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crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007

Msg: 124 (view)

Are men wired to cheat? Posted: 6/29/2008 6:11:59 PM
Both species are wired to cheat! Males to spread thier sperm and thier genes. Females to colect better sperm and a variety of sperm. In both cases theres a risk with monogamy. In the males case if he only breeds with a single sickly female she may die before she raises his genes to independence and to breeding age. If the female coulates with a single male, with faulty sperm then ALL her offsprng will carrry that fault and none of them will survive to carry on HER genes to the next generation.

crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007

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Why are women more open than men?? about SEX Posted: 6/29/2008 6:06:33 PM
In my experience those men who brag about how good they are in bed and boast about how many women in HIS past have gotten off -- I sit there laughing hard because I know that it's gotta be BS. ========================= I have some news for you m dear. It probably NOT bs at al. When me and da boize get together and the topic of conversation drifs roudn to the number of sexual partners we've had most of the guys average from five to ten and, any girl around average from ten to twenty. The math just doesn't add up till one or perhaps wo guys come up with a figure in the hundreds. these are the guys who brag to you.

crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007

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Why are women more open than men?? about SEX Posted: 6/29/2008 6:03:28 PM
They arent Jessie. But women are! their sexua hang ups dominate their lives so totaly that they put a hostile sexual slant even on the most minor compliment. eg A woman has had a new hair color. The guys reaction "Nice tips" the female selectivley hears that as "nice tiits" and she turns nasty. eg She's dressed in short skirt, plunging neckline and thigh highs. He says "Like the boots" she hears "like the boobbs" and once again turns nasy. You hear the women moaing about guys who only think of sex, all over theese ere boards.

crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007

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On nipples and bra... Posted: 6/28/2008 4:33:18 PM
I would be less than impressed with a professional woman, in a board meeting, or other professional situation, who was morre intereted in flogging her sexuality than her skills. The rest of the time its no issue.

crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007

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Where's a good place to meet a serious guy? Posted: 6/28/2008 4:30:38 PM
Supermarket! More successful than all the rest put together. As for you approaching. Thats only the red ligt to a very few guys who you don't want to know about anyway.

crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007

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Jumping from guy to guy!! Posted: 6/24/2008 6:36:46 PM
Nevertheless found it hard to swallow for a long time how someone could go from love to indifference with a bat of the eye. Anyone ever experienced this? ===================================== Are you kidding Gary. Of course others have experienced this. The girls on these boards are moaning about these "players' all the time.

crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007

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Good Girl/Bad Girl, What's the difference? Posted: 6/24/2008 6:34:28 PM
Whats the difference has little or nothing to do with sex. A bad girl is the kind who - thinks that there is no such thing as husband bashing. Only wife bashing. - abandons the current boyfriend when he can't take her dancing causehe's bronken a leg. AND - after she's abandoned him, (right when he needs a litle help) spends her time maoaning about "man shortages" Got the idea ladies? Nothing to do with sex.

crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007

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Smarter ladies have worse sex Posted: 6/24/2008 3:47:23 PM
I started my working life as a technician, in a radiation research lab. All the female PhDs, bar one, were better than average and even the one exception wasnt too bad. And they did have pretty active sex lives.

crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007

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women that like to have guys interested in them, even the ones who she is not attracted to. Posted: 6/24/2008 3:44:45 PM
Actually she's probably more likely to be bawling her eyes out on the millionare bf's shoulder that even the office creep said he wouldn't date her.

crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007

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Why would a guy keep asking if you're ok during sex? Posted: 6/24/2008 3:41:51 PM
It's because the poor guy has been subjected to a LIFE time of abuse , by the womens trash rags. A load of drivel about how guys are lousy lovers and how hard sex is for women. You may have thought you were making it clear that you were enjoying it. Trust me, you wern't making it clear enough.

crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007

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women that like to have guys interested in them, even the ones who she is not attracted to. Posted: 6/24/2008 3:38:57 PM
It's the fragile female ego again. I dont date beautiful women with bad attitudes and those are the most fragile egos of the lot.

crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007

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The Death Penalty - When is it ever justified? Posted: 6/24/2008 3:30:14 PM
"The atrocious murder of four girls to satisfy his sexual desire leaves no room for leniency," Chief Justice Tokiyasu Fujita said in January 2006 when Miyazaki’s final appeal was thrown out and the death penalty handed down. ============================================= For starters this chief justice is an idiot , not even fit to sit the majistrates court. Any judge, or even cop, worth his salt knows that both rape, and murder are crimes to satisfy VIOLENT tendancies , not sexual desires. Secondly, when it comes to sexual crimes I will remind the whole board that the first major triumph of DNA testing was when it proved , beyond any doubt, that thousands of convicted rapists, rotting un jail, were INNOCENT. Rapists are the first people that the boards of mass hysteria try to throw the book at but they are normally convicted on the flimsiest of evidence and often convicted on pure rumour.

crayonzz

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What has Humanity caused? Global Warming-No - Trash Pile Twice the size of Texas-YES Posted: 6/24/2008 3:08:50 PM
Time to put a little maths into the equation world popuation = 6 billion maximum trash produced = 1 cubic metre er person a week. (guess. It's probably less) 6 billion cubic metres a week fifty weks a year = 300 billion cubic metres. Sounds like a lot but we dump this in Texas , in a large square to a hieght of only one metre. The square root of 300 billion is 547,722 metres or 547km. And thats a height of only one metre. It would need one thousans years for a mountian range of only 1 km in height. And, in fact, Australia could make good use of such a mountian range. A new Western Mountian Range would create a new rain shadow to bring permanant rain to Australia parched western deserts. But it would take all the words trash or over a thousand years to achieve.

crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007

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Why does someone call constantly when they just met you... Posted: 6/24/2008 4:32:23 AM
Have a look at all the women grizzling that the guy DOESN'T call them back , twice a day, after the first date.

crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007

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What makes a parent abandon their kids? Posted: 6/24/2008 3:16:57 AM
well there is a suicide rate amongst non custodial parents that the media never talk about as it isnt trendy news. ====================== I'm spitting hairs but you forgot to mention that it accounts for more dead bodies than the road toll.

crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007

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Wayne Carey - The Interview - Any Thoughts ? Posted: 6/24/2008 3:11:19 AM
I find this amusing. Are you calling Carey a woman throwing a hissy fit? ==================================== No I'm calling him a sensitive new age guy finding his feminine side.

crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007

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The Corby's are at it again Posted: 6/24/2008 3:09:06 AM
The only thing I do know for sure. If any real evidence comes to light which absoloutely proves Corbys innocence or guilt, beyone any possible doubt, thn the media will throw a blanket over it. It's only hot news as long as it remains controversial.

crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007

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Why is American law enforcement so obsessed with drivers speeding Posted: 6/23/2008 5:28:22 AM
It's certainly a money grab. It's obsessed over because it's an EASY money grab. It's a lot harder to prove that the mother , trying to break up a fight between the kids, while still driving, is doing something FAR more dngerous than speeding. It also gets more public sympathy in a court and is more likely to be thrown out. Regardless ofhow big a menace this woman is to her kids. It's obsessed over because mid clas USA falls for it. Overeating kills far more americans than speeding. Hell! The top killers, in order, are Heart attack, cancer , stroke, suicide, astma. Road accidents are about number ten and the number of accidents actually CAUSED by speeding is closer to number on hundred in the list of top killers.

crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007

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Need some advice guys... Posted: 6/23/2008 4:45:47 AM
You can't DO anything to salvage the relationship. If it still works it still works. If it doesn't it doesn't. What you CAN do is when another "amazing guy" wanders up you can make a point of sticking with the guy yuve got.

crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007

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men and chatting up Posted: 6/23/2008 4:42:08 AM
They don't! They are not chatting you up. They are just chatting. And they arent paticularly interested in dating you. Thats why they stop contacting after just a few dates.

crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007

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sir david attenborough and climate change Posted: 6/23/2008 4:38:16 AM
As consumers we can all buy hybryd vehicles. Although even there the governments are being a pain. Yamaha has brought ot the ultimate. A hybryd motorcycle. Phenomenal mileage and minimum pollution. But the Australain govenment wont allow it because it's so radical is outside design regulations.

crayonzz

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Guys and Pickup Lines Posted: 6/23/2008 4:33:07 AM
Actually half the so called, pick up lines werent pick up lines at all. They were just regular guys making regular conversatoin. Mostly from guys who werent in the least bit interested in picking up the girl they were chatting to. It's the female ego that see's normal conversation as pick up lines.

crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007

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Don't accomplishments and smarts count for anything? Posted: 6/22/2008 6:07:23 AM
Smarts? Intelligent conversation.? OK then. Here's one to stir up the old brain cells. Eveloution and plaentology is one of my various interests. So here's the question. Why do certain specific SHAPES dominate the planet even when there is no common ancestor or direct genetic link. eg The koala bear isn't a bear at all. It's nearest genetic realative is the womabat, which is more like a badger in behaviour than any bear. (Although plenty of Australaian women describe men as womats, "eats roots and leaves") And the Echidna or spiny ant eater looks more like a hedgehog or porcupine than it's nearest genetic realative, whic is the platypus. What causes these specific shapes to dominate the evoloutionary pattern.?

crayonzz

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Why do guys talk about how wealthy they are? Posted: 6/22/2008 6:01:23 AM
It's not her business how much I make a week unless we get married...and I don't see marriage in my future. I can sock away $1500 a month into savings. ================================== Not bad! What sort of work are we talking about here and do you still have to pay rental on a trailer park.?

crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007

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Why do guys talk about how wealthy they are? Posted: 6/22/2008 5:58:31 AM
Because many man can't deal with a woman who makes more than he does. =================================== On the contary, it the millionare woman who can't deal with anything less than a BILLLIONARE partner.

crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007

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Guys dancing uninvited with girls Posted: 6/22/2008 5:56:45 AM
I think it's the girls behaving like jerks when they grizzle about guys who don't pick up on so called "flirting signals" but still have the nerve to grizzle about guys who do pick up on these signals and want to dance with them.

crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007

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Do women need to work at it harder after 45? Posted: 6/21/2008 6:13:53 PM
Where the women DO have to work harder is in thier attitude to men.

crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007

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Eye opener Documentary on the Israeli / Palestine conflict... Posted: 6/21/2008 5:37:14 PM
The real mistake with ANY of these doccos is the assumption that Israel is fighiting a war of justice. It isn't. It's fighting a war of survival and has never pretended otherwise.

crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007

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How many women is enough?! Posted: 6/21/2008 5:03:59 PM
Soooo ... after they ask you to marry them ... they're back here looking? ==================================== No cotter After they ask you to marrry them they are back in here chatting to their friends. This board may have been started as a dating site. But it's also an electronic bar where you don't have to run a gauntlet of bouncers to get in. It's an electronic social and specific interests club where you can discuss topics which would bore the girl next to you in the bar. But which the girl on the other side of the world IS interested in.

crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007

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Why do guys talk about how wealthy they are? Posted: 6/21/2008 4:58:01 PM
There's a post, just a few boards away, where the girls are carrying on, like so many pork chops, about if a guy REALLLLYY loves you, unless he spends three months salary on an engagement ring. So please stop inuslting us men by pretending that money doesn't mean anything to you. You know , as well as I do, that it does.

crayonzz

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does invisible ink exist Posted: 6/21/2008 4:49:49 PM
This is a familiar story. And this is the TRUE story about the vast majority of these dates. 1/ When he first asks her out she knocks him back because the girlfriends (who have hopeless love lives thenselves) have told her "don't say yes the first time or he wont respect you. But she does more than knock him back, She's downright rude about it. 2/ If he asks again she accepts but then spends the entire date grizzling at him About his state of dress, about his car, about his income etc. 3/ The third date involves meeting her girlfriends, or her parents and once again hes subjected to this tirade of grizzling 4/ By the forth date he's had enough. He tells her he's breaking up with her and she rips her clothes off and hauls him into the bed in order to keeep him Fact is it doen'st work. He's made up his mind, BEFORE that fourth date that you arent the girl for him. So he's not going to turn down the sudden offer of sex. But he's not going to call back either.

crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007

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why do you go on 1st date so casual... Posted: 6/21/2008 4:42:57 PM
By gum weve got a bunch of shalow women here havent we. Women who don't deserve ANY man. You think youre worth a man who doesn't dress like a slob? Then prove it. List a dozen things (factual not hypothetical!) things WORSE than dressing like a slob.

crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007

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How much is enough??? Posted: 6/21/2008 4:39:05 PM
Right then folks. He's supposed to spend three months salary on a ring. How many months salary is the girl supposed to have saved, for the home mortgage deposit by the time they get engaged. Rembering too that she will be the onehanging onto the home after the divorce. I hear regular grizzling about men not pulling thier weight on the domestic scene. But I see no sisgn of women pulling their weight on the financial scene.

crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007

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How many women is enough?! Posted: 6/21/2008 4:33:51 PM
Excuse me. Men are people. Not damn property. You don't own them after the first time they have spoken to you. Of course they are still going to maintain their network of friends after they have contacted you.

crayonzz

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Does being old mean you have to be rude? Posted: 6/21/2008 4:24:07 PM
I have been a member here since June 4, 2008. I have only received 4 negative messages since that day. 2 of them came from really old men that has the same similar message to send me: "Being beautiful isn't everything" and one had the audacity to add "I bet you have not spoken to a real man before, email me at bittergeezerrod at yoohoo dot com. Does being old mean being mean to others? =================================== A little race reversal=== I have only received 4 negative messages since that day. 2 of them came from black or Asian men that has the same similar message to send me: "Being beautiful isn't everything" and one had the audacity to add "I bet you have not spoken to a real man before, Does being a forigener mean being mean to others? ============================ Now you know how loud the screams of racism would be if you posted anything like this. It's exacly the same with age. If you really want to hear rudeness then get yourself to any lighspot and listen to the girls , kni=ocking back requests for a dance. Thats where REAL rudenes occurrs.

crayonzz

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going alone ? Posted: 6/21/2008 7:24:05 AM
Are you kiddding? I'm thinking of the hundreds of posts, from women , absoloutely howling that this SPECIFIC guy didn't pick up on her "flirting" and other such unseen signals. I got news for you m dear. despite all the crapp that your girlfriends have told you , about what men are thinking you CAN'T read a mans mind. And they can't read yours. When you sit alone SOME men will think you are on the pick up. Just as SOME women only ever sit alone when they are on the pick up.

crayonzz

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Please answer This... Posted: 6/21/2008 7:20:13 AM
M dear. Take a god hard listen to your divorced girlfreinds. Listen to them ranting about a womans RIGHT to vent. Whats so different about men?

crayonzz

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Don't accomplishments and smarts count for anything? Posted: 6/21/2008 6:56:02 AM
Acomplishments??? I don't really call beng freighted roudn the world, from motel to motel, any real sort of "acomplishment." Have you 1/ Made any sort of world altering discovery 2/ Attained any post graduate qualifications and built a carreer 3/ Successfuly raised a kid 4/ Paid off a house.

crayonzz

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are women willing to look past a mans flawed teeth. Posted: 6/20/2008 4:38:04 PM
You know where I'm coming from if you can list a half a dozen things WORSE than flawed teeth.

crayonzz

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Coming on too strong.... Posted: 6/20/2008 4:22:00 PM
I think some guys like it when you dont call too much it leaves a challenge for them. I cant figure men out i was recently dating someone from this site and he was coming on real strong and then he sends me an email breakup coward huh??? ========================================== Thats your fragile female ego dictating your life again m dear. The fragile female ego enjoys the "thrill of the chase" The thrill of being considered worth chasing. Have a look at the billions that Loreal have made with the "because yure worth it" campaigns. Men don't enjoy the challange. They tolerated the chase for the sake of the sex and the end of it but they do not enjoy it. And if the chase goes too long they will break it off. Just as yur recent break up did. BTW Why did you use the expression "coward'. If courage is required to get into a relatinship with you then such a relationship is worthless.

crayonzz

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Why a virgin? Posted: 6/20/2008 7:46:16 AM
What is the deal with men wanting to be married to a virgin ================================ Which centry did this one crawl out of. Where's the Tardus?

crayonzz

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35, No Kids, Never Married Posted: 6/20/2008 7:39:43 AM
What sort of guys are you comparing them to.???????? How about the abusive type, who picks a blazing row with his parents, age 15 and storms out of the house for good. He lives on the street. At least he does so unless he can find some girlfriend to move in with and who wil pay their combined expenses as he doesn't have a job. And, if she insists on marrige well, no problem. She cant sue him for money he doesn't have after the divorce. But he can sue her. He's been married and divorced five time by the time he's 35. Makes your "mummys boy" seem like a perfect catch.

crayonzz

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Smarter ladies have worse sex Posted: 6/20/2008 7:33:00 AM
No I dont It's a two bob overnight study. for serious studies I direct you to a 40 year study by Prof Rudoluph Terman. He randomly seleced a gropu of several hundred gifted kids with IQs over 120, and did a long term study on their lives. The first surprise was hat these gifted kids were better than average physical specimens. Better at sport and healthier generally. They also had active social lives, debunkying the myth of the briliant geks whos a social outcast. Their sex lives were more active than average. In fact the only score which was lower than expected, was in the area of intellectual achievement. They had higher rates of colege graduation and work promotion than average, but not as high as would be expected from IQs over 120

crayonzz

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Do women like to be seen as sex objects or people? Posted: 6/20/2008 7:27:44 AM
Women world wide over want to be seen as mindless tramps and whores and general sex objects for men to use and abuse and discard. Do you have any other questions? ============================ That would be about right Rose. Women take no pride in any other women with brains. Names like Sally Ride, Rosalyn Franklin, or Julia Gilliard, are unknown. But the names of the hollywood sex objects are commonplace round both men and women.

crayonzz

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Do women like to be seen as sex objects or people? Posted: 6/20/2008 7:24:33 AM
If you really want to see a program about sex objects try the Australian documentary "Footy Chicks" The girls interviewed whinge that the footy stars only ever see the girls as sex objects. But these same girls are throwing themselves at the guys, tits first. And then, these same girls talk about these players being "past their use by date". It's the girls who are seeing these guys as sex objects. Not the other way round.

crayonzz

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Does shyness turn a guy off???? Posted: 6/20/2008 7:20:38 AM
Yes it does. But not for the reasons you think. A shy girl comes accross as one who doesn't really want to date the guy she's dating. And, contary to the girldfriends drivel roudn the lunch table, guys actually DO care if the girl's enjoying the date, or the sex. And, if she's not enjoying it, it turns the guys right off.

crayonzz

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Coming on too strong.... Posted: 6/20/2008 7:17:49 AM
I would call coming on in an abusive or stalking manner as coming on too strong. Regardless of gender. In the sitcom Two and a Half men the dumped stalker is portrayed as comic and pathetic because she's female. Make it a male stalker, stalking a female and it would cease to be funny very rapidly. One thing I can tell you. If you tel him you have plans then you will still get dates with him but you will NOT get a boyfriend. You are the girl who dates all the guys? Fine! He's one of the guys who dates you. But he will keep looking for a committed gf elsewhere.

crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007

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Is commitment the deal breaker? Posted: 6/20/2008 7:12:07 AM
Pretty hypocritical , the girls grizzling about it. When over 80% of all divorces are instigated solely by the wife and less than 10% soley by the husband. It's the women who truly have no sense of committment.

crayonzz

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Why never married @ 56 yrs of age? Posted: 6/20/2008 7:09:27 AM
Why is everyone here blaming the man? Have a read through these very board. Posts all over the place from the women , about guys they would NEVER date, let alone marry. And these posts are mild compared to some of the fanatical ones that the average 56 year old has grown up with. Try some of these for real manhaters. == Feminism is hated because women are hated. Anti-feminism is a direct expression of misogyny; it is the political defense of women hating. ==The fact that we are all trained to be mothers from infancy on means that we are all trained to devote our lives to men, whether they are our sons or not; that we are all trained to force other women to exemplify the lack of qualities which characterizes the cultural construct of femininity. ==Seduction is often difficult to distinguish from rape. In seduction, the rapist often bothers to buy a bottle of wine. == Marriage as an institution developed from rape as a practice. Many MANY women, over the last 30 years have just about worshiped the rantings of these fanatics and both men and marriage have been the last thing on their minds

crayonzz

Joined: 11/14/2007

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The Future Posted: 6/20/2008 6:56:40 AM
I have to wonder, is this how people percieve our future?? ========================================= Raid a public library and see if they have any 30 year old books trying to predict the future, as it is, NOW. I got hold of one predicting that massive polloution disasters, from nuke power stations, in the eighties, had led to all nuke power being banned in favour of solar. And also talking about things like research colonies on the moon and universal cancer vaccines. None of these thing have happened. Children of men may be closer to reality than you think. Because its an issue of MENS HEALTH (eeekkk taboo) it doesn't get the airtime that womens health gets but a recent US study has found that the male sperm count, in the developed world, has halved over the last two generations. The blame, still unproven, is **ails, of minuite pesticides, and herbicides. These are well within safe amounts by themselves but, when taken up as a **ail mix, then two plus two plus two doesn't equal six when the safe dose is ten. It equals closer to sixteen.

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