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goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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Best time of day or night for sex Posted: 5/12/2009 12:17:08 PM
I guess it really depends on my partner. With my current (and hopefully never ending) b/f i love it just before we go to sleep. I also love to "tuck him in" when i am not really up for sex. but it would be nice to get it before work from time to time.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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Is this fair? Happened to a close friend of mine Posted: 5/1/2009 10:20:34 AM
hmm. ok lets just kinda throw this senario out there from another prospective. You ar dating a woman for a couple weeks or months, the two of you have not had sex yet and she brings up the topic. In this descussion you find out that not so far in her past she would make it a spexific point to sleep with at least 200 men per week. Would you want that woman arround your infant? I mean you have no idea what this woman does or does not have. She may be attractive and intellagent and for all general perposes, be a great woman. However she has this "past", what would you think? Now that being thrown out there, do you not think that by "alex" frequently using a prostitute he is in a sence doing the same as the woman mentioned above. I mean i seriously doubt that the prostitue he sees (assuming he goes to the same one) ONLY has sex with him for money i mean thats how she earns a living. She may only have certain clients she sees but how many other prostitutes do those men see. that is the concern that the mom in your post has.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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Wow are you serious Posted: 5/1/2009 9:38:31 AM
ok i find you extremely offensive, not be cause i have any kind of std (i get tested often and have never shown positive for anything) but becaue i know a lot of people, men and women who have one std or another or several. This is not due to them being whores as you call them but because they trusted their partner and had unprotected sex with that one partner who was not an honest person. Also part of the reason America is in th esituation we are in is because we try to take care of the little countries and send "aid" to them. Granted our people have made mistakes, i will give you that, however that is not the entire reason our country is having problems. You are apompas wind bag who has nothing better to do than blow a bunch of hot air.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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If it was your friend or girlfriend....How do you help??? Posted: 4/30/2009 9:12:14 AM
well coming form a woman who has been there, a long time ago. I can say this, she has to hit bottom and know she has hit it. I started drinking at a very early age know that it has affected my critical thinking adn will for the rest of my life. I drank because i felt like htere wasn't a single person who cared. I drank because i hurt, and wanted to just not feel it. In my family you just didn't cry about pain the only emotion i ever really showed was anger. One day (i will leave out my age, too young though) i went to a party at my boyfriends house woke up the next morning in his clothes and to this day i have no clue weather or not we had sex. That was the day i descided that was enough i had to quit. When i quit i realized jus thow many people cared about it. The best thing you can do it just let her know you care and youa re there for her and she can talk to you with out being judged. You have to mean it though and let her know constantly, she may get annoyed by it but eventually it will get through the alcohol and some day she will take you up on it. it's a tough situation, i had a friend like you at that time in mmy life but at our ages she had no idea how to help or what to do. I am glad you are there likd that for your friend.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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Black Women and Sex Posted: 4/29/2009 2:18:01 PM
hey i know this may seem slightlly off topic but here goes. there are a lot of cultureal differences between every group of people. That is exactly why people exist in different parts of the world. I learned alot about this kind of thign from being in job corps (if you fit the age range go you will learn soooo much about way more than a skilled job.) there were so many differences in every single person there, it was like we all had our own culture. I loved it. I met a man there who was from a small country in africa (fofrget the exact place) but he had scars on his face from a cultural ritual that marked the "passage to manhood" he explained the whole process to me and it sounded soo painful but he made it into manhood. After we talked about our different cultures we agreed that if we were not where we were we would be very interested in dating (st job corps interratial dating is a HUGE no no some one would have got hurt). The reason was not because of our difference in race or culture though it was the fact that we got to know each other and really liked each other. However i figured out at that point that it was the whole "are they really that different from us thing" Hope that kinda adds to the answers to your question

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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Life's Thought's Posted: 4/24/2009 1:42:27 PM
what doesn't kill you will make you stronger ...... or weaken you beond belife

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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the cup Posted: 4/17/2009 2:09:07 PM
Just had to comment ont he whole not firtle during menstration. NOT true infact i have had several ob/gyn's tell me that you are more likely to ge tpregnant during you cycle due to the fact that your body is removing all unused eggs from the uterus. This process does not always remove all eggs from the uteus. My ob in san antonio said htat a at least 80% of his patients thought the same thing.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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the cup Posted: 4/17/2009 1:41:44 PM
Ok i gotta ask. what is this product? I have never heard of this before now, my idea of a cup is the plastic peice men use during sports to protect thier "equipment".

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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Pet peeve that ruined the outing Posted: 4/17/2009 8:12:54 AM
Oh i forgot to write my pet peeve. I cannot stand it when a man is constantly talking about hte size of his package and making inapropriate gestrures on a first date. I mean if we happen to hit it off and it ends up with us having sex on a first date (which rarely happens with me) thats one thing. I just can't stand it when he feels the need to talk about it constantly. And yes this is a deal breaker!!!

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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Pet peeve that ruined the outing Posted: 4/17/2009 7:51:00 AM
seaga, Yes a lot of servers a ta restraunt are dependant on thier tips for income. I used to work for Denny's yes i made and hourly wage but it was only 2.15/hour it was up to me to make the rest of my income. Unfortunately i worked grave yard shift and refused to put myself on the menue therefore i only brought home at max $95 per week. I got tired fo the poor tips and quit. My point is that yes a lot of servers do depend on tips for thier money. I will probly send you an e-mail telling you this as well just in case you don't see this post in the forums.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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Describe your first time Posted: 4/16/2009 1:02:51 PM
Ok here it goes. I was 16 he was 15, it was our "3 year aniversary" LOL. We were babysitting his sisters kids (she was 10 years older) and watching the cartoon version of robin hood. U know the one where robin hood is a fox. Well anyway we put the kids in bed and started making out. The funny thing is i remember what we were both wearing. It was kinda awkward, cause we really didn't have a clue what we were doing. we used 4 condoms and finally desided since i was on the pill (i had an ovarian cyst) we would just forget the condoms. Almost got caught by his sister. Who later said she figured we would have sex anyway so she made sure we knew where she kept her condoms. OH the memories. We were together another year and a half after that.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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3 words you don't want to hear during sex Posted: 4/16/2009 12:18:14 PM
(kids screams) STOP HURTING MOMMY (while smacking daddy in head with plastic golf club)

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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Best Sex Positions Posted: 4/16/2009 8:58:19 AM
hmm i always thought that it was great with him behind her standing position her slightly leaning forward. but then again i could be wrong. also her on her back on side of bed him standing her legs over his shoulders, in this position if he wants it deeper he can simply lean forward or what ever they both like from there.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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What Does my ex want with me? Posted: 4/16/2009 7:24:35 AM
As far as i can see all he wants is sex. I suggest that unless you want to be his booty call you not only delete his number but block his number from calling you. But like others have said it is you descition. I understand your feelings for him but you need to do what is best for you.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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This cant be normal- right? Posted: 4/14/2009 7:32:15 AM
I agree with most of the posters on here. YOU NEED TO LEAVE!! I suggest that even though it will be kind of a pain, you change your number on you cell phone so he can't call you. Do you have the numbers to the other band members? If so i would let them knwo that you have to get away fromt his man and even though you don't want to punish them you have to leave the band, unless they are willing to help you get this guy out of the band. You need to understand why you stayed for soo long in this abusive relationship. There is somthing inside you that said stay. Was it because you thought maybe if you stayed long enough he would get better, or did you think i can help him get better? Either way you need to find out because if you don't you will only go back, maybe not to him but to some one just like him. You are worth more than that! Get out there and find some healing and inner strength and worth, and find a better relationship.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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Next time you think you're having a bad day Posted: 4/10/2009 11:53:56 AM
^^^^^ oh my gosh!! I bet that made for intresting conversation.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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50 fun things to do at walmart Posted: 4/10/2009 11:44:19 AM
night501 that was hillarious. I laughed sooo hard. Thanks i needed a good laugh.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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how many is to many Posted: 4/8/2009 11:49:06 AM
Amazingly this is a question i have only been asked once. I broke off the whole thing with him shortly after due to him being insecure about after i had told him (which at that time was only like 4 guys). My current b/f never asked how many, but he did ask how recent because we really didn't KNOW each other when we first had sex (kinda bad but we had sex the first night we met). I also asked him when the last time was for him. I had had sex more recently than him and he was ok with that. I was very honest about it and who it was (the relationship i had with that man). I think i would have been rather annoyed had he asked how many men i had been with, because i don't see why that would matter, and really i don't see how it would matter if i used acondom with every one of them because i have proven that i have no diseases of any kind.So op could you answer your own question.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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Breaking the secret man code shhhh! Posted: 4/8/2009 7:53:48 AM
Nebula, honestly why ar eyou even on pof i mean obviously you don't want a woman. If you do then you need to do some soul searching and find out how you can over come your fear of woman. I have never seen you post one good comment about women in general. You are a bitter person adn you need to get over the hurt that you have been carrying arround in you.EVERYONE has been hurt at least twice in thier life, most more than that. Most people deal with it and move on. The only thing you are attracting is unhappy discontented women, this is the type of woman who will lie cheat and hurt you because they will always be wondering if they "settled" to be with you and if there is anything better out therel. GET OVER IT ALREADY!!!!!

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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Second chances Posted: 4/7/2009 10:46:43 AM
well it may be because they truly feel differently than you, or possibly they have stronger feelings for youthan you do for them. I was with a man for a while and when i told him it was over he begged me for another chance, I kept telling him that it would not work because i didn't trust him any longer (i found out he had been seeing at least 2 other women). He kept telling me he was deeply in love with me and that he knows he can be a better man for me and all that crap. He had always had stronger feelings for me than i did him and i made that clear to him from the very begining. (you know putting that on here, i'm kinda thinking maybe thats y he cheated, he knew i didn't feel the same as him so y should he not cheat. hmmm now thats food for thought).And yes i did give him several examples as to y it would not work.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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How can I talk to her Posted: 4/7/2009 10:35:49 AM
ok walk up and say somthing to the affect of. "pardon the intustion but i couln't hlep noticing you, I have been wanting to talk to you for a while but i have not been able to find the right moment so as not to intterupt you." Then tell her what you first noticed about her other than her looks. For example, I thought it was great seeing a person of your stature takins ________ class. If you ever need a hand or havea question i may know the answer to feel free to ask. That way it is left up to her to hold the next conversation. If she likes you (be it as a friend or otherwise) she will initiate a conversation with you, if not then she won't and then you can move on.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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Is it better too.... Posted: 4/7/2009 8:12:12 AM
Absolutely cookie, couldn't have said it better myself. Although I have to admit i did loose myself for a bit when i lost him, but now it has made me realize that i really am as strong a person he always told me i am and never believed him. Funny how that works huh? I am greatful to know that at least once in my life i WAS loved like that, and feel that even if i never feel that way again, I know that i am still luicky cause most people go thier wjole life not knowing what that is to feel like that. We are both very lucky women. Robfish you are a lucky man to have felt that with her and (not that she was lucky to have passed) she was lucky to have passed knowing that kind of love and knowing what true love really is, god blessed her in that way. I am sure she would not want you to go through life feeling the way you do so please don't let it make you a bitter person use it as a strength. You seem like a great man stay that way.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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Is it better too.... Posted: 4/7/2009 8:03:03 AM
I learned a lot from my husband, but the one thing i find that i value the most is that There are no guarantees in life, and liek the one woman (sorry can't remember your name) mentioned it is far better to havw loved and lost then to never have loved at all. The sence of your own well being is so much stronger after you have lost somthing you truly loved(granted it will take a while to get over the loss before you realize it).

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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What do you think of this? Should I stay? Posted: 4/7/2009 7:20:39 AM
I can soem what relate here. My suggestion is to figure out why you are so insecure about "this type" of woman and work on that. I have never been a jealous type my self, i was dating a man about a year ago and realized one morning i was very jealous over him and then emediately dumped him because i knew that was not healthy for either of us. Still not sure y i was jealous of him, and now that i have my b/f i don't care. I have always had the mind set that if a man wants to be with me he will be if not there is nothing i can do but let him go, unless i want to be with a man who is constantly cheating, which i don't.My advise is let him go jealousy is a sure sign of trouble especialy if you are not a jealous type person, it means that there is somthing you don't trust iether with him or with yourself reguarding him, either way a lack of trust is there and that hinders a relationship from growing into a positive one. Good luck and keep

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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Have you ever been caught Masturbating? Posted: 4/6/2009 10:10:26 AM
ok this one is funny. I didn't get caught per say, but in a way i did. My boyfriend used to work for a trucking company so phone sex was almost nightly. well i had forgot that i told my landlord to come byt he house to get his rent. I had just barely got done when he knocked onthe door, movie still going, i was in the livingroom. I know he heard the movie cause the walls are kinda thin and the tv was right infront of the window. So anyway he walks in movie case on the table (forgot to move it) also the vibrator was under the glass top table. I knwo he knew. Kinda embarrasing. the funnything was he asked if he could look at the movies case shook his head and said girl whens your boyfriend comming home. I have been caught by myhusband of course then he disided i wasn't doing it right, (i up to that point had never been able to get myself off) so he showed me how to do it right).

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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POF words of wisdom....seriously! Posted: 4/3/2009 1:40:13 PM
ok heres one for you. My great grama always told me this when i told her i wasn't happy about somthing. She would say "happyness is a state of being, you are the only person in the world who can make or break you, unless you give up that power to another person." I never really understood it untill i was faced with things in my life that were completely out of my control and i was looking for the one thing i could control. It was kind of wierd how i remembered that saying she would always tell me. But through the trials that i have been throuhg in my life i learned one more. Everything in life is a lesson, although it may be apainful one and we may not be able to change the means by wich we learned it we can control what we do with that lesson. meaning everythign has a negative and a possitive lesson that can be taken from it, we have to choose which we take and how we use that in the future to iether better ourselves or use it as a crutch.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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Best way... Posted: 4/3/2009 1:16:35 PM
Wow just checked out your profile and all i can say is wow. How was she even remotly attracted in the first place. Are you sure SHE wasn't using YOU to get even with some really big boyfriend?

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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Best way... Posted: 4/3/2009 1:03:47 PM
Oh that was great ursulamajor I thought the same thing when i saw that post. actually my exact thought was "you mena people like you?" Gees skippy at least do a gramar check if your gonna down people for gramatical and spelling errors. And YES it is B OYS like you who give real MEN a bed rap.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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Briefs and other silly sexual turn offs Posted: 4/3/2009 10:35:12 AM
ok this ones kinda wierd but hey the op did say silly things that shouldn't matter. my biggest turn off is just befoer getting into bed he feels the need to put on deoderant. I can appreciate good hygene but come on i know of no woman whos going to say (in the heat of passion) oh woah wait aminute did you put on that axe deoderant i love.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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Losing an ex to the internet/desire to be a parent Posted: 4/3/2009 9:15:09 AM
sorry thought i saw in your original pos thta you did not have any children of your own. Iether way the answer remains the same. Although i do agree with you on the who issue with men who refuse to be more than just a doner. My daughters father was like that for a long time now he is just really wishy washy, which i feel is worse than not being there at all because he hurts her all over again every time he makes a promis to her he doesn't keep.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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Losing an ex to the internet/desire to be a parent Posted: 4/3/2009 9:02:51 AM
You know i was in kinda the same spot as your g/f when i met my hubby (sort of). My husband had 3 boys with his ex wife he was 42 before we even thought of having our son. I had only my daughter who was 3 at the time adn i wanted another child of my own. At the time his younges was 14 so it would mean a reall change again in my hubbys life. So I doo understand where you are comming from here. Now to answer your question, No you are not being selfish. I mean it is only natral to want to have a child with some one you love and plan on being with for the rest of your life. I would love to have another with my b/f (we are planning on getting married) and all togehter we have a total of 5 kids already, just none together. We have talked about it and due to certain choices i have made in the past (for good reasons) it well cost a lot of money just to have the baby. if i were in you position (no child of my own) I would absolutly want a baby with this pperson, so no your only acting on natral "instincs" if you will not being selfish at all.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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are you able to laugh with your partner while in bed? Posted: 4/2/2009 12:28:46 PM
LOL yeah you have to laugh about things like when (i was with a man i met on here) i was having sex and my dog was inside he has a toy shrek doll that talks. we were changing positions and at just the righ tmoment the doll farts and says "better out than in i always say" we just about died laughing. Needless to say the dog was put outside for a little while after that he was a little too dostracting.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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my profile Posted: 4/1/2009 2:55:38 PM
I understand where your comming from. I love the forums gives me a lot of ideas and well lets face it some are down right hillarious. I am still kinda young and love to explore in the bedroom and the forums have a lot of ideas for that. But thanks for the tip. And i will put somthing on there about only here for forums ect.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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Looking for constructive criticism, Posted: 4/1/2009 2:49:45 PM
ok your profile is extremely flat. Have you ever had the teacher in school that was so monotoned that no matter how hard you tried you could not stay awake? Well thats your profile, not trying to be mean but thats the feeling i got. Try to spice it up. instead of just saying i like to go camping and hiking. I like to go fishin. try I would love to find a hiking and fishing partner who will push me a little farther on the trail or somthing like that. I hope that helps you out.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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Does anyone ever actually reply to anything ever on POF? Posted: 4/1/2009 2:43:51 PM
ok ewll from a womans point of view, you really need to ditch the pic of the girl kissing you i mean are you single or not? Then narow down your interest with saying interested in music, this leaves room for talking about what kinds of music you like. Then give an example of the kind of first date you woulod like to have with a girl. also look at who you are messaging a lot of women (like myself) will generaly not respond to a man who does not live close enough to have a relationship with because lets face it long distance relationships don't work. Just a few tips from a woman.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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my profile Posted: 4/1/2009 2:35:10 PM
hey there i just made a few changes to my profile so that i don't lead anyone on or anything like that. would love it if some one could take a look at it and let me know what they think. I am trying to get the point out there that i am not looking for a relationship i am here for the forums only i have now found a great man and things are going great with us. So i made a few changes to reflect this change in my life any reviews to let me know if it still looks like i am looking for a mate would help also any advise would be fine also.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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if you walked in on a sexy chick wanking.... Posted: 3/31/2009 1:43:28 PM
old mastie actuealy sounds like he is refering to the mastiff a breed of dog who is rather large and drools insesantly but are really sweet natured. which is what kinda confused me to begin with, i mean was she doing the dog? sorry if i offended anyone here.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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The Wall nothing to do with Pink Floyd Posted: 3/31/2009 1:06:22 PM
yes it has happened to me too. extremely frustrating. ifact one day i tried severa times and never got the job done. Ended up extremely frustrated tried everything, told my b/f i couldn't get my self off so he tried didn't happen then iether. stayed horny for like a week couldn't get off but when i finally did man thought i'd never stop!!

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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This may just be restricted to my experience on here, BUT Posted: 3/31/2009 12:54:33 PM
well i have age restirctions because of experience. I was married to a man 21 years older than i am we had a great marriage, then he died. I was deveistated. Would i marry a man that much older again, i might, but most likely not. I just figure that although it is not totaly out of the question that a younger man will die (natral causes) it is highly unlikely. so I prefer not to get involved with any one more than say 12 years or so older than me, and due to maturety no more than 2 yeahr younger than me. I dated a 22 year old and man he was like dating a child had no clue what he wanted and still in that my car is faster than yours my poo don't stink stage. Now i am with a man who is 36 and i love him dearly.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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Should I be upset about this? Posted: 3/31/2009 7:47:53 AM
Ok first f all the girl is 21. when i was 21 i wqas married to a great man who i am still in love with to this day. So simply being 21 does not mean unable to commit. However appearently she is still in the exploration stage of life. You do need to move on for 2 reasons. 1. you already have doubts due to he fwb relationship with her room mate. although i do have a question regaurding this, would you rather haer have been with several men all at the same time, rather than the one room mate? 2. you obviously have insecurities about yourself. If you didn't you would not feel the need to be concerned over the sexual past of the person you are currently with. I understand that the man i am with has been with other women in his past befopre he met me. I am fine with that. I do however remain in the practice of STD testing with each new partner i am with. NOT that i am with very many men i just want to know that the man i am with is STD free. If you are looking for a girl who has no sexual past then you need to put it in you profile that you demand a virgin and then not settle for less. I met my now fiance 3 days after i slept with some one else. when he asked me how sexually active i am i told him the truth about it, as well as the relationship i had with the man i slept with. He has been fine with that. infact i still talk to the other man every day, my fiance has met him and they are friends now as well. you need to be more secure in your self, or just stop asking when the was the last time you had sex who with and under what circumstances.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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I'm not sure if I did the right thing??? Posted: 3/27/2009 1:59:01 PM
ok there are two ways to look at this in my openion. I personaly belive that you did the right thing. I have a friend who when he was growing up would be forced (by his father) to watch his mother get beaten for everything from not having dinner finnished by 6pm to watching tv. His father told him that the reson he had to watch is so that he learned how a woman should respect her husband. the man would beat her in public bad enough but in private it was much worse. NOBODY ever did anything about it. Thank god my friend (jason) knows and has known from a very early age that that is not how a woman should be treated. He wishes he could have seen some one beat his dad every time he beat her mom. not out of revenge or spite but because then maybe his dad would see how it felt and he (jason) would have learned even earlier that this was wrong. but on the other hand a boy idolized his father most of the time untill arround age 6-8 seeing his father get beat up could have devestated him just as much if not more than seeing his mom get beat, unfortunatly when a child grows up in that environment it becomes the norm, there fore see his dad get beat up could have caused harm. Although it did show the boy that what his father was doing is wrong and i can almost garantee that he will remember his dad getting beat up for many years. At some point he will deside what he wants to learn from it. I aplaud you.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

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Most Wild Place You Had sex! Posted: 3/27/2009 8:55:46 AM
oh man i forgot this one, wal-mart parking lot in jacksonville texas. cars everywhere, his mom and step dad and sister went in and we stayed in the car. funnything is we were right under a camera. i think we may have given this old man kinda kaddy corner across from us a heart attack cause when we finished and looked up he was sitting in his seat with his chin dropped to his knees almost and it was soo funny. LOL his mother asked why we were laughing and we told her nothing then she saw tha man and asked what the hell we did. believe it or not we actually told her and she laughed her ass off!!

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

Msg: 461 (view)

Most Wild Place You Had sex! Posted: 3/27/2009 8:38:40 AM
oh man this brings back memories. I was very young and completely careless. Any one know where frankston texas is? Any way, we were in the girls bathroom once and the princapal walked in apearrantly he saw us going in there and gave us just enough time to almost finish, so that we were completely disapointed. then a couple days later we got ontop of the gym just before the end of class bell rang and watched students go from one building to the next while he was bangin me from behind. Damn miss those care free days. OH yeah at the high school bon fire tooo we were like close enough we were able to destinguish who diferent people were and what kinds of clothes they were wearing. oh yea and in the woods while camping with my mother her boyfriend and the niehbors and their kids, got caught by my moms boyfriend He never told). oh and this one is wild mainly cause of who it was rather than where so much, it was my mothers b/f (wrong i know but damn he was only like 3 years older than me and was sooooo hot) infront of the living room window while watching to make sure she didn't come home.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

Msg: 63 (view)

sex injuries? Posted: 3/26/2009 2:21:12 PM
ok this one is pretty funny. my husband was ill and a side affect of his pain meds was muscle cramps so we used icey hot. well it had been hours and sever hand washings since i had put it on him and so i figured it would be ok. It was at first but after a few minutes (i guess it took time to set in) we were both screaming i have never been in soo much pain from sex, although the next morning (i had an eye infection from the kids poking me in he eye) and have you ever notice how much a like the eye drops and ear drops bottle look. I ended up calling in to work late i couldn't see shit. OUCH!!!! I laugh my ass off about it now but back then man it hurt.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

Msg: 23 (view)

Why do fools fall in love? Posted: 3/25/2009 8:21:39 AM
hey there, you have a good point. Way to many people jump to the word love. However there are soooo many types of love, you really can say you love almost every body. I.E your best friend, your kids, sister brother, and there is the type of love you have for some one when you are not IN love with them there is a difference there too. I owuld say step back and think about the type of love you have for her and decide what you want for your life adn what you are willing to accept. Life means compromise and adapt, no matter what the situation if you only look for your "perfect" match then you will be alone for the rest of your life.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

Msg: 45 (view)

How to forget Posted: 3/24/2009 3:09:16 PM
well it sounds to me like you are onw hell of a guy who needs to heal and see how strong he really is. I think that we all have to find our own way to heal. I was married to a wonderful man for nearly 5 years, everything was finally starting to look good all the sacrifices were about to pay off, then he died. I was a mess. I am still very much in love with him, and he has been gone 3 years. I found things to do. I got a dog to keep me busy and at least not be completely alone. I started walking with him and stuff like that. Of course this was after i got past the "what will i do now" stage. I found i am a stronger person than i ever thought i was. I am not afraid of being alone anymore because i realized that no matter what i am not alone, I have myself and my thoughts and my dog and therefore i am not alone. I still have pictures of him and i still have wonderfull memories of him and i chrish those. I did find myself though, I suggest that you find yourself find who you are with out some one and be at peace with yourself. I learned that when you are involved in a relationship that relationship becomes who you are. It may help (some thing i started doing about a year ago) to look at yourself in the mirror and say I am inteligent or handsome or somthing else that is good about yourself but make it something different every morning, Then say i am NOT her husband I am NOT that relationship I am ME, I am a father who loves his children. I know that sounds corney as hell but it works. well good luck ot ya!

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

Msg: 67 (view)

If you got your heart's desire Posted: 2/24/2009 12:08:26 PM
Ok i have to say that i agree with thos eof you who said you have to be ready before you can have your hearts desire. And like a couple of you have posted, "it's like a chain reaction, you have to get right with yourself then everything else will fall in place". I couldn't agree more with that. I just recently learned that lesson. 3 years ago i lost my husband to cancer, a few short months after that (due to a complete lonelyness) I decided i wanted a relationship. I was NOT ready i was a mess personaly. I finally realized i was not going to attract the kind of man i want (or need) untill i was right with myself. So i started working on me. I am now a MUCH happier person and about 3 months ago i met the best man in the worl he truely is my hearts desire! And I am ready for the BIG changes to come with him being part of my life, infact i welcome those changes with open arms.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

Msg: 89 (view)

Instant Magic - anyone else find it? Posted: 1/13/2009 2:33:56 PM
ok well i have to say i know for sure it happens. I t is rare to say the least but it happens. When i met my husband i wasn't looking for anyone, i had given up for a while, i was 20. H ewalked up to me and asked if i would join him for dinner adn i kinda laughed because i had just talked to a friend about not dating anymore. I told him i wou love to go to dinner with him but i work nights so i wouldn't be able to but we could do lunch. From that moment on we were together, untill feb 1st 2006, when he died. the last thing he said ot me is that he wanted me to find a man who was younger (he was 21 years older than me) who could take care of me as i took cre of him fo ralmost 5 years. I miss him teerably but i have since found a mn that from the moment that we actually went out i hae felt like i have known him for years and we both know that some time in th efuture we will be marrie dalthought we are not in any rush to get there. Remember there is plenty of time for marriage later take the time to get to know the person. And best of luck to you.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

Msg: 26 (view)

Here's my address, email me and we can share pictures . . Posted: 1/2/2009 2:36:27 PM
hey ther old soul i agree with you there except that when i first came to pof i didn't have any recent pics of me and i didn't want to post a pic of me that was more than a few months old. The newest pic i had was one from when i was in pepsquad in highschool and i really look nothing like that anymore. I figured if a guy wanted to meet me after seeing my pic (from high school) he would be a little disapointed that i no longer weigh 75 pounds. But other than that i really don't know why you wouldn't post a pic. It did take mw a while to get one on here because i don't have a camera and so i had to buy one and post it here and all that.

goodgal1

Joined: 11/7/2007

Msg: 65 (view)

Old school bully asked me out.... Posted: 1/2/2009 11:24:00 AM
i was both a target and a bullly at different times in my life. I know that what i did to some of the kids i bullied was very wrong and belive me if i could i would go to each of them and apologize for wha ti did to them. I was a bully in elementary school when i got to high school i was the target, I then knew exactly how i made them feel and regretted it very much. I think you really should jus tlet it go. A lot of things happen in life that we hav eno control of, this is one of those things. If you do not let it go you will spend the rest of you life feeling like that kid who got bullied and you will never be able to grow into the wonderful adult that i am sure you could be.

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