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nah112

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Relationships and Women, hey guys what do you think? Posted: 4/7/2009 9:12:53 PM
I’ve been divorced 29 yrs. At first I was too hurt and untrusting, then I came to a place that I dealt with my anger and pain and moved on. I lived my life day by day not looking for a fix most days. But occasionally I did look for someone to hold and feel close too but I easily walked away most of the time because I knew that was all it was because I truly never invested anything but my time and it didn’t last long because of my own actions. Just as there were times I would have like to have had more time to see if there could have been more but the other person was only doing what I had done before, passing time with there own immediate needs. I have said for many years likes, wants and needs are 3 different things and that most never learn the difference in the 3 for more reasons than one, but usually the reasons are nothing but excuses when all is said and done. We as individuals all live in our own individual world until we come to a point in our life that we declare to ourselves being an individual alone is not enough whether it’s for the right reason or not. Or whether we pick the right person to come along on our adventure of so called road to happiness of the moment whether we see it long term or not. For my own self I’ve always felt and said “If you are around because I need you, you are being used and I don’t know about others but I hate like h*ll being used. Therefore, if you are around because I want you, then your friendship and you are important enough and valued more that what you own, have or don’t have and those are of no importance to me or our relationship or a reason to want or not want to grow old with you. Even with all the above said, in my life I’ve looked for mutual truth, honesty, respect and honor on the same level I gave and even with meeting some wonderful men over the years it’s still eluded me for us both to have been on the same plateau at the same point in time when we met for it to have happen. Hence, I still seek and can only hope I live long enough to feel the joy of being loved, honored and respected in the same level that I would give in return. In my world life and relationships are about taking responsibility not handing out blame to others because of my own short comings and that is a two way street for anyone involved in my world …. Guess that’s why I’ve been single so long huh ……. But i must say this thread was an interesting read... thanks all

nah112

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Google: this site may harm your computer...on every search?? Posted: 1/31/2009 4:46:41 PM
FYI .... google made an ooops (human error) while updating StopBadware this AM ... here's a link .... http://googleblog.blogspot.com/2009/01/this-site-may-harm-your-computer-on.html

nah112

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Men that say Never Again Posted: 7/26/2008 2:20:52 PM
it depends on what you are looking for ... if you are just looking for a good time with no commitment then there is no problem ... but if you are truly looking for more that leads to commitment and marriage then you better listen and not walk but run .... other wise you are wasting your time and energy ... people tend to hear what they want to hear and women tend to think they can change a mans mind or be different that the previous woman was ... get real ladies and forget the fairy tales ...

nah112

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What's so bad about so-called flip-flopping, anyway? Posted: 7/8/2008 10:12:05 PM
excuse me but are we not talking about politicians ? ...

nah112

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When someone points out that you're old.. Posted: 6/16/2008 1:28:12 AM
"yep i’m old as dirt but just remember life would be pretty challenging without dirt to kick around"

nah112

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Help with finding the right audio/sound driver Posted: 6/12/2008 8:47:57 PM
drivers are not a problem really and i'm glad you found what you needed... besides with plug and play devices today they will usually tell you it found a new device when you reboot.... if you need to update a driver or check one here is the simple way... Right click my computer on your desktop> click Properties > click Hardware tab>click Device manager>look down the list for what ever device you are looking for and click the + sign( if there is a yellow question mark or a red X beside it you for sure have a problem and it needs one)> double click that device and a new window will open>click the driver tab> click update driver>a wizard will open and you can let it look for it automatically or you can click the other option of picking it from a list or if you have a CD you can point it to it( the wizard will walk you thru the steps) > if it doesn’t find a new or better driver it will say so…) also on the details tab at the top it will tell you about the device......

nah112

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Cannot Upload JPEG Pictures Posted: 6/12/2008 1:21:49 PM
Just a little FYI JPEG/JPG is an acronym for Joint Photographic Experts Group. The same thing just different filename extension (file format). Traditional DOS only allowed 3-digit extensions hence JPG and Windows still uses it to determine the file mimetype hence the use of JPG instead of JPEG. But JPEG is useable in other formats such as UNIX, Linux and etc. Therefore here per Ticket it is JPG extentions that are acceptable for images not JPEG.

nah112

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Open a link in a new window Posted: 8/29/2006 9:37:10 PM
they have changed some of the security settings in SP2 and in other IE patches lately due to security breaches with the settings...... go to tools> internet options> security tab> internet> custom levels> and you will find that the allow scripts-initiated without size and position restraints is disabled and there is 1 other think it's allow scripting of IE web brower controls is disabled also....these allow the code for each site to control the way your browers open and height and width parameters and in IE 7 to my understanding even when they code it to over-ride these settings it doesn't apply even then......that's my guess.....lol.....next..... OH well i just googled it and go here maybe this is the real answer......LOL opening IE full size http://www.mvps.org/winhelp2002/ietips.htm

nah112

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user accounts on windows Posted: 8/28/2006 5:09:59 PM
If you have XP you can go by the instructions i placed above and not enter an admin password then go in and change it........ no need for a tool in XP

nah112

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help with drivers? Posted: 8/28/2006 8:12:06 AM
did you try unplugging all the devices then shut down, then plug them back in and reboot.....and see if it finds new hardware.......

nah112

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I want to learn how to program Posted: 8/28/2006 8:07:42 AM
well i think one needs to understand and learn the logic behind programming before they even think about trying to learn programming seriously...reason being you can learn to write code but if you don't truly understand the logic it's not going to be a very good program....but that's JMO

nah112

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user accounts on windows Posted: 8/28/2006 8:00:47 AM
what OS do you have? if it's XP you can do this password recovery 1. boot in safe mode (hitting F8 as BIOS info goes to black)..then there will be an icon for Administrator on the Welcome screen. (if not hit CTL-ALT-DEL twice and enter the name Administrator and leave the password blank) 2. then click Start, and then click Run. 3. in the Open box type: control userpasswords2 4. click the account that you forgot the password for then click Reset Password 5. type a new password then click OK. or for 98/ME go here PwlTool Password recovery tool for Windows 9x/Me http://lastbit.com/download.asp

nah112

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I want to learn how to program Posted: 8/26/2006 6:17:26 AM
just C for now...to get my feet wet well C will surely get your feet wet..... ...enjoy

nah112

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Hs_err error shut down Posted: 8/24/2006 9:16:26 PM
might give this a look: http://www.java.com/en/download/help/5000041400.xml also i read that if you're low on memory or your memory usage is real high it can do the same....sorry i've never dealt with it just went and looked at a few things on it.....

nah112

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manual refresh with laptop? Posted: 8/15/2006 6:57:07 PM
go to tools>internet options>under temporary internet files click settings> under check for stored pages make sure the option> every visit to the page is checked...say OK twice

nah112

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what do u think about broadband provider or pay as u go Posted: 8/5/2006 11:54:55 PM
ADSL router can come in combinations of up to 5 products in 1......ADSL modem, router, 10/100 LAN switch, 802.11g access point and a SPI double firewall...just depends on the brand and what you get.......

nah112

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Memory Stick Pro Duo Problem Posted: 7/29/2006 11:22:56 PM
go to Control Panel ->Administrative Tools -> Computer Management. select Disk Management select the drive you just inserted and right-click from the context menu that appears, select the option to change the drive letter. in the "Change Drive Letter" dialog, select an available letter for the drive...from now on, every time you insert the USB drive, Windows will assign the same drive letter you specified

nah112

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Attention All Users!! VIRUS ALERT!! Posted: 7/28/2006 2:46:37 PM
if you really want to know the truth this is the stats for July 2006 Spam – 62.7% in July (a decrease of 2.1% since June) Viruses – One in 96.6 emails in July contained malware (an increase of 0.05% since June) Phishing – One in 459.8 emails comprised a phishing attack (an increase of 0.03% since June) http://www.messagelabs.com/Threat_Watch/Intelligence_Reports/July_2006 you are either 1 of 2 kinds of user.... you are either part of the solution or part of the problem and no one can change that but you unfortunately.......

nah112

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Re: Pictures of clients Posted: 7/23/2006 12:53:28 PM
if using a windows OS and if you are talking about you deleted a file on your PC and you have not deleted your tash bin (recycle bin) then just open it up (recycle bin) click on what you want restored and click file and restore and it's back...... otherwise like he said go grab a restore program and restore it.......

nah112

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Attention All Users!! VIRUS ALERT!! Posted: 7/23/2006 12:43:55 PM
sorry fellow but this is a Hoax......... http://urbanlegends.about.com/library/bl_olympic_torch_virus.htm

nah112

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Bush frustration sparks expletive???I say his arrogance did,... Posted: 7/20/2006 5:36:52 PM
i only wish i could say those were the worst words i'd ever said even when i knew someone was listening..... ...it's amazing the things that people grasp straws at to fulfill agends whether you agree with them or not......

nah112

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HELP!!! how to rid win32/ulysses.z ??? Posted: 7/19/2006 8:31:47 PM
if that didn't work you might give this a try: http://www.pctools.com/spyware-doctor/trojans.php?ref=google_trojan also win32/ulysses.z is know by other names also: BackDoor-AMQ (McAfee), BackDoor-AMQ1 (McAfee), BKDR_BEAST.A (Trend), Troj/BeastDo-M (Sophos), Troj/BeastDo-N (Sophos), Win32/Beastdoor.2_05!Backdoor!Se (InoculateIT), Backdoor/Beastdoor.2_05.Server (InoculateIT), Backdoor.Beastdoor.205 (Kaspersky), Win32/Beastdoor.205.B (Eset), W32/Beastdoor.AM (F-Secure), W32/Beastdoor.AS (F-Secure), W32/Beastdoor.DK@bd (F-Secure), Backdoor.Beasty (Symantec), Win32.Troll!downloader (PestPatrol), Win32.Ulysses.205.A, Backdoor/Ulysses.205.A (InoculateIT), Win32/Ulysses.205.A!Backdoor (InoculateIT), Backdoor/Ulysses.205.B (InoculateIT), Win32/Ulysses.205.B!Backdoor (InoculateIT), Win32/Ulysses.Z, Backdoor.Win32.Beastdoor.205 (Kaspersky)

nah112

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tech support Posted: 7/19/2006 8:24:53 PM
the trick is to ask the right questions after you ask what's their problem so you can find the real problem and not waste anyones time....you can't just go on what they usually say (on average) you need to ask a few questions and listen to their answers ....besides you usually can tell if someone has some technical knowledge, clueless or just repeating something someone told them......

nah112

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Please help... with retreiving documents from word2006 Posted: 7/18/2006 6:02:55 PM
google for a word viewer.... also make sure it wasn't done with Office 2003 instead of 2006 if it is 2003 then here is a link to download the 2003 word viewer: http://www.microsoft.com/downloads/details.aspx?FamilyId=95E24C87-8732-48D5-8689-AB826E7B8FDF&displaylang=en

nah112

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THE SMACK NOISE... Posted: 7/17/2006 12:10:26 AM
well guys user closer their account 4/27.....guess ya preaching to the choir....

nah112

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Voting History Option. Posted: 7/16/2006 9:43:17 PM
that's why you set-up a guest account on your PC.....lol that way you can log out of your account and let them only use your guest account on your box......and never tell anyone your password because a friend today maybe an enemy tomorrow...

nah112

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Recovering deleted files Posted: 7/16/2006 9:35:33 PM
he's right, just remember that you can convert FAT32 up to NTFS but you can't go back down to FAT32 after you convert them to NTFS...that's why he said be sure that's the case 1st........

nah112

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tech support Posted: 7/16/2006 9:27:52 PM
unfortunately some level 1 support do follow scripts ...reason being if they get lots of calls they hire people to answer the phones #1 and some or in some cases most are not knowledgeable and that's all they know how to do anything.....that is frustrating.....when that happens sometimes if you can keep your cool and ask to be escalated to the next level it might save you some time...not always but sometimes....also sometimes you can call and just ask for level 2 and bypass level 1..it just depends on the company and their policies

nah112

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tech support Posted: 7/16/2006 9:01:08 PM
well i rarely use TS since i'm usually it....LOL but it really depends on what your problem is, what the technical level of the person is you talk to and what level of support you are using..... one thing to remember the 1st person you talk to is not the only one there generally....they are generally level 1 if you call support and if you are not getting any help you can always ask to escalate up a level until you can get some answers usually

nah112

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Service pack Posted: 7/15/2006 8:14:36 PM
Someone may or may not be able to help you.....but they'll need more information..... what brand/model of MP3..what OS do you have and etc.......

nah112

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Interested in web design Posted: 7/15/2006 8:07:39 PM
it really depends on what aspect you want to learn about it and how involved you want to get ....... you might try going here and having a look around to decide...lots of stuff is free to read and an informative site..... http://www.informit.com/search/search.asp if that doesn't work just do a search for web design on the site or on google...also look at jobs posted for web designers to see what languages and skills they are looking for.......

nah112

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Multiple Operating systems Posted: 7/14/2006 8:50:43 AM
you can run programs in a compatibility mode in XP here is a link of how to do it: http://www.microsoft.com/windowsxp/using/helpandsupport/learnmore/appcompat.mspx

nah112

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pages freezing up Posted: 7/11/2006 12:14:54 PM
if you don't have genuine copy of Windows you can only use auto updates..manual will not work......MS set it up that way....... also FYI Many repair shops will install a handy (but illegal) "in-house" copy of Windows XP to repair their customer's computer systems and the WGA 'detects' these cloned Win XP installations as 'pirated' or illegitimate, . Most of these computer repair places do this out of convenience because (1) it is easier than asking the customers for their own copy and (2) If they did ask the customers for their original XP Install CD; they are responsible if it gets lost or damaged at the shop. Unless it's a coporate license you are only allowed 1 install on 1 pc per CD....and if the corporation didn't use the correct installation process & ID key per the license agreement then it would show up as pirated also

nah112

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pages freezing up Posted: 7/9/2006 7:52:27 AM
RE28 my stepdad has cable and he always turns his pc off when he is not using it. Everytime he would turn it on it would boot up mostly then like you stated it would die and reboot after a few minutes. I know his settings well .....the problem was his firewall and the cable modem all i had him to do is unplug his modem and let the pc boot up completely then plug in the modem and not a reboot problem since. The problem was the cable has a continious connection and you're bring up a firewall that is being hit before it can authenicate the modem 1st, therfore it shut down the connection......as for running slow if you've cleaned it all out then it does sound like a memory problem reason being most games are memory hogs......

nah112

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Windows 98 and Millenium support cut-off looming Posted: 7/8/2006 7:20:02 PM
.dmp files are memory dump files and here is some reasons for and what to download to read them and see if they are configured correctly..... http://support.microsoft.com/?kbid=315263

nah112

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Help plz, cannot upload pics Posted: 7/5/2006 3:02:41 PM
here is the link to how to upload your pics http://www.plentyoffish.com/suggestions.aspx or just click on the help tab above

nah112

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Bill Gates Gets Pie Faced. Posted: 7/3/2006 9:37:13 PM
it guess i never get why people whine and moan about it all really....either you like it and use it or find something else that you do like and use.... the one thing that everyone always leaves out is the most popular no matter what it is, is going to get hacked and have a crap load of problems...reason being you go after what gets you the most hits plain and simple....besides how many average email/web surfers do you know that can handle Unix/Linux.....think about it...... whether we like it or not the corporate world is using it and will be for sometime except for engineers basically......so the bottom line is, if you support it you have to play in it....and nope doesn''t mean you have to like it but hey that''s just how it is and will continue to be..... just my 2cents

nah112

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windows vista beta 2 help. Posted: 7/3/2006 4:27:21 PM
You're welcome guys...... anytime

nah112

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windows vista beta 2 help. Posted: 6/29/2006 6:23:17 PM
here is a link for firewall and IP advance settings: http://www.microsoft.com/technet/community/columns/cableguy/cg0106.mspx here is the hardware guidance link: http://www.microsoft.com/technet/windowsvista/evaluate/hardware/default.mspx or do a search on google for : windows vista 2 drivers

nah112

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Acrobat 6 Prof. help Posted: 6/28/2006 3:49:39 PM
you can also set the links to open up the documents in a new window, that way you can close the window or minimize it and the original document is still present also...... after you bookmark, then you will go to set your links if you will look on the right side of the window when setting the link you can tell it how to open the link for each link you set.

nah112

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Search Problems Posted: 6/25/2006 3:57:34 PM
you might try clearing your cache....... if using internet explorer go to .....Tools.......Internet options......on the General tab..... under the Temporay Internert files heading Click Delete files and Check Delete offline content.....click OK.....then click Delete cookies....... as for a User search click the Search across the top and then select User search

nah112

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Mail Settings Posted: 6/24/2006 9:25:29 PM
at the bottom of your Inbox under the mail/profile tab you should see this: FAQ/Help \| Write Better Messages \| Who Loves Me \| IM Help \| Turn off IM click the Turn off IM

nah112

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Someone stole my friends password Posted: 6/24/2006 2:57:30 PM
he can either set-up a new one or you could do it maybe..........

nah112

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editing sent messages Posted: 6/21/2006 5:37:56 PM
once it's sent it's sent...you can not change it or keep them from reading it....... you can only delete it on your end not theirs...

nah112

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the slowest pc ever!!!! Posted: 6/21/2006 12:04:21 PM
if you have AVG then you can set it to update automatically and also scan......it's best to let it check for updates daily and also scan daily.....just remember to set the times when it is only line and turned on.......

nah112

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Browser settings Posted: 6/21/2006 12:11:50 AM
it could be the content settings also...... tools....internet options.....content tab if it's not that then look at the Security tab settings and the Privacy tab settings

nah112

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MSN Office 2003 Pro or Regular Is It Okay to get it on Ebay Posted: 6/19/2006 5:50:13 PM
you can download a 2003 Word viewer if all you want to do is view the file here: look under Popular Office downloads toward the bottom of the page...... http://office.microsoft.com/en-ca/officeupdate/default.aspx (copy and paste the link into your address bar)

nah112

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Net connection keep going out Posted: 6/18/2006 7:03:22 PM
my question is have you done a virus check with an up today anti-virus if not do one and if you don't have one you can go to housecall and do it online...... http://housecall.trendmicro.com/

nah112

Joined: 5/27/2005

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IE upcoming update: Questions Posted: 6/15/2006 4:31:46 PM
you might find something here that will help: http://www.baekdal.com/articles/Technology/microsoft-ie-activex-update/

nah112

Joined: 5/27/2005

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Pop-up blocker help Posted: 6/13/2006 9:48:13 AM
if you are using Internet Explorer go to : Tools....Internet Options....Privacy tab .... the settings under Popup blocker.... then add this web site.....

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