissive women? Posted: 5/25/2008 2:34:17 PM
im so glad i posted on this site, i found EXACTLY WUT I WAS LOOKIN FOR lol THATS WHY I HAVENT BEEN ON HERE IN A WHILE, i was wonderin what ever happened 2 my thread lol thank u everyone, i found wut i wanted, LOVE THIS GUY ha ha carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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Pay after sex Posted: 4/4/2008 9:17:25 PM
yes can u please tell us if shes a hottie and how much she was lookin to get from u? im glad u didnt pay her dirty azz though, thats horrible, she gives women on here a bad name and prolly ruins alot of girls chances of meetin a nice guy, women are a lil suspect of men on here as it is and this woman is why men treat us like hookers LOL ttyl carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

Msg: 107 (view)

Sex when the woman is having her period. Posted: 4/3/2008 7:34:04 AM
honestly i dont mind, but your kind of limited during that time of the month!!! i have been with men who insist on it, then with one other who was like jus suck me off LOL when u get excited it slows the flow down anyway ttyl carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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Unprotected sex and multiple partners Posted: 4/2/2008 1:13:37 PM
i like to discuss this before i sleep with a man....i have only been with 2 men without using any condom, and would only opt for goin raw in a serious relationship where both partners are in love and both agree that they are not seein anyone else....i have been tested many times. every 6 months to be exact...because i was sick and am always in the hospital i had access to these tests often. if a guy offered proof i would believe it...i think about stds alot thats why i am extremely careful.... ttyl carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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One for the girls.... Oral sex after intercourse Posted: 4/2/2008 1:08:41 PM
i find it sexy to taste myself off my bf....he actually knows how much i like it and purposely takes it out and asks me how i taste or tells me to taste it, which also is very hot....what kinda surprise are u talkin about???? ttyl carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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Ladies, do you actually feel when a guy comes? Posted: 4/2/2008 1:06:50 PM
once in a while u can feel the semen if its a fair ammount...but most of the time his penis gets extremely hard and throbs when he cums....thats how u can feel it.... ttyl carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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Why are the young people on here? Posted: 3/31/2008 2:57:34 PM
i think that dating online can be very useful for men and women of any age, the main reason being that u can talk to the potential dates before u meet them...when out and about u cant really sit down and have a long convo like u can on the computer, it gives u a chance to actually interview sum1 before wasting ur time and money datin many diff people that u may not be compatible with.......who cares who else uses this website....if u dont like seein alot of younger men in ur search u can narrow ur search by using that feature on the advanced search option.... good luck carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

Msg: 433 (view)

How many times a day can you handle havin sex??!!! Posted: 3/31/2008 2:52:28 PM
i was with my bf this weekend i spent the weekend at his place, we never got out of bed from friday night till sunday afternoon, even when we showered 2gether we started to have sex....i can handle it as many times as hes willing to give it to me..LOL but this particular guy has an unbelievable sex drive and keeps going and going and going..i actually needed to tap out once LOL but i love it and him LOL carly

4realgurl

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To the guys..... Posted: 3/31/2008 2:46:45 PM
there is NO WAY, i would share my man......i dont share, i dont care how much money it was.......money isnt everything, TRUE LOVE is..... ttyl carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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Selfish Lovers Posted: 3/26/2008 12:11:19 PM
Every man i have ever been with has been selfish in bed, i have yet to experience sumone who will pleasure me first and foremost.....i dated this one guy for a long time, who enjoyed receiving oral sex for at least an hour sometimes two hours before we would do the deed....he said that the head game was sooo good, i think it was an excuse for him to always be the one gettin off, it sucked carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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What Exactly Did He Mean? Posted: 3/26/2008 10:56:46 AM
IM SORRY TO TELL U THIS, BUT UR GONNA HAVE TO TELL HIM, THAT HE IS GAY, or bisexual, IF U PUT A BIG DIC IN UR MOUTH....AND UR A MAN....UR NOT EXACTLY STRAIGHT lol TTYL CARLY

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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Cute and no replies whats up???? Posted: 3/24/2008 4:29:24 PM
sugar, personaly i dont see anything wrong with ur profile, its jus alot of people on here are lookin to date, so its kinda hard, cuz u put man, they should have a category of people lookin for friends, u know???had i lived closer i woulda hung out with u, i love get mani pedis and stuff LOL good luck..... carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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Just tell me, should I get my coat? Posted: 3/24/2008 4:24:56 PM
mike u really have no idea whats wrong with ur profile??? LMAO u have to be kidding me carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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Watching Men Pee Posted: 3/24/2008 4:20:06 PM
i wouldnt say its a HUGE turn on, but id like to hold it as well LOL carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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Do men really like submissive women? Posted: 3/24/2008 9:23:10 AM
JASMINE, u hit the nail right on the head,,,,they say they can take control and do this and do that, but when it cums time, OH I DIDNT WANNA BE TOO ROUGH WITH U....are u freakin kiddin me??? you know what im dealing with them, well i met a guy who i think can handle me, well see how things go,,, ttyl carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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Bitch take this dick................. Posted: 3/23/2008 7:23:23 PM
tyspeaks, wut are u lookin to do to me in the bedroom bigmouth? LOL when u get back from grams can u hit me up? later carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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When to tell your partner about a fetish? Posted: 3/23/2008 1:59:24 PM
honestly, i tell a guy up front about my fetishes, im too old to be goin around waitin to see if a guy is gonna be able to handle me and my lil fetishes, why not be happy and tell them as soon as the topic cums up???? carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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Bitch take this dick................. Posted: 3/23/2008 1:55:55 PM
i personally like this type of dirty talk in bed....personaly if a man treats me like a princess outside the bedroom, i find it a turn on for him to toss me around and say whatever he wants to me in the bedroom, if the man loves me and i love him, who cares what gets us off, personally i couldnt stay with a man who couldnt talk dirty to me or toss me around once in a while......we all are turned on differently, now, if he called me those names in a non sexual situation, THIS WOULD BE A HUGE PROBLEM, and hed never get to say those things behind closed doors again LOL happy easter carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

Msg: 166 (view)

What is great sex Posted: 3/23/2008 1:47:21 PM
i have never had GREAT SEX.....but i have an idea of wut i would consider great sex....great sex to me, is feelin sooo comfortable with this person that anything goes, that there is a decent amount of foreplay and teasing, alot of dirty talkin, and of couse sum rough me up, sweaty fuc ing, but it would also have that mix of luv makin too..the perfect thing to top it off would be to have him lay there with me when we are done and jus talk and cuddle and get primed up to do it again, if i find a guy who can provide these things, HES A KEEPER lol but that would be my idea of great sex, eye contact is huge too , carly

4realgurl

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Does Your Date/G.F./Lover's Voice Make You Hot? Posted: 3/22/2008 7:29:48 PM
i actually started seein a guy i met on here recently, his voice and him are extremely sexy, i think it goes with his physical very well, HE KNOWS WHO HE IS lol but for me the voice isnt an instant attraction, it takes me a convo or two before i can judge the voice, u know alot of guys have a PHONE VOICE lol like women do so after a few convos ill decide LOL ttyl carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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spitting during sex Posted: 3/22/2008 7:01:52 PM
i actually like my partner to spit in my mouth while we are doin it, but it has to be animalistic sex, its taboo which makes it sexy, especially if the man loves to do it,,,,its not sick, its saliva its all over ur privates and whats the big deal, have any of u that knocked it ever tried it?? holla carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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For those of you who enjoy rough sex: Posted: 3/18/2008 7:57:20 AM
tulipa this is an interesting post, i dont mind the makin luv and vanilla sex, but if a guy cannot get rough with me and dominate me, i cant stay with him....i am not a cheater and i never will be, so i need to make sure i find sumone who will give me the good luvin that i require, rough sex is great but i do like to mix it up a bit as well as be made luv to...i believe the perfect balance in a relationship is a lil bit of vanilla and a lil bit of chocolate..... lol have a great day folks holla carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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Do men enjoy foreplay or do they really just want to go to home plate? Posted: 3/18/2008 4:03:15 AM
i think that foreplay is a very important part of intimacy for men and for women.....i know that i luv turning a guy on and teasing him to the point of insanity....i seem to notice the more i touch, tease, kiss and caress the harder his happy torpedo gets LOL i dont know about other women but i find that if a man cannot participate in foreplay, ALOT OF FOREPLAY, its a deal breaker for me....the more i get the wetter i get and the harder i cum, a man who isnt down with foreplay or an x of mine who didnt do that much at times, had a hard time gettin me to cum, the anticipation of the actually sex is the part that gets me goin, so the longer the foreplay the better the sex, WELL FOR ME ANYWAY..... holla carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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Way to a womans heart.. Posted: 3/17/2008 4:36:36 PM
the way to my heart, is to make me feel safe protected and like u cant keep ur hands off me....i luv my forehead and nose kissed too, he does that stuff, ILL KEEP HIM holla carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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Re: Do women like the taste of a mans semen? Posted: 3/17/2008 9:23:50 AM
well i have only done this with one man, and his wasnt bad at all, i dont mind swallowing, but to me its more personal than jus a casual dating thing...or sumone 1 just met, but when i know sumone and i know we are exclusive he can cum anywhere he wants and ill take it with a smile LOL carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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I caught a women I've been sleeping with inserting my used condom inside her Posted: 3/17/2008 9:11:15 AM
ok i dont know wut type of legal action u can take, but seriously if ur layin down with sumone u should know ANYTHING could happen, so u might get her preggers condom or not, u know...but in ur deffense thats a red flag, u need to run, i wouldnt worry bout her bein able to impregnate herself through your condom though LOL find a bootycall that uses mirena LOL carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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Foreplay.....rough or soft? Posted: 3/17/2008 9:06:41 AM
i like a combonation of the two, i have never been so sentsitive that it hurt that much though, but i like being sore the next day......i would just tell him, WHEN NOT IN THE MIDDLE OF SEX, that he needs to be a lil easier, tell him i luv it when u, lick or kiss my nipples really soft, hell get the hint.....but seriously, u should be able to tell ur partner anything, thats the problem these days, COMMUNICATION HOLLA carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not? Posted: 3/17/2008 9:02:37 AM
thats not rape, that sounds like the guy i been lookin for LOL carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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wut would u do if it was......... Posted: 3/14/2008 8:13:15 PM
lily wtf is ur prob idk wut ur deal is why dont u myob, 4real yo LMAO, no but seriously, me writing has nothing to do with it, he actually thinks the way i write 4real is cute, so thanks again but WRONG..... holla C

4realgurl

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Clean freaks leave it outside the bedroom door please ~ Posted: 3/14/2008 5:52:19 PM
listen i have no issues with with consecutive sack sessions with no showers, as long as we both showered before the first, i like the smell of u after i made u orgasm, i luv the sweet sweaty smell of my mans body while he lays next to me, and before mornin sex ill wake him up for middle of the night sex, LOL i dont care if i mess up my sheets with the guy im with, but when we go on vacation or to a hotel i rip off the blankets and ask for fresh ones LOL i have seen sum pretty nasty tv shows on that LOL holla carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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The one thing you miss most when you are single Posted: 3/14/2008 2:43:19 PM
i miss my forehead kissed everynight before i go to bed and every morning when i wake up, i like feelin protected and safe, the rest is trivial

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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for the ladies, do u mind havin to help him make u O Posted: 3/14/2008 12:09:36 PM
yeah duece im glad u answered me, it doesnt seem any1 else wants to LOL but thats for always havin my back where is manitoba anyway ha ha ha

4realgurl

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for the ladies, do u mind havin to help him make u O Posted: 3/14/2008 11:52:42 AM
i was wondering if any ladies had to help themselves along sumtimes durin intercourse? and if so do u mind? does ur partner mind? i was once with a man who couldnt always make me orgasm and would push my hand away when i tried to help him get me there..... id like to hear if anyone else has had these experiences ps i dont wanna hear find a new man that can get u off.....LOL i know this forum too well LOL carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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For women, oral sex from behind? Posted: 3/14/2008 11:46:36 AM
HONESTLY, i have never had really good oral sex....i have had it from behind and i liked it alot more than layin on my back sure, this way the guy can have ass play while hes lickin ur ****, plus his hands can be all over ur ass pullin him back into u.... oral sex isnt a MUST DO for me, i can live without it, maybe because i havent had any really good experiences with it, i would just rather be penitrated, NOW, had i met or been with someone who could really get me off doin oral id prob say otherwise, jus never had an orgasm gettin oral......... hopefully ill meet sumone who can lay it down lol carly

4realgurl

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wut would u do if it was......... Posted: 3/13/2008 6:40:23 PM
i wasnt lookin to seduce him......seduce is not what im lookin to do, i know how to seduce a man, im askin the men and women if a planned night the first time is corny, HOOKED ON PHONIX read lady......4 real

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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On swallowing Posted: 3/13/2008 5:29:24 PM
I HONESTLY ONLY SWALLOWED ONE GUYS CUM ON THE REG......when u have feelings for someone its actually a turn on...i enjoy swallowing when i am in a relationship with sumone i think its hot.............. so maybe thats why u feel it tastes better cuz u dont mind doin it with that person, otherwise i have heard they all taste diff and have diff textures, jus like female cum............. happy swallowing u should be happy ur with sumone whos cum u enjoy swallowing, id give my right arm to find that again...............LATER carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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he/she says i luv u...u never even met yet???whoa! [CLOSED] Posted: 3/13/2008 4:36:16 PM
id like everyone to be really honest here, have u ever told a guy that u were talkin to on the phone and online that u luved him/her before u even met?? or has this happened to u, a person u have been speakin with for a long time and u have deep convos with tells u they love u after a month or two of chattin online, through emails and phone? is it possible to love sum1 before u meet them? carly Thanks but we have several on the go already click here --> Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met? Learn to use the FORUM Thread Search Tool here DO NOT POST REDUNDANT THREADS Closed

4realgurl

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money inside her bra Posted: 3/13/2008 4:01:29 PM
I DONT KNOW IF ITS A TURN ON, but i always carry a wad of cash in my bra, this way i wont lose it and its easy to access i have been with a guy that would laugh if we started goin at it and i took it out and threw it on the night stand though, DONT THINK IT MATTERS EITHER WAY IN TURN ON OR OFFS SAKE.... carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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wut would u do if it was......... Posted: 3/13/2008 3:29:49 PM
apple, thanks for ur rude compliment, but anyway, if anyone looks like a drag queen its ur too much makeup wearin ass, DAMN LADY, did u ever hear of the clinique or sephora counter??? i mean where do u buy that shit a local mason, anyway, if ur gonna post off topic dont follow me please.... thanks and if u want a good makeover im sure mary kay will do it for free...... bye be otch..... carly ISNT IS ALSO FUNNY THE PEOPLE THAT NEVER STARTED A THREAD HAVE SOOO MUCH TO SAY ABOUT THE ONES THAT HAVE THE GUTS TO DO IT......nothin like puttin urself out there to be slammed on by sum old people, maybe we should start a site called PLENTY OF CLOSED MINDED MISERABLE GEEZERS.....applette buy the domain name and hook these haters up HOLLA CARLY

4realgurl

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For women, is Seeing or Feeling ejaculation more a turn on? Posted: 3/13/2008 11:41:09 AM
CUMON TY, u know ill have u anytime baby, call me @4:30 runnin to drs and target, kisses baby.... carly

4realgurl

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For women, is Seeing or Feeling ejaculation more a turn on? Posted: 3/13/2008 9:45:39 AM
honestly i like to see it, taste it and feel it, but all of my exes like to cum inside me or down my throat, i wish one would pull it out and spray it all of my tits JUST ONCE lol carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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wut would u do if it was......... Posted: 3/13/2008 8:13:41 AM
i would like to thank u for the information and for havin my back on the txt talk....i jus think when u type soooo much and when ur in a comfortable atmosphere why cant u use the lingo or jargin that u use when among friends, MY BAD, its not like i said, wtf idk wut ur talkin about why dont u stfu and myob....LOL carly

4realgurl

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wut would u do if it was......... Posted: 3/13/2008 5:42:46 AM
david, tell me more.....i do want honest feedback folks, BUT ON THIS TOPIC, not the way i txt, sorry i got so nasty but i hear this all the time. i hear it from my mother, the rest of my my family as well, im sorry but i do understand what u are saying.....but this is the only place i can feel like myself... carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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wut would u do if it was......... Posted: 3/12/2008 10:59:35 PM
Ontario and eazk get a room.....I can type however i feel like and your posts are off topic... carly

4realgurl

Joined: 10/31/2007

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wut would u do if it was......... Posted: 3/12/2008 5:50:07 PM
optimistic, wtf are u talkin about, i shortened the word deffinately so whatever, if u dont like my threads dont read them.....thanks for ur input, im sure to get laid with that useless dribble u just spued at me.......this is the internet, not english class, maybe u should find other people to pick on since ur so bored and judgemental. haha carly

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