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 Author Thread: Cooking Shows
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Cooking Shows
Posted: 12/1/2007 6:28:46 PM
I like Rachael Ray's 30 minute meals, being a single parent of two, I don't have alot of extra time to get dinner together.
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Confused-Am i brave enough to make the first move.
Posted: 12/1/2007 6:08:35 PM
I had noticed a while ago that I was on a mans favorites list, but he had never messaged me, so I messaged him and said " hey I noticed I am on your favorites list, but no message yet?" Sure enough the next day I had a message from him and we have been chatting ever since. So yeah go ahead and send a message, You never know what will happen. As far as me sending the first message nooooo way lol....that is why I have "waiting for Mr. Right to contact me" on my profile lol
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 26 (view)
 
saying i love you too soon
Posted: 12/1/2007 5:41:15 PM
I am not sure how long my ex and I had been dating at the time, but I got up the courage to say "I love you" one day. Well he didn't respond so I was afraid that I scared him away. Later that night when I we went out for dinner I asked him If I scared him away, He laughed and said "no, you know how I always give you those three quick kisses?" " That's my way of saying I love you." I can't beleive that a guy had technically said it first. My question is: Ladies how many times have you had a guy say it first? Men: How many of you have said it first?
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 169 (view)
 
Abused Men
Posted: 12/1/2007 5:24:08 PM
I have to honestly say Yes to this question. I am not very proud of myself looking back now, but I have been abusive towards an ex of mine. In my oppinion my reasoning was because I had just came out of an abusive relationship, but I was the one getting verbaly abused and controlled. This guy was different/ weaker. Once I learned that I could be the controller and I wasn't going to get hit, this made me feel Stronger. I will never be abusive towards another human again. Again I just came out of a more abusive/controlling relationship11 years later where I was the one getting abused and It sucked! I think that relationships should be 50/50.....not controlling, not possesive/ and deffinatly no jealousy.
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 69 (view)
 
Toupee, comb over or once it's gone Buzz it!
Posted: 12/1/2007 8:23:01 AM
MMM buzz it!! Nothing turns me on more then a completely bald head!!
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 1110 (view)
 
kissing after oral sex
Posted: 11/30/2007 4:33:13 PM
I totally agree with message 11. Why would you make your partner taste somehthing that you won't?
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 40 (view)
 
Long nails
Posted: 11/30/2007 4:20:41 PM
Ta heck with the nails, I like using my teeth!! lol
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 79 (view)
 
Is literacy and the ability to write properly a TURN ON?
Posted: 11/28/2007 7:16:06 PM
My biggest turn off of all....sum 1 who constantly points out others mistakes
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Peanut Butter Fudge
Posted: 11/28/2007 6:11:33 PM
Have you tried/seen the one with sour cream? My sister made it today, it is very good. it is similar to this one, but with sourcream.
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Something more than sauteed mushrooms
Posted: 11/28/2007 6:09:21 PM
whatever you do....in my oppinion don't ever have them with worchestire sauce....oh that is not a very good tasting thing lol
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 257 (view)
 
What makes her become such a B!TCH!!!!!!!!
Posted: 11/28/2007 5:49:42 PM
Sorry that you had to deal with this woman and how much of a B!tch she was....how terrible. I mean Us woman never have to deal with a man being an A$$hole just because we said something wrong or did something wrong...perhaps his dinner wasn't hot and on the table when he got home....no a man never changes his attitude "over something totally out of the womans controll" right?
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 32 (view)
 
My GF doesn't accept my son
Posted: 11/28/2007 5:37:50 PM
Perhaps she is jealous that her son didn't quite turn out as good as yours....or as you say "her son can sit by himself and play for hours" she is not used to having to give a kid that much attention.
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 44 (view)
 
Why do women go to the restroom in groups?
Posted: 11/28/2007 5:18:52 PM
Hell, If you really want to know.....dress up like a woman and come in with us, I won't tell lol
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Would you ever get your partners name tattooed on you?
Posted: 11/27/2007 3:10:03 PM
Maybe if I could say they stood for some other reason.....Like my ex has mine on his hand and he now tells people it stands for Love me naturally....
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 367 (view)
 
Why do some guys that look too handsome to be real go for average are ugly women?
Posted: 11/23/2007 3:04:38 PM
probably the same reason why ugly men have pretty woman........


come on is society that IGNORANT?
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 209 (view)
 
Have you had to BURY one of your kids?
Posted: 11/22/2007 4:08:42 AM
Let me start by saying I am very sorry for your loss.
How do you deal with it being the mother that made this happen? I personally would not be able to cope with out wanting to kill her. As a single mother dealing with my 4 year old daughter telling me atleast once a week what my ex did to her and the sexual abuse is enough to make me want to rip his throat out. I don't want to preach religion here as Everyone has there own beleifs, but I beleive in the innocents of a child and I beleive that your child is in heaven being taken care of. As far as us having to cope with our loses it is the hardest thing to deal with. I think with situations like this we blame ourselves as to what has happend to our kids, I find myself say "If only I had known that there was a danger in leaving him alone with my child, I could have prevented it" , but you trust the person so much and they are the other parent that is supposed to love them as much as you do. I can't imagine losing my daughter and I really feel for you. I wish you the best.
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Feelings and chance encounters
Posted: 11/19/2007 12:10:58 PM
I say let fate take you there. If it is something that is meant to be, then someday you will run into her again and I am sure you will know exactly what to say.....Just let your heart lead the way.
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 278 (view)
 
What *IS* off limits in the bedroom for you??
Posted: 11/18/2007 4:47:40 PM
Another girls name

pretty much all that everyone else said.....

and oh yeah, please don't call me a wh**e and a S**t or mommy.....what a big turn off!
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 344 (view)
 
she got pregnant!
Posted: 11/18/2007 3:31:42 PM
I would deffinatly keep it, it is my body it is my choice......If he didn't want a kid he should have been a little more resposible
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Unhealthy obsession with oral sex?
Posted: 11/18/2007 3:16:04 PM
And without going down on her? Are you able to finish then? And y the hell do men find it necessary to stay there after a woman is done?

I would say try some different technics....like switching back and forth....I personally like that better and beleive me so does the guy.
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 114 (view)
 
whats the farthest you have traveled to get laid?
Posted: 11/18/2007 3:01:42 PM
um.....I traveled 1200 miles from VT to TN to be with a guy, not necessarily for just a piece. I stayed for 2 months. It didn't work either way you look at it.
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 56 (view)
 
What name do you call it?
Posted: 11/18/2007 2:55:29 PM
I call mine "kitty" I love some of these names how cute
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 18 (view)
 
The need for Viagra or other stimulants to Make Love
Posted: 11/18/2007 2:44:47 PM
I wouldn't ask. It wouldn't matter to me because a great deal of men that need viagra truely need it medically. My ex took viagra because he had blockage in his legs due to clogged arteries. I understand that he kept this from you, but maybe he is imbarassed by it. I think viagra is a wonderful thing and if not for viagra I wouldn't have my baby.

Good luck in your decision
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 26 (view)
 
He can't make me 'come'
Posted: 11/18/2007 2:34:40 PM
not even oral? However I don't think it is reason enough to leave. I have only had an oragasm 2 times in my life from penetration.....Try the clit, it works!
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Finding someone who can't be found for child support/custody
Posted: 11/18/2007 1:24:23 PM
zabasearch.com....the initial search is free
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Single older dad
Posted: 11/18/2007 1:21:36 PM
Why in the world do people have to point out your faults instead of just giving advice on the question that was asked....If some one is not happy with the way another person spells, puts commas in, or the persons grammar, damn just get on with answering the question if you choose no need to point that s**t out. If that is what you are comfortable with doing and you feel you need to do it, then go find a post that asks "how is my grammar"
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Why have your child call your new boyfriend or girlfriend mommy or daddy?
Posted: 11/18/2007 11:56:24 AM
poisonmekare.....I totally agree with that also.....my dad has been with this woman on and off for 7 years and I still will not refer to her as "nana" when i am talking to my kids.
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 35 (view)
 
A question about mushrooms
Posted: 11/18/2007 11:52:57 AM
Wind dancer---350
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Please do a review
Posted: 11/18/2007 11:44:47 AM
I agree with the previous ......Having that in there is only gonna attract men that probably aren't worth your time.
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Please review my profile
Posted: 11/18/2007 11:41:25 AM
Looks ok to me. Looks like you pretty much said everything you need to.
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 191 (view)
 
men don't listen
Posted: 11/18/2007 11:37:39 AM
Can I marry you?!?!? You are so right!!!

Now why would you want to do that? He is starting to figure us women out. He has got the first step down, but what if he learns the rest? Gotta keep them guessing! lmao
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 87 (view)
 
Have you ever clicked on a profile, only to find....
Posted: 11/18/2007 11:32:42 AM
I know my ex is on here...he's the one who told me about POF.

Too funny that is how I got here too. lol
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 84 (view)
 
Things that touch your heart.
Posted: 11/18/2007 11:20:03 AM
I would have to say my 2 girls.

My 9 month old for the first time grabbed my face to kiss me instead of the opposite.

My 4 year old stating "mommy i told you not to take your socks off, now your feet are cold"
they melt my heart everyday.
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 75 (view)
 
What are your views on big age gaps between couples.....do you think there is an acceptable limit. I
Posted: 11/18/2007 10:57:52 AM
It all depends on the maturity level.
My baby's father is 22 years older then me and hell I am alot more mature then he is.

As long as the male/female is old enough to make that decision and it is not against there will.....I say it depends on maturity.
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 231 (view)
 
Question: IS THERE ANY SUCH THING AS AN HONEST WOMAN?
Posted: 11/18/2007 10:52:12 AM
Is there anyone out there that is 100% honest? I have never met some one that was.
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 201 (view)
 
do teeth matter?
Posted: 11/18/2007 5:18:16 AM
Lmao this question came into my head last night lol

ok folks....so what if they have false teeth? 99% of the time doesn't that mean that they had rotting teeth at one point?
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Bartending 101
Posted: 11/17/2007 7:29:35 PM
an awesome mixed drink........antifreeze

orange juice
vodka
blue karaco
creme banana

people will look at you like you are strange, but it is the best tasting stuff ever, the name is antifreeze because that's what it looks like
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Friendship Cake
Posted: 11/17/2007 7:17:14 PM
There is also one that you can add a box of pudding to, anyone know it?
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 13 (view)
 
PUDDING SHOTS
Posted: 11/17/2007 7:11:42 PM
I have heard of jello shots, but not these...thank you
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 32 (view)
 
A question about mushrooms
Posted: 11/17/2007 7:02:58 PM
There is a recipe that is stuffed beefsteak tomatoes,

you slice the tomatoes in half,

saute mushrooms, celery, and onions

clean the inside of the tomatoe out

stuff with the mushroom mix then sprinkle with parmasean cheese and back for 20-30 minutes!
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 28 (view)
 
What side dishes do you serve at Thanksgiving Dinner that have become a family tradition
Posted: 11/17/2007 6:58:45 PM
Want some more really good ideas? go to foodnetwork.com ......really awesome recipes!
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
How to accept a woman's past...
Posted: 11/17/2007 6:44:06 PM
triple digit #'s of how many guys they have slept with? u have a right to be worried . But honestly if you are that worried, just have a girl get tested first, or wrap it well.
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 186 (view)
 
Well I just moved in with a single mother and kinda have a few questions
Posted: 11/17/2007 5:46:51 PM
I'm not sure what state you live in, But here in the state of Vermont you would have to be married in order for you to adopt her kids. In my oppinion she is looking for some one to take over the father roll in the kids life. It doesn't sound like their father is very good at it. I would have to agree with other people and say runnnnnn.
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 5 (view)
 
I had no idea
Posted: 11/17/2007 5:03:31 PM
Sorry I don't have a success story for you, but I just wanted to say good for you for looking at the success stories rather then the broken hearted. It seems like it helped you out a little and to regain some of your confidence back.
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 26 (view)
 
How Many Seek Love Over Sex?
Posted: 11/17/2007 4:59:50 PM
Oh My this is even a harder question.......I would personally have to say sex. Sex to me is Making Love.
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Why have your child call your new boyfriend or girlfriend mommy or daddy?
Posted: 11/17/2007 4:51:13 PM
I just don't get this and I don't know if it is just me that has seen it, but it kind of makes me sad.

Why do people in a new relationship let their child call the new boyfriend or girlfriend mommy or daddy?

Ok I can see If you have been together for 10 years and the childs other parent has no role in their life at all.

I have seen this happen just after a few months of the two being together, but why? In my oppinion the man or woman in the relationship maybe wish that the new "partner" was the kids daddy or mommy, but why go and mess with the childs head?

What is your thoughts? Not sure if there has been a post on this sorry if there has.
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 49 (view)
 
single dads (not many of us i know)
Posted: 11/17/2007 4:43:08 PM
I think that it is 100% acceptable for a man to have custody. It seems to me that the courts are starting to come around on this subject and seeing that there are just as many dads that are capable of taking care of their kids then the moms. Even more so I think that it is awesome that more dads are stepping up and fighting the issue. Good luck to you and all the single dads that read this. Don't let society bring you down.
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 181 (view)
 
Why Do Women Care when a Man dates a Younger Woman.
Posted: 11/17/2007 4:25:22 PM
I can't say much on this topic, I have been a hypocrit about it.......I dated a guy ALOT older then me, but yet if I see an older man with a young woman I either think "she's a gold digger" or " boy he's robbing the craddle" ......I guess I am just a very confused woman lol Maybe it's different to actually see it with our own eyes, but are blinded by Love if it's us...who knows
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 19 (view)
 
How Many Seek Love Over Sex?
Posted: 11/17/2007 4:03:11 PM
Gotta have both.......but if I had to choose I would say Love....I think Adam and Eve had hands before they met right?
 leannemarville
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Trusting another after being abused
Posted: 11/17/2007 3:46:55 PM
Thank you all so very much.

I have noticed one thing about my whole situation......atleast I have gotten over "The fear of being alone" and as for me not loving some one that i can live with, but instead finding and loving some one that I can't live without......no matter how long it takes to find them.

Thanks again
 
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