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tanner

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Cheaters aren't necessarily evil? Posted: 9/20/2007 12:20:43 PM
i've been cheated on, and i would never want to inflict that kind of pain on someone else. many belive that once they've been hurt by someone, they then have the right to hurt others in turn..... it's a sad way of looking at life. i believe that many people do that, and because of it, there are alot of people out there seeking revenge. it would be nice, if people could learn from these situations and vow to not treat others like that......i wonder how much the adjustment in attitude would affect us all

tanner

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Diamonds and Change Posted: 8/21/2007 12:06:21 PM
i am in the diamond industry. and i agree that conflict diamonds and the conotations that go along with them is horrible. most stores do everything they're able to to ensure that what they carry isn't from those countries....of course, the methods aren't fool proof....which is very sad. i for one, would be happy to wear another stone for a wedding ring, or even a cz....did you hear that guys? here is someone that would wear a cz instead of a diamond.

tanner

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broken heart of another kind. Posted: 8/20/2007 1:26:25 PM
oh yeah....i forgot to put this on here.... -----//\\-----Please ----//- \\----put this ---\|\|\|--\|\|\|---on your ---\|\|\|--\|\|\|---account ---\|\|\|--\|\|\|---if you know ----\\\-///---someone who -----\\///----has died ------///\----of cancer -----///\\\---or is fighting ----///--\\\--it now........

tanner

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broken heart of another kind. Posted: 8/20/2007 1:25:38 PM
hi everyone....i have a slightly different take on this topic, as i am a cancer patient, wow, it still feels wierd to say that..... i have 2 brain tumors and feel so alone. i am the oldest child of the seven in my family. all of my siblings are married and having babies and moving forward in life. and i am divorced, have no children, and am doing the cancer thing. i feel so out of place. we rarely if ever talk about what i'm going thru. and that hurts as i am not able to relate to them and their lives. it seems to me that it's as they don't even care. i know that they love me, i figure that they are hesitant to talk about what i'm going thru, and don't want to bring it up. i wish they would....i need to talk about it.... one would think that i am totally upset about my cancer, but i'm not. i've learned so much in these past 2 years. i realize how little time we have here before we move on. i finally notice things that i was always too busy to see. the butterflys that i didn't even notice before now....i'm assume that they've always been around, i was just too caught up in my own things to see them. cancer has changed my life in so many ways. i see need in others that i was always too busy to notice before. i've become someone who helps perfect stangers. i load their groceries into their cars. i help older people, or handiable people shop in grocery stores. i smile at everyone i pass....and most important....i tell the people i love that i love them each and everytime i see them....i've never hugged so much in my life. if i had the choice to have cancer taken from me, i don't think i would trade it in, as it's been such a blessing in my life. it has taught me the true meaning in life, and how to live it better than ever before.

tanner

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Church Denies Gay Veteran Funeral Service Posted: 8/18/2007 1:30:47 PM
it sadens and shocks me what this world choses to do to others..... how many different "h0ly wars" been fought over things like this? how many lives have been lost based on differences in beliefs of the various religions of the world? there are many wars that need to be fought but why these....the "h0ly" wars? ..i believe i worship the same G0d that most everyone does....he's known by many different names....but i've always believed that He's the same G0d to us all......why do we worry so much about what others are doing and believing in reguards to this? we were taught to love people....period....no ifs, ands, or buts. my best friend is g@y, and his family won't talk to him until he "repents" of his sins. that's one of the saddest things i can imagine... my family has now brought him into our lives...we celebrate birthdays and christmas with him...and all the while, his family is missing out on this wonderful person. it makes me more than a little sad. when people tell me that g@y people choose this kind of lif style...i ask them, "when did you choose to be stra!ght?" they usually say, "i was just born straight..." is it really that big of a leap to belive that these people were born they way they were supposed to be too? love everyone.....look at your own faults insead of pointing out others. we are called to love.....period.....

tanner

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Is it true s dont like guys that are virgins?? Posted: 8/18/2007 1:15:59 PM
i for one applaud your choice to wait til marriage....walk on the ocean. it's a lovely sentiment for your future spouse.....and really, the only way to keep yourself clean until your wedding day.....spirtually, and physically..... these days, s!eeping around is a very dangerous thing.....and just not worth it....you can always rely on bob though.....

tanner

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Surprising Expiration Dates Posted: 8/10/2007 2:26:25 PM
thanks for the info.....my parents food storage will get a close inspection this weekend...... i assume that if something has a half inch or more of dust on it, it goes? perhaps i can take all the expired items to the "antiques road show"......some of the stuff hiding in the food storage has to be worth something, wish me luck

tanner

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I'm sick to death of this insensitive, malicious, & depraved behavior Posted: 7/21/2007 8:28:49 PM
this kind of thing won't ever end...or so it seems... i wish the whole idea of the de@th penalty actually worked as a system, that way instead of appeal after apeal, the sentence could be carried out in a timely manner, which would free up cells for losers like this..... i don't know if cr!minals will ever pay the debt that is owed to society....people are becoming more and more depraved....and unless we can all change drastically and work to change our perceptions....i fear things will only get worse....

tanner

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Best Pizza Place in Your Hometown Posted: 7/19/2007 4:36:33 PM
best pizza place in logan utah....fire house pizza...locally owned and operated. the fasooki is great....fresh cookie hot out of the oven with ice cream on top.... everything else there is great as well....

tanner

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How do I get him to ask me out Posted: 7/6/2007 12:01:30 AM
go ahead and ask him out....alot of m@n love it when they can sit back and relax about having to approach someone..... i've asked men out....even perfect strangers..... and almost always....it's a go.... have fun out there....

tanner

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Murphree TX exonerated every guy caught by CATCH A PREDATOR Posted: 7/3/2007 10:51:01 PM
one less sicko in the world to hurt our kids is fine by me......

tanner

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New Trend: Trash the Wedding Dress Posted: 7/3/2007 1:29:50 PM
i don't know about trashing the dress....but i am very happily d!vorced. when it was all said and done, i went out and bought myself the most beautiful green and blue d!vorce ring......seven years after my d!vorce, i found the perfect matching band. 7 green diamonds that perfectly matched the other green diamonds. it had seven matching diamonds and i bought on the 7th anniversary of our d!vorce. we also had been married for seven years.....kinda felt like fate.... anyways....it helped heal me from that time in my life....and i remember how much stronger of a person that i am now because of all that i went thru. a month or two ago i saw a post on here of a guy that decorated his car with ballons and crepe paper....he had on the back of his car....just d!vorced...... i wish i had thought of that........

tanner

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funny online dating profiles Posted: 7/1/2007 11:24:13 PM
i have a scarey one for you...... i was once in envited by a man in florida, no, he wasn't m0rm0n, to join his siter w!ves group, (look it up, it really exsists) his goal was to have 100 w!ves.....hahahaha....as if any on m@n could satisfy that many w0men.....he invited me to bring my sisters, friends, my mother, my aunts, cousins, and my grandmothers..... i put his letter with some of the other "interesting" profiles i've come across..... there are some strange ones out there.....

tanner

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a better question about physical assault vs Posted: 6/18/2007 4:21:53 PM
i agree with 'man with ad' i was in a situation once on a first date.....h# told me what he wanted. i said no, h# grabbed me and after that it didn't really matter anymore.....h# was alot bigger than me...and there was a little voice in my h#ad that told me that i would be badly hurt if i f0ught back........ i was pretty physically messed up after that....so i went to the h0spital.....the hospital then had the p0lice come to the the room i was in. they took a statement. i tried to press charges....he claims that i liked it r0ugh and said nothing happened (even though the internal damage, and vicious b!te marks and external bruising said otherwise) of course the law tried to side with me, but since he said that i liked it r0ugh, there wasn't much else we could do.......anybody up for trying to change things around here?

tanner

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Ok for Child Rapist? Posted: 6/11/2007 10:27:42 AM
the de@th penalty is a touchy subject. these days, with the prison overcrowded, it nearly impossible to keep a r@pist in for life. alot of these monsters are let out early. ch!ld m0lesters are let out early to serve their sentences with their ankle bracelets. (as if this would stop them) i read about a company once that had developed a sensor to be used in cell phones, that would alert the the person with the phone, if someone with an ankle braclet was close by. the phone went off so many times, the manufactures were afraid that nobody would ever leave their houses or children alone. many people say that if a r@pe has been commited, a nice solution to the problem would be to c@strate the guilty party....a grand idea until you consider that the act of r@pe isn't usually an act of p@ssion, it is anger plain and simple. the necesity of using force on someone to take away their power. c@stration would only force them to use another method to carry out the frustration and anger. in this world of leniancy for cr!minals and their cr!mes, i applaud the work of good ole Sherrif Joe in phoenix arizona.....the idea of actually having convicts work while in pr!son seems like a new concept in our system......the concept of tent city is long overdue....where they have no air conditioning, and days are spent working on a chain gang, is a spetacular idea. if the pr!sioners riot, their und!es are dyed pink, if the rioting continues, the food is dyed green and made into a loaf, then the h2o is turned off....and so on....pr!son is not an easy ride with sheriff Joe around.....not even close.... let's help stop early paroles and give these people real punishment i hope more states follow suit.

tanner

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has anyone experianced this??it was freaky Posted: 6/10/2007 2:04:20 PM
i met someone on here that just after i accepted a date told me, "i think i may be falling in love with you...." it freaked me out. the date came, and he was a perfectly nice person. i didn't feel anything more than a friend connection though. ( i live with my family right now as i have cancer and am not able to live on my own these days.) since he had traveled from down south, my parents offered one of our spare bedrooms for him to spend the night in. that was totally fine by me, but the next day as he was leaving, he asked myparents if he could come again next week and spend the whole weekend.....he never asked me if i wanted to go on a second date.... that was a bit strange for me......

tanner

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As a guy, I find it offensive... Posted: 6/5/2007 3:41:24 PM
i don't generally ask that question....as long as he's doing something he likes and isn't buried in debt, i'm pretty happy. it seems that alot of people live way above their income level, just to look weatlhy..... i just don't think "one uping the jones' " is really important in the grand scheme of things. unfortunately....alot of people think that those "things" are important....to each his own i suppose. i figure that if you can't take it with you when you d!e....it's really not worth having.

tanner

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Girlfriend Dumped Me On Valentines Day Posted: 5/31/2007 8:08:19 PM
i'm so sorry that she picked that day of all days to come clean..... my ex hu$band up and left me for someone the day before chr!stmas, so i can kind of relate. although that chr!stmas season was very, very hard, the holiday season is just how it used to before the break-up, and these days, i'm very happy that i am no longer married to h!m. i'm vey happily d!vorced.... ....trust me, it will get less painful....and in time you will see this as something to learn from. don't take this and turn it outward to be an sad angry person.....you don't seem the type who would do that. you seem to be a very nice person. i admire that you don't drink or smoke, and are saving yourself for marriage....you'll find that lucky "one" someday. good luck to you.....

tanner

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Holy Sh!t first date and he tells me I'm ignorant. Posted: 5/31/2007 7:51:01 PM
this could be another story that i might want to put into my book on online dating horror stories....a great book to read to your kids...hahahaha what do you think?

tanner

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Why Do women dump men who are nice to them. Posted: 5/31/2007 4:13:29 PM
imo.....i think that if someone comes on too strong, that could send the other person running personally i like somone who will open doors, and is able to have good conversation on the first few dates. i think flowers or gifts on the first date is a bit much. be kind, complimentary. but don't comment on the same things over and over, it tends to sound fake after a while. and please.....for the love of all that is h0ly......on the first date, try to keep your eyes on h*r face... we do know where you're looking....

tanner

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Genuine or fake??? Posted: 5/31/2007 11:14:55 AM
my profiles are always genuine...i do know of alot that aren't for instance, i dated someone off of here for awhile, one day i noticed another account of his....it was a fake pic that lead people to belive that he was much better looking than he is it looked quite fake though, just your amature cut and paste, but it does make you wonder. do people actually think that if they post something fake on their profile (age, weight, height...) that they'll be so kind and charming in person, they'll be able to persuade us to not hold it against them once we're face to face? hosesty is so important.....

tanner

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The one thing you miss most when you are single Posted: 5/21/2007 5:57:52 PM
the thing i miss the most when i'm single is not having anyone to spoil. i've been single for almost three years now, and my best friend gets all the gifts and g-rated attention that i would normally give to somone i was dat!ng. but since he doesn't like g!rl parts, i don't ever get any l0vin back. spoiling someone that i l0ve is one of the best things out there. not always the grand gestures but the simple things as well....just so they know you were thinking of them. oh yeah....and i miss the all night s@x sessions too.....but who doesn't miss that?

tanner

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Has anyone had any luck at church singles groups? Posted: 5/20/2007 4:07:30 PM
i've been to a singles church before. it was for people 30 and over . i only went two or three times because i didn't feel comfortable. and heres why: picture this...obese w0men and balding old m@n, and me, by myself with my arms across my ch@st, to ward off the old g@ys stares........not a good time at all.

tanner

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would u date a former cutter???????????? Posted: 5/18/2007 11:56:31 AM
after a very abusive relationship with many s@xual assaults, i found that i lost all of my pleasure sensations....it was as if my entire body was attempting to protect itself from further pain....as a result i became completely numb....i really had no sensations with my skin at all. it was like that for many years until i met a man that was into cutting. he and i would take turns, it didn't hurt, but it did awaken in me all of those wonderful sensations. the numbness was gone, and i could feel again! when my senstions came rushing back, i had all kinds of feelings again. it felt incredible. everything felt new again, from someone accidentally bumping into me at a store, to a kiss, to a hug....and it all felt wonderful. once everything was "back to normal" i didn't cut anymore. (it's been 16 years since i've last seen him) now that kind of thing hurts, just like it's supposed to. i don't recommend that type of thing, and i wouldn't do it ever again....but that unusual "therapy" worked for me...... soooo would any of you m@n out there ever want to date someone like me? or have i just ruined any chance of meeting someone off of this site?

tanner

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Help!!!! My Best Friend's Son Just Asked Me Out Posted: 5/14/2007 9:36:56 PM
thinga....if it were me, and i had the m0thers ok, i'd go for it....it's the maturity that really counts.....never hurts to at least go to dinner to dicuss it.... it's interesting though, how the older w0man dating the y0unger guy thing is a icky subject for alot of people......whereas society thinks little or nothing about an older (sometimes several decades older) m@n dating a y0unger w0man. who can explain that discrepancy? barring the sugar daddy, i want a h0ttie on my arm excuse...... to me, having the reverse situation makes the most sense. i've almost always gone for guys younger than me. i've tried many times to date someone closer to my own age, but if i hear one more, "my poor aching back" from a guy my age....i think i might scream now i'm not suggesting anything i!!leagal here, but think about it......w0men hit their s@xual peak in their 30's m@n hit theirs in their 20's. it just makes a whole lot more sense to have simillar drives going at the same time.....at least it does to this 35 year old......

tanner

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About ready to throw in the white towel Posted: 5/14/2007 4:48:56 PM
how long have you been doing the online dating thing? you say that it's been a "daunting 2-3 weeks." have you only been on here for that long????? if that's so....ya gotta give it more time....

tanner

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Why are older women not into younger guys??? Posted: 5/12/2007 11:59:57 AM
why is it more socially acceptable for old m@n to marry w0men decades younger than they are....but not the other way around.... it makes a whole lot more sense to have things the other way around. younger m@n and older w0men are more s@xually compatible.....

tanner

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Play dumb ladies, Don't show how smart u really are, you might get a man that way. Posted: 5/12/2007 11:53:04 AM
i think some m@n feel more comfortable around someone who is, or pretends to be, weaker than they are. perhaps it's the age old...."i m@n, you w0man"....senario. i am an intelligent, kind, confidant, honest, open w0man, but it seems like there are few takers for that. sometimes i wonder if alot of m@n would rather be with someone that they are able to protect, console, encourage and feel superior to.... i'm a w0man that feels comfortable in her own skin....i'm not the type of w0man who whines...."honeeeey....do i look fat in this?" or "honeeeey....am i pretty?" although i do love a heartfelt compliment (doesn't everyone)...i'm not going to dig for compliments, whine about it or base my self worth on who does or doesn't see me as good enough. this is me....plain and simple....and i like who i am.....

tanner

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Can anyone tell me why I shoud keep trying?? Posted: 5/8/2007 3:07:15 PM
hi....i've seen you many times on this site and always thought that you shouldn't be on here.....i mean, if you are having a hard time finding someone....where does that leave the rest of us.... i find it interesting that i am in a simillar predicament....i also have cancer and am having a difficult time finding anyone to date too. i'm not looking for rich or gorgeous either....i just want a good man...that i can spoil that will spoil me back....who would have thought that this would be so difficult? good luck to you.....

tanner

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whats worng with me? Posted: 4/26/2007 1:16:59 PM
i'm not sure if you're asking a general question, or if you're talking about pof. i'll assume that it's pof...... why don't you try posting a pic or two with you smiling? in my opinion, too many people go for the contemplative look instead of the natural everyday look of themselves. i don't know about everyone, but to me alot of times it comes off as creepy. to me, a pic of someone with no smile has the the "stay away from me" look. and i do just that.....don't be afraid to expose those pearly whites.......

tanner

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It can happen to men too - no photo should mean no date !! Posted: 4/17/2007 4:56:56 PM
i've had this kind of thing happen to me. i don't chat with anyone without a pic, but have been very unplesantly suprised by a few that did have them. some people assume that if they post a 10 year old picture of themselves, then show up looking nothing like the picture. in some cases, they actually belive that once you meet them, they will be so kind, witty, or whatever, that you'll forgive them for the false representation. when you start a relationship with a !ie, it can't go anywhere good.

tanner

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Lifestyle of Bachelorhood Posted: 4/9/2007 1:10:41 PM
hey DaveESPI, the next time you have a hankering for top ramen, try doing what we did in college. pour the hot water directly into the ramen package and eat from the bag. one less bowl to have to clean.....

tanner

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goddamn Seducer, Lets cut his nuts off. Posted: 4/9/2007 1:04:44 PM
hey tdh46.....have you ever heard about a little thing called date r@pe? you say that you were always under the impression that for s@x there had to be mutual consent, not always..... and as for your last inane comment....i know plenty of women, myself included, that love the physical act of s@x....and aren't doing it as a means of reproduction... i for one get lots of enjoyment......have you ever heard of a little thing called multiple 0rgasm$?????

tanner

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Cheaters aren't necessarily evil? Posted: 4/5/2007 10:05:12 AM
i've never che@ted, and i never would. i am an honest upfront person....if things were going wrong in a relationship, i would prefer to talk them out rather than che@t on my partner. i would end an exsisting relationship before entertaining the idea of another. i've been che@ted on though, and it does hurt...and i'll do all that is possible to insure that i won't be hurt like that again.... i might have stumbled on a great idea for not getting in involved with that type of person. i've been thinking of buying a lie detector that i could hook up for each date i go on...... does anyone know where to buy one????? actually, there have been two times in my life that i was grateful for the cheat!ng. one was my ex husband and one was a financee both showed their true colors and i was able to get out quick....

tanner

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Ladies....would you wear a t-shirt, flip-flops, and shorts 1st time meeting someone? Posted: 4/3/2007 1:24:03 AM
as a c@ncer patient, i go for comfort....but on dates i'll usually wear a skirt. i had a date today a few hours away from where i live (very slim pickins in my town). i thought i had packed everything i needed. but i forgot my heels....i only had tennis shoes....i didn't think that they would be quite right for the skirt... so it was that, or the sweats..... i chose the sweats.....and the date went better than expected.....actually, it seems, the less time you spend preparing for a date, the better it turms out has anyone else had that happen? i figure, he saw me at my "worst" and now, things can only go up from there.

tanner

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Good-bye: Maybe in my next lifetime. Posted: 4/3/2007 12:04:45 AM
how about the idea that what you belive will happen? if we focus on what we don't have, we don't see the things we do have ...if you want to find someone to date, focus on your virtures, not your shortcomings. a self depreciating attitude will not bode well in the dat!ng scene. it can be rough out there....i've been dat!ng on line for a few years now. and i'm still single....more often than not i have pretty good dates, but i engage myself in the date, with positive thoughts.....give yourself a pep talk before the date, and don't mention your "failures" talk about the good things in your life.....and if you think there are no good things in your life, find some..... again, i truly belive that if you have a preconcieved notion of how bad the date will be, i'm afraid you'll be proved right again and again. good luck to you

tanner

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Leaving all you know behind..... Posted: 4/1/2007 5:33:58 PM
i was getting ready to move from utah to kansas to get married to my boyfriend...i already had a job and had rented an apartment....i was beginning to pack. one day he called up and broke it off with no explaination.....i was devestated...he called me a few days later to tell me that at a party one night he got really wasted and slept with a 17 year old girl....turns out that he planted his seed.....and know the're married with a little boy..... i'm so happy that all of that didn't happen right after i got there....dodged a bu!!et on that one......

tanner

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What would you do if some one offer to pick you up instead of meeting at the donut shop? Posted: 4/1/2007 9:54:34 AM
hey fry lock....well said.... i totally agree. in this day and age, it's not wise to let anyone that you don't know come to your home. they might look great and seem nice.....but people can pretend to be what they're not.... take for instance ann rule and ted bundy......she was an ex cop who worked the graveyard shift with good old ted at a crisis center in seattle....the whole city was at wits end trying to find this ser!al k!ller. nobody would have ever imagined that the great looking, personable guy would be one of the most prolific ser!al k!llers in history. that said....please be cautious.....you guy$ included.....

tanner

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Fears..Is this a silly one?? Posted: 3/31/2007 11:54:31 PM
i worry about having to share a bed again someday....i'm very particular it sometimes takes 20 minutes to get myself arranged just so. i must be on my right side. the blankets have to be tucked around my back and under my knees. i need a pillow between my l@gs. my hair must be straight back. with the blanket around my left ear, pulled tight across my face....... i don't know why i'm suck a fre@k when it comes to this....i had very bad insomnia as a kid and used to roll my sister out of bed and onto the floor several times during the night to tear off the sheets and put them back on..... oh yeah...i also sleep well lashed to my four poster bed.......(i'm just kidding, i just wanted to make sure that you were paying attention.....)

tanner

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Suppose you were stuck single forever... Posted: 3/27/2007 11:48:07 PM
if i would have to be single forever.....hummmmm bob at night....and during my workouts at the gym...the roman chair do any of you lad!es out there know what i'm talking about with the roman chair? i might have to get one one of these days....does anybody know anyone with a used roman chair that they don't need??? : just imagine.....being able to watch tv, exercise., and have the big "O" all at the same time....... i don't know about you, but i'm a major multitasker.hahahahahah

tanner

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What books would you recommend on , Love, Life, Relationships and Happiness? Posted: 3/19/2007 6:16:55 PM
i would recommend the "x factor" (shelia kelley) it's a fun book and dvd series that teaches str!pping and p0le dancing..... i'd also recommend "sexu@l dysfunction" it's an older book and it's based on the psychological idea of all the disorders out there.....it's useful for people who are into strange stuff...as you're able to understand what they're about and can run if you need to.... two of the more fascinating disorders out there are carprophag and, carprofi!lia......go look em up if you dare.......oh, btw....i'm not into either of them...icky.....

tanner

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Has anyone NEVER had a ONE NIGHT STAND? Posted: 3/8/2007 12:40:14 AM
i never have.... but after breaking up with a very abus!ve man, i got myself a great friend with benefits. he was just what i needed....he even lived in my complex i would just call him up and ask him what he was doing.....he'd always said, "you in five minutes" it was great

tanner

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Living with the parents Posted: 3/7/2007 8:26:34 PM
i live at home right now....it's not by choice...i'm ill....although it is nice to be around my parents, i miss my time alone..... there is alot i can't do in front of them, i even have to makeout in cars again....... i feel like i'm 16 all over again......

tanner

Joined: 5/26/2005

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People that love their pets Posted: 2/23/2007 12:39:36 PM
i have two beautiful persian cats. they are very well trained. i comb them everyday, they have baths regularly, they walk on leashes. the one in my lap is named skinny and she does "high fives" and "works" as a therapy animal in hopitals. my cats rock......

tanner

Joined: 5/26/2005

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Why are older women not into younger guys??? Posted: 2/15/2007 9:36:41 PM
i prefer younger men....they're the only ones that can keep up with me.....

tanner

Joined: 5/26/2005

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Dutch gym to introduce 'Naked Sunday' Posted: 2/6/2007 9:12:59 PM
i suppose that most of us would like to assume that those at the gym would be young and attractive..... but just think.....60 years old m#n and w0men....doing their thing.....back halfs spilling over past the seats on the bikes.....seeing certain parts jiggling when they shouldn't even be seen....tube sock b00bs stretching to the knees......all horrifying thoughts. if anyone out there has ever seen "pan!s 00f, dance 00f" on tv (hilarious show btw)....it could give you some idea of how horrible this gym idea could be....i could imagine this idea being worse....much much worse..... if for nothing more than the stink, of everything involved

tanner

Joined: 5/26/2005

Msg: 195 (view)

Wierd sandwiches we ate as kids or anything else! Posted: 2/2/2007 11:01:18 PM
i ate alot of plain old pb and j sandwiches growing up....the thing that i never quite got over was how they were cut in half. mymom always cut them down the middle....i always wanted mine to be cut into triangles.. talk about a rough childhood....

tanner

Joined: 5/26/2005

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Perhaps Plenty Of Fish has it totally right ! Posted: 2/1/2007 5:24:56 PM
interesting for sure.....i wish that would catch on here....how much easier would it be?

tanner

Joined: 5/26/2005

Msg: 19 (view)

anyone have any funny breakup stories.... Posted: 1/29/2007 11:40:49 PM
my breakup story isn't really funny, but it was one of the best days of my life. i had been dating an abusive man.....he was screaming at me and threatening me again.... i decided that i was done with all of the mistreatment.....so i called the c0ps......they hauled him away. it was one of the best days ever.....plus it helped me to see that no w0man should take abuse from anyone.......i haven't since....and i won't ever again....

tanner

Joined: 5/26/2005

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guys....what's with this??? Posted: 1/29/2007 10:53:24 AM
i'm wondering about something i see on here.....alot of you don't seem to want to be on this site at all.....why do i sense this? it's the pictures that you post....lemme explain: you look like you're being t0rtured or something.....too many frowny faces.....why is this? are you trying to look sad? tough? s&xy? i think most of us w0men out there would prefer a nice broad smile. it makes you look friendly in oppsed to you looking like ser1al k1llers....jmo

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