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evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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NEW YEARS EVE GALA--FREE--3RD Annual--Groove Lounge Oshawa Posted: 12/24/2008 6:16:40 AM
I know someone already asked this but didnt see a response....is there a password?? I attended the past 2 NY parties and had an awesome time. The hosts really put on a good party.

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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FREE New Year's Galla Oshawa Dec. 31 Posted: 1/1/2008 12:34:11 AM
Special thanks to the hosts. Great party, once again a job well done. Happy New year everyone.

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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FREE New Year's Galla Oshawa Dec. 31 Posted: 12/30/2007 8:27:32 AM
Will we require a password like past events?

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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Pof Gatherings.......Expectations! What are yours? Posted: 6/26/2007 4:35:25 AM
I have only been to 4 POF events and all have been at LeSkratch in Oshawa. The hosts did an awesome job at all 4 of these events. Very well organized and you're made to feel welcome. I've met a number of great people and have made some close friends there. As for expectations, I hope to meet new people and get out of the house for a few hours...nothing more, nothing less. Have to admit though, it's fun standing back and watching the players in action. And some of the pickup lines I've heard....

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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Let her win? Yes or no? Posted: 6/25/2007 9:27:10 PM
I enjoy a good game of pool, but if I find out they are letting me win, I lose interest in the game. what's the point in playing if you know the outcome ahead of time? I'd rather lose honestly than win because they "let" me.

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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How to treat a man Posted: 6/25/2007 5:36:49 PM
Honesty and communication...without those, there's no trust...without trust, no relationship. Enough said. Off-topic content removed. Thanks to those who remained on topic ~ YaYa

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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Would you date a cop? Posted: 6/24/2007 7:33:32 AM
I was married to a cop. Thought I loved him, turned out it was the cuffs I loved...so I divorced him and bought my own Seriously though, it all depends on the person. If I truly liked the person, it doesnt matter what his job is.

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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Ladies, is this true?! Posted: 6/24/2007 7:15:44 AM
I admit I'm guilty of some of those but not all and in recent years, my flirting skills are seriously lacking. However, if you want to show interest in someone from across the room, I've found that locking eyes with them usually works. A smile and a quick raise of the eyebrow, more often than not, will have them coming over to at least say hi. Mind you, these days, I'm usually the one who's totally oblivious if someone is hitting on me. Do you have one of those lists for men??

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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On being 39...soon-to-be 40 Posted: 5/9/2007 4:18:22 AM
Gasp Do I start to have to be mature and sensible? The way I look at it, the older I get, the more I get to do what I want - people will just think I'm going senile

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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~ Famous funny quotes! ~ Posted: 4/11/2007 7:44:49 PM
Let's not forget our illustrious former Prime Minister... "A proof is a proof. What kind of a proof? It's a proof. A proof is a proof. And when you have a good proof, it's because it's proven" -Jean Chretien

evilenchantress

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What's your slogan? Posted: 4/11/2007 7:35:37 PM
- Evilenchantress tested, Mother approved (ummm?!?) - Nothing acts faster than EvilEnchantess (that could either be a good thing or a bad) - When it absolutely, positively has to be Evilenchantress overnight (woohoo) - There's more than one way to eat an EvilEnchantress (yes it honestly said that ) - Get the EvilEnchantress habit

evilenchantress

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Seeing the same faces? Posted: 3/10/2007 9:41:57 AM
"Well, if she's been on these websites for years, turning down decent guys, what good is a brand new website going to do her? How do you know she's been messaged by "decent guys" all these years?? I've been on these sites for a number of years as well. Yes I'm picky because as someone above stated, I am also comfortable being single and havent found the person that will complement my life instead of complicating it. I'm not going to date just any guy just for the sake of getting out of the house. Many of the emails I get are from 20 yr olds wanting to fulfill a fantasy of being with an older woman (rolls eyes) or guys that claim to be looking for long term but msg you telling you they are horny. It's not what I'm looking. There are some decent guys on these sites and unfortunately many do get overlooked. I've met a few wonderful guys that have become great friends but the chemistry wasnt there for us to warrant taking it to another level.

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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A Few Extra Pounds Posted: 3/10/2007 7:38:06 AM
In my experience, it doesnt matter what you state, somebody will have something negative to say about it. I am always honest about my weight as I know it's an issue for some guys, so why waste anyone's time. In the past I have stated my height and weight on my profile and I kept getting told I shouldnt be down on myself (I'm not, just stating a fact) I listed myself as a BBW and was told I'm not "that" big...so I changed it to a "few extra pounds". At the end of the day, it all boils down to preferences. Some will accept you as you are, others wont. Just be honest about it and be happy with who you are.

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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Oshawa Valentine Pictures and Kudo's Feb. 10th Posted: 2/11/2007 8:08:25 AM
wow what a bash! Even better than New Year's and I didnt think that was possible. Spanky, RAH and Intrepid, it was nice to finally meet you and put a real face to a name. Once again, you guys did an awesome job. Very well organized, nobody can help but have a great time at these events. I met so many great people last night, I cant remember half the names. Pete, Marlene, Rachel, Chris, Cecil, Sam - thanks for a great night. It was really nice meeting you and I hope you keep in touch. That goes for anyone else I met last night. Only problem with these events is you meet so many nice people, sometimes you remember real names, not their nicks on here so feel free to msg me and say hi. Once again, major kudos to the hosts and staff of LeSkratch. I'm looking forward to the next event!

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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FREE Valentine Celebration At LeSkratch Sat. Feb.10 Posted: 2/10/2007 11:30:05 PM
alright where's the kudos thread? lol Another awesome event. Great job and many thanks to the hosts. It was nice to finally meet some of you.

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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On Affection Posted: 2/10/2007 8:31:35 AM
There's nothing wrong with wanting to hold hands. Some people arent comfortable with Public displays of affection. It depends on how important that is to you. For me, it's very important. I'm not saying you have to be all over each other in public, but holding hands, or stopping to give each other a hug or a kiss, shows you are proud to be with that person.

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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Official Valentine Crush Thread!!! Posted: 2/10/2007 8:05:59 AM
I'll help ya out StillDreamin...it wasnt me. There! 1 eliminated...only 30,000+ more to weed through

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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FAVORITE SAYINGS !!!!!!!!! in life or on dating sites Posted: 1/31/2007 3:35:28 PM
Better to be a smartass than a dumbass

evilenchantress

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FAVORITE SAYINGS !!!!!!!!! in life or on dating sites Posted: 1/30/2007 9:41:56 PM
- "if you're always honest, you dont need a good memory" - the only thing firm on me is my attitude - If I only wanted sex twice a year, I wouldve stayed married (in response to those guys that try to convince you that long distance would work)

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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Parental pride Posted: 1/21/2007 10:30:53 AM
@Jeep..if you knew me, you'd know exactly where he got it from. He is very polite and well mannered but knows the value of sarcasm when he's around those that he's closest to.

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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Puppy Love??? Posted: 1/21/2007 9:08:26 AM
I just adopted an 8 month old Lab/border collie cross. Woman's daughter moved in with her bf and he was allergic to dogs, so the mother was going to take him to a shelter. I couldnt let that happen so I took him in.

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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Parental pride Posted: 1/21/2007 9:04:14 AM
My 'baby' turned 10 today - he gives me so many reasons to smile that I couldnt even begin to list them. He's my pride and joy. I am always getting compliments from others about how well behaved he is and how he's always laughing. He's also quite the smartass, not sure where he gets it from...his father's side I think

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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freezing rain stories? Posted: 1/15/2007 4:45:25 PM
After watching my puppy trying in vain to keep his balance in the backyard this morning while trying to do his business, I decided to stay home from work. I have no problem driving in this weather. It's the other morons on the road I dont trust. And since I drive a little car, it would be mincemeat if I was to get hit because some idiot thought ABS meant the car will automatically stop for you. After checking my work email though and seeing 68 new emails, I'm kinda rethinking whether staying home was worth it groan

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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Evil streaks that drove me to ... Posted: 1/15/2007 4:34:43 PM
Evil?? there's nothing evil about me...oops...except my nick

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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BE YOURSELF: Good Advice or Total BS? Posted: 1/15/2007 5:43:12 AM
There's a saying "If you're honest, you dont need a good memory". Same applies here. If you try to be something you're not, you always have to remember what you did or did not say/do. Be yourself. If they dont like you for who you are, they're not worth your time.

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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MIlitary...whats you take on it... Posted: 1/6/2007 9:28:57 AM
I am the only civilian in my family. My Mother, sister, brother in law, niece and niece's fiancee are all either in the military or work as civilians for the military. It wasnt the life I wanted for myself, but I respect them very much for choosing to do what they do and while I may not agree with our Government's decision to be in the Mideast, I do support our troops I grew up in Petawawa and it hits home whenever I hear of another soldier wounded or killed. The troops that are over there now, are people I went to school with, their fathers, and in some cases, even some of their children. Keep in mind, many of these soldiers fighting overseas are only 18 or 19 years old. Think back to when you were 18, would you have done it?? I went 'home' for thanksgiving, and everywhere I looked, the businesses had signs saying "we support our troops" or "our condolences are with you". It was hard seeing an entire town in mourning. All the flags were flying at half mast. Unfortunately, that same weekend, the town lost another one of its own. As for the somalia situation, Dont blame the entire military for a few bad seeds. You find those in every profession. Look at the police who have been charged with crimes, doctors that fondle patients, postal workers that shoot up mcdonalds and school teachers or coaches that abuse children. It doesnt not mean they are all like that.

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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Oshawa New Years Eve Bash/Kuto's Thread Posted: 1/1/2007 4:28:49 PM
besides I was not double fisting lastnite... i was one beer at a time One beer at a time...not counting the two you had inside your coat LOL

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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Oshawa New Years Eve Bash/Kuto's Thread Posted: 1/1/2007 10:59:17 AM
A great big thank you to the hosts and LeSkratch for an awesome party. Very well organized especially considering the scale of it. A special thank you to Monica Geller and CareBear for putting up with the newbie lol I met a lot of wonderful people last night and had a blast. Definitely looking forward to attending more events. Happy New Year to everyone - may 2007 bring you all the dreams you hope for. ....now I think I hear my bed calling me again groan

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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Turning 30 Posted: 1/3/2007 8:17:26 PM
I had a hard time with 30...now I wish I could go back to 30 lol I'm hitting 40 soon...much sooner than I want to but it really is a state of mind. Besides, the older you get, the more you can get away with because people will think you're senile anyway PS. Go for the younger guys....Men never grow up anyway ducks

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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Things you find out when you have boys... Posted: 1/1/2007 4:59:44 AM
I have to add one to that from my own experience: - disk drives do not like McDonald's french fries

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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FREE New Year's Galla LeSkratch Oshawa Posted: 12/31/2006 11:44:51 PM
had an awesome time tonight. Thanks to all the hosts for putting this together. Your hard work was very much appreciated. Met some great people and definitely looking forward to attending another POF event!!

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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FREE New Year's Galla LeSkratch Oshawa Posted: 12/31/2006 7:52:06 AM
thanks all...I am definitely going to be there. I'm far from shy but occassionally I need a little "kickstart" lol ummm did I hear someone say shooters???

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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FREE New Year's Galla LeSkratch Oshawa Posted: 12/30/2006 8:40:04 PM
wow sounds like most of the people going already know each other

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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Plentyoffish, Now with Flowers. Posted: 12/30/2006 12:02:34 PM
is this still available? or has it been discontinued? I dont see the "send this person real flowers" on the profiles anymore.

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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FREE New Year's Galla LeSkratch Oshawa Posted: 12/28/2006 8:49:06 PM
Just out of curiosity, is there a cutoff for the amount of people that sign up? I heard someone say the main floor holds 800 people. We're around 350+ already....considering that most people will bring at least 1 person with them - usually more...that already puts us at 700+

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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What to do if they do not talk back???? Posted: 12/27/2006 5:00:16 PM
I usually try humour to get them out of their shells. "Sooo...you're a man of few words eh" That usually gets them to loosen up and apologize for their behaviour. Occassionally they just grunt a reply, in which case I say well...guess I'm boring you so I'll let you off the hook, then get up and leave. No point in sticking around just to pull teeth.

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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Huge Regret and Sorry. Posted: 12/26/2006 8:16:01 PM
I've left my car there a few times in the past and it's been fine. Oshawa also has a "Keys to us" program where they will drive you and your car home.

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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FREE New Year's Galla LeSkratch Oshawa Posted: 12/20/2006 5:21:36 PM
well I'm one of the newbies that will be there. Bringing along a friend I met on POF but we'll probably both be a little shy at first so feel free to come over and say hi

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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Have a nice day!!! Posted: 12/17/2006 7:39:29 PM
Isnt that a Bon Jovi song? "when the world gets in my face, I say Have a Nice Day". @ hump and dump. Boy I need to get caught up on the newer expressions lol

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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Negative Profiles Posted: 12/17/2006 3:33:28 PM
Thanks for the feedback. I wasnt trolling for a critique but never turn down free advice lol. I can take it...really I can

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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Negative Profiles Posted: 12/17/2006 2:28:35 PM
There are many guys who have "ask" or "later" in their about me sections as well. When someone msgs me, I always read their profile first to get some ideas for conversation starters. I have responded a few times when they have nothing in their profiles but have found the conversation usually ends up lagging within a few minutes. I dont believe my profile is negative although some may view it that way. I just tried to be honest and upfront about who I am.

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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FREE New Year's Galla LeSkratch Oshawa Posted: 12/17/2006 2:16:42 PM
I'm actually looking forward to NYE for a change! It will be the first time I've celebrated it in about 12 yrs - and it will be my first POF event. Looking forward to meeting some of you!! Merry Christmas to all

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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I had FUN......how about you? Posted: 11/25/2006 12:05:24 PM
@ Kap10 Canadians rule....we know how to keep warm on those cold winter nights LOL

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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I had FUN......how about you? Posted: 11/25/2006 5:51:24 AM
I've learned that: 1) 80% of men online are "big" - the rest brag about their tongues 2) If you state you're overweight, people think you're down on yourself, if you state you're into bodybuilding, people think you're conceited 3) 19-20 yr olds "love older mature women" (aka "want to fulfill fantasy of being with an older woman") 4) Apparently I have about 2,000+ men who love and want to marry me in Nigeria 5) Most of those men have rich uncles who left them Millions of $$s that the government is trying to take 6) I thought I was pretty streetwise before the internet but wow was I naive - you want to do WHAT with WHAT?!?!?!? there's glue involved??! 7) very few people can handle honesty 8) Even when meeting as friends, the other person will judge whether you are their 'type' sexually 8) if you have a sense of humour, you can get through anything, even bad dates 9) Not every person you chat with will be your type, nor will you be theirs. Remember, plenty of fishies out there 10) most important: I have learned that I do not need a man to make my life complete, but I want a man to share that life with. I am ok with being alone and that it's not a reflection of whether I am a good person or not.

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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Heinous or no? Posted: 8/15/2006 4:59:43 PM
Sounds like he was more into himself than you. Most men wouldve offered to "share"

evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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Holy crap... my first honest to goodness nutcase Posted: 8/15/2006 4:49:53 PM
six firemen to strap her down and ... I'm sorry, did you say something after that?

Evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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Googling the guy's name Posted: 7/25/2006 6:16:51 PM
Real Name: I'm either a stunt woman with quite a few memorable movie credits or an executive recruiter lol nickname - there are too many different people that use it

Evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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Ever Feel Invisible? Posted: 7/24/2006 5:23:07 PM
ACK! I saw a ghost!!! (so much for your invisibility ) At work, I wish sometimes I could be more invisible, in my personal life, I wish I was less so

Evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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Anyone Ever Been To One of Those BBW Parties? Posted: 6/17/2006 3:46:28 PM
I went to one of the BBW parties a couple years ago with a friend and doubt I will go to another. Although we knew several people from online, they would not speak to us in person and it was very clickish - and yes, as some mentioned before - alot of cattiness. My friend is what you call a SSBBW and although I am considered a BBW by clothing sizes, I am still at the lower end of the BBW scale (no pun intended). Many felt I had no right to be there - so now I'm too big for the "hot, sexy skinny chick" category and too skinny for the BBW parties...go figure....guess I'll just be happy being "me".

Evilenchantress

Joined: 5/23/2005

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Whats it mean when she says You scared me Posted: 5/3/2006 3:51:31 PM
In a warped kind of way, I agree with J-mix (can't believe I'm saying that ) It could be she's so used to dating jerks, that she doesnt know how to handle being with a "nice guy"

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