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Malicious use of the 'Report User' facilty Posted: 11/13/2009 2:30:11 AM
post where so as not to upset the (very obvious) cliques on the UK forum Beware of the cliques on this side of the pond too.

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New thread deletion voting option Posted: 11/10/2009 4:52:34 PM
Everybody who uses this feature watch very carefully how you vote. If you vote be sure you know it is right. Yes there are a zillion like minded threads here and another zillion like minded replies posted too. If you are going to vote be sure it is for the right reason or the Mods will ban you from voting even if what you are voting off as over posted and over replied is right to vote off. Try the Search Button before you vote if in doubt. Ya Ask A Guy/Girl Sections need the voting feature badly and further decrease the post limit to ten. There is a zillion redundant posts/replies in both of those sections.

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ok,,its gone too far...welfare cell phones? Posted: 11/6/2009 4:12:37 PM
Will people really get a clue before they post this dribble please!! This program was running under the Bush Administration long before the Obama Administration was even thought about. Ya your hero George Bush himself helped get this going. FYI it is not in every state either. It was set up by a Grant that Congress itself passed. Get off the Bash Obama Bandwagon and come up for air or better yet stop drinking the Koolaide. Their About Us page: https://www.safelinkwireless.com/EnrollmentPublic/about_us.aspx OMG they are only getting a little Trac Phone. OMG that will just not do will it if some poor family cannot have it so in an emergency their children's school can contact them. Where do the people who protest things like this come from? Better yet how do they even live each day.

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Moderator threads Posted: 10/30/2009 12:42:45 PM
@ Cowboy Oh I knew and know they were and are Moderated and I was just voting my honest opinion on the threads that came up. That is all. Some people view things one way and some the other then you have those who are obviously dead center. I voted by reading the threads and expressing my own view point which I thought was the reason why people are allowed to vote whether their own vote actually might be the deciding factor or not. I know this is not a Democracy here by far but is it fair to take only one select group of members opinions or would it be more fair to allow all opinions to matter in this Mod Thread issue? Either way the powers that be will do as they will regardless what members say but I do feel it is nice that we the membership be allowed to express ourselves either by voting or openly posting with out fears of banning or any such penalties that might be used as a form of control. Thank you for your honest response Cowboy.

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Moderator threads Posted: 10/30/2009 3:12:06 AM
You currently have no posting sanctions other than your ability to vote off threads being disabled, for voting to delete a perfectly valid thread in the Technology Forum. So how long is it disabled for if I might ask. Probably I hit the Delete Button sir because I felt it had already been posted before in this vastness of the millions of undying threads and postings already posted here by some other member. If you had just asked me politely to look further at the issue then I would have. As alot of us members know and obviously you do too there are millions of posts and threads that are posted repeatedly over and over that are still in place. Thank you for your response.

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Moderator threads Posted: 10/29/2009 4:26:17 PM
Ya I have "No Voting Option" when I view "Mod Threads" at all. I used to though. Some how the limits or penalties must have been upped alot more than posted on the info thread. Anyway for a Moderator to find out what the limits have been boosted to now? Us Mushrooms would like to know.

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Annoying Advertisements Posted: 10/27/2009 10:17:43 AM
Firefox + AdBlock Plus + NoScript + Flash Block = no annoying ads.

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Is antivirus neccessay with firewall? Posted: 10/19/2009 3:09:43 AM
The only problem I hate with Windows Security anything is that these products call home all too often and nobody really or truly knows what info they are sending home from your comp. Obviously it is all deeply encrypted so you have to be a rocket scientist to decipher it and IMHO that is just not a good thing. The only things I have that can call home out of my system are my Anti Virus and web browser (FireFox) for obvious reasons and everything else is blocked. What I do on my computer is my business and not the business of Mickey Mouse Software or Slick Willy Gates.

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Is antivirus neccessay with firewall? Posted: 10/17/2009 4:26:42 PM
and to the poster who commented about having more than one antiviral program. You cannot install two on the same PC they conflict with each other and can cause major problems such as continual rebooting. Remove one before installing another. Beg to differ on that one as I have a client's computer I manage,that due to his continual porn addiction I installed Comodo Firewall that has a built in Anti Virus and AVG Free 8.5 Anti Virus too and there are no conflicts with in his computer at all. It runs smooth with no errors,conflicts,rebooting,scripting errors or any issues that would cause any failure. Yes as a general rule though it is not wise to install some Firewall/AV's side by side due to conflicts and if you are not familiar with "How Too" do this then do not attempt it at all.

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Cuddling and touching after sex Posted: 10/17/2009 11:54:43 AM
A friend of mine in the building I live in wears a shirt that says "Real Men Cuddle". It seems to work as he is always playing one gal after another.

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Cuddling and touching after sex Posted: 10/13/2009 5:15:51 PM
Oh hell ya OP bring on the snuggle time afterward,an especially if her and I are totally spent. Great topic!

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Is antivirus neccessay with firewall? Posted: 10/13/2009 5:00:57 PM
I run: 1 Hardware Firewall(modem,router,hub all in one). 1 Software Firewall(Sygate Personal Firewall Pro). 1 Antivirus Scanner(AVG Free8.5) If you are really paranoid check out Comodo Firewalll and it's dual layer features,it's freeware. 1 Malwarebytes Anti-Malware Scanner. Firefox web browser that is fully tweaked for all of my surfing needs. Everything I DL gets scanned upon completion of the DL and all rouge web page scripts get filtered by the web browser tools. Take back the internet and enjoy it as it should be.

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Pet filter Posted: 10/13/2009 4:50:22 PM
Great suggestion especially about the Marketing Adverts that help pay for this site to keep it free.

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What would you do??? Insomnia!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 10/11/2009 2:21:12 AM
What has worked for me in this case is to cut out all caffeine,all sugars,salt,fatty foods and spicy foods and go walking every day when you can. It is called eating healthy. I do not drink soda at all anymore but caffeine free koolaids and Gatorade,the latter about 24 oz a day. I do not do Alcohol nor any illegal drugs either. 9 yrs Clean and Sober. Yes drastic but it works and it especially works well if you are on any kind of psychotropic medications for other illnesses. Nice side benefit is gradual weight loss too.

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Why are Americans so Anti Socialist? Posted: 10/9/2009 2:17:56 AM
thesearchforone very well said.

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Why are Americans so Anti Socialist? Posted: 10/8/2009 8:04:17 AM
as a nation, that everything revolves around capitalism and greed. This sums up the OP's presentation in a nut shell on this entire issue. It is sad but true. The rich get richer and the poor get poorer as time marches on.

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Are the U.S. public schools really that bad? Posted: 10/8/2009 7:55:24 AM
With the ongoing issues of Hip Hop Music,Gangster Rap,moms and dads no longer truly nurturing their kids and the ever failing of the Traditional Family Structure it is even amazing that school kids can even write their names legibly these days. Bah I said enough and do not really want to get started on this issue. One last word: Where are the parents in all of this?

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How male circumcision hurts women Posted: 10/8/2009 2:01:02 AM
coloradostarlight I'm presenting the article not presenting an ultimatum so no need to be so rude and crab nasty. That is really not why we have adult discussions is it now. Did you read the entire article? I too was cut myself as a baby and I have had no problems at all either as another poster stated. It was presented here as an article of interest.

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Good work out songs? Posted: 10/7/2009 4:02:38 PM
"It keeps you running" by the Doobie Brothers and other classic rock songs by them. This is what we listened to alot of when doing weight work outs in high school. Perfect rhythm for weight training and working out.

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How male circumcision hurts women Posted: 10/7/2009 3:59:01 PM
This is an interesting article I found while surfing some blogs: Genital cutting on infant boys is luckily losing its legitimacy, but there are still those out there with misconceptions about the effects of this traumatic procedure. Not only is it taking away something that nature intended men to have, terrifying to a new human who is wrenched away from mommy to have his most sensitive area hacked off, and a clear violation of human rights (these things should be a choice, not an ego-driven "I want him to look disfigured like me" idealism), but it hurts women in later life as well. I have already written about the negative consequences of circumcision on boys. The decision taken from them, the nerves destroyed, and the pseudo-science and ancient social paradigms that we insist on propagating. The practice only gained popularity when the craze of Masturbation Hysteria drove doctors in the early 20th century to prescribe the procedure as a sort of anti-sex salvation. Source and More: http://www.helium.com/items/477183-how-male-circumcision-hurts-women It goes into some detail too about sexual intimacy and other things.

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Columbia Mo. Roots and Blues Festival Posted: 9/26/2009 3:34:23 PM
One rocking great time!! A friend of mine and I hooked up at the Flat Branch Concert for Chump Change at 11:45 first then toodled on down for Heather Miles at 7th and Locust and then headed over to Peace Park for Jr Brown at 3pm. My friend and I were front stage center for all three venues. Even with the semi heavy rain at the Jr Brown Concert it was a great time and non stop music. That was probably one of the best three concert runs in one day I have been to in a very long time. I just hope the venues are that well planned out next year if this festival is to happen once again. If you missed it you missed a good time. It was well worth the cost of the tickets to see one free and to headliners plus alot of great food in one day. I could have stayed longer but 6 hours out concert going was enough for me.

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guys who like girls with tummies Posted: 9/26/2009 2:47:57 AM
Actually the BMI Scale has been adjusted over the years to reflect society's view points instead of actually representing the real issue. It is more about a popularity contest than actual figures per say. There have always been big men and women through out time. It is just now alot of people are so self centered and self serving that they think they are "The Bomb" and only deserve "The Bombette" or visa versa. As one of my ex's said and I agree with 100% that big girls need lovin too so while all of you boys out there only want those skinny girls the real men are getting alot of lovin from those big girls you toss aside.

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Columbia Mo. Roots and Blues Festival Posted: 9/25/2009 6:45:26 PM
Sweet girl maybe I will see you there for Chump Change on Saturday!

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Columbia Mo. Roots and Blues Festival Posted: 9/25/2009 2:26:46 AM
Another update: http://www.columbiamissourian.com/stories/2009/09/25/how-get-around-roots-n-blues-festival/ One co headliner had to back out due to a bad case of Bronchitis. http://www.columbiatribune.com/news/2009/sep/24/roots-n-blues-act-pulls-out/

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Do men like it when women contact them first? Posted: 9/24/2009 2:13:54 AM
I do not mind at all but when they do contact me or we are in constant contact at least keep the contact going on their own initiative. Most guys do not like having to keep the contact going all of the time. I guess women do not realize that guys are on the go alot just like they are too.

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Columbia Mo. Roots and Blues Festival Posted: 9/23/2009 4:07:19 PM
Updated info on the Roots and Blues Event: http://www.columbiamissourian.com/stories/2009/09/23/roots-n-blues-n-bbq-festival-bands-performing/ The Flat Branch Park venue will still be a free access area!! Friday Night is the band The Bel Aires and Saturday is one of the greatest local blues bands I have heard called Chump Change. http://www.columbiamissourian.com/stories/2009/09/10/city-council-approves-roots-n-blues-n-bbq-agreeement/ http://www.columbiamissourian.com/stories/2009/07/22/first-group-roots-n-blues-artists-announced/ Barring the threats of rain this should be a good time. Maybe I'll see ya there.

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How to show a Man you Like him without being Clingy Posted: 9/22/2009 2:54:00 AM
I prefer to let my women be as snuggly and clingy as they want.

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being disabled Posted: 9/19/2009 2:59:31 PM
Listen handicapped... disabled there is no such thing as either in the beauty of the truth.. you seriously haven't met the gal who will not only champion your love but be grateful to have met someone who knows how to see beyond the exterior of the body to embrace the aura of the human mind. Just keep on being real .. keep on feeling, keep on being you and you will feel the one as she will when you meet, guaranteed.. besides you are very handsome, athletic, smart .. and shy .. very redeeming qualities of great men. Knee-Dee thank you for being one of those kind of women who can restore my faith in women as a whole. Great comment and so much appreciated!

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being disabled Posted: 9/19/2009 1:27:00 PM
Wow starfish342 once again you have helped to prove my main point that some women are about as shallow as a mud puddle in the middle of a dank and skanky back alley of the local bar scene on skid row. Don't you realize that blind people see with their senses and not with their eyes? Their senses are far more acute because they have to adapt to their sightless surroundings. They see by the use of their finger tips and by their senses of smell and hearing. Oh and really you are not all that and certainly not even close to a package of crackers either.

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Worried about giving the wrong impression Posted: 9/16/2009 2:35:12 AM
>>> i also have found men to be very descent and old-fashioned and unfortunately are used and abused by women...those women complain about meeting descent men...but when they meet Mr.decent they play him like a violin and dump him <<< Exactly the situations I have been in and even on here. Women I contact at first are all hot and heavy then get cold after about 2 - 3 weeks of communicating. Ladies Mr Perfect does not exist except in the Soap Opera World of TVland.

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this is why guys want older women Posted: 9/9/2009 4:31:20 PM
Actually isntafraid older women do make better lovers and are alot more appreciative in the long run with alot of things in a relationship of that type where as the younger women often times do not know yet what they really want and cannot make up their minds what they want. There is nothing wrong with a older more mature woman with a younger guy at all IMHO.

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Borrowing money after 3 weeks Posted: 9/7/2009 3:01:11 PM
BigKid777 run while you still can.

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Truck drivers Posted: 9/7/2009 1:26:50 PM
Well people hate when I do this but here is some great information for you: http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&source=hp&q=American+Truck+Driving+Schools&btnG=Google+Search I just assume you live in the states as I did not look at your profile. Good luck we need more truck drivers.

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would you date someone who suffers from depression? Posted: 9/7/2009 2:27:31 AM
phillyphil75 what you describe is more like BiPolar syndrome and that can be just as bad too. Been there and done that. It is sad and hard to deal with. Diet,Meds and Counciling are the huge three with that disorder.

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How many of you have DISABLED Microsoft Updates? Posted: 9/6/2009 7:08:22 PM
I disable everything in Winblows that is not absolutely needed and I get alot better performance out of the operating system as a whole. Learning how to properly use Msconfig and Regedit is a must. Third party anti virus,firewall and web browser is the biggest ticket.

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would you date someone who suffers from depression? Posted: 9/6/2009 6:27:36 PM
Yes I would as I have suffered from Depression all of my life so I know what it gets like and what works for me to get out of it. Great topic.

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how much do you share your personal struggles with your SO? Posted: 9/6/2009 6:26:15 PM
If you think your So is going to dump you because your going through some stuff then you're not with the right guy Agree and it goes both ways for that matter. If I do not feel totally comfortable sharing my inner things going on with me whether it is Mental or Physical then it is quite obvious they are not the one for me at all. Great topic.

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Missing Human Touch Posted: 9/6/2009 6:18:51 PM
I gotta agree the Mental and Spiritual connection are the two biggest things and with out those the Physical will never truly mean much. Yes I miss that deep relationship on those terms and at times it throws my Depression issues into over drive but I do have my two lovely house dogs who always show me love and want to cuddle to help to bring me out of those times.

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Men over 45 and facial hair Posted: 9/6/2009 10:58:57 AM
callothewild yes it can soften stubble if you use a high quality one that works into the roots and you know alot of hair conditions vary depending upon diet too.

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Boxing Equipment Posted: 9/6/2009 9:19:49 AM
Diva026 Google is your best friend not a dating site.

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Men over 45 and facial hair Posted: 9/6/2009 9:18:49 AM
daffie FYI if your man or any man uses Conditioner on his beard and Mustache it comes out in time super soft and ladies do not get chaffed as much if any. It is all in how the man takes care of his facial hair. The same with hair in the lower regions to be it men or women.

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Is it a compliment to be contacted by a younger man? Posted: 9/5/2009 4:35:58 PM
younger men only want older women for sex And older women would complain about having a boy toy all to themselves? Now what is wrong with that picture?

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Men over 45 and facial hair Posted: 9/5/2009 4:29:10 PM
Had a lady friend tell me once that she would consider dating steadily me if I shaved my beard off and my immediate reply was "When you get a boob job too". Needless to say we never official dated as in a steady relationship. We still talk time to time though when she is not being a snipity biznitch. Some women are just so bleeping f'ing shallow I swear.

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Might throw in the towel Posted: 8/29/2009 5:12:57 PM
Just stay for the forums and do not worry about the dating so much.

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Forum Posts Posted: 8/26/2009 1:52:08 AM
the_humormonger very well presented and thank you very much. The site is still free and has enough features that if you honestly work at it anybody can find and do as they need too. Why is it everybody complaining has this "Entitlement Issue" with this site? It is free after all.

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Favourites & Last 5 Forum Posts being removed from profiles Posted: 8/25/2009 3:20:26 PM
Jut add whatever threads you are focusing on as "Track This Thread" and then look in your "My Forums" link off the forum. The drama of it all.

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last 5 forum posts.. gone. Posted: 8/25/2009 2:10:38 PM
This subject is so D2D.

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Does your ex still calls you? Posted: 8/23/2009 2:46:52 PM
ceoil you ate totally correct on that note.

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Are you ready to date again if you are still in love with someone else? Posted: 8/22/2009 8:04:41 PM
To the question I would have to answer honestly no none of us really are but we have suffered a loss and we want to fill that void so the pain is not so painful. I think we are all guilty of doing this. The hurt drives us to seek consolement with another ASAP because we do not want to feel the pain. Just my two cents that in this "love recession" are not worth much.

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Responsibilitys of Age Gap Relationships Posted: 8/22/2009 8:01:20 PM
If there is the real love of God in the relationship regardless of age it will show through no matter what might happen with either becoming sick or disabled. Well it should anyway but we all know how selfish and self centered people can be these days.

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