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clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 15 (view)

Afraid to fall.. n not be able to get up.. Posted: 11/2/2009 5:40:09 AM
ok now that all these guys patted you in the bumm and sent you on your way. here is the deal. he likes you. he wants you but for more then sex. now stop acting like a slut keep your pants on and act like the lady he is HOPING you are. LOL different words but same meaning.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

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Guys, what do you think about this...? Posted: 10/29/2009 7:14:57 PM
shy people are a turn on to me.... not a turn off. If I find her attractive... I'll hit on her. Depends on the anwser I got when I asked her out the first time. You shoot down all hopes, then you will never get asked again. But leaving a avenue for asking again.... I will.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

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His friend's jealous Posted: 10/29/2009 6:40:29 PM
What a stupid person to say this is a stupid rule. If I open a bottle, I pass the keys as well. This is very much awesome of them to realize drunk driving is a stupid move. As for him passing the keys, it was a excuse. If he did not drink... not need to pass the keys.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 15 (view)

Truck drivers Posted: 10/29/2009 6:32:48 PM
Thier checkin out your legs.From where they are sitting they can see right down into your car. This is about 95% accrute, I'm a truck driver. think of it like this ever 12 seconds we check out 4 to 8 mirrors, and looking out the door. If you are wearing short shorts or a bathing suit.... you are a free show. Seen this a lot out there, sometimes we see no bottoms. Sex while driving... geez.. the stories I could tell.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 175 (view)

Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 10/21/2009 7:43:52 PM
don't want her to get a headache... or she already has one.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 20 (view)

Whistling? REALLY? Posted: 10/21/2009 7:33:08 PM
Please wear a sign posted around your neck at all times. This sign must have in all cap letters "PSYCHO". He tried to get your attention,. Yet if it was a cat call, I knew it would have made your day you thinking some "thought" you were pretty. I get whistled at all the time, people trying to get my attention. I do not think it is rude, or degrading. You were just looking for something to over react about and this was the one to set you off. I would be as dumbfounded as him wondering "WTF is wrong with her!!"

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

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What do you think of a woman with a cane? Posted: 10/1/2009 1:25:18 PM
Nothing wrong with a cane. If someone is petty enough to not date you because you have a cane, Then you really do not need to be with that person. Some people are born with a birth defect or had a accident in some form that they need a cane... big deal. I would not worry about your defects and focus more on the good stuff. Just don't beat them with it... lol (long story).

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 17 (view)

Do men want a woman who has her opinions? Posted: 7/5/2008 1:36:03 AM
no matter what happens, you will change. so do not try to stay the same. opinionated wome are fine, just don't bite our heads off if we do not agree. hehe

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 22 (view)

I don't understand what happened please help!!! Posted: 7/5/2008 1:29:01 AM
he might not wanted to have children. thinks you trapped him. who knows?!?! who cares !!!! move on. Sorry it took this for you to realize he is not the person you were to be with. Take the other persons advice, sue for child support. He is a loser and not worth your time. I wish you the best of luck in you're future, hon you will need it. raising a baby alone is the hardest thing in the world. of all the things you should wish for your baby... just wish it will be healthy. xoxoxo

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

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Looks Fade So Why Not Look At Who A Person Really Is. Posted: 7/5/2008 1:20:30 AM
shygin33 is correct on this one. people are to shallow. they do base many things on looks. people on here will defend thier shallowness by saying attraction, compromising, etc etc. it is just being shallow and trying to sound half way smart about it. I'm not a judging type person (ok, the blood and death fetish thing, that still gets me.. old post), I do not judge from the exterior. I try to look beyound what I see, and normally I spot the shallow, worthless women just by looking at them face to face. it is like they have " b!tch or H0" stamped on thier forehead. Just remember blind people are not attracted to someone by looks. Doh. personality over all.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 62 (view)

If asking kills attraction... Posted: 6/1/2008 10:22:35 PM
if she is asking, she must have some interest in me. I would tell her if I did or did not. I think it is a turn on, less thinking the better. I think enough as is.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

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Do guys with tattoos insist on girls with tattoos? Posted: 6/1/2008 10:20:07 PM
No, I have a tattoo... and will soon have 2-3 more. I'm going to get my son's name on my right arm and daughters on my left... and my dad's on my chest. I date women with or without...... does not matter.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

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How do you get someone to like you for YOU? Posted: 6/1/2008 10:16:44 PM
You married, and wanting to meet someone.... hmmm. Lets switch this to "I want to be loved by someone else other than my HUSBAND!"

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

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What does fun mean??? Posted: 6/1/2008 10:07:46 PM
I am not from mars, I'm from the third rock... earth! The fun they are talking about could be many things. Sex, or just plain fun(I.E. parks, doing things they never done.. etc.) Psychology, or anyone else trying to understand the human brain are idoits trying to lure other idoits.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 67 (view)

How soon is too soon for a second date? Posted: 6/1/2008 10:04:36 PM
The same day is to soon for date 2!! but to be serious, you might be leaving yourself to open. Some guys like the thrill of the hunt. Pretty much tell the guy you had a nice time.... and let him control it from there... most guys like this route. I personally like women to be a little more out going, you want a second date... tell me when.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 31 (view)

Hey Guys And Gals...I Need Help With This...? Posted: 6/1/2008 9:57:12 PM
Get a background check. If you are going to date, especially internet dating, because this is serial dating, then invest in a $50 fee for background checks. This will tell you whether these people are single, own property, where they live. You can learn things about them, in order to expedite any "wasted time", such as the fact that they are seperated, or married. I get the feeling he may be married. Better check. Why spend $50 bucks on a background, you can find everything you need on the interweb!

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

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Why do they show up just when you are making progress? Posted: 6/1/2008 9:40:55 PM
And women say we do not remember special events... lol.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

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Ex's and mean texts Posted: 6/1/2008 9:39:18 PM
Just read, laugh and delete them... she is trying to weasel her way back in.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 30 (view)

Am I being a psycho ex? Posted: 6/1/2008 9:31:56 PM
I think he is being the crazy one. Never say call anytime or "his door is open" if he does not mean it. I think you need to cut all ties with the guy... sorry... he is making you out to be the bad guy here.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 36 (view)

False Teeth ........ Posted: 5/27/2008 7:12:27 AM
tell him about the bottom teeth. Most guys will try to do as you ask.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 74 (view)

Freaking out when a girl looks through your cell phone..? Posted: 5/27/2008 6:56:52 AM
as I have said, I have nothing to hide, and I like privacy. Why do I like "hiding it", I'm not. I just don't want to be accused of cheating, getting yelled at... or have to explain that courtney is a 36 year old 6'3" black guy, that was in my refreasher class. To have her call me a liar, and have her call and ask for courtney to find out it is a black guy. Or to have her call one of the females in my phone, only to find out it is a cousin or a friend at work to help me do my work. (I'm a truck driver, so alot of these places these people have been before)It would be easier for me to tell her to keep her snooping eyes out of my personal stuff. OP. Your friend should dump the guy, he would be better off without her insecurities. She has some major issues to work out before she can become a decent person. Behave like a slut...you'll be treated as one. Behave like an idiot...you'll be treated as one. Behave defensively...you'll insprire deception & suspicion One can only laugh at this statement. I seen virgins act like sluts.. why? attention! I seen people act like idiots, (many fields)one is a doctor.... there is normally genuis behind such behavior.. ever heard of patch adams... and not the movie.. the real doctor.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 11 (view)

Hey Guys And Gals...I Need Help With This...? Posted: 5/27/2008 6:46:32 AM
There could be a few reasons, after 1 day you got upset that he was not there when you called, heck less than a day. second thing Where does this guy live? if it is the east coast, there is a 4 hour differance. may not seem like much to you.... might be to him. Morning to you, could have been afternoon to him. Late night to you could be after midnight to him. As for this being posted at 9:09 pm a day later... well.. I can only smile. He sounds like me with my answering machine... lol. This is not me... so might want to see what is going on. if he still has not called, then I guess he was a user... sorry. If it was me, I normally delete my messages before I listen to them... 90% telemarketers anyway.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 70 (view)

Freaking out when a girl looks through your cell phone..? Posted: 5/27/2008 6:35:55 AM
I do not know why she would want to look threw his phone. I was always told... those that accuse normal are the one's cheating. You friend seeing someone else? she has to be to think he is.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 11 (view)

Dating and hiding a profile Posted: 5/27/2008 6:21:23 AM
Here is a strange thought you my not have thought of. Maybe he has some people that are FRIENDS!!! As strange as that may sound.... there is a small chance of 0.000001 of it happening. never let you insecurities destory something that can be. If you feel you must know... get about 6 of your girlfriends together, corner him, and demand the truth from him. I think that will scare him away!!! goo luck in becoming single

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 42 (view)

Dated a jerk and he's stuck in my head Posted: 5/27/2008 6:12:15 AM
It is not the guy you are thinking of, it is the infatuation. You boasted yourself up to what he said he wanted to be....... now you are wanting him to be it.... with you. Everyone has little quirks, even I will admit that much. You are dewelling on the quirks, because you did not see the quirks before. By oversea's if you mean iraq, consider this guy lucky, Some of those soldiers don't come back right in the head. They see or have seen some pretty bad stuff over there, and some can not handle it.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 40 (view)

Freaking out when a girl looks through your cell phone..? Posted: 5/23/2008 10:56:03 PM
Women are not allow to change thier mind unless they fill out a i97 in triplicate. they need at least 5 men to approve such a change.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 36 (view)

Freaking out when a girl looks through your cell phone..? Posted: 5/23/2008 8:35:12 PM
if a woman asked to see my phone, then she started going threw it, i would take it from her! if she got upset....oh well! if she said she will see what was in my phone or else, i will sit her down and let her go threw it. then when she finds out i have nothing to hide, i would kick her out! she has issues, and i hate drama!

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

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Freaking out when a girl looks through your cell phone..? Posted: 5/23/2008 10:36:14 AM
Maybe he would like some form of privacy. how would she like for him to look in her purse? anyone can look in my phone, but do not b!tch about jokes, pictures, or texts. i have some strange stuff in my phone.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 59 (view)

A girl, a plane ticket, and a coward. Posted: 5/18/2008 6:19:12 PM
Wow, this is what a lot of guys are looking for! a woman to show that she wants him. if it was me i would have drove to you to be with you. 330 bucks to find out what he is, money well spent. though the pain is not worth it.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 47 (view)

Woman won't give out number but asks for yours. Posted: 5/18/2008 6:01:59 PM
Acute is right, little does she know. with a phone number i can get a adress,from there i can get any info i want. even cell phones is not that safe. i can take a cell number and find anyone. i did it with niece who ran away not long ago.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 43 (view)

Woman won't give out number but asks for yours. Posted: 5/18/2008 5:28:26 PM
Hey acuteBlueeyes, i might have to use that later. if a woman does not give her number,she is being careful. if a guy does not, he is married! wow

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 23 (view)

Advice please Posted: 5/18/2008 5:13:37 PM
She is not ready, but if you wish to go after her...ok. when you do kiss her,cuddle, what ever, let her know you like it. do not be a doormat. do not be open to her 24/7, give her some space. do small things for her, like get her flowers and stuff. she will ask what you did? say i thought of you. let her move at her pace!

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 69 (view)

Offensive....or not? Posted: 5/17/2008 10:37:30 AM
I'm a large framed guy, Do I take offense to it... nope. if a woman called me ****er, I would simply say, yes, I am... I f@cked you... goodbye.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

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Okay, so my nephew lives with me and he's 10, he's asking about sex.. Posted: 5/16/2008 7:18:13 PM
This is something he should talk to his mother about. Unless he is in your care completely. Then you have a dirty job. Be honest with the kid. Just think, you have a chance to forge a man's option about sex in the future. If you are going to talk about sex with the boy, then you need to put your beliefs behind you and tell the boy like it is. tell him about the good and bad parts of sex, what can happen and he must do if it does. There are dangers of having sex and he should know it. Also stress to him, any man can be a father to a baby. It takes a real man to be a daddy. Do not completely freak the boy out like some people try and do. Just be honest. If he asks a question, talk to him like you would any other adult. Do not try to belittle him.... even though he is little.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 27 (view)

He says he chooses to be single Posted: 5/16/2008 7:11:30 PM
It means they have not found the one. They will date, and might sleep with many different women... but has not found one to hook them.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 51 (view)

Can a guy and girl be just friends Posted: 5/16/2008 7:09:31 PM
Can someone say done to death!!! Yes, men and women can be friends. Don't tell some of my female friends we can not be friends. This is not when harry met sally..... this is real life.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 39 (view)

Why the whistle? Posted: 5/16/2008 7:06:27 PM
I whistle a lot, not normally at a good looking woman... might be a car, bike, or maybe even a accident. Sometimes I whistle to whistle, oh yeah... that really gets people looking at me. If he is whistling at you.. or something about you. Then feel good, there is something that grabbed thier attention. being a hair and eye guy... I whistle at women very rarely.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 11 (view)

why do men talk about women or their women behind her back? Posted: 5/16/2008 6:53:53 PM
are you saying women do not do it? hahaha think again

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

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nothing but heartache Posted: 5/16/2008 2:04:16 PM
You have to pick yourself up EACH time. let no man (or woman) dampen your spirits. Yes you have to make yourself happy, but when the time is right someone else will give you that happiness. Thing is.... do not try to make it happen. When you try you will fail.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 67 (view)

Do you believe God sends signs? Posted: 5/16/2008 1:58:04 PM
Does god send signs, yes, as people we tend to ignore them. Thing is, do not get those signs confused. There is a story I heard one time. There was a flood and a man was trapped on a house. He prayed to god to save him. Shortly after a man in a row boat showed up. He said "he, climb in the boat!" the man replied "no thanks, god will save me." the man in the row boat left. about a hour late he prayed to god again. Then along came a man in a speed boat. He said" climb in" the man on the roof replied "no thanks, god will save me." the house was almost covered in water by this time. a rescue chopper came, and told the man to get on board, the man said again "god will save me." The chopper left and the man drowned. He went to heaven and asked god "why didn't you save me?" god said " I sent a row boat, a speed boat and a helicopter for you, why come you did not get on one?"

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

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nothing but heartache Posted: 5/16/2008 1:50:24 PM
Not trying to be mean to you, but to speak my mind.... I will have to be. Why are you letting these people get you down? They are not doing anything to you, you are not letting them do. If they say something to/about you, let it roll off your back. No one should get you down. You are a attractive and smart (seems like it) woman. So when these people try to cut you down, hold your head high and ignore them. There are guys out there that would die to be with you. Finding them though this chaos is hard, but I have faith in you. much love hon

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 141 (view)

Is It Wrong for a Latina Women To Have A Preferance For Only White Men? Posted: 5/16/2008 1:33:37 PM
You like what you like. Does not make it wrong or right. I perfer white girls (I'm native american and half german.), but I dated many different races. never sweat the small stuff.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

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smooth moves Posted: 5/16/2008 1:32:14 PM
I have yet to put the moves on a woman. but why would I use the same thing on different women. If I was going to do that.... I would perfect my game and change it up.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 31 (view)

Always called a freak Posted: 5/16/2008 1:04:42 PM
I read nothing in your profile that states freak. You like tats and piercings... oh well. Nothing wrong with that. at least you do not have a blood and death fetish!

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

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I quit Posted: 5/15/2008 3:05:15 PM
I have almost given up on this site, but i have met some good friends on here. i have met some strange ones, some i love to take home to mommy. there are alot of people out there only for pleasure. these guys may want only, they will not get it unless you drop your panties. you need to tell these guys they have no chance of getting in your panties, and stick to it!

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 38 (view)

can a relationship be successful when there is nothing in common between them? Posted: 5/14/2008 10:01:13 AM
I think you are not living in a fantasy world, ask the easter bunny next to you! seriously, people who like the same things do not go far. what you need to do is find something to share.then you can have your way and do couple stuff.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 213 (view)

How can men stop having feelings so quickly? Posted: 5/14/2008 9:27:57 AM
The same thing could be said about women. men do not lose feelings overnight, it takes time for it to happen. he could have been lieing about loving you, or loves you still but does not want to be with you.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 212 (view)

How can men stop having feelings so quickly? Posted: 5/14/2008 9:27:12 AM
The same thing could be said about women. men do not lose feelings overnight, it takes time for it to happen. he could have been lieing about loving you, or loves you still but does not want to be with you.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 129 (view)

do men in their 20's and 30's prefer 17 year old girls better than older women? Posted: 3/10/2008 6:27:40 PM
Well, only reason I can think they want younger woman..... if younger woman are less rabid. Older women ten to be more set into thier ways and normaly want what they want... right then. I think it is a turn on to have a woman like this. Is why I dated older women.

clorin

Joined: 11/4/2007

Msg: 12 (view)

Panties -little shorts, or thongs, visable or not? Posted: 3/10/2008 6:06:33 PM
Not all guys are into thongs, like all women do not like thier guys commando. IT is a hit and miss type thing. Personally I do not like thongs, but I hate grandma panties. Something inbetween works great,

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