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wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

Msg: 64 (view)

men who like to be dominant sexually and the women who like it Posted: 3/29/2009 12:34:10 AM
A dominant woman is a myth. Someone has to take control so it's just a lack of options on a guys part. :)

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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Whats an instant turn on for you Posted: 3/29/2009 12:25:42 AM
When she shows up..... j/k..... But I will go with a nice smile. Bonus when there is a booty to match.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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small breast appreciation Posted: 7/9/2008 5:59:06 PM
I figure why discriminate. I can appreciate all sizes. Although I have seen a few mention something about hair. I could do without that part.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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“Viewed me” link on POF Posted: 12/18/2007 1:44:06 AM
I would hope that woman don't feel rejection because I view them and didn't write. Otherwise I'm a bigger heartbreaker than I ever imagined.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

Msg: 222 (view)

Can you still be considered a nice girl...if you have a naughty side Posted: 12/16/2007 2:46:01 PM
Naughty or nice? If this isn't a Christmas question I don't know what is! Santa says you are on one list or the other, sorry. But if what you say is naughty, there wouldn't be any girls on the nice list. Or maybe I'm just a "naughty optimist" I should coin that phrase.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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Shy Introvert needing help coming out of his shell! Posted: 12/11/2007 4:30:33 PM
Sounds similar to a phobia. The way you get over phobias is by exposure to what you are afraid of. Regular exposure taking it small steps at a time.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

Msg: 85 (view)

Do you believe in ghosts? Posted: 12/9/2007 3:52:45 PM
Like others here, I have my share of ghost experiences. I definitely believe.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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Laughing & Giggling during Sex Posted: 12/9/2007 3:18:12 PM
I like to tease, tickle, nibble, etc... Laughing is usually unavoidable. But that tends to be the early stages of foreplay.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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does anyone still write love letters? Posted: 12/9/2007 3:08:39 PM
Wow, that question brings back memories of my teenage years when love felt so pure.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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If you had to choose........ Posted: 12/9/2007 12:33:34 AM
I will take "highly intelligent" over "common sense." I think someone who is highly intelligent and lacks common sense is probably a dreamer. Dreamers are usually optimistic and happier because they always have hope. That attracts me more.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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going back to your ex after a long time.. Posted: 12/9/2007 12:17:52 AM
This is the worst place to ask that question. If anyone here on this singles site says they have experienced it, it failed or they wouldn't be here. Unless of course they are just here for the forums. But to answer your question. I tried it, mission aborted.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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whos your dream man/woman Posted: 12/6/2007 11:44:05 PM
Dream girl, ah well lets see. She looks like Jesica Biel. She has the personality of Mary from There's Something About Mary. She is a virgin, yet is inately wild in bed waiting just for me. She cooks, cleans, plays xbox well, likes sports and is wildly in love with moi! But in all seriousness. I always liked someone who was a lot like myself.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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Love will come to you if you just wait? Posted: 12/6/2007 11:28:07 PM
There are no rules to love. It is unpredictable. But that is also part of it's charm.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

Msg: 36 (view)

ok. you've met 'the one', decide to join forces, now what?? Posted: 12/6/2007 11:21:05 PM
My best advice to make a relationship last is to keep dating that person. You see so many people get into a relationship and they just quit going on dates. Whether its kids, a job, or just getting overly comfortable. So whether it's 2 weeks or 20 years together, keep going on dates regularly.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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are you kinky or not? Posted: 12/6/2007 10:34:19 PM
Unfortunately for the masses of woman, I don't put out easily. But when I do, to answer the Q, yes I am!

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

Msg: 148 (view)

How to dumb myself down? Posted: 11/16/2007 7:03:56 PM
I can see how this would give you problems with woman. A woman doesn't like when you make her feel stupid. I do not have the time to read 6 pages of posts, so this may have been written before. Be more optimistic. Instead of dumbing yourself down, look at it as finding a way to improve yourself. More specific, improving your communication skills. You may very well be a genius, but if you don't learn how to communicate with the "masses," it may go to waste on a social level. This reminds me of a professor at college. He is very intelligent, but he is viewed as a poor teacher by his peers because he can't commuicate and connect with his class. He can't get his message or teachings across. As a result, his knowledge is going to waste. Essentially, he is on an island by himself. So stay positive, keep improving, and best of luck to you!

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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When he doesn't tip enough......... Posted: 11/16/2007 6:29:18 PM
If he tips to much, let him. If he is a chronic bad tipper, offer to tip a few times. Casually mention that you like to tip whatever percentage that you see fit. He will probably follow your lead after that as he probably doesn't WANT you to view him as cheap and may be blissfully unaware.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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best postition? Posted: 11/12/2007 4:17:19 PM
I don't dislike any of them. But for the sake of the question I will pick just one. I like it with the girl on top.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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Horrible kisser = deal breaker???? Posted: 10/20/2007 12:19:52 PM
Wow, good to know. Glad I'm such a good kisser when it seems 99% of the woman would dump the perfect guy who can't kiss. I wonder if everyone here could agree on what makes a bad kisser a bad kisser as everyones idea of a great kisser varies. I think there is a time and place for all styles of kissing. But I can see how someone who is overly aggressive and sloppy could ruin a softer romantic moment.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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Guys, if you met the right woman would you consider marriage? Posted: 10/1/2007 5:02:14 PM
why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free? I would buy the perfect cow, no doubt. I am not sure if I would trust milk that was given away for free. Everyone has probably had a sip and it's probably spoiled.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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cheating or not??? Posted: 10/1/2007 2:29:32 PM
Well if everything has been great except that ONE blip in the radar, don't sweat it. I go to the movies with my best friend on occasion and he is a guy. When his wife isn't interested in a movie that we really want to see, we go when she is busy with something else. Plus I've paid for both of us before. He brought the beer over to the house last time. So I think I got the better bargain buying the tickets.... Thats not to say he isn't cheating, just saying that his story is possible. I would be careful asking that question on a singles site too. You are kind of cute. So you will have guys telling you to dump the cheating bloke so they can have a crack at ya. If local I might have done that myself. j/k

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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Is it rude not to respond to every email? Posted: 10/1/2007 1:59:18 PM
I don't consider it rude. It's a time saver and a good filter. Why would I want to talk to someone who didn't instantly think I was awesome? ......Of course I respond to all emails myself. But I don't really get that many so that's easy. Plus it just adds to my awesomeness. jk I have a suggestion for POF. Get rid of the function to view our sent email status. A lot of people get a huge sense of rejection when they see that it was read and deleted.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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Has anyone ever started out just as friends and then later become a couple? Posted: 10/1/2007 1:36:17 PM
I've been friends first with all. The only down side about dating a friend, it's a good way to screw up the friendship if it doesn't work.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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would you marry for money? Posted: 9/25/2007 7:41:33 PM
For 10 million? .... and they aren't ugly? Hmmm .... WELL! hehe

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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The UFC..... Posted: 4/12/2007 11:56:11 AM
I think I am in the minority here but I like Matt Hughes. But I am basing my judgement on his fighting.... If we are just talking about people that we would invite over for a BBQ, then sure GSP would be a cool dude. I also hope GSP does well in his next bout. I don't dislike either of them.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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Female Genital Piercing Posted: 4/12/2007 11:32:58 AM
Ouch, I'd hate to chip a tooth down there! j/k

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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Would you tell anyone if you were rich?? Posted: 4/11/2007 8:36:43 PM
If I were rich I don't think I could hide it if I wanted too. She could tell by looking at my clothes. To quote a future hall of famer, I would be "Stylin' and profilin'"

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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Insecurities Posted: 4/10/2007 10:45:40 AM
OP, Insecurities can lead to a self fulfilling prophesy of doom that can snowball out of control. But it is far worse for those who don't even realize the problem, or choose to ignore it. The fact you are writing here shows you are on the right path and you could be close to overcoming the problem.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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Death Penalty Posted: 4/9/2007 11:14:40 PM
All for the death penalty. Putting a bullet in a horse who broke his leg is considered humane. Yet it's horrible to even think about putting a bullet in someone who just raped and killed little girls? Of course comparing an animal to a rapist might not be fair. I would value the animals life far more than some sick freak.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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Don't you find a porno movie boring sometimes? Posted: 4/9/2007 10:50:49 PM
I suppose it can get a little boring ..... after a few hours anyway.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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What would you do? Posted: 4/9/2007 10:20:07 PM
OP, I think you were just being nice by not telling him. I also think you were wanting to avoid conflict as well...... While it's true it might have helped to tell him, it wouldn't have mattered. You probably would have ended up getting called a B&$^# or worse for your efforts. In this world no good deed goes unpunished. ;)

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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Have you ever fallen BACK in Love? Posted: 2/27/2007 4:47:53 PM
I think the "expert" doesn't know what he is talking about and hasn't done his homework. If you ask a couple that has been married for 30, 40, or 50 years. They won't say they have been in love the whole time. Most will say that you fall in and out of love many times with each other over the long haul.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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Ever Have People Respond to Your Profile For No Reason? Posted: 2/27/2007 4:11:05 PM
I have received a few reponses for no reason at all..... It's pretty cool, especially if they are a real nutjob who knows how to make an impression. But maybe that's just me!

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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Who dominates in your bedroom????? Posted: 2/27/2007 3:43:50 PM
I've never known a dominant girl in the bedroom. Either it's all a myth or I just attact submissives. But I'm not complaining or anything!

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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IS IT WRONG TO SET A MAN UP TO CHECK HIM OUT?? Posted: 2/27/2007 3:31:10 PM
Yep, it's wrong.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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What would you do if some one offer to pick you up instead of meeting at the donut shop? Posted: 2/27/2007 3:08:10 PM
He is a control freak. He sure wasn't waiting long to try and exert some control on you.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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The UFC..... Posted: 2/26/2007 10:08:34 PM
Jon Fitch is good. The first time I ever heard of him is when Mike Swick was talking him up before his fight with Josh Burkman. I have seen him fight a couple times since. He does appear to be very talented in the couple bouts I saw..... Last I heard he is ticked off that his bout may not be shown on the ppv. I think if Fitch wins again they won't be able to hold him off the ppv's again.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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Video gamers: losers or big kids? Posted: 2/26/2007 8:17:56 PM
I play video games on occasion and I'm awesome!

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

Msg: 156 (view)

Do you french kiss on first meeting? Posted: 2/26/2007 7:52:14 PM
No way, a girl has to prove herself worthy of my affections first.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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do you talk with people who dont have a picture Posted: 2/26/2007 3:04:01 PM
I talk to any and everyone. It doesn't mean im attracted to everyone. But if you think I'm cool, odds are I will think you are too.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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~Sexual fulfillment without intercourse~ Posted: 6/22/2006 8:27:15 PM
Love for foreplay + great imagination = Many many great times.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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Sex or the Superbowl? Posted: 2/5/2006 11:46:20 PM
I choose Superbowl. Although if she took it upon herself to initiate things properly, I doubt I would stop her. Unless it were my team in the superbowl!

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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Straight Edge Posted: 1/18/2006 9:33:43 PM
Curvie cutie, I don't see why you would care if that guy found you attractive or not. He probably just assumed he didn't stand a chance of scoring with you cause you stay sober.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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I was feeling real good about myself until my friend told me that I was way out of my league. Posted: 1/18/2006 9:24:49 PM
Josephk, My first impression is that your "friend" sounds jealous.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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strong woman Posted: 1/17/2006 7:53:17 PM
I'll take the decaf.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage? Posted: 1/17/2006 11:35:18 AM
So if some gorgeous model who cooks, cleans and doesn't have a temper and likes to give head twice a day asked me to wait for marriage, you betcha!!

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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huh?!?!?!?!? I think I am a dating dunce!!!! Posted: 1/17/2006 11:21:51 AM
Princess007, I know sometimes it all just really f'n sucks. Don't let the bad experiences doesn't jade you. Goodluck in meeting the right one.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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what does it mean if some one appears on like thousands of other peoples favorites list?? Posted: 1/12/2006 6:51:25 AM
Any girl I've messaged with loads of favorites have all written back. So it's not really an indication of how they are, or if they are untouchable. It just means there are a million men to every girl here. Or in my area according to the search it's slightly more than a 5/1 ratio. So im sure if there were 5 woman to every 1 man, it would be the men who have the incredibly high 300+ counts. Of course the girls I know never have much luck finding someone normal on these sites. So I guess quantity does not equal quality.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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Ok my first rant... Posted: 1/11/2006 1:41:54 PM
I think a big part of it has to do with the skyrocketing divorce rates compared to how it was many years ago. You see quite a few old people celebrating their 50th anniversaries. But 50 years from now, couples like that will be few and far between.

wolfboy

Joined: 5/24/2005

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Different or the same? Posted: 1/10/2006 11:33:52 PM
I had almost nothing in common with my ex. We came from different countries with different cultures. We had different political, religious and sports views. But we had been best friends for the previous 6 or 7 years so we knew we got along well. But there was only one difference that we couldn't over come. I was honest, and she wasn't. Aside from that detail, it was working well for about 2 years.

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