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 Author Thread: Do you do drugs?
 casiopeea
Joined: 11/4/2007
Msg: 80 (view)
 
Do you do drugs?
Posted: 6/14/2008 9:22:59 AM
Someone said pot si not a drug (BS) :)))) Pot IS a drug!

That's why is ilegal (used only for medical purposes). A weed consumer and addict is lazzy, don't get things done, not responsible and carring person. THC (Tetrahydrocannabinol), the psychoactive ingredient in cannabis, is responsible for this "too relaxed" behaviour.

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 casiopeea
Joined: 11/4/2007
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Burlington~ Hammertown Patio Hoppers ~ June 17th - Queens Head Tavern - 400 Brant Street Burlington
Posted: 6/14/2008 8:29:04 AM
This event should state "Burlington" not "Hamilton".
The meeting location is in Burlington, right?
We want more guys!!!
 casiopeea
Joined: 11/4/2007
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Keys Please
Posted: 6/5/2008 6:21:16 AM
Type in google " Keys Please "
 casiopeea
Joined: 11/4/2007
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Give a ride from Burlington
Posted: 5/31/2008 11:03:25 AM
I'm planning to attend this event. I'll leave from Burlington around 7 pm. If anyone interested is welcome to come with me. Send me a message.
 casiopeea
Joined: 11/4/2007
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Women must ..
Posted: 12/2/2007 1:13:14 AM
List is open for additions. Sure, a woman must do the same with a single condition: to get the same. Just Karma rules: what you give you get return!
Now let's debate who's giving first? LOL
 casiopeea
Joined: 11/4/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Guys must ..
Posted: 11/29/2007 11:26:44 PM
Guys must....

1 -Touch her waist
2-Talk to her
3-Share secrets
4-Give her your jacket
5-Kiss her slowly
6-Hug her
7-Hold her
8-Laugh with her
9-Invite her somewhere
10-Let her be with you when you're with your friends
11-Smile with her
12-Take pictures with her
13-Pull her onto your lap
14-When she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back!
15-Always hug her when you see her
16. Take her for long walks at night
17-Kiss her unexpectedly
18-***HUG HER FROM BEHIND AROUND THE WAIST!!!***
19-Tell her she’s beautiful not sexy!
20-Tell her the way you feel about her and show her you mean it too!
21-Kiss her on the lips
22. When walking next to each other grab her hand
23-TELL HER WHAT FEELS GOOD
24-Buy her flowers with no reason
25-Buy her stuff. Small things can still help
26-DON'T LIE TO HER
27-DON'T CHEAT ON HER
28-Take her anywhere she wants
29-Txt message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day, and how much you miss her!!!!
30-be there for her when ever she needs you, and even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can always count on you
31. Hold her close when she's cold and she can hold you too
32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her
33. Kiss her on the tip of her nose; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss them)
34. While in the movie, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly
35. Don’t ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're mad. If she’s upset, comfort her
36. When people dissent her, stand up for her
37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her
38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart; link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you
39. When you hug her hold her in your arms as long as possible
40. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams
41. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears
42. Dedicate a song to her
43. Always remind her how much you love her; you never know when she needs just a little more love

Guys must open a new post about Women must....
I'm waiting for that daring guy to open the above suggested post !
 casiopeea
Joined: 11/4/2007
Msg: 125 (view)
 
What's your favorite Quote?
Posted: 11/22/2007 2:26:17 PM
Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage.
Lao Tzu

To fear love is to fear life, and those who fear life are already three parts dead.
Bertrand Russell

Be careful what you ask for, you might just get it.
 casiopeea
Joined: 11/4/2007
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Guys must ..
Posted: 11/22/2007 1:36:46 PM
rowdycowboy: I’d like to dismantle your rigid opinion, which I respect otherwise, but I relate myself more to Cathbhach’s post.

I’m not a fan of boring routines. So, I would say “Ask a man out on a date because it’s what a man want”, or… give him the power and control to do the first step. Come on, this doesn’t necessarily means that a woman will think about him in a romantically way. Asking someone out could be taken either as a curiosity only, sexual, friendly or yes, romantic invitation.

This
would you just like a free meal or drinks, on me?
, I find it very intriguing and offensive and really don’t want to get deeper in this subject, from personal reasons.

End line: a woman can make the first step, just like a man do, and the choice belongs to them. A walk in a park or on a beach, a pillows fight at Ikea, shoes try-on at Winners, visiting a motorbike shop or trying mattresses and getting a “sleep number” at a mattress store, doesn’t cost any money, it’s a lot of fun and allows both to communicate.

Investing in someone is a personal choice as well as how much. Is it worth or not? It’s always a risk, no matter how much do you know or not about that person.

We are waiting you to share with us you’re bunch of ways to find out if she’s into you or not.
 casiopeea
Joined: 11/4/2007
Msg: 60 (view)
 
What's your biggest turn on in the opposite sex?
Posted: 11/21/2007 3:00:02 AM
Trust and feeling safe. The way he looks at me placing me in centre of his attention. Lips chin, and when he's smiling with his eyes. A relaxed man with a confident posture and walk. His natural body scent.

Oh, the question was about the biggest turn on?
Well, gentle eyes kisses, face caressing and playing with my lips leave me speechless and make me melt. Breathing through his mouth makes me feel high.
 casiopeea
Joined: 11/4/2007
Msg: 345 (view)
 
Tattoos
Posted: 11/21/2007 1:06:49 AM
I'm not a tattoo friendly person :)
But... if I would ever change my mind, I would have a Phoenix Bird. That symbolizes me.
 casiopeea
Joined: 11/4/2007
Msg: 50 (view)
 
The best thing about the opposite sex
Posted: 11/21/2007 12:56:29 AM
His eyes and lips. Then I'm looking at the sides and back of his neck. I find this attractive. And hands. I always ask myself: would I like to be touched by those hands?
 casiopeea
Joined: 11/4/2007
Msg: 44 (view)
 
How MANY emails before you MEET in PERSON!
Posted: 11/21/2007 12:41:28 AM
In a first place if you give out your personal email to someone, it shows that you like him/her a little. You want to know him/her better. A few emails are ok (I would say get al least 3 replies), a chat is more advisable and I think the phone talk suppose to be with a reason: to set up a date to get to see his/her eyes, because eyes don’t lie.
Otherwise, in my opinion is just a waste of time. Or I just lack of patience? :)
 casiopeea
Joined: 11/4/2007
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Dating your parents...
Posted: 11/21/2007 12:23:46 AM
Parents suppose to be our models in life. Unfortunately this is not happening all the time. Family situations vary a lot. Some "dads" are not a good idea to follow, as well as some moms.

About "women will look for a men who reminds them of their father", is a Freudian psychoanalytic concept. Freud's "Oedipus complex" usually defines a wish-fulfillment in "modern psychology" of killing daddy so junior can have mommy; a sexual fantasy. This theory refers to a stage of psychosexual development where a child of either gender regards the parent of the same gender as an adversary, and competitor, for the exclusive love of the parent of the opposite gender.

In other words: Do you girls think of having sex with your daddy ?!

I definitely not am looking for my daddy type of man. I have my own preferences for a life partner directly related to my own needs fulfillment.
 casiopeea
Joined: 11/4/2007
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Teens and drugs
Posted: 11/20/2007 11:03:10 AM
Recently I met a great guy who keeps growing in my eyes from great at the rank of special. Everything is fine until here.

But…I have a huge heavy rock on my heart and that’s my daughter, a 19 year’s old teenager. She’s the only one in this point of my life I really care about and I love her unconditionally. Last summer she has been in a darkest, deepest, hopeless emotional hole trying to commit suicide (was the second time) because of drugs, especially E and she reached in the hospital with a serious psychosis. I’ve been with her and for her with my positive side of me, every second and she seemed to recover pretty well.

“Friends” took her from there at the date of discharge and I couldn’t find her some days. Finally I got in touch with her we had a talk when she said that she learned a lot from her mistakes, but she wants her own life living with her boyfriend (that’s the huge problem). She’s over 18 and I tried but I couldn’t do anything to enforce her to stay with me. She trusts me, loves me and she’s opening up only to me. I kept her over a close observation and guidance from then. Things went well until recently, when some old happy “friends” came back into her like. They’re doing coke and E and they seems always happy for those around them.

In the last time my daughter was happy, enthusiastic, starts to actually solve problems and became responsible about some things, but my concern is that she still didn’t give up struggling to change her boyfriend. From the moment they met, an year ago, instead she pull him up into a good, normal life, he drag her down into his misery, dirt, drugs, careless, sick world. Instead of growing together, they fall together.

We came from Europe 3 years ago, where thing are very different, we have only each other, here in Canada and I’ll be there for her no matter what. What happens for her, the choices she made, affected me a lot. I keep being her best friend and a reliable mother, giving her a lot of attention, understanding and help to show her the beauty of life and I’m a confident positive person. Now I reached to the point that I DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO AND HOW TO DEAL WITH ANYMORE.

Some days ago, since that happy couple of drug dealer friends get back in her life, she start to take coke again, and I just found out this yesterday when I cleaned a little bit her apartment. She’s still motivated doing things, but I could feel her mood changes, nonsense talking, non reason exuberance, paranoia signs, jumping suddenly from a subject to another. Yesterday she called me 5 times, after we spent the most of the day together, just to tell me she loves me so much. This was out of her usual behaviour. So I know, and I got the confirmation from her. She was high, she cried, got suddenly angry on herself and she said that how she feels is “just human”!!! I’m feeling overwhelmed by emotions and worry about her, but in the same time I’m trying to cope with the situation for myself. Things are worst then appear on a surface. This weekend she scratches her arm with a cutter trying to make sure that she’s alive and can feel pain! But she feels happy. I know very well the next step :(

I need opinions about 2 things:
1) If anybody experienced coke and E, personally or had someone doing it, I need some advices how I can help bringing her back into real life, making her stop doing drugs.
2) The guy I just met is very important to me, and I think the feeling is mutual. After 3 absolutely amazing dates, should I try to talk with him about this? I’m afraid not to scare him away because I like him a lot, but ultimately if I’m losing him I answered my question. I can’t lose something I don’t have or never had.

I would appreciate a lot any advice. I really don’t know what to do.
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