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 Author Thread: What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 394 (view)
 
What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.
Posted: 11/21/2009 3:15:59 PM
fluffybrain: I like your answer. Its very true. A look in the mirror and a reality check are important.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 499 (view)
 
What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 11/18/2009 5:14:51 PM
HardwoodFloorBoard: Hey, come on now. I've driven Mustangs for years!
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 404 (view)
 
Sex on a First Date - Does it Kill a Potential Relationship?
Posted: 11/18/2009 9:15:49 AM
Sometimes in life, you put your line in the water and you wait and wait and wait and wait. Sometimes you catch lightning in a bottle. If you have a fish on your line and its a good fish, do you risk throwing it back in with the hopes of catching a bigger or better one or do you just be happy with what you have, and enjoy what you have. Tomorrow is promised to no one. So whether its the first of the nth date, you go with your wit, your heart, your feelings and hope for the best.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 381 (view)
 
Sex on a First Date - Does it Kill a Potential Relationship?
Posted: 11/14/2009 6:00:07 PM
I've had sex on the first date more than once. Each time it led to relationship. I find that if the feelings are there, and the woman I'm with is mature enough to make the decision to go forward and I feel the same way, then you do what comes naturally. I'm not and never have been out for sex on the first date. But when I've had it, it always led to relationship. Some worked out well as in we were together a long time, while others didn't. I agree with what someone earlier said, its not SEX that kills a potential relationship, its the people that kill it.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 471 (view)
 
What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 11/14/2009 5:20:48 PM

So I am a sad and confused cougar who is looking for real love! "Cougar: wants sex only"

Yes Barbyanne2, I know the feeling. I'm looking for love too, but guess I'll have to settle for sex.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 468 (view)
 
What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 11/14/2009 4:37:12 PM

What do you think about cougars?

I think everyman should own one! Just kidding. :-)
Cougars, Mustangs, Age is a non-factor.
What difference does it make as long as EGO is left at the door.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 323 (view)
 
What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.
Posted: 11/14/2009 4:28:52 PM

I certainly don't think sooooooooooooooooooooooo, however some of the men well let's say they are not exactly gentlemen?

And some women are not ladies either. It all evens up in the end and all comes out in the wash.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 254 (view)
 
What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.
Posted: 11/10/2009 8:53:08 AM
More than a handful? Well...you know the rest......
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 110 (view)
 
Big Labia Lips On Women
Posted: 11/3/2009 12:22:45 PM
You Australians are a very strange breed! lol
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 205 (view)
 
What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship.
Posted: 11/3/2009 12:05:33 PM
I look for a good, honest, sincere, caring and understanding partner. I live by the Golden Rule. I do unto others as I hope that they would do unto me. I look for goodness in a woman. Sure, looks do matter somewhat, but if a woman is trying to take good care of herself and has a good heart, thats what I look for.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 106 (view)
 
Big Labia Lips On Women
Posted: 11/3/2009 12:01:46 PM
Hilly1971: Never feel concerned or worry about what the Good Lord gave you. I've been with women who had little lips and women with large lips and I happen to think a woman who is well endowed "down there" is very sexy and a huge turn on.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 388 (view)
 
why dont most men keep it trimmed ??
Posted: 11/3/2009 11:58:43 AM
rockin in the rox: I'm totally with you and feel the same way about a lady. I want to be with a lady..not a little girl. It seems the shaved pubic area is very popular with the ladies today. I miss the good old days..of the natural look. A little "housekeeping" is always good for either sex, but to be completely shaved does nothing for me.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 328 (view)
 
why do alot of the guys at this site have a problem with dogs?
Posted: 10/23/2009 7:00:23 AM
Are you kidding me? I love dogs!
I just call them "look-its" as in "awww lookit!"
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 101 (view)
 
21 and still a virgin, Any advice?
Posted: 10/22/2009 3:23:59 AM
Tigresslooking4tiger: Oh, let me not forget you! That is excellent advice to this young man. Again, you should be proud of yourself and I'm sure you will do GREAT in the dating world!
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 100 (view)
 
21 and still a virgin, Any advice?
Posted: 10/22/2009 3:21:42 AM
guitaristinsc, amanda84, winteragain: Thank You all 3 of you. Its refreshing to know that some people still have some compassion, common sense and decency. You should be proud of yourselves as I am of you.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 173 (view)
 
Why do guys love porn so much???
Posted: 10/21/2009 6:27:35 PM
A long long time ago, when I played HS Football, the coaches would show us training films. The films would show proper techniques and how the game is supposed to be played. Same as Sex. Consider Porn a training film. Good Luck and enjoy your life!
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 94 (view)
 
21 and still a virgin, Any advice?
Posted: 10/21/2009 6:25:21 PM
Don't hire a prostitute EVER. Read the thoughtful responses from some of the others here. Anyone can pay for sex. There is no satisfaction in that. Why put money in woman's pocket? Have some pride and confidence. Be and act like a man and you will find a worthwhile women who will enjoy it with you, not just take your money.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 81 (view)
 
Death and the age of 50....
Posted: 10/15/2009 3:03:02 PM
Serenity Sam: Excellent post and excellent advice. It must have been awful losing a gf to breast cancer at such an early age. On Oct 19th, I observe the 2nd year anniversary of the passing of my dear wife Maggie, who died at age 50 of colon cancer. Its changed my whole life in many ways as I still try to cope with the "whys" and "what ifs". But life does go on, and its taking me with it, so I must go on and do my best. Best of luck to all of you.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 78 (view)
 
21 and still a virgin, Any advice?
Posted: 10/14/2009 7:16:55 PM
stenoslave and nothinglefttoburn: I am not an overly religious person, but let me say GOD BLESS both of you. Thank goodness you both have a healthy, logical, and realistic response to the OP asking for advice here. I wish you both the very best and know that BEST will come to the both of you. I'm very proud of you both for chiming in with some very thoughful responses. You both have restored a little faith in humanity.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 404 (view)
 
Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 10/12/2009 4:35:28 AM
Very nice to hear this. I would hope my ex-wife would feel that way about me.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Paying for Sex-Can cost you your job?!
Posted: 10/9/2009 6:01:31 PM

What do ya'll think of this?

I think your friend is a nut.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 515 (view)
 
What is a Real Man?
Posted: 10/9/2009 2:04:37 PM

A real man is one who makes his woman happy.

Thats not a real man...thats a miracle worker!
Just kidding ladies...its Friday! Woo Hoo!
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 340 (view)
 
Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 10/8/2009 12:44:25 PM
gentlemaNJIM4ONE: What a very heartwarming story. Good Luck my friend. I truly believe anything can happen if two people are willing to compromise and see the good in each other. You have my BEST WISHES!
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 114 (view)
 
women as pure sexual objects
Posted: 10/3/2009 6:02:52 AM
Beth, I like your attitude and totally agree with you that we do need to grow up in this country. (I'm not sure about the rest of the world but from what I hear, we are pretty screwed up in this country when it comes to sex). Women should not be considered sluts if they enjoy sex. I never considered them that way. I never asked for a resume in terms of how many she's been with, and wouldnt' expect her to ask me either. Its not racking up the numbers that matters, as I'll take quality over quantity. For me, I just dont' think its healthy for me to look upon women as sex objects. Frankly, an object is just that, an object. An object is something without feelings and emotions. I would hope that any women I am intimate with, would enjoy being with me, enjoy what pleasure I can provide for her as I enjoy the pleasures she can provide for me. Hope that makes sense.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 103 (view)
 
What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 10/3/2009 5:38:34 AM
And of course when she's orgasming, that tends to set me off because it looks and feels so much better.
The hell with what Dave Chappelle (whoever the heck that is LOL) thinks, when she's orgasming, that IS most definitely the RIGHT TIME. Thats the goal and the objective, it doesn't always work out that way, but the times it does, its GREAT! Then you want to rest up and go back for more!
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 107 (view)
 
women as pure sexual objects
Posted: 10/2/2009 2:57:08 PM
As I see it, I think there are 2 sides to this issue.
Men, and I include myself, possess within ourselves this unyielding urge and desire, the "urge to merge" as some put it, which may drive us to look upon women as simply sexual objects. However, its how a man acts out on these urges, and treats women that is the important thing. I may have desires, but I would never look upon or treat a woman as a sex object. A woman is a human being, has a heart and a soul, and I would never say anything or treat a woman anyway that I wouldn't say to my mother, my daugher or any other woman who is close to me. Same goes for how I would treat these same women mentioned. It really disgusts me when I hear men talking about picking women up, getting laid, and so forth. Guys should understand that each and every women is a living breathing human being, with feelings and not just someone to be used as your personal toy for pleasure.

Women I believe also don't help their cause when they dress provactively, act overly aggressive sexually, and treat themselves as sex objects. Many women show no respect for themselves, and go about trying to attract attention which sure enough they do receive, but not always from those who they intend to attract.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 273 (view)
 
For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 10/2/2009 2:06:15 PM
roninvince: Ron, go back and read the original question. The question was asked of guys Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute? . Prostitute implies that there was an exchange of $$$$ for services rendered. As far as I know, prostitutes are primarily women who service men, or men who also service other men. Its not about hating or discriminating. It IS about personal choice. Its not a moral issue either. I have asked more than once for women to chime in and state whether or not they would date questionable men and there haven't been many responses. They KEY point for ME, is the Exchange of $$$$, which I would never be able to accept. That would be the deal breaker for me.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 271 (view)
 
For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 10/2/2009 1:21:26 PM
InNCsearching: I don't think you are going to make too many friends on either side of the gender fence with those remarks.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 85 (view)
 
What do men think about during sex to stop them from bustin?
Posted: 10/2/2009 6:57:57 AM
OutMind: I read your comments and hope this isn't taken the wrong way, but as man myself I can tell you that you are 100% correct! Thats what I make every attempt to do. Enjoy every phase of it, entering, feeling inside, looking at her, gazing into her eyes. What is really great too, is if there is a mirror near by where both of you can observe yourselves enjoying the pleasure. Busting doesn't come into my mind until I know she is enjoying it and is ready to enjoy the ultimate pleasure with me at the same time (hopefully). I bet your remarks have gotten some high marks from the ladies here on POF. You deserve them!
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 264 (view)
 
For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 10/1/2009 4:42:36 AM
International velvet: I have to give you kudos as you put up a great arguement and viewpoint. Again, as a man I respect your opinion and hope you would respect and understand mine. Just want to replay to some of the remarks you have made above.



Ok, so now we gone from prostitution being a means to an end to it becoming 'a lifestyle'. Chronic Drug addiction is a lifestyle, but unless a prostitute hooks the majority of their waking hours, it is not 'a lifestyle'

Would you agree that in MOST cases, Prostitution is a CHOSEN lifestyle? A woman has the right and the opportunity to go into this "line of work" if she so chooses. Usually, with most of the people I know, what you do for a living does make up a substantial portion of your lifestyle. Again, I feel its something that gets "in the blood". Basically, what I see that is nice about being a woman is she has a choice, does she want to be a "good girl" or a "bad girl". We guys don't often get that choice. So basically, the old cliches come in to play here, "if the shoe fits" and "you make your bed now you have to sleep in it". We all make choices in life and most of us have to live by the choices we made.



Underlying this issue is fear of women who have sexual power.

I really don't get this one. If a man is of weak character, has little self worth, or simply can't keep his passions in order, then yes, women definitely have power over these kinds of men. No woman can have any power over a man unless he allows for it. Henceforth, I don't blame necessarily the women who choose this profession, although I do believe they capitalize on the weakness of some men, I blame the men.



Thats why in modern times we have problems with prostitution. In ancient times, they were held in high esteem and where considered wise + goddess like. Hence why jesus was with mary magdalene. Ancient egyptian times, prostituter were higly revered. And that is a fact.

Please tell me you don't want to go back to those ancient times. Also please tell me that you don't want women in western society to be treated like the modern day woman in muslim and middle eastern countries. I think we've come a long way from those "times".



What do you think happens with the millions of ladies who exit the business every year? They go on, usually with a partner, to lead normal, contributing to society lives, just like the rest of us
Do you honestly know this for sure? I know you will probably say you do. Let me ask you this though. If the "business" they are in is so "lucrative" and even "glamorous" as you are portraying it, why would a "business" woman want to settle down with a partner, lead a normal life and contribute to society. By the way, what is a normal life to you? Are you admitting that this "business" is abnormal? You also mention, "just like the rest of us". Are you also admitting that these women are not just like the rest of us? Any man I know would not be intersted in a partner like this. Her background and track record would not indicate to me someone I could trust or build a future with.



Just like you, nor anyone else, tell another how to live their life, what to do with their body, how moralistic they are, who they should bed, what they should think yada yada. Its projectionist propoganda, and quite often society gets caught up in the good ol 'i'm better than you, because i dont do......(insert judgement of whatever 'sin' here) *this excludes people who intentionally hurt others* Instead of applying the fact we are all human, we are all 'sinners', none of us are perfect + having enough humility to realise this is an empowering subconcious action. In this statement, i am not saying you have to let people into your life who dont befit your moral code, but the understanding + empathy for others whose ethics are different can be a liberating experience for our own psyche.
Oh goodness, how we go from a simple question Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute? to studies of ancient times, society examinations, psychological examinations and the last but not least, the MORAL card. I can't stress enough, to each their own. Its not about Morality. It is about personal choices, both for the woman and for the man. International velvet you seem like a nice woman who has taken the time to express your thoughts. As I mentioned before, we all make choices and judgements on what we want in our lives, who we want in our lives and so forth. We all try to look at someone's background to determine whether or not we would hire a person, bring someone home to meet the family, build a life with and to love and cherish. I respectfully conclude that an ex-prostitute is not someone I would care to associate with, let alone date.


I put up an interesting post on the 'rights' thread that equates to this debate
Not sure what that post is. But again, I don't see it has anything to do with rights. It has everything to do with one's personal decisions and choice.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 61 (view)
 
Death and the age of 50....
Posted: 9/30/2009 10:13:54 AM

Spend an hour at the DMV, it will seem like days

pirateheaven: That is so funny!

Honestly, I'd rather spend an afternoon in the Dentist chair going through root canal than to go to the DMV!
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 256 (view)
 
For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 9/30/2009 3:51:14 AM
My biggest problem was, when we had money problems she was always offering to go make some easy money .
Inego Montoya: Thank you for making my point. Thats how I've felt about it too. To me, a man's pride would be a stake here. You mention easy money, well to me it is easy money. What could be easier and if the truth be told, I wish we guys could make a buck that "easily", and I don't want to hear from women how they don't really enjoy sex and its just a "job" because I think you'd be stretching the truth. Sex is supposed to be an activity to be enjoyed equally by both sexes. I believe that was the intention.

Basically, with what a woman has between her legs, she can go into "business" very easily, anytime she wants, as there seems to be an unending line of desperate men who are willing to lay down their hard-earned (or otherwise earned) money for her "services". I use the word desperate, because to me, its a matter of having self control. As I see it, once the option of being "in business" is in a woman's blood, and she has exercised that option, I would think it would be very hard to resist when times get tough or she just needs to make some extra money. This is NOT a Moral issue. Morality has nothing to do with it. Actually, its more of an economic issue. Its supply and demand. Since there are significantly more men looking for NSA sex, the demand is high and the supply of available women who are into NSA sex is significantly lower. Therefore, the women who go into this "business" capitalize on these men. Thank goodness there are women who choose not to exercise this option. This would be the kind of woman that I would want in my life.

I've had some say to me that with what I am saying, it says a lot about me. I'm not sure what they mean. But I will ask this: Is there anything I am saying here that is not true? I am NOT sharing the women in my life, the woman I am intimate with, with any other man. Call me selfish, call me an egotist, but to me, it is and always will be a matter of pride. Some of you will never see it that way, and I will never convince you of this, but you will never convince me otherwise.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 251 (view)
 
For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 9/28/2009 5:40:07 PM
You know IV, this is getting us nowhere. We are going to disagree on this point. I respect your opinion if you respect mine. But to answer a couple of your comments, here goes:

i dont understand why you would equate a women who chooses prostitution with a drug dealer or a sex offender?
First of all, it is ILLEGAL, just as selling drugs or being an aggressor sexually. I was only using the drug dealer and sex offender to illustrate my point. We ALL make judgements with regards to who we date. Certain you IV, don't date every single guy who asks you out. So you must have your own personal reasons for rejecting them. For me, an ex-prostitute is someone I would never trust, not would I ever care so share intimacy with. Its that simple.


The prostitute does no harm to society.

You and many others like you try to shove statistics to back up what you feel is just and right. Thats fine and dandy. But think about what you are saying. If you are a mother, or a sister, or an aunt and your loved-one came up to you and ask you if you thought is was ok for her to be a prostitute, how would you advise them? It does no harm to society? What about the family unit? If every woman decides to go into "business" for herself, can you imagine what kind of world we would live in? I know I couldn't, but again, thats me.


yes i would date an ex fellon, with the exception of a murderer or sex offender.
Why not? If they saw the errors of their ways, why would you not give them a second chance? They deserve second chances don't they?

IV, this is a good debate, but I believe its at a stalemate. You aren't going to convince me just as I'm not going to convince you. We'll have to respect each other, I hope and agree to disagree.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 249 (view)
 
For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 9/28/2009 5:39:18 AM

If that's your honest opinion,I suggest you never get married.

One things for sure, I'd never marry you!

Dearest closer2u: I've been married twice, first time ended with divorce, amicably and I am grateful that I she gave me my daughter. My second marriage ended almost 2 years ago when my wife passed away from Colon Cancer. Never did it ever enter my mind that I would be entering either marriage with the exchange of money as a motive for getting getting married or have the attitude that something was owed to me or that I owed someone something. I married for traditional reasons, namely love, companionship and to raise/have a family.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 247 (view)
 
For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 9/27/2009 9:35:37 PM

you say in one breath you dont judge others, but then say people who choose prostitution have 'stooped so low'.

I said that I wouldn't stoop so low. I was speaking only for myself and not for others, AND I do make judgements for myself and how I govern my life, and thats all I have to say about that. I make no judgements on women who do it or men that love them. Again, only make personal judgements for myself. If you agree, thats fine, if not, so be it.


she admitted her past to you, would you refuse then?

Yes I would refuse. Again, personal decision. In my opinion a leopard never changes its spots. Who is to say if times get tough again, or she is upset with me about something, she wouldn't resort to it in the future? Again, would YOU date and ex-drug pusher or ex-sexual criminal if you met the most perfectly suitable man for YOU, who was intellectually your equal, emotionally + financially stable, sober, STI free, and unequivocally dynamic + had great synchronicity emotionally with you in the bedroom, then he admitted his past to you, would you refuse him?


when told of the circumstances surrounding why she turned to prostitution, you may feel a sense of empathy for her?
I may have some empathy, but that wouldn't change my trust for her.


do u not think handicapped or elderly people deserve to have sexual tenderness from people who choose this as a 'career path'?
Everyone deserves tenderness, sexual and otherwise, but for me, tenderness ends with the exchange of money. There are other ways for handicapped or elderly people to achieve sexual tenderness without having to pay for it. Again, only MY opinion, but thats how I feel.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 245 (view)
 
For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 9/27/2009 6:43:11 PM

Until you've actually been in the position, plz dont judge.

If you allow yourself to be in that situations like that, then you will be in that situation. If you have no self control, or pride in yourself, then yes, you will be in that situation. I would never allow that to happen to me and would never stoop so low. But thats me. Its up to the person. I won't judge for others but I am my own judge for myself and I will express my opinion for myself.

You can justify things whatever way you choose. You can bring in whatever statistics or reasoning you want. Its up to you.

If thats the case, let me ask the ladies. Would you date an ex-drug dealer?
How about an ex-sex offender. Maybe they've straightened out their lives and after all, they deserve a second chance too, don't you think?

I would not date an ex-prostitute. Pure and simple. Not for me. I would never be able to trust someone with that kind of background.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 466 (view)
 
What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 9/26/2009 4:29:56 PM

If someone says, "Your son looks like you." The poor guy is history.
lovinlifeat44: I totally agree with you. If someone asked me if the woman I was with was my daughter it would make me feel uncomfortable. Even further, if when one goes to meet his/her father and mother, and they are younger than oneself, this should raise a big question mark of one's judgement as well as be a serious reality check.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 93 (view)
 
Religion and sex in dating
Posted: 9/23/2009 6:31:07 AM
I've said it before and I'll say it again. God and Religion have no place in the bedroom. Before two people step inside the bedroom "ring", they should already know what their personal feelings and expectations are.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 63 (view)
 
Confidence attracts..................
Posted: 9/22/2009 10:18:10 AM
hardwood69: I liked what I read. You make some excellent points. Same as everything else in life, Experience is the best teacher, and Experience cannot be accumulated without getting in the game, making mistakes and learning. Good Post!
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 61 (view)
 
Confidence attracts..................
Posted: 9/21/2009 6:48:36 PM
To me, the question isn't whether confidence attracts or not. The most important thing is to have confidence in oneself. Confidence to me is the inate feeling inside of yourself that makes you walk away from any situation feeling good about yourself. In other words, its the old "its not whether you win or lose, its how you play the game". When you feel this confidence within yourself, you will develop this attitude that NO ONE, regardless how beautiful or sexy or in "demand" is better than you. Usually a confident person will attract or be attractive, maybe not to all but certainly will have his fair amount of opportunities. Beauty does fade but being confident will remain with you forever.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 113 (view)
 
What do you enjoy about one night stands?
Posted: 9/21/2009 5:22:57 PM

One night stands...are SEEDY as all hell and the least you men could do is PAY these women for thier time and risk.That's why they created prostitution ya' know.
Wow! Someone has her panties are in a bunch here! At least we could PAY you say? If I'm not mistaken, it takes "two to tango". Who created prostitution you ask? Well, no one in particular created it. Its basically a "supply and demand" thing as I see it. With more men interested in having sex than women, its creates a shortage and certain women have capitalized on this fact. Its very sad no matter how you twist it. Who's the blame? Who knows......but sorry to hear of your disgust with men. Me too am disgusted with some men as well as some women who take advantage of men as well. It always works both ways.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 106 (view)
 
What do you enjoy about one night stands?
Posted: 9/21/2009 7:41:22 AM
Confuscious say: "every long journey begins with the first step"

Every relationship begins with the "first night". If the first night is only a "one night stand" then maybe it is what it is. As a man, I can tell you that if the first night is a good night, it will lead to a second, third and even more nights. If the first night is not so good, then maybe thats the right place for it to end, for the lady and for the man.

Every night should be enjoyed in life, whether its the first night or the Nth night. Life is too short to make it a waste of time.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 477 (view)
 
What is a Real Man?
Posted: 9/12/2009 7:01:30 AM
Been Dumped on Alot & am really tired of it ,,, Why try to be Someone I'm Not

ToungeFooMaster: You make a VERY GOOD point. Real Men do NOT cry when they are dumped. They MOVE ON. They don't hold it against ALL women in the same manner women seem to hold it againts ALL men and try to punish ALL men because they were "dumped" or weren't "done right". It seems to me when a Women gets dumped, its the "End of the World" and everyone has to hear about it and come to her emotional rescue. Women have to learn that dumping and getting dumped are all a part of life, which we all have to endure.

TFM, you are totally right when you say "why try to be someone that I'm not". I learned this lesson, the hard way of course, but as the old song says, "I've Got to be Me, I've Got to be me, what else can I be than what I am". Good POST my friend!
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 475 (view)
 
What is a Real Man?
Posted: 9/12/2009 6:00:10 AM
Real Men are men who can stand on their own two feet. They do not do the "group think" thing and go along with the crowd because they are their "Own man". A real man respects women, but respects himself FIRST! A real man will never put a woman in a comprimising position and will not put himself in a comprimising position in pursuit of a woman. A real man knows how to pursue a woman without her knowledge of knowing that she is being pursued (kinda like women do). A real man knows not to argue with a woman, but instead, take the High road and just move on if compromise is not possible. A real man is powerful yet humble. A real man subdues his passions looks to improve himself.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 86 (view)
 
Masturbation, How often is normal?
Posted: 9/4/2009 4:04:48 PM

I think sex drive in men, on average, is higher than that in women.

I truly believe that the drives in men and women are fairly equal. At least thats what a lot of women lay claim to whenever asked. However, women are more disciplined, selective, and protective than men, and therefore resort to masturbation as much, if not more than men. Of course, most women are unwilling to admit it, but enough women do to make it valid.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 137 (view)
 
Why do guys love porn so much???
Posted: 8/28/2009 4:59:01 AM
Like xOOx, epnynydate sums it up very well.
Porn goes that "one step beyond" where E Channel, MTV, Spice and others of that type of entertainment go. It also goes beyond the constant tittilation and provocation that is happening in public for all to see on almost every street in every city in America. Like the old Monte Hall show, "Lets Make a Deal", Porn allows
us to see just what is behind door #1, #2 or #3. It allows a man, and YES Gladys Women too!, to enjoy adult entertainment in the privacy of their own home. It allows for living out a fantasy one might have, or being with someone you would never have the opportunity to be with. It also allows the viewer to perhaps be someone he/she is not. Best of all, in most cases its entirely free on the internet. The investment is tiny, as long as one is able to take care of his/her responsibilites to themselves and/or their partner if they have one.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 128 (view)
 
Why do guys love porn so much???
Posted: 8/26/2009 5:08:55 PM
x00x: You pretty much sum it all up! Very comprehensive description of the reasons why as well as putting it all in perspective and reality. NICE JOB!
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 438 (view)
 
What do you think about cougars?
Posted: 7/31/2009 5:45:30 PM

I am 56 and prefer a man my age, but most of them in my area can't keep up with them (seriously).
redflower314: I agree with you dear. Most women my age can't keep up with me! So I know how you feel.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 37 (view)
 
Why do guys love porn so much???
Posted: 7/31/2009 9:45:37 AM

It's a valid question if you ask me.Some guys are addicted to porn....that's why.
closer2u: As has been pointed out in the past few threads, women have their own "porn" or obsessions or addictions. They have romance novels, soap operas, Malls with endless supplies of shoe stores and clothes stores. Plus pocketbooks. How many pocketbooks, Designer and other wise does one woman really need? How many pairs of shoes does on woman really need?

Remember, we are all human and we all have our addictions. BTW, I never pay for porn. I will not contribute to what faceur has mentioned that its all about the money. I don't spend one red cent on porn. Its freely available here on the internet. I watch it at my leasure, when I feel like it, and sometimes with a partner. It can enhance the lovemaking experience greatly.

For Faceur: BTW, I'm with you all the way brother on your outlooks and ideas and if its any consolation to you, I hear that the Male pornstars earn more, in some cases, much more than the female stars.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Why do guys love porn so much???
Posted: 7/30/2009 7:30:01 PM
I don't understand why guys have to always jerk off to porn even when a guy is sexually active with his girlfriend or whatever for some reason they still have to do it.
OP...first of all, whats a nice you young lady like you know about "always jerk off to porn" kinds of things? Come on..you peaking in our windows again? LOL...

If you have the real thing in real life then why go to porn?? Can't guys go without looking at other girls??
Porn allows many of us men to live out fantasies we may have without actually attempting to live out the real thing. Another reason, as I see it, its the one area where a man's penis is actually worshipped, adored, admired instead of being looked at with disdain or "ewwww" every time a woman sees one. Another reason we watch them is for the same reason women like to watch soap operas and other girlie flicks. There is NO REALITY in soap operas or girlie flicks, but you watch them to be entertained, and porn to most of us men its good entertainment!
 
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