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Thread: What's your sex score?
aluria
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What's your sex score?
Posted:
6/2/2008 4:48:42 PM
Country boy....I was only joking about the minus, sheesh!!!!!.....and I have nothing to hide as my SO knows that.....I see you did not give us your score, so dont condemn till you say your own!!!
aluria
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Would you do this to your ex?
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5/26/2008 6:08:06 AM
Hmmm, since you liked my post so much....yes I said my son because my ex is an ass.........I felt the same way as you do when it came to trying to preserve my relationship with my son because he hates his dad and on both sides of the family its very dysfunctional, BUT my son still had his chores and there were consequences when not done and yes he is the same (no drugs, smoking, drinking or getting in trouble) but lazy, angry(cause of dad) but he has learned to RESPECT me for teaching him tough love and keeps his dorm room clean..............what kind of house will her new boyfriend have, me thinks not a clean one!!!!
aluria
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Would you do this to your ex?
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5/25/2008 9:00:39 PM
As several posters said, your the adult!!! why leave your house filthy.......if your child refuses chores, tough love is the answer(no cell phone, no video games, no dates etc etc)............but if my son lived with his dad and lived like that, I would be yelling at both..but would not do something like that due to it might be my son falling and breaking his neck!!!
aluria
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Never hit a woman What's up with that?
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5/25/2008 7:02:03 PM
I agree with a poster here that said maybe the guy has been asked about that or has read about all the abusiveness that both male and females have gotten...I would not worry, just feel him out and go on from there.
aluria
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Can people take being too
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5/22/2008 7:46:46 AM
I would post in your local paper asking if anyone had a video on this, then send it to funniest videos..omg that was great, made me spit coffee all over my keyboard.
My friend works in a local pawn shop on the strip, he had just got thru making the main windows sparkling when he took out his cam to see what people would do. Yep you got it, people trying to walk thru window, people kissing the window, OMG we laughed so hard when he showed us....there was even one that actually licked the window......well guess not all stays in Vegas right haha
...but dam we do have some weird ass people that hang out on the strip!!!!!
aluria
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Good Girl/Bad Girl, What's the difference?
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5/22/2008 7:31:48 AM
I try to be both, it is the only way to be....and I think my SO likes it that way....and boy is it so much fun to be that bad girl hehe!!!!!
aluria
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What's your sex score?
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5/22/2008 7:22:16 AM
lol, was joking...but it was a +5
aluria
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Advice on meeting a man from POF
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5/21/2008 7:37:07 AM
Umm, sorry I would never go to them...Why does he not come and stay at a hotel/motel in your town, would be much safer, even tho there has been msg/phone calls you have not met him in person as a first meet. When my SO and I decided to meet(he lives across country) he came to me first and stayed at a local hotel here.
aluria
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could you live without your microwave oven.?
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5/21/2008 7:19:07 AM
I could live without the micro...but running water is a must..lived in Ky with the well, outhouse, and coal stove, so that made me appreciate alot of things in life...micro's are a convenience is all.
aluria
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woman sues airline for passenger shooting semen in her hair
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5/20/2008 5:58:53 PM
True Kawi...but what if it had dripped in her eyes, mouth etc etc or if she had a sore on her scalp
aluria
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woman sues airline for passenger shooting semen in her hair
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5/20/2008 7:49:44 AM
Well I feel she has no right to file a lawsuit against the airline...but would against the man...bodily fluids, yuck what if he has aids etc etc....all the news articles posted on here was what the woman said, I wonder what the man had to say....Oh and me, I would have knocked the living daylights out of him!!!!, then called for the flight attendent
aluria
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Would you leave the dating sites if you got in a serious relationship?
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5/20/2008 7:37:28 AM
My So and I are both still on here because we enjoy the forums and have friends on here that we associate with due to posts....but both our profiles say we are not looking, and here just for the forums.
aluria
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my neighbor is beating his wife
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5/20/2008 7:19:11 AM
Pasquel, would really like to know just how long it took you to realize and get out of your situation!!!! How many excuses you gave because your SO browbeat you...Are you going to say the very first time he was in anyway abusive whether it be verbal, mental or physical you escaped?
aluria
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About a girl asking a guy to marry
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5/19/2008 9:50:53 AM
OP...Funny my SO and I met here also and we do the same things(sending little love notes thru pof).......well it is leap year and if you think it is right go for it.........I asked mine but both of us laughed cause we don't want to marry at this time, having too much fun as is....good luck to you.
aluria
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What's your sex score?
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5/18/2008 10:18:09 AM
Yikes, no wonder my man loves me hehe....in the way minus side
aluria
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my neighbor is beating his wife
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5/17/2008 12:46:00 PM
To welders girl, if you have never been in that position please do not claim that it is excuses...you dont know what abuse does to a persons mental capacity....very low self esteem, scared to death because of the threats to themselves and their children....some women have never worked in their lives, have no families, no friends(due to husband keeping them away)etc etc...believe me I know have been in the system as one, have had friends and seen it thru being a foster child.
aluria
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Wife wants me to find a friend with benifits
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5/16/2008 5:49:00 PM
Not a good thing to do, keep using the old standby and let it be.......people say one thing for many reasons, guilt, selflessness etc etc...but when it comes to reality that trust issue will pop up....and then your wife is going to think will he fall in love with her, is she really better than me, will he be better off with her etc etc...my opinion
aluria
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my neighbor is beating his wife
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5/16/2008 5:40:57 PM
You can also call child protective services and let them know what is going on in the household and you are fearing for the children's safety.
aluria
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Women in Las Vegas on here are just on here for free meals and drinjs
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5/16/2008 5:37:05 PM
good for you Sassy for standing up for yourself...and men say we have such bitterness, geez!!!
aluria
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Women in Las Vegas on here are just on here for free meals and drinjs
Posted:
5/14/2008 7:20:22 PM
And men wonder why they dont get dates.....OP you are smart enough to know that when someone reads your profile they see what you have written....glad I found my SO on here, poor that he is...because at least he has the decency to never put down women like you OP on the forums....surprised mods have not come and deleted with you naming names and being so pissy
aluria
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You Only Live Once - or are some things better not to try?
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5/12/2008 7:04:42 AM
Thank God most of my fantasies were taken care when I was a young wild thing....now my fantasies are like making love on a deserted island things like that with my SO........if your married and there is that extreme trust on both sides then a threesome can be done, alot of married swingers are quite happy because of the TRUST, but that is very hard to come by when you are involved with someone...my opinion of course.
aluria
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Sexual performance.........
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5/12/2008 6:59:08 AM
Ummm, there are alot of real sex therapists out there that could probably help you OP on this...sounds like to me that something happened maybe when you were a child and are repressing it..or just call Dr Phil...........if you have had this problem with all women that is my suggestion................as for women expect perfection, no not true cause men/women are not perfect when it comes to the bedroom..thats where the enjoyment of learning from each other what spots turn each other on, what actions are just left alone etc etc.
aluria
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Is This Considered Cheating ???
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5/12/2008 6:44:55 AM
I did not read all the posts because I thought right off the bat yes...msg 3 thought the same thing as me...it would be the same thing as cyber sex, going to one of those peep shows etc etc...if you feel guilty then you are guilty...what would your SO think if he/she knew that you let another person of the opposite watch you masterbate and you watched that person....I dam well know I would feel that my SO would feel I cheated and vice versa...........wondering and fantasizing about someone, a coworker is one thing but when you step over that line and have some form of intimacy then yes it is cheating
aluria
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HAVE YOU EVER BEEN DUMPED VIA EMAIL??
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5/10/2008 9:07:15 AM
first on topic....been there and done that...it is alot easier when you have been physically or terribly mentally hurt...
now the second, OP (rock)..you say its a mistake on your profile, umm your height and all is wrong that is very interesting.
aluria
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To love, honor, and... OBEY?!?
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5/8/2008 9:04:40 PM
David, just because we dont want the word OBEY hangin around doesnt mean we want a wuss for a SO either...it still goes that if both people respect each other there is no reason to have the word OBEY around.
aluria
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Would you not be interested in a man because he posts?
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5/8/2008 4:50:01 PM
These forums was how I met and got interested in my SO...so to that I say hell no it gives you an incite on how people relate.
aluria
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Age appropriate dress
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5/8/2008 4:42:15 PM
Ageless darlin you are sexy in your own way....but your right sorry spiked heels have never been my cup of tea unless they were for spiking someone
aluria
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How to get the most enjoyment of sex with a Gaper?
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5/8/2008 4:31:22 PM
Ya'll scared the OP away...no longer on the site haha......kegals btw work absolutely fantastic even my doc said for my age ummm lets just say still like a youngster except for a little dryness lol
aluria
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Do you wish the worst for your ex?
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5/8/2008 4:24:13 PM
Of course, but then in some ways no I do not wish the worst only because he is the father of my son...but then I dont think my son would really care either
aluria
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Relationship arguements how do you handle them?
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5/8/2008 4:22:28 PM
I tell him to talk to the hand and he says yes dear.........Seriously, ya have to count to 10 step away and think about what the arguement is really about, usually its something stupid you can both laugh at.
aluria
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90 day and counting.....
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5/8/2008 4:20:01 PM
It is called always putting on the best example when first dating...aww then comes all the little idiosyncracies
aluria
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Is it just a guy thing or am i being a prude?????
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5/7/2008 1:50:53 PM
I told my SO that I guess it is time to clean out the old computer from all my pics and emails from let's say other friends haha...he is answer was didn't matter he knows where I sleep and that is the past.
aluria
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Age appropriate dress
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5/7/2008 1:48:57 PM
Yes your right Fed, it was done with all the surgery...but why not have the body you want and look good...true some of those clothes they wear I still would not wear, Ummm sorry have more class than showing all my wares!!!...and the show "what not to wear" is really quite informing for women that do not know how to dress appropriately...hell I would never wear some bright clothes for along time thought they made me look much chubbier, but then bought a pinkish colored dress and wow guess what everyone said it looked fantastic, so now I wear new and different colors...so women get a nonbiased opinion from people, it will work miracles.
aluria
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Has anyone received unwanted calls
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5/7/2008 1:43:20 PM
Naw Red ya don't want to piss of Who's that is for sure......but he hardly ever gets upset, just sarcastic once in awhile, but he really is a sweetie, luv him bunches.....I remember in high school a girl got real jealous of another trying to take her boyfriend and yep that number was written on boys/girls bathroom and also over at the local pizza place bathrooms.....ooh, hell hath no fury like a woman scorned!!!
aluria
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Age appropriate dress
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5/7/2008 8:01:28 AM
I am 52 and dam well not gonna show my midsection just because its in style or wear those hiphuggers I wore when I was in high school....but then you look at some of these women (goldie hawn, cher etc etc) and they still look fantastic wearing that kind of attire and is someone gonna tell them that's clothes for 20 year olds..NOT
aluria
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Men-what do your friends ask you about your new girlfriend?
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5/7/2008 7:58:02 AM
Your right Frog about me saying the one picked up the night before....but I have also heard men say "dam my wife/gf gave me the best bj I have ever had" etc etc or friends asking if their wives/gfs give bj's etc etc....yes some answer and some say its none of your business..mostly depends on how drunk they are....boy you here alot when your a bartender!!!!
aluria
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The first time you realize that you're sexy
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5/6/2008 3:16:51 PM
I was a casino host at a local casino here and we were having a New Years Party....It was animal themed and my outfit was a boustieer? lol and an extremely short skirt(leopard)print....and everyone said I was very sexy and sensual in that(I was 47 at the time)...myself felt like I was falling out and embarrassed by it.
aluria
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Beer bellies: Are they sexy?
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5/6/2008 2:37:39 PM
^^^^dont let him lie to you all!!!!...but that soft shell or even if he had a beer belly would be great, because its the person inside that counts............ummm unless its one of those thats all ya see of the person, then I would really have to think about it, ok did enough thinking NOT!!! Sorry don't want to have to move all the stuff around to find the other stuff...dam did I say that!!
aluria
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Age appropriate dress
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5/6/2008 2:35:05 PM
Now drunk dont be telling all our secrets...regarding the dress style, I was at a wedding the other day and all these young people who were not thin believe me were dressed in the tightest clothes with everything falling out everywhere and thought to myself that is just not classy or appropriate.
aluria
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Internet man telling you that he wants to have sex
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5/6/2008 2:27:53 PM
OMG...when my profile was on yahoo I had alot of young, mid and older men ask(mostly married haha) ask if they could come over or meet me to have a little rendevous....not in my lifetime thank you very much.....and on another site was always getting those young hot and I mean hot studs asking if I wanted to watch, geez some people(said would rather watch a mature man thank you)
aluria
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Has anyone received unwanted calls
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5/6/2008 2:11:35 PM
It is always nice to have a friend betray you in that way(umm being facetious)...Sorry, but that woman would be known all over the place..You did the right thing by changing your number. The police will not do anything but maybe the FCC would, I dont know.
aluria
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How long did it take you to win over your lover?
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5/6/2008 10:19:24 AM
Well met my SO on here a year ago...but we started really getting close about 2 months ago and he has been here to Vegas and now am moving to Georgia in the next few weeks to be with him.....probably if we had lived in the same city would have only taken one phone call lol.
aluria
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Romance & Relationships
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5/6/2008 9:54:46 AM
Dam glad I gave everything to both my last two husbands just to be out of the drunkeness and abusiveness...........back in the old days women stayed with their husbands and put up with the abuse and the word OBEY, they were ashamed to divorce...nowadays women have the right and are not ashamed to get out of an ungodly marriage.........yes unfortunately the laws on divorce make the money situation incredible for some and very fortunate for others............wives stayed home did not have to work so made the wives less able to get the divorce also
aluria
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Men-what do your friends ask you about your new girlfriend?
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5/6/2008 9:43:44 AM
to Whos...yes unfortunately us women can be bad...umm as you know with my best friend haha..........but I have heard men get pretty nasty about what they ask their friends about the girl from last night!!!!
aluria
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Age appropriate dress
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5/6/2008 9:10:41 AM
I wear what looks good on me period.....dont care what other people say...I dress classy, sexy or grungy depends on what I am doing at the time
aluria
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Beer bellies: Are they sexy?
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5/6/2008 7:26:44 AM
OP again you are making excuses why you are not getting dates and again will tell you like others have said, look within yourself to see why you are not getting dates...it has nothing to do with beer bellies, superficial women etc etc.
aluria
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Why women get bored with sex - my theory.
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5/6/2008 7:11:24 AM
It's called keep the imagination, fantasy, and foreplay going on and things should stay happy and content...no beggin or getting bored.
aluria
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Driving while InTEXTicated
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5/6/2008 6:44:40 AM
Oh believe me I have wanted to jump out of my car and shake some of the kids/adults and say wtf...I live very near a junior high and high school and see these kids driving with their cells not paying attention, almost getting ran over cause crossing the street with the cells attached to their ears...I have yelled at my best friend cause she has to answer that dam cell when driving....every state needs to outlaw or very heavily fine someone driving while using a cell period......I have seen many accidents because people were using their cell and not paying attention, oh and you can say there is not a problem with the voice activated ones attached to the ear, but you still get excited, angered etc etc when talking and that distracts you from the road...excuse me texting is much more dangerous than just talking.
aluria
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Women in Las Vegas on here are just on here for free meals and drinjs
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5/6/2008 6:34:13 AM
msg 13...you are so off the wall with your comments regarding most people on the internet, or are you just talking about yourself being an undesirable?...there are many reasons people come to dating sites...I was on several, first one was for the forums, second one and third one was because friends of mine designed the sites, this one both forums and dating because I said why not, I dont like going to bars or clubs and I liked the idea of talking with someone on here before I met them, and just maybe go outside of the box to another area..which in my case worked and found my SO in another state.
aluria
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is it wrong to surf profiles?
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5/6/2008 6:26:48 AM
It still comes down to the issue of trust between both partners..My SO and I laugh and talk about the threads here and some of the profiles, we both post on here, he knows that some idiot keeps adding me as a favorite and I keep removing him, I know that a female poster added him to her favorites cause she likes to read his posts....both of us trust each other completely about what each does on here...but we do not just surf profiles, what would be the reason for that? Yes again like I said we both will look at a profile to help us understand why someone would post something or give us a better advantage to reply, but that is the only reason!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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