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 Author Thread: My knight in shining armor
 poly_p
Joined: 11/9/2007
Msg: 13 (view)
 
My knight in shining armor
Posted: 1/21/2008 5:46:45 PM

omg weres the puke bucket!

Fastened firmly under your chin, I'd expect. ;)
 poly_p
Joined: 11/9/2007
Msg: 89 (view)
 
What is the reasoning for clothing our nakedness?
Posted: 12/18/2007 2:22:27 AM
Well, I live in Canada, and the most obvious reason is practical - we'll freeze bits off of ourselves if we don't wear clothes!
 poly_p
Joined: 11/9/2007
Msg: 149 (view)
 
Wally-Mart SUX
Posted: 12/18/2007 2:01:05 AM
I miss shopping at establishments like Woolworth, Woolco, Rink's, Montgomery Ward, JC Penney's, etc.


As do I. And the reason we can't shop there anymore: Wal-Mart closed them all down.

I don't know where a lot of you live, but here the Wal-Mart keeps a huge chunk of their staff on "part time" status, even if they give them 40 hours of work a week, because that way they don't have to pay them benefits. What kind of ethical business practice is that?
 poly_p
Joined: 11/9/2007
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Fuck Buddies/Casual Relationships: Advice Please
Posted: 12/14/2007 3:17:39 AM
F*ck buddies is a great theory, but I'm not convinced they work. Someone always gets hurt in the end, and it's usually you.
 poly_p
Joined: 11/9/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Definition of Average in america and Canada from statistics
Posted: 12/11/2007 10:39:34 AM
Interesting question. I put "average" for my body type as the average body weight for North Americans is actually to be overweight (according to health care professionals). I'm technically 15-20 lbs overweight for my height, but I'm average with respect to the rest of the population. Should I change my profile to "a few extra pounds?" :D

P
 poly_p
Joined: 11/9/2007
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Second date and he wants to pick me up but....
Posted: 12/1/2007 5:36:39 AM
Trust your instincts.

You're not being paranoid, as at least one responder suggested.

You can do what ever you feel comfortable. If you'd rather meet him in a public place, tell him so. If he gets offended, then that's _his_ issue, not yours, and you might want to reconsider dating him.
 poly_p
Joined: 11/9/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Cyber *Stalker* with a broken heart
Posted: 11/25/2007 10:00:03 PM
Yep, it was just one date, you can move on.

And perhaps it would be a good idea not to text or call so much next time. Once or twice in the first 72 hours is really sufficient. It's not that you want to play hard to get, it that you don't want to appear desperate.

Oh, and cyber stalking, especially after the first date, is not considered flattery. I'm sure you knew that, but I thought I'd throw it out there anyway.

Good luck with the next one!
 poly_p
Joined: 11/9/2007
Msg: 17 (view)
 
What is the best way to tell someone....
Posted: 11/24/2007 6:07:12 AM
I think it's all been said by above posters - you can't change him, he doesn't want to change, and he's an accident waiting to happen (re: drinking IN THE CAR). If these are deal breakers for you (as they would be for many), then stop seeing him. You can find yourself a non-drinker and non-smoker, and he can find himself someone who smokes like a chimney and has a string of DUIs. :)
 poly_p
Joined: 11/9/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Is it just human nature, or insecurity, or infatuation jealousy?
Posted: 11/24/2007 1:36:19 AM
Perhaps it would help if you clarified what you were talking about. Do you think you are in competition with another man over a woman? Are you wondering how to read women and what they think of you?
 poly_p
Joined: 11/9/2007
Msg: 37 (view)
 
Would you date a NASCAR fan?
Posted: 11/24/2007 1:34:21 AM
NASCAR bores me to tears, but I don't see why I'd write someone off just because they liked NASCAR. I'd probably tease them about it in a friendly way, just because that's me. :) As long as I can watch F1, then we're all good. :)
 poly_p
Joined: 11/9/2007
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Nice girls ALWAYS finish last
Posted: 11/24/2007 1:23:35 AM
Unfortunately, it takes two to make a relationship and only one to break it. He might be a player, he might not be, and the frustrating thing is you'll probably never know. Sometimes we don't always get to closure we want on relationships, and this sounds like one of those cases.

It hurts, absolutely. But I can guarantee you - if he can't keep his interest in you going for a month, then he's simply not the one for you. Your "one" will be dazzled by you despite the distance or the time. Let the pain fade, and then move on with your life.
 poly_p
Joined: 11/9/2007
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Friends who are Non Believers
Posted: 11/22/2007 8:19:20 AM

Though friends and relatives may not "believe" in the Purple Unicorn, the knowledge that The Purple Unicorn "believes in us" trumps what they do or don't believe.


All Hail the Purple Unicorn! :D

I have friends who represent a wide range of spiritual and religious beliefs, and we all get along just fine. What we all have in common is that we believe there are many ways to the Divine, and not all of us are meant to walk the same path.

YMMV.
 poly_p
Joined: 11/9/2007
Msg: 369 (view)
 
Dating Someone With A High IQ
Posted: 11/22/2007 1:43:18 AM
I prefer dating people with high IQs - I need someone who can keep up with me. :)

As mentioned many times over the past hundred posts, IQ =/= EQ or emotional capability. In all things, there must be a balance. But I have found that potential dating partners (in my case, men) don't hold the interest for me if their IQ isn't reasonably high. We just seem to run out of things to talk about rather quickly.
 poly_p
Joined: 11/9/2007
Msg: 185 (view)
 
If someone emails you with misspelled words and bad grammar, do you respond?
Posted: 11/22/2007 1:25:47 AM
I tend not to respond, unless it was an obvious typo and not a pattern of "speech." I even have it in my profile that you should only message me if you can spell. :) Harsh? Perhaps, but I suppose you need to use some tools to narrow things down. :)
 
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