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-lebanese-lion--

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Should I dump him? Posted: 9/18/2007 5:07:27 PM
change your phone number and before you change it, send him a text, saying,"i am done" and then you will be free. you are young, so go find some other man...

-lebanese-lion--

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what is the most important thing to a man in a relationship besides sex? Posted: 9/18/2007 4:54:52 PM
Communication!!! Most of my past relationships have ended because of a breakdown of communication. Stop talking to each other about the way that you feel, and everything else seems to fall apart communication is the key to success.. that and total trust. you must have trust befor you have love. i can go without sex, but once we start being exclusive and when the LOVE word breaks our mouths, then i would think the sex should be somewhere in there, otherwise we got a problem. sex is a very vital part of a relationship, but not the basis.

-lebanese-lion--

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Gilfriend vs friends? Posted: 8/6/2007 8:21:41 PM
the ladder theory. wow... theres a WHOLE LOT OF TRUTH TO THAT!

-lebanese-lion--

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What are you really thinking at the night club? Posted: 8/6/2007 8:09:17 PM
oh, and you ask what i think..... well, i dont think.. i just get there, and then do the talking.... :)

-lebanese-lion--

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What are you really thinking at the night club? Posted: 8/6/2007 8:04:05 PM
i dont go to clubs. but i dont hesitate either.. all these guys on here complaining about getting "shot down" are just ****s.... its life bro's! women are there for us to date. if she has a BF, then fine! you are just one more closer to the one that you are looking for!! when i approach, all i think about is the woman i am walking towards. because within 3 seconds of seeing someone i am interested in, i am walking towards her. i dont waste anytime..

-lebanese-lion--

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come on. im at a total loss. is SHE not that into me? Posted: 6/23/2007 3:10:25 PM
updating..... things have worked out well. we talked, and it was true, she just wants to take it slow. going easy. but we are having a blast..... thanks for everyones help!

-lebanese-lion--

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male hot flashes? Posted: 6/15/2007 11:02:56 AM
its slowly on the decrease. at 18 the test levels are at their highest, that lasts til mid twenties. then it slowly declines to the point of needing HRT come 50 or so for some men. personally, i cant wait for HRT. lol..... a little test goes a LONG ways...... HAHAHAHAHA!!!

-lebanese-lion--

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ending the date with a kiss Posted: 6/14/2007 8:23:13 AM
i agreew with the above. if you like him, kiss him. or at least make yourself open you him kissing you. look into his eyes. whatever. but if you dont like him then you need to be up front and let him know that you really arent that interested. dont give him the opportunity.

-lebanese-lion--

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Don't you ladies WANT romance? Posted: 6/13/2007 1:39:55 PM
attraction isnt a CHOICE. it is something that happens subconciously. not with our knowing. read the book "attraction isnt a choice"

-lebanese-lion--

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confused helpppp Posted: 6/13/2007 1:35:15 PM
dude, you better just be honest with her. it will really help you in the long run. dont worry about the possiblity of rejection. it happens. its a numbers game as SPARDA would say. just keep on TRUCKIN BRO!!!

-lebanese-lion--

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Too tight? Posted: 6/13/2007 1:22:29 PM
hmmmm.... i would say you would just need to be patient, and take your time. you can stretch a bit. womens bodies are able to handle lots of stuff. including things that dont look like they would fit. but end up fitting quite nicely.. lol.... HAHAHA!! good question though..

-lebanese-lion--

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Should a 100 pounds/5 feet woman Posted: 6/13/2007 1:21:01 PM
no worries. when i was 230 at 6' my ex did say she liked me a little lighter. about 185ish. she said the extra weight was a bit tough on her, plus she did say that as i was bigger, i was less limber. i was a little TOO musclebound.

-lebanese-lion--

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come on. im at a total loss. is SHE not that into me? Posted: 6/12/2007 1:11:26 PM
my blueshadow, you my girl, are very correct, and for the first time, this is what i have felt. i am going to continue to be myself, and not play games. i will continue to show interest, and if the time comes, i will talk to her, only if the situation presents itself. good advice there.. infact maybe the most DEAD on advice given yet.

-lebanese-lion--

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come on. im at a total loss. is SHE not that into me? Posted: 6/12/2007 12:06:53 PM
tee, thank you sweetie. you are very right. and as of today, i have decided to not call her or anything. we shall see what happens. we have no plans together until next wed, so we shall see if she wants to see me before then. and that will be my tale tell sign as to if she is interested or not. and tee, you are very right, and exactly what my other good girl friends have said about this situation. if you really like a guy, you want to be THERE. playing scrabble tic-tac-toe or whatever, anything just to hang out. so, oh well, we shall see what the future holds..

-lebanese-lion--

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come on. im at a total loss. is SHE not that into me? Posted: 6/12/2007 10:28:05 AM
i will... when i get the balls to bring this up.... LOL...... thanks everyone..

-lebanese-lion--

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come on. im at a total loss. is SHE not that into me? Posted: 6/12/2007 6:31:49 AM
dare to, you look to have it down. when you backed off, did you then return? or was it something that you couldnt rekindle? im just curious. i really like this girl, dont want to scare her off, but at the same time, dont want to jeapordize what i want in a relationship as well.

-lebanese-lion--

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under the influence of booze, spilling guts? Posted: 6/11/2007 10:08:44 PM
right on Rev. i dont either. not my thing. but when someone you may be dating, or a friend calls you, and freakin spills his/hers guts, how much of that gut spilling time can you believe to be true? hmmm... im just ponderin tonite.. was just curious

-lebanese-lion--

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under the influence of booze, spilling guts? Posted: 6/11/2007 10:04:57 PM
yea, but i am talking about in PERSON here. not on the net. but explain that other line you had there lonestardaddy. are you saying that in the buzzed state, someone would try to meet another person of the opposite sex? hell, loook at OKlahoma bars. they are just meat markets. i personally am not into that. but to each his own. im curious as to what you mean by that!

-lebanese-lion--

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Caught up in the game Posted: 6/11/2007 10:02:12 PM
sparda, bro... it sucks, but if you are living by the "numbers game" rule, then it is just that.... NUMBERS. you are going through so many women you are running into their FAMILIES NOW!! hahahahaha...

-lebanese-lion--

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Does anyone even make out anymore? Posted: 6/11/2007 10:00:10 PM
LEBANESE LION LOVES TO MAKE OUT!! seriously. it just builds the tension!

-lebanese-lion--

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Sex gets better? Posted: 6/11/2007 9:57:58 PM
sure it gets better. you get to know eachothers bodies really well! but it should be comfortable by at least the first 3 interactions. sometimes it takes a while to get on eachothers "patterns" so to speak. you get to know what eachother LOVE , and what will bring eachother to total and silmutaneous orgasmic bliss. just be steady. but if it isnt progressing. then you better count your ducks and see if you want to continue..

-lebanese-lion--

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Help... I like this guy... Posted: 6/11/2007 9:56:07 PM
just be honest with him. if you want to know. just ask the dude, "hey i am a little curious, where do you think this is headed?" then tell him you are just not into wasting your time. that will give you your answer!

-lebanese-lion--

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Wierdest sh*t you found at a buddy's house Posted: 6/11/2007 9:51:54 PM
dude. this is discusting. no way.. sorry, couldnt really handle that. i would be OUTTA THAT HOUSE LIKE no ones business..

-lebanese-lion--

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Does this happen to you, too? Posted: 6/11/2007 9:50:59 PM
oh man. i loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee talking. too much fun. love getting to know women. how they are all sooooooo different. really interesting. just treat them well, and ask them questions about them, and really listen. you can learn that a woman is a very passionate creature if you ask her the right things. you will learn more about her in little time if you truly pay attention. just a little help. always really ACTIVELY LISTEN too. always good..

-lebanese-lion--

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Ok quick question ladies...... Posted: 6/11/2007 9:49:12 PM
i always have fantasies about being with other women! LOL!! sorry. i couldnt resist. im feeling fiesty tonite.

-lebanese-lion--

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under the influence of booze, spilling guts? Posted: 6/11/2007 9:39:12 PM
how much of what a person says when they are a little tipsy, (3-5 drinks, depending on person) just having a light buzz, then spilling their guts about everything related to dating you, etc.. do you BELIEVE? when the next morning, they say they dont remember what was said, do you believe what they said in their buzzed state? just curious as to what everyone thinks.

-lebanese-lion--

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come on. im at a total loss. is SHE not that into me? Posted: 6/11/2007 8:24:10 PM
hmmmm... you ladies may be right. the only holder to the answer here is her. i need to be just straight up. i did mention to her that when she rushes out it bothers me a bit. i then shared with her that when i am dating someone, i prefer to spend as much time with them as i can. especially when i REALLY like them. i said that i try to not make tons of plans when i am hanging out with someone that i would have to rush to after we hang out. she replied with "i know, i just dont want to rush anything" well, and honestly i think that is true. she just doesnt want to rush anything. but i really need to feel her out, and see exactly what she is thinking instead of trying to "figure" it out. its just not working. every damn person i ask has a different opinion. oh well. thats the way it goes! seems that i have no problem playing hard to get when i am not that INTO a woman, but when i really REALLY like a woman, i lose all ground. cant control my thoughts. and just want to speed everything up. dont know what it is.. oh well. we shall see.. thank you ladies....

-lebanese-lion--

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come on. im at a total loss. is SHE not that into me? Posted: 6/11/2007 5:58:46 PM
strangely enough, i have. i have told her i dont mind waiting and going slow. its easy for me, but damnit. i just dont want to waste anymore damn time. you all agree with me? is she just being fickle? why has she slowed her calls and texts so much? i dont understand. its really weird. oh well, if it works it works...

-lebanese-lion--

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come on. im at a total loss. is SHE not that into me? Posted: 6/11/2007 5:45:38 PM
well, ladies, i dont know if some of you remember about 2 weeks ago i met a great lady. we hit it off totally. then, all the dang sudden, it was really odd. lets lay some ground work so you can see what has happened. she is 21, i am 27. she is a good christian woman, went to christian school, as i did. we share a LOT in common as far as values and virtues go. this is kinda long, please read, as i need some help. i get approched by her. good vibe. we talk on the phone that nite, then set plans for the following day. dinner date. we go out, and really REALLY click. and it was HER that made that notion. she was like, "i cant believe how comfortable i am around you. its like we have known eachother for years" it was truly something i felt too, but didnt want to really blow up about it. i was just really happy. we traded texts later that nite, and set plans for the weekend. we go out the following monday. have a great time. lots of fun, kissing, holding hands, afection. etc.. she is really into me, so i think. we go out several times in the next week. she is seemingly very apprehesive about getting sexual. says she has been with 2 guys. well, i ask her over for dinner last thursday. she comes over and gives me a SIDE HUG as she walks in. ODD i thought. so , i pulled her in an kissed her. was nice. well, we eat, no wine, and get on the couch for a movie. watch the movie and the BAM. she is up, and like, "i need to leave, got a lot to get done before early tomarrow morning. " odd. i thought. maybe another date? another man? she just didnt want to be there, i really felt. we go out 2 nites later to a bodybuilding show here in OK. she is excited to see me, but oddly, i am getting this weird feeling. she isnt texting me as much, isnt calling as much, and seems a little distant. we hold hands a bunch, go to the show, she is into me so i feel, AT THIS TIME. well, we leave, and then BAM. she is again, in a hurry to leave. well, everyone, i am at a total loss. it i were to guess, i would say she ISNT THAT INTO ME. otherwise, she would have not been in such a damn hurry to leave. it has only been 3 weeks we have been dating, but correct me if i am wrong, if you LIKE someone, you dont try to RUSH outta their house. men, women and children chime in. and tell me what you think.

-lebanese-lion--

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Is it strange to like muscular women? Posted: 6/3/2007 6:05:47 PM
OP~ i have dated a couple muscular women. actually one of them was a national level competitor. in figure. she had forearms as vascular as mine, and to me, it was a turn on. we had more in common than alot of women i have dated otherwise. we both ate super healthy, trained hard, took care of ourselves, and just had fun together. she was strong as hell too! held the state championship for 2 years for figure in her height class. i would recommend you going to more of a weighlifting gym if you want some meatier women. i havent found too many at the fluffier gyms. that girl and i are great friends still. we go eat together all the time. she cares about what she puts into her body.. oh, and yea. nothing better than a nice muscular back when you are uhhhhh..... yea, from behind! LOL!!! sorry ladies i couldnt resist from posting..

-lebanese-lion--

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Is it strange to like muscular women? Posted: 6/2/2007 11:11:17 AM
dude.. nothing wrong with liking women with muscle.. personally, i prefer some GOOD muscle tone on the women i date. it means they take their appearance and look into consideration and care about themselves, health wise.. rock on bro... heres to men who love muscular women!!

-lebanese-lion--

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Do guys say things they THINK girls want to hear? Posted: 6/2/2007 11:06:46 AM
ummmmmm.. in one word.... yes. i say things my woman wants to hear. but i dont blow it up. i say it honestly and forthright.

-lebanese-lion--

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what is the deal here ladies.. Posted: 5/30/2007 4:44:24 PM
i had decided that it wasnt the time for me to be dating anyone. so, about 2 months ago or so, i decided i was just going to stop trying to make something happen, and just enjoy being single. i have been divorced for over 2 years now, and havent been able to find a woman that i felt that "connection" with. over the past 6 months, i have met 3 very nice women. all 3 were very good women. very much for me, lots in common, common virtues, hobbies, etc... well, everytime i would meet one, and go on a couple dates, each one tells me then they are moving away. like WAY away. first one, 2 dates, then moves to miami, second, 2 weeks of good times and dates, and promo at job, and off to S carolina, then the third, 3 dates, and bam, promo at job, and off to Phoenix. so, i had reached a point of just thinking, "maybe God is trying to tell me something?!?" so i quit trying to even meet women. about 2 weeks ago, this amazing woman approaches ME. i was truly flattered, and totally blown away. so, we go on a date that nite. and it was TRUE CHEMISTRY. so, i ask myself. "wow. when i quit looking, see what happens?" date after date, lots of them in that 2 week period pass. we really get close and gain some serious care for one another. good times. totally clicking. then the best part happens, and you can guess what it is. . . . . she tells me she got a call from CBS in LA to take a job. and she is definately considering. that is what pisses me off. its like, WTF? i totally give up trying to meet a woman, and then BAM... another one bites the dust.. as if from now on i will tell women, STAY AWAY FROM ME UNLESS YOU WANT TO MOVE OUT OF TOWN!!!!!! now, bare in mind, the city i live in is not that big. 500k people. so, the draw of big cities pulls at all the higher maintenance women that i am attracted to... i mean what gives ehh?

-lebanese-lion--

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being asked how many people you have been with.. Posted: 5/29/2007 4:58:12 PM
great.... all bad situations.. lol...... i dont know why she asked. it didnt kill the mood, it actually got more intense as time passed, and then we stoppped. only our second date. but she also shared and was a LOT less than me. by 6 partners. so, i felt a little WHOREISH!! LOL!! oh well.. guess i better prepare for that sh*t to come BITE ME IN THE ASS!!! LOL!!!

-lebanese-lion--

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How many dates before you expect to have sex? Posted: 5/29/2007 3:43:12 PM
hmmmm.. as long as it needs to happen til either it happens, or its time to either S*IT or get off the POT!!! hahahah... nah.... i prefer NOT first date. its too dang easy. but if it takes some work, and time for emotions to grow, then its better that way.....

-lebanese-lion--

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roommate dating my ex Posted: 5/29/2007 3:40:47 PM
kick that b*tch outta your house.. thats no friend. thats a danged enemy!

-lebanese-lion--

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being asked how many people you have been with.. Posted: 5/29/2007 3:36:33 PM
last nite. i was with my girl. we were making out, going further than we have gone before. all the sudden as we are about to start taking clothes off, she comes off with "how many people have you been with?" i am dumbfounded. knowing i have been with more than her. i was honest, and shared. she then shared. and i was right. but, why did she ask? what was this about? i know its good to know, but personally, i dont care about a womans sexual past. its not really my business. as long as she has no STD's, i am game... any thoughts?

-lebanese-lion--

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A 20 yo man with an erection problem...? Posted: 5/29/2007 3:34:23 PM
WILL I BE THE FIRST TO SAY.... GIVE THE DUDE A CIALIS AND LET HIM GET OVER THE PERFORMANCE ANXIETY!!! it happens to all dudes... seriously. let him get over it. happened to me in the past. now i just take a little cialis to break past performance anxiety, and get things rolling!! HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!

-lebanese-lion--

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Bottom line- what do you look for in a bf/gf? Posted: 5/29/2007 3:30:09 PM
SPENDING time together should be like a DRUG... lol..... good one GAZOOKS i feel the same way. i should want to see her more and more everytime i see her.... also, good head on shoulders, smart, good job, family life, non drinker.... and HOT AS FIRE!!!

-lebanese-lion--

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Women initiating contact.... Posted: 5/29/2007 6:05:20 AM
hmmmmmm... my girl is the one that approached ME! at a resturant.. APPLAUDING APPROACHING WOMEN!! I THINK YOU ARE AWESOME!!

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question.. about a woman approaching me Posted: 5/23/2007 9:19:57 PM
we chatted, and it went perfect. she was really glad i called. we are going out tomarrow NITE! yuppers! we shall see.. i am interested to see what she is like. to see what she is about. she is definately extremely gorgeous. but thats about all i know now. oh, and yea, she has a good enough job to drive a nice BMW.... hmmmm... i could imagine myself being a "kept" man.....

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question.. about a woman approaching me Posted: 5/23/2007 2:59:33 PM
ladies, thank you a TON.. you all are right....

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question.. about a woman approaching me Posted: 5/23/2007 2:44:03 PM
senario. woman and friends sit across resturant, and eye contact is made between one of them and I. we smile several times at eachother, and soon after, the group decides it is time to leave. it is lunch hour, so go figure. short lunch break. as i am sitting there, wondering if i should have approched her, i hesitated for a slight moment, and looked through the window, and she was coming back in. smiling all the way, as i stood up, she says, "I was waiting for you to come out here to get your number" I WAS BLOWN AWAY. very attractive professional woman. gives me her card. and says call me. walks away.. do i call her soon or wait a day? what would make you women wonder if he is going to call? i am leaning towards just calling her this evening. no reason in playing games.

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Resistance training versus freeweights Posted: 5/23/2007 11:42:16 AM
Free weights IS a form of resistance training, and to me is the best for anyone without any injuries or special rehab needs. It focuses on both the concentric and eccentric phases of the movement, and can be used isometrically as well. A pair of dumbells and a barbell can be used to provide the WHOLE body with great resistance training with proper knowledge and guidance couldnt have said it better any other way.. ACSM? NASM? ACE certification hikingguy? i am NASM

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dating men that are hunters Posted: 5/22/2007 8:32:58 PM
just thought it would be a good idea to bump this back to the tttttop!

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How to tell if i have chance Posted: 5/22/2007 7:07:02 AM
dude.. ever hear of a COUGAR? just get after it. a cougar is a older woman that likes younger men. hell, i have dated more older women than i can count. and i must say, and no offense to younger ladies, but women 10 YEARS older than me are so much more rounded, and thoughtful, and interesting. not to mention, most of them know what they like/dislike, and how to get around in the sack if you know what i mean. wink seriously. i have been dating a lady who is 7 years my senior off and on for about 2 years. she is amazing. easy going, loves to have fun, and really likes the heck outta me. and i gotta say, it is refreshing. i mean compared to a normal 25 year old "girl", who always thinks there is someting better around the corner, this woman that i have been dating thinks i am the best thing since sliced bread. and i give her the same reciprocal interest. dude, NOTHING GAINED if you dont TRY IT..

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Sensual parts of a womans body Posted: 5/21/2007 8:46:45 PM
hell, i have always thought that anticipation is what killed the cat.. and thats what i do.. i just build and build anticiaption. its the best! plus, isnt the adventure the funnest part? i mean, the destination is there, but the trip (the whole body experience) is the BEST PART!

-lebanese-lion--

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whats with toys??? Posted: 5/20/2007 1:41:49 PM
man... way better to have a woman that is comfortable with her body enough to use toys nad be open you letting my use them, or better yet, watch her while i perform other "tasks" on her!! talk a bout a turn on.. a woman that knows how to use a BOB is one i am AFTER!!

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looking for signs of testicular cancer,men please read Posted: 5/20/2007 1:18:22 PM
THUMBS UP SMART BLONDE... its nice that someone gave him a little sound advice... good times

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Drunk dialing Posted: 5/20/2007 1:11:51 PM
Drunk emails are just as bad! Not only is there a written reminder of your drunken conversation, but any spelling skills you have while you're sober are not there while drunk. oh lordy.. and then if you can get them to forward BACK TO YOU, what you wrote,,, man. i would feel like an ass.... never done it before. i wont drunk dial anyone.......

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