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Ave Caesar

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Msg: 156 (view)

Do you believe you can meet someone online? Posted: 6/12/2008 6:55:04 AM
I think you need to be flexible above all, and try to meet people half-way.

Ave Caesar

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Whatever happened to making out? Posted: 5/8/2008 5:35:55 PM
Well I'm a big fan of extended kissing sessions, let me tell you! Nothing comes close.

Ave Caesar

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I took his hand and he flipped out...wtf... Posted: 4/30/2008 5:23:45 PM
Hard to figure that one out...can't say I understand that.

Ave Caesar

Joined: 11/11/2007

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How altered is too altered??? Posted: 4/14/2008 2:43:19 PM
I messaged a woman here on POF whom I met once, in a bar, in February, at a social group event. Her photo was was not 'altered', but neither of us recognized the other. After all, it's dark in bars! I finally recognized and sent her a message and we both had a laugh over it!

Ave Caesar

Joined: 11/11/2007

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Would you stand a better chance IN-Person than on here? Posted: 4/14/2008 10:01:00 AM
Yes, I have had that experience...meeting the same person here and in person...and I was rejected here but accepted in person. We didn't recognize one another...LOL!

Ave Caesar

Joined: 11/11/2007

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Blocked out of nowhere!? Posted: 4/13/2008 11:42:10 AM
shirleyujest: I'm sorry...I thought this was an old thread...I see it's not. I got it by searching.

Ave Caesar

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Blocked out of nowhere!? Posted: 4/12/2008 9:48:16 PM
This block wasn't out of nowhere... The Opie has just chosen to not share all the facts... Yes, he has. I was talking to this woman for quite some time on Friday, then on Saturday I spoke with her a couple of times, then bam... We were talking about a British band, nothing 'romantic' at all...talking about the possibility of becoming friends, no more than that.

Ave Caesar

Joined: 11/11/2007

Msg: 47 (view)

Blocked out of nowhere!? Posted: 4/12/2008 9:44:36 PM
discoafternoon Perhaps you've messaged someone who was looking for an intimate encounter and then messaged someone who had this checked? I don't think that's the case here...I was talking to her and no-one else...and out of nowhere bam...blocked.

Ave Caesar

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Msg: 34 (view)

How Many Dates/Time Before.......You Know...? Posted: 4/12/2008 9:22:38 PM
This has been discussed to death on this forum. There is no answer. You are an adult. You can decide for yourself. There is no right or wrong answer. There is no rule. Why are you even asking this question?

Ave Caesar

Joined: 11/11/2007

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Profiles - why bother? Posted: 4/11/2008 3:30:57 PM
Uhmmm.....why are you here, on POF, at all? Do you expect men to read your mind to learn about you?

Ave Caesar

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Blocked out of nowhere!? Posted: 4/5/2008 8:17:02 PM
sweetness-one: We were talking about being strictly friends, not dating. We had talked extensively for several messages.

Ave Caesar

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Blocked out of nowhere!? Posted: 4/5/2008 7:28:28 PM
Concertina Because they don't owe you an explanation. It's not like you were in a relationship. You're complete strangers to eachother. There is such a thing as common courtesy. Why not mention politely, "Sorry, I changed my mind"? and ask for no further contact? Why block out of nowhere?

Ave Caesar

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Blocked out of nowhere!? Posted: 4/5/2008 5:42:18 PM
ShirleyUJest -- The woman was certainly within her rights to do it, but why without explanation, and especially when we were having a great exchange? She was interested, she said, in friendship only, and that was what I was looking for also. So, why do people do this without at least some explanation first?

Ave Caesar

Joined: 11/11/2007

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Blocked out of nowhere!? Posted: 4/5/2008 5:04:10 PM
I had a rather similar unusual experience over the last two days. I was talking to a woman here and we were getting along fine, then out of nowhere she stopped responding and then 'BOOM' blocked me. I don't understand the reason, and since she blocked me I cannot even ask her why. Any insights?

Ave Caesar

Joined: 11/11/2007

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When you have been blocked Posted: 4/5/2008 5:03:23 PM
I had a rather unusual experience over the last two days. I was talking to a woman here and we were getting along fine, then out of nowhere she stopped responding and then 'BOOM' blocked me. I don't understand the reason, and since she blocked me I cannot even ask her why. Any insights?

Ave Caesar

Joined: 11/11/2007

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Perfect But No Pizzaz! Posted: 4/5/2008 4:32:13 PM
I have found myself attracted to women that did not impress me at first, over a period of time.

Ave Caesar

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Short women... Posted: 4/5/2008 3:35:14 PM
The height of the woman is irrelevant for me.

Ave Caesar

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Msg: 66 (view)

What is “shallow” to you? Posted: 4/5/2008 3:14:25 PM
To me, 'shallow' is making snap judgements about people without acknowledging even the slightest possibility that the other party may be quite worth knowing. I have seen such behavior in person, and it is rather disappointing to witness.

Ave Caesar

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Msg: 74 (view)

What do you love about women? Posted: 4/5/2008 2:58:14 PM
Bright, smiling eyes, a ready smile, a nice feminine voice, nice legs, good posture, but these are merely physical attributes.

Ave Caesar

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Perfect But No Pizzaz! Posted: 4/5/2008 2:43:06 PM
Give it time.

Ave Caesar

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to pad or not to pad? Posted: 4/5/2008 2:40:52 PM
It depends on the cut of her clothing. Some dresses simply require a fuller bust line, and whatever measures are necessary to fit properly are certainly appropriate.

Ave Caesar

Joined: 11/11/2007

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guys who don't like blowjobs Posted: 4/4/2008 9:50:06 AM
flyingiguana : i'm more likely to go soft from a blowjob than cum. i just get a bit bored lol Same here.

Ave Caesar

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just say what you mean Posted: 4/1/2008 12:46:30 PM
Q-Tel 2044 has made an excellent point, one with which I a agree. One must always have cordial relationships with women (everyone really), just in case something develops. You never know!

Ave Caesar

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No coffee, no tea, no nothin', is this normal? Posted: 4/1/2008 6:53:04 AM
I would not lose any sleep over this.

Ave Caesar

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just say what you mean Posted: 4/1/2008 6:46:16 AM
How would you feel if the roles had been reversed?

Ave Caesar

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Do men react negatively when women make the first approach? Posted: 3/29/2008 2:08:07 PM
I like it, of course!

Ave Caesar

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Situational question Posted: 3/29/2008 12:38:26 PM
It could be, but since we can't read minds we suggest you ask her.

Ave Caesar

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rejection... Posted: 3/27/2008 12:04:59 PM
Depends on what you're talking about.

Ave Caesar

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Msg: 82 (view)

Gaming Girls... yea or nay? Posted: 3/27/2008 10:21:47 AM
Ravenstar66 What is D&D and DM?

Ave Caesar

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Confidence and body image Posted: 3/27/2008 7:41:47 AM
I'm not entirely clear to me what it is you're asking, if anything. Are you saying women don't see each other naked as much as men do? I have no idea whether that is true.

Ave Caesar

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A man and his ego Posted: 3/27/2008 7:34:27 AM
I don't think women are any different, really.

Ave Caesar

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Decoding Guy-speak Posted: 3/27/2008 7:32:24 AM
I don't think women are actually any different in this regard.

Ave Caesar

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Gaming Girls... yea or nay? Posted: 3/27/2008 6:31:50 AM
greg8002 If you read Kant at all, that also indicates intellect. Yeah, well I translate Kant as well as read him.

Ave Caesar

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Is it possible to over dress?? Posted: 3/26/2008 1:42:54 PM
blissful_muse07 Hopefully you wear some shiny shoes to match that suit. I've encountered men who think it's okay to wear running shoes with a suit and it kills me. Of course, Italian laced shoes.

Ave Caesar

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Is it possible to over dress?? Posted: 3/26/2008 12:49:56 PM
blissful_muse07 : "You don't have to put on an Armani suit since that might clash awkwardly if the other person is very casual but looking like you just rolled out of bed also won't cut it either." I do wear an Armani or Valentino suit or jacket to a first meeting, as a rule. It makes up for all the slobs, men who haven't a clue how to dress.

Ave Caesar

Joined: 11/11/2007

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Fitness and attraction Posted: 3/26/2008 11:51:57 AM
No, it's not shallow: It's calling her bluff. It's very easy to say you're going to get in shape, but actually following through is very important. If the girl is actually working on it, he should give her a chance, but there is some incentive if he says he'll wait and see.

Ave Caesar

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Gaming Girls... yea or nay? Posted: 3/26/2008 11:45:37 AM
cheshire_grin : To say that 'gamers' (whatever they are) are more intelligent than average boggles my mind. I have adult friends who waste their time on these games, and I find them utterly unappealing, in the extreme.

Ave Caesar

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Gaming Girls... yea or nay? Posted: 3/26/2008 10:27:48 AM
What is this? High school? I never did that stuff ever and would not ever do that stuff. No, it does not indicate a superior intellect. If you read Kant in German and notice the grammatical errors, THAT indicates intellect.

Ave Caesar

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Is it possible to over dress?? Posted: 3/26/2008 6:33:46 AM
~Scoundrel~ I find myself over-dressed almost everywhere I go. If anyone asks about it I tell them I have someplace more important to go later. Or that you just came from someplace else and didn't have time to change. My new policy, since the beginning of the year, is to overdress all the time. I feel better about myself and more confident.

Ave Caesar

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Is it possible to over dress?? Posted: 3/25/2008 2:46:24 PM
proudbbwstacey I am with you! Wanna see my Armani and Valentino suits on me?

Ave Caesar

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turning women down for sex Posted: 3/25/2008 9:53:39 AM
Took two hours to stop the tears when I told her 'No'.

Ave Caesar

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Short women... Posted: 3/24/2008 5:57:28 PM
I have no preferences at all in height, but good proportions are always pleasing.

Ave Caesar

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Is it possible to over dress?? Posted: 3/24/2008 3:30:24 PM
For what it's worth, I always over dress. I make it a point to try to make the best impression possible. What's wrong with dressing up now and then?

Ave Caesar

Joined: 11/11/2007

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Ladies: your take on short guys? Posted: 3/22/2008 12:06:28 PM
SapphirePoet Hmmmm Completely out of our mind eh? So I guess that goes both ways then so the men who don't like BBW's, or don't like women with flat chests are completely out of their minds and are being judgemental also.....Tell all those guys to forget what society thinks too. There is a difference between weight and height. You can modify your weight. Now, in some cases there are problems such as thyroid disease, etc., which can affect your weight, but in general it is under your control. Height is not.

Ave Caesar

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Ladies: your take on short guys? Posted: 3/20/2008 10:26:10 AM
SavannahSaucy I have no insecurities about being involved with a shorter man. It's usually the guy who seems to have issues with it. Not true at all. It's the women who have trouble. Short men are used to looking up at everybody.

Ave Caesar

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Msg: 34 (view)

Lost weight, starting getting more dates Posted: 3/20/2008 10:21:55 AM
mushortgurl03: Try eating fish, oily fish such as salmon, along with green vegetables. It makes you less hungry and burns fat. It works, I know. I have lost a bit of weight since January and it shows.

Ave Caesar

Joined: 11/11/2007

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What should I do about this date...? Help Please!! Posted: 3/19/2008 2:45:55 PM
I suppose it depends on whether you like that sort of thing. You are an adult, I believe, so if you don't enjoy that sort of thing, say so. But of course be honest about it.

Ave Caesar

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No defined age range Posted: 3/19/2008 1:13:22 PM
The age limits are for contact, nothing else.

Ave Caesar

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The Best Profile Appeals to the Most People? Posted: 3/19/2008 9:09:24 AM
bdrt I guess my profile must be specific enough, because I don't get a lot of emails. I think I do need to add a few filters, such as age, because I the few emails I do get are from those I consider too old or way too young. I'm still waiting on mr. right to view my profile though... You're 51. At that age, hardly any healthy man can be 'too old'. I remember my father saying something to my mother that was so funny: They had bought something, I forget what, and she was concerned with the warranty; she thought it was not long enough. He said: "How long you plan on living?" She died at 82, and my father is still going strong at 85.

Ave Caesar

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acceptable amount of time Posted: 3/19/2008 8:57:12 AM
wondering1980: i'm a chick and i would never wear a dress, skirt, makeup or try and change my clothes just cause of a date...its stupid to do that and i laugh at any women who does this... last date i went on i wore jeans and a hoody, sneakers, just put my hair in a pony tail and had no make up on...i don't even own and dresses,skirts,heals, makeup and never will cause no man is worth going through all that!!! I am utterly speechless....you can't be serious! I don't wear jeans, hell I don't even own a pair of jeans, but even if I did I would never wear them on a date!

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