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e-mancipated

Joined: 11/24/2007

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Is Every Man On Here A Felon? Posted: 10/18/2009 1:51:24 AM
Girls are often attracted to dangerous guys. You only have yourself to blame, shiningstar.

e-mancipated

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My Weight and My Boyfriend Posted: 10/18/2009 12:15:32 AM
How is it that you have "too much going on in your life" to lose a few pounds? You should lose weight for your own good. It'll make you healthier, make you feel better and increase your lifespan. Even at the busiest time in my life, when I had a demanding full-time job and several moonlighting jobs on the side, I found time for a 45-minute walk/jog on the treadmill. Although changing your diet is a little extra work initially, once you get in the habit of eating healthy, nutritional food, you'll feel fuller, less hungry and more energetic. Your productivity at work (or whatever you spend the bulk of your time doing) will improve. In my case I know it has. Lose weight for your own good, not just for your boyfriend.

e-Mancipated

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sexually frustrated Posted: 10/13/2009 10:18:13 PM
There isn't really an answer to your question. You'll only know how good a guy really is in bed after you've been in bed with him. Just keep trying different guys till you find one who's good enough.

e-Mancipated

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Do guys worry too much about the physical? Posted: 10/13/2009 9:09:48 PM
I see a lot of threads here about g-spots, clitoral stimulation methods, nipple squeezing techniques, etc. I'm not claiming to be very experienced in sex (I'm probably among the least experienced on here). But from what I've observed and read in books about female psychology, women's sexuality is much more driven by emotions and mental state than by specific physical sensations. Should guys be concentrating on getting inside their woman's mind and enhancing her feelings, rather than learning a slew of physical techniques (which a woman can do on her own anyway)?

e-Mancipated

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What music currently inspires you? Posted: 10/13/2009 7:24:28 PM
Mozart's "Requiem" - the performance by Munchner, conducted by Celibidache

e-Mancipated

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Is rebellion getting old? Posted: 10/13/2009 7:08:44 PM
It seems safe to say that since the 60's, we've had counter-culture more than drummed into us. Not saying it's a bad thing, but does anyone ever get bored with "rebellion"? There's always some new pop-punk or screamo or hardcore band coming up. They go to great lengths to have "shocking" lyrics, "unique" clothes and pretty much the same rhythms, harmonies and instruments as they have a decade ago. It seems like they've gone so far down the path of culture that the music itself has become like an accessory to them. They'd be awesome emo-hardcore-punk-pop-rockers if they never picked up a guitar. Just look their style! Maybe I'm just a pathetic, socially-inept, whiny introvert. But I seriously don't listen to any kind of rock music anymore. I find classical, jazz and world music not only less pretentious, but actually BETTER music.

e-Mancipated

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Why do women enjoy being used by some men and not others? Posted: 10/13/2009 6:58:37 PM
So why do women still date guys who aren't famous then? I guess they're hedging their bets. They'll keep the guy around just to increase their status by being "taken" by a reasonably cool guy. Maybe they try to grow that status by dating successively more popular men, until they get their dream guy, who's banged 10,000 women.

e-Mancipated

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What do women look for first in a guy who has just approached them? Posted: 10/13/2009 6:38:32 PM
I don't know why women aren't saying this, but most women have admitted to me that they're more open to a guy who's already in the presence of women (especially if those women are attractive).

e-Mancipated

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Why do women enjoy being used by some men and not others? Posted: 10/13/2009 6:36:00 PM
I think he was talking about real money, not chump change. I agree, but I just want to emphasize the difference. You can be talented, ambitious, work hard and save money, but still be considered "poor" by the majority of women, because you were unable to get a job paying $5 million a year.

e-Mancipated

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Why do women enjoy being used by some men and not others? Posted: 10/13/2009 6:34:18 PM
he's a very real, warm person and not all about bragging about his trophy room or showing off at all. So you don't think a guy is affected in some way by having hordes of eager, young, attractive women pretty much begging him for sex? And I'm sure he's observed how hard it is for a non-famous guy to get even 1 of these girls interested. Do you think someone who's life has been nothing but a roller-coaster ride of money, fame and easy sex is going to have a balanced perspective?

e-Mancipated

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Why do women enjoy being used by some men and not others? Posted: 10/13/2009 6:25:42 PM
No money No honey Wrong. You can have $200,000 in the bank and not be good enough. If you have millions and are famous/popular it's a different story. Oh and differential.....a great word when one knows how to use it, or maybe it's just a typo. Good point. Thanks for the correction. I guess "preferential" would have been better.

e-Mancipated

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Why do women enjoy being used by some men and not others? Posted: 10/13/2009 6:23:47 PM
idk what makes you think all famous people treat women like trash I'm not saying all famous men treat women like trash. But it's obvious that famous guys always have a harem of young groupies who they can have sex with whenever they wish. These women are perpetually willing to degrade themselves in any way necessary just for the sake of getting physical with a famous guy. I know most women have lives and aren't groupies, but still, if you ask any woman which famous guy she'd have sex with, no questions asked, pretty much every woman will immediately name several guys. And they really mean it. If that guy suddenly bumped into them they'd be willing to do anything for him without hesitation. Just because he's famous.

e-Mancipated

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Why do women enjoy being used by some men and not others? Posted: 10/13/2009 6:06:43 PM
Women seem to be very differential. Famous guys (rockstars, football players, etc): women enjoy being used, thrown around, treated like trash, etc. Non-famous guys: women are picky about whether they date them, they insist on being respected to the max, they test the guy constantly to try to trip up his game. Is it just that famous guys have somehow "proved" themselves by getting with a lot of women?

nerdyloser

Joined: 11/24/2007

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Lighten it up Posted: 9/29/2009 8:10:25 PM
Your profile makes you sound like you are a bit full of yourself This isn't the real me. Just that women seem to want confidence, confidence, confidence. Listen to all the pop songs about love. Look at the guys women date. Look at the guys who are most successful. Whatever women say they want, their actions tell me that they're attracted to guys who are no less than confident,****, and a touch arrogant. But maybe I'm overdoing it, or don't come off as convincing? What do you think? put some more pictures in there that shows your face Good suggestion. Will do.

nerdyloser

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Profile review please Posted: 9/29/2009 6:17:18 PM
Any more thoughts? Can you elaborate on what's good/bad about the profile?

nerdyloser

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Do all profiles sound the same to you? Posted: 9/29/2009 6:16:31 PM
A lot of profiles are the same because women tend want the same things. If more women cared about how unique a guy was, maybe you'd see more variety in the profiles.

nerdyloser

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Is it worthwhile paying a woman to be arm-candy, so I can more easily meet other women? Posted: 9/28/2009 8:48:41 AM
I am a fully taken married man And that's why you're having all this "luck". Because women can subconsciously sense that you're already getting tail. What can a perpetually single guy like me do? Pretty much nothing. She caught the gaze and I suspect she regarded it as some invitation to come up to me and strike a conversation. She asked for a cigarette - I've done plenty of glancing, and had plenty of glances thrown my way. But never, never has a woman approached me. I've approached plenty of times, and after an arkward conversation, the women finds some reason to leave (usually a boyfriend or female friend). See you're seeing the world through rose-tinted glasses because you're just that lucky SOB who got laid in high school and always had the ladies. So psychologically you're just constantly in player-mode. I can't really compete with that can I?

nerdyloser

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What is it that natural seducers have that guys like me don't? Posted: 9/24/2009 10:42:56 PM
Makes them weak. How on earth do you make women weak?? They have so much power. You likely have all the tools you need What do I have that women can't get elsewhere with the flick of a finger?

nerdyloser

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Profile review please Posted: 9/24/2009 10:18:16 PM
(I'm sure I recall making a post before, but either I didn't post it or it dropped off the forum somehow). Anyway, just asking if you can review my profile and let me know what you think. Thanks guys. (Note, please ignore my screenname if that's OK, I'll change it soon, but still trying to come up with a good one.)

nerdyloser

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What is it that natural seducers have that guys like me don't? Posted: 9/24/2009 10:13:07 PM
You could kind of sum it up as this: Women want someone who can pwn them. "Pwn" meaning, beat them at something. Whether it means being more popular than them, or more of a jerk than them or whatever.

nerdyloser

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Is it worthwhile paying a woman to be arm-candy, so I can more easily meet other women? Posted: 9/24/2009 10:03:11 PM
When I go to a bar, its mainly to have a few drinks. I really don't give a crap if everybody has their backs to me. Is that kind of mindset going to get me anywhere? If, when going out, I totally ignore and shut off everyone around me except my friends, and never attempt to approach anyone else, simple logic says I won't meet anyone new. Ever. And I know this it true, because this is what I've been doing for the last 3 months, and just as I thought, I haven't met anyone new.

nerdyloser

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Is it worthwhile paying a woman to be arm-candy, so I can more easily meet other women? Posted: 9/24/2009 7:30:19 PM
Somewhere along the way in your life I think you dropped your self esteem and if you don't find it I'm afraid your dating career will always perpetually be stagnant. Let me ask you this... In your books, what's the difference between confidence and self-deception?

nerdyloser

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Is it worthwhile paying a woman to be arm-candy, so I can more easily meet other women? Posted: 9/24/2009 6:52:25 PM
A date took me to a nightclub recently (crowded) and we were joined at the table by two very young and very attractive women. Doesn't this alone prove my point?

nerdyloser

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Is it worthwhile paying a woman to be arm-candy, so I can more easily meet other women? Posted: 9/24/2009 6:45:18 PM
Its a farce to feel the need to validate oneself by spending time with someone simply because they are hot so it can me look like I can get hot chicks. Farce or not, I'm sure you'll agree that it works. Of course, you didn't have to pay for such company, because you already had girls willing to go out with you (and probably home with you too). But the principle still applies.

nerdyloser

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Is it worthwhile paying a woman to be arm-candy, so I can more easily meet other women? Posted: 9/24/2009 6:24:37 PM
Most people have observed the following: A) A guy walks into a bar with his buddy. Everyone has their backs to the him. He waits at the counter for about 15 minutes before being served. No one makes eye contact with him. He starts conversations with women but ends up getting blown out sooner or later. B) A guy walks into a bar with a nice looking girl on his arm. Everyone looks his way, at least for a split second. When he walks toward the counter everyone clears a path for him. He gets the attention of the bartender almost immediately. As they sit down to drink, other people sit down nearby. It's easy to start conversations with other women, and before he knows it, the guy's being flirted with. Because of the above, do you think it's worth it for me to pay a girl to accompany me to bars and other public places, simply to make it easier to meet people and start conversations?

nerdyloser

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What is it that natural seducers have that guys like me don't? Posted: 9/24/2009 5:54:41 PM
It is called charisma, and it just doesn't apply to women, people with natural charisma, can and do charm almost anyone. I've had a few friends and work with a few guys that had charisma, they could get away with everything and anything, people just like being around them. I'm guessing you can't really fake charisma. I could watch films of Hitler all day I guess

nerdyloser

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What is it that natural seducers have that guys like me don't? Posted: 9/22/2009 7:16:02 AM
How about you start by changing your name on here? nerdyloser? it might as well be IHaveAIDS I'm not trying to meet women on here, because that just doesn't seem like it's going to happen. I'm talking about meeting women in public places, e.g. bars, pubs, parks, beach, etc.

nerdyloser

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What is it that natural seducers have that guys like me don't? Posted: 9/22/2009 7:07:28 AM
This is not an easy question to answer. Well thanks for trying anyway.

nerdyloser

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What is it that natural seducers have that guys like me don't? Posted: 9/22/2009 7:03:31 AM
get off the computer whining, get out and go get some game, get a girl, get laid It's kinda not that simple.

nerdyloser

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Women more likely to have one-night-stand while on vacation? Posted: 9/22/2009 2:05:52 AM
This is probably conversely true for men. Men are less likely to get laid while on vacation because they're in unfamiliar terrain, and come across as less confident/self-assured. Whereas when they're on their home soil, they're well prepared to deal with new women. Just a theory though, I might be wrong.

nerdyloser

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Guys must bother women who aren't interested? Posted: 9/22/2009 2:02:24 AM
Some women enjoy being pursued by men who are interested. Others hate it. Others are indifferent. I feel sorry for women who are sick of being bothered/hounded in clubs, parties, and other social situations. But it's necessary for guys to do this, because most of us really don't have a clue whether you're interested in us or not, and it's impossible to know until we've made a good effort. If we had a policy of never bothering women, most of us would never get a girlfriend at all, because we would simply be meeting too few women to find one who's interested. Is there a solution to this contradiction? Or must we make ourselves irritating to many women so we can appeal to a few?

nerdyloser

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Does natural confidence impell a guy to make the first move? Posted: 9/22/2009 1:53:53 AM
The common theme in a lot of advice I get about women is "confidence". If confidence is supposed to be this "inner" kind of joy and contentment with ones self, how does that translate into physical action? How does "feeling really happy about who I am" translate into walking up to a girl and making some witty comment to her in a confident, well delivered manner? Does confidence automatically motivate a guy to approach women, and thus solve his problem of being single? Or is it separate, and even the most confident guy on earth still has to be "somewhat" desperate enough to actually initiate something?

nerdyloser

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What is it that natural seducers have that guys like me don't? Posted: 9/22/2009 1:42:23 AM
Some guys have barely read a book in their life, let alone a seduction manual. They've never gone to seduction classes, "sarged" (i.e. deliberately approaching as many women as possible, so as to get more familiar with how women think). They've never researched female psychology, or asked questions about women in online forums such as this, or even asked friends for advice. Yet they've had an amazing amount of success with women. They've seduced and bedded many beautiful women, as well as experienced the intimacy and closeness of a relationship. These guys don't seem to have to work very hard to achieve results. What thing or things do these people have that I lack? And how did they get them?

nerdyloser

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What is it about women having Jack Sparrow fantasies. Posted: 9/12/2009 4:02:16 AM
I found him charming! Yeah, he's a dirty pirate, but that's just one part of his character. The remainder of his character is being confident, witty, and unintentionally funny. However, fame is also an important component. If there was a guy just like Johnny Depp, but not as famous, he wouldn't get the ladies. Women do care about social power more than anything else.

nerdyloser

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Penis Enlargment Posted: 9/5/2009 2:06:49 AM
Don't waste your money on a pump. A**ring will do the same thing cheap. I got a nice one for $12 the other day and it makes myabout several millimeters longer and much harder and thicker. (A few millimeters is the most you can hope for. Just keep in mind that most women can't feel much beyond 3-4 inches. The appeal of a largeris more psychological. If you can find some other way to turn her on, other than just having a big** she'll still end up horny at the end of the day.)

nerdyloser

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How does the bad boy handle the first approach? Posted: 8/31/2009 9:59:02 PM
Sorry about all the questions :) I found out later that it was pretty typical of him to pick up girls at bars and have ONS's. How'd you find this out? And did he know you were happy to share him with whoever he wanted to sex?

nerdyloser

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Ladies obession with tall men... Posted: 8/31/2009 9:46:57 PM
everyone is different But women generally prefer taller guys. I'm just not sure how much taller. If your only looking for 1 woman to love you... Unfortunately, as many have found out the hard way, going into the dating world looking for "1" person often leaves one lonely and miserable.

nerdyloser

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Ladies obession with tall men... Posted: 8/31/2009 9:22:00 PM
someone far taller then me are must have's Most men are taller than most women. But how much taller is necessary? For example, I'm 5'10, which is about 2-3 inches taller than most females I see. Does that mean I'm always going to be worse off than a guy who's 5 inches taller? What I mean is, do women really notice the inches?

nerdyloser

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How does the bad boy handle the first approach? Posted: 8/31/2009 9:15:38 PM
He was really good looking, but he was really playing a lot of girls in town during his trips home from the military. Did the fact that he was getting a lot of girls contribute to the attraction? And when you say good looking, I guess you mean, all muscle? He was with many friends and was just looking and smiling, getting close. At the same time he was doing this with other girls too. What kind of signals did you give out to show your acceptance/approval? Back in the day (I don't go to bars now so I wouldn't know), and in such a small town...it was just pretty acceptable for guys to make moves like that. I don't think much has changed since we started walking upright, TBH.

nerdyloser

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22, Never had a girlfriend Posted: 8/31/2009 8:49:57 PM
Have you guys checked out www.scarleteen.com? I don't know why you're recommending that site? It seems to be aimed at guys who are already getting laid. Maybe SoSuave.com is a better choice. (Although my take on the seduction community is that the advice only works for some guys, but always works for the one's selling books/CDs/seminars.)

nerdyloser

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How does the bad boy handle the first approach? Posted: 8/31/2009 8:36:15 PM
I was out of bad relationship and just wanted to bang some good looking guy. I picked him out at a bar and hit on him, it worked out well and a few hours later we were shagging. Less than 7 hours? He must have been a catch! Was he by himself or with friends? Were there lots of girls around him already? I guess what I'm getting at is, was it just his looks or was is also his social aura? Second guy..also at a bar and he hit on me prob dancing or something. About this - was there any possible way he could have known that you wouldn't slap his face and call the cops? Or did he just have to bite the bullet?

nerdyloser

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He made me? Posted: 8/31/2009 8:23:42 PM
1- into that kind of thing Oh most women are number 1 I reckon. Just that they reserve it for a popular, dominant type.

nerdyloser

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How does the bad boy handle the first approach? Posted: 8/31/2009 8:21:27 PM
LOL He wasn't the best pick-pocket, although he might have been distracted.

nerdyloser

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How does the bad boy handle the first approach? Posted: 8/31/2009 8:15:00 PM
This is for the women who have gone all the way with a bad-boy who they met randomly (e.g. at a bar, concert, public place, etc). From what you recall, how did he initially approach you? Did he comment on something situational? Did he introduce himself? Did he reveal right away (or soon after) that he was attracted to you? Did you know the minute you saw him that he was a possible partner, or did it take a lot of persuasion/cajoling on his part? Just curious! :)

nerdyloser

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He made me? Posted: 8/31/2009 8:10:02 PM
I sometimes wonder... if I was with a date and just started feeling her up and talking dirty without warning, would she let me do it? Somehow I doubt it. I guess some guys just have the "magic touch".

nerdyloser

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Why do some women like to get choked while having sex? Posted: 8/31/2009 8:07:03 PM
A lot of women love being dominated, controlled and co-erced. I guess the choking provides that kind of feeling. Maybe the same reason some women like being slapped around, or pushed into sex, or forced to deep-throat.

nerdyloser

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22, Never had a girlfriend Posted: 8/31/2009 8:01:38 PM
Women are compliant. Invite a girl over, and tell her to take her clothes off. You may be surprised by how quick she is to obey. That only works for popular guys like you. It's pretty obvious to the average guy that it's just not that easy. The sooner you start seeing women as people, who you can be friends with, and get to know, the sooner you will start getting laid. Not necessarily. Just because you know them doesn't mean they see you in a sexual way. Unless you're popular or have natural charm, they're going to automatically default to the "non-sexual friendship" paradigm.

nerdyloser

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He made me? Posted: 8/31/2009 7:48:52 PM
I've had a lot of women complain to me about their ex's and men they dated in the past. They'll say things like "he made me have sex" or "he made me have a threesome with another girl". If I ask, were you attracted to him, they'll say "of course, but he was a jerk". I'm trying to understand exactly what "made" means. Is it really coercion when the female is offering only token resistance, and is actually willing to go ahead with it?

nerdyloser

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Ladies, does this prove anything about looks? Posted: 8/31/2009 7:31:28 PM
Dude... people picking up papers dropped on the street is way different from the process of seducing women. (But hey, MSNBC probably made good advertising dollars off that story) I've seen so many ugly turd-faces with beautiful women that I don't think anyone can convince me that women only sleep with good looking guys. What women really want is a socially dominant alpha male. Examples: football players, celebrities, the school jocks, etc.

nerdyloser

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How funny, and what kind of funny? Posted: 8/31/2009 8:48:11 AM
Be who you are, that humour will attract a like minded lady. Well then I guess my sense of humor is only attractive to 40+ women. I mean, I know the kind of natural humor you're talking about. When I was a kid me and my sister would make the most horrible jokes about people we knew. But to get to that point you have to have known someone for a long time and be as close as family. It just doesn't work when you're on first dates with someone. You can't contrive a particular sense of humor, you either have it or you don't. I guess I don't then

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