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 Author Thread: Help with endurance
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Help with endurance
Posted: 11/21/2009 8:37:23 PM
another word... baseball
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
How do you people stand to live in Portland or any big city?
Posted: 11/21/2009 12:46:50 PM
Is this a rhetorical question?
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Internet daters: are we damaging our social skills?
Posted: 11/21/2009 9:23:09 AM
Not so sold on if Internet dating damages social skills; I do know that it has certainly changed them; more often than not, they have skewed our collective views on dating.

One of the major change is the seemingly abundance of choices - a fast food mentality has develop. It can numb the mind, provides a near perfect cocoon, a comfort zones, and indeed can make one lazy. But by gawd, I am happy we have this tool. As always we just need to learn how to use it wisely.
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 29 (view)
 
What do you make of this? Is this BPD?
Posted: 11/9/2009 11:56:41 AM
What has given you such low self esteem?

He is calling the shots and you are letting him, do you think it is going to get better?

He doesn't respect you and neither do you .
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Why do women have issues with time ?
Posted: 11/9/2009 11:52:20 AM
Really doubt that it is just a woman time managment problem.... I sure it crosses both genders. Oh wait I am sure it does.
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 6 (view)
 
REVIEW ME PLEASE!!!..lol
Posted: 11/8/2009 1:24:24 PM
Oh dear me,

If you are teaching the word of the lord, then honey you must be talking all old testament!

Where is the love, the forgiving, the understanding? You are all fire and brimstone, hell and damnation! You need to cast out the demons from this profile! Brutally honest, no I don't think so, it reeks of bitterness and disappointment. You aren't being truthful to anyone, you are being just down right brutal, mean and selfish, where is the sense in that? OMG!

You may think you don't have baggage, well ya do, it is called experience. However, as far as I can tell, you have not learned to handle your experiences/baggage, you are just revisiting your mistakes with this diatribe. If this is who you are then perhaps you do need a break from dating and POF. Perhaps you need to reread the word of Jesus, maybe talk with the minister of your church. Take a good look at what you wrote or better yet have someone, perhaps a friend or a mentor read it aloud to you, actually have them scream it to you whilst pounding their hand on a table or better yet the bible.... you will be surprised at the hardness of it all. Is that what you really want? Are you really so hardened, so brutal?

THis of course is just my take on it, and I don't know you or what you have been through, but you have come to a public forum to have your profile reviewed and I can see no good coming from this profile as it stands today. There are many ways to ask for love, kindness and understanding and this isn't it.

Also lose abundance of 'smilies' icons they are annoying, esp for a woman your age, but they are the only happy thing about your profile as it stands today.

Peace twisted sister

ABM
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Significant birthdays
Posted: 11/8/2009 8:54:39 AM
From your profile lie many answer to your query....



2. I have worked for people and for myself and know that being in control of your own destiny is a liberating thing.


You are still in control of most of you destiny, just not that part and in and of that, it is also liberating.


{quote]3. I usually take people as they are and realise that the last perfect person was put on a cross 2000 years ago.

That person didn't live long enough to see 50. You may not be perfect you you have gotten a lot more time on this beautiful and sublime planet.



5. Words used to describe me include intelligent, considerate, independent. Other words used to describe me include self-absorbed, aloof, edgy.


Don't become absorbed in your age.



8. Good beer does not mean I drink a lot - it means I like good beer.


Turning 50 doesn't mean you are old - it means you human, prone to same effects of time as us all. Learn to embrace it.



9. We all have baggage - its called experience.


We all age and it is called be alive, living.



10. I don't take myself too seriously and live by the axiom "A good plan implemented now is better than a perfect plan implemented next week"


You maybe very well starting to take yourself too seriously.



11. A persons smile tells you who they are


Oh, give us a smile.



12. Most of lifes problems can be solved by going fishing


If turning 50 seems to be a problem, then for goodness sakes go fishing.



13. If you don't open the door, you will never know whats on the other side.


Yikes, now hows that for metaphor for heading into your 50s?



16. Peter Pan had it right - growing up is over-rated!


So don't grow up, keep your young spirit, embrace it, become it!



19. Binomial distributions - learn them, live them, love them.


Yeah what you said...


No, I am not the same person I was when I was in my 20s, 30s or 40s. Do I miss that person? Sure I do, but I am already starting to love the 50 year old person I am becoming.

Happy Birthday!

 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Are we all here for the same reasons ???
Posted: 11/8/2009 8:30:41 AM
So OP way do you care why people post a profile here on POF?

You are here to hang out, you aren't looking for a date, an activity partner, and IE or friends. Your wants and needs from POF is as base as they can be, heck you don't even need to interact. Hanging out may be a verb but it is not an active verb.



 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Do you really like the opposite sex?
Posted: 11/3/2009 6:28:47 PM
I like men and I like women, but I don't like all men and I don't like all women.

I have no doubt that most of the men that I have met have liked (loved) women, likewise the women, men. They are most certainly mystified and intrigued, confused and oft time driven crazy by the opposite gender. And then there is that pesky primal need to procreate, a force hard to ignore.

And I do like cats and dogs, but not for the same reasons I like men or women.

Oh what a crazy mixed up world it is, personal preferences are so fickle,


Good day
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Match Requirements
Posted: 11/2/2009 5:31:43 PM
Ahem....

It takes over an hour to drive 74 miles, and your profile states that you are looking for someone within a 75 mile radius, stuff happens.

Dude, chill. We can't put all the things that we don't want or are a requirement in a profile, hardly feasible. So you weren't that gals ideal man, so what?!?! Get over it. Some people are rude, some are nice, some will tell you and some won't and some don 't bother reading your entire profile...... walk it off.
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Introducing myself to a woman
Posted: 11/2/2009 11:24:59 AM
I am a women and consider myself a modern one at that and here is my take on this subject:

DO NOT take her hand and kiss it what ever you do!!! Way too weird, esp in this day and age of heighten levels of PCism.

From my perspective, a man, upon introduction, should offer to shake hands (firmly but not too firm) as a gesture of civility, leave the kissing of hands and hugging until you have a bit more of a history with a woman.
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 5 (view)
 
can a man show too much sensitivity on a profile?
Posted: 11/1/2009 11:11:34 AM
Wow! And I don't say that about many profiles.

It is hard to find a profile that feels real and spoken from the heart. Your profile may not tell 'us' all about you, and really it shouldn't, but it most certainly gives a gal a very good glimpse and it looks quite good. Don't change a thing.

Your profile is about you but not ALL about you, if you know what I mean. I have examples if you don't.

One shouldn't fully disclose right off the bat, where is the mystery in that? If you expose too much of yourself, there maybe some information misconstrued, misunderstood; and too much information maybe the reason someone won't write or respond.

Good pictures too. You could give lessons.

Oh, and yes, a man (or woman) could show too much sensitivity but you didn't and I think that is a good thing.

ABM
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Profile for review: Male, 48, SoCal/Updated again X 2
Posted: 10/31/2009 10:45:24 PM
That is too much about me


Oh geesh Jim, truer word you have never written, at least here on POF.

You need the delft hand of a good editor (or a slice of humble pie). Less is more, yeah really. Your profile is more like a Wagnerian opera, well at least in length and as interesting as the field guide to Date Nails of the American West Railroads - very limited in its appeal; however I am sure your mother would like it. You tip your whole hand, you offer it all up front. Where is the mystery? Ever think that you maybe giving more of a reason not to meet you than to meet you?

All I get from your profile is preachy, pretentious and pompous. Though that may work on some women, it probably won't on intelligent, well rounded and mature woman. You need to use a different tact. Surely you know what you have been using has not worked. Your profiles have not changed much since your first request for a review, they have been just variations on theme.

As for women LOLing because of the humor in your profile, it must be some sort of humor not common in these part.

Yeah, that is how I see it. I know I am not your target group, but you asked and the tricker treaters have gone home for the night and over priced athlete bore me....
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Long Distance Relationship
Posted: 10/26/2009 1:21:25 PM
Need some advise...


If I were to be thus treated, I would not bother wasting anymore time, thought or effort. He has in essence told you how he feels about you. Time is growing short honey, time to move along.


ABM
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Zero Tolerance Laws
Posted: 10/20/2009 3:45:45 PM
Please give and example..................................................................
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 27 (view)
 
What to do
Posted: 10/20/2009 1:07:10 PM
Yep, thats right you have identified a problem.

Stop dating, figure out who you are and get some HELP. It is too big of a problem, times a-wasting....
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 7 (view)
 
profile review please
Posted: 10/20/2009 12:57:06 PM
Dang,wish I was younger .


Well that goes for most of us over 30.

As mentioned before, you have lots of strikes against you; smoking, drinking, the not willing to date someone your own age (whats that about, you live in the retirement state of the union?!), your gloomy view of so many things. The single block of text you call a profile, yikes hard to read, break it up and use spell check, it can be your best friend. If you do talk like you write, then it looks as if you talk very fast, I bet that is not the case, spaces after your periods are in order. Better photos, always a good thing.

But, here is what bothers me the most, "Activity Partner', man oh man, that to me is just another term for intimate encounter - yeah I know, that's not what you meant, but ..... If you are indeed looking for an activity partner join a club, I know that there are many of them in Showlow.

Your profile is about as inviting as a rattlesnake...

You need a redo, take a look a look at some other peoples profiles and get a few ideas from this site under how to write a better profile.
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Do's & Don'ts For A 2nd Meet / Date
Posted: 10/10/2009 1:08:08 PM
Big turn off for me:


Talking trash about anyone - e n d l e s s l y
Talking about the Ex or past lovers - e n d l e s s l y
Talking about oneself - e n d l e s s l y
Not asking me things about me/or asking and not listening
Narrow mindedness
No sense of humor - boring!
Being disrespectful, ill mannered, boorish, uninformed , you get the picture.

I don't waste my time on such behaviors any longer, don't have the patience.
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Be blunt, don't hold back
Posted: 10/10/2009 8:34:33 AM
Are you sure it is the profile that is not working?

Your profile is at least a C+ or even a B-, above average but a bit unimaginative(I give high point for profiles that make me LOL) , but hey that's okay, if that is not who you are then alrighty. Doesn't look as if you are searching for a gal that works from the right side of her brain anyway.

This is what jumped into my thoughts - you live in a city, along the eastern seaboard (no offense people, just saying), and you are looking for an adventurous, fit, intelligent, and oh yeah, attractive gal to complete the duo part of your daring. Plus you say nothing of that woman having or wanting kids, something you should address, since a good many of those women will have or want them. Your profile reeks of testosterone, your pics of constant guy bounding experiences (I know you address that in your profile) and not much time for a women. Perhaps, and I am just saying perhaps, that there aren't that many such women around you that feel that they can fit or want to fit that description. Maybe you need (gawd forbid) to tone it down a bit. You come off like a superman and that may just turn off some of the girlies. Yeah there are women that don't like clubbing and shopping but they may not like jumping tall buildings in a single bound or hangin' with your guy friends every weekend either. In other words you are playing to a small group; widen the search, lessen the tolerances or change the bait, you know what you are doing now is not working....

Here are some of the things that other will tell you; add at least ten interests, add a few close-ups of your mugg and show a bit softer side (note I did say 'a bit', the dog pic is a good start). Also, try to contact a few women you find interesting. Personally I hate to see this line... if there is anything you want to know feel free to respond, as if I need permission - pawshaw!


Enjoy the ride

ABM




PS

what kinda hat is that fellow on your left wearing, is that govnm't issue? Groovy.
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Hello! New and needing a review...and a few hello's from the locals :)
Posted: 10/9/2009 3:49:10 PM
Pictures, interests, traits desired.... DUDE you are looking for a women to give you sex for free, NSA sex, FWB, a fVck Buddy not a date, you are looking for a cheap lay. Y ou and a heck of a lot of other men; men at the bars, the baseball games and walking down the street are all looking for the same thing. REALLY!?!?! you think it has anything to do with what you have in your profile? WOW you are clueless. Unless you are offering cash or your credit card number.

Honey, do yourself a favor and post in the 'casual encounter' section of Craigslist, I am sure your chances would be just as good, if not better.

Think of this however, what type of women do you think you will be looking for some of that sort of I.E action here on POF?? Do you really think that she is going to be all that?!!? I hope you are current with your shots.

Eewwwww, no its not what you have in your profile, heck not even if you could show a shot of your junk.





Oh wait, you do know what an intimate encounter is don't you ?
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Paying for Sex-Can cost you your job?!
Posted: 10/9/2009 3:35:41 PM
Since OP has left the building, I am going to suggest that perhaps that his 'friend' was him..... just pure speculation on my part.

Beside this 'friend' was an attorney and soliciting a prostitute is against the law....hmmmm?
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
My vehicle is an extension of WHAT?
Posted: 10/9/2009 3:23:04 PM
Certainly not all men's vehicles are a Freudian extension of their penis or 'thingy' as you have so elegantly put it .

From what I can tell, it may be some of the men that need to 'prove' something to the world, have low self esteem and have the resources to do so that tend to go overboard on the appearance, performance or horsepower of an vehicle that fit into this narrow category. Of course, as in most cases, is not always true either. I promise I don't judge men by silly standards. However that may be because of my limited exposure to men with small and underpowered units.


Damn don't you hate it when there is not a one size/answer/genre'/period of history/idea/theory to fit all??

.
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
The truth about the SWINE FLU VACCINE
Posted: 10/8/2009 12:50:29 PM
Getting the N1H1 vaccine is NOT mandatory. At least in the US of A and I doubt it is anywhere on the North American continent.
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Sophisticated Redneck. Whats wrong ladies?
Posted: 9/29/2009 4:54:59 PM
BBQbum

Well, your profile is better than average, sorta, however your photos leave a lot to be desire.

There is not one good photo in the bunch. The lighting is horrible (back lit, not good), the photo of you in the bathroom has to go, you (in my opinion) should never have a photo of your kid on line and what's up with the shots of your motorcycle, are you trying to get a gal or a guy? And crop, crop , crop your photos...

I know you are in Texas, but play down that football talk, well unless you really are trying to pick up a few more guy friends. You are trying to woo a woman. (yeah I know girls, there are some of you that like football, but that doesn't have too be in the first paragraph, its a dating site, not a fantasy football site or a sports bar).

I didn't see much of what you have to offer, just what YOU like to do.. sweeten the pot Mr Man, its not all about you, but what you have to offer.

I don't know much about Texans or men your age, both have morphed into subspecies for me, but if'ms I was a betting gal, those few changes might help...

As an aside, BBQ hon, online dating is a hard hard go, stick to football....

Xs & Os
ABM
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 19 (view)
 
men and their obsession with long locks
Posted: 9/28/2009 2:17:28 PM
Yeah, I know I am not a guy, but what the heck.

I don't know what SOME men feel about l o n g hair, but be sure it is not ALL men. That is a silly notion.


PS

I think you are as cute as a button in that hair cut, it fits your face totally. I don't think long hair would add anything to your overall looks.
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Am I over reacting
Posted: 9/20/2009 8:58:28 PM

Enjoy fun times no drama.
Looking for someone like me, strong,confident, honest and hardworking.
I am happy with the person I've become, hope you are as well, I'm not about to change at this stage of life.


Yes you are overreacting
.
Take a good look at what you have written in your OWN profile... you certainly don't come off as either strong or confident.

I hope he doesn't read this bit of drama you have concocted, it makes you look, well..... like a drama queen. Yeah not pretty.


Oh my.
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Why Its Hard Dating
Posted: 9/15/2009 3:44:29 PM
Dating is hard because if it were easy everyone would be doing it......


 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Do women like being approached in public for a date ?
Posted: 9/15/2009 1:16:44 PM
^^^

Ditto! I have meet men at the library, a couple at a museum and at work (talk about your transients - jk).
If they, are as mentioned in Itsmejuli post, witty, intelligent and so on, then I am hooked. I will and have given them my attention, and if things 'feel' right (and I have time), then maybe a quick cuppa joe or an adult beverage.

Who knows!? It has worked for me before.
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 5 (view)
 
POF isn't helping me at all lol
Posted: 9/11/2009 3:28:25 PM
I don't like dating lo,l I rather just find someone and be done with it.



oh how romantic!
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 8 (view)
 
AGE DIFFERENCE?
Posted: 9/10/2009 5:40:02 PM
Did he ask you to get married?

If you have to ask, then perhaps you are too young.
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Has any body ever told you that you're a bad kisser
Posted: 9/10/2009 3:04:47 PM
Quite the opposite! I been told I am rather good, its a gift.

On the other hand, I have dated a man that was a terrible kisser, kissed like what I think a snake would kiss like, oh ick!! He was great in all the other aspect and had to figure out what I should do. After a few times trying to tell him how I wanted to be kissed (and no, he didn't get the hint) I was at a lose. One evening while watching "Sex and the City' the girls were talking about bad kissers, and wise old Samantha stated that you have to let them go, they weren't worth the effort.... I had to agree. I cut that fish loose.
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 7 (view)
 
How far are you willing to go on a date?
Posted: 9/8/2009 5:13:35 PM
No more than a 30 minute drive.... one way.
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 3 (view)
 
what would make a guy ruin a good relationship?
Posted: 9/8/2009 10:24:39 AM
Not sure why a guy would do something like that, but consider yourself VERY lucky to have found out about this low life scumbag before you got married to him .... you are quite lucky actually.

(Even though it doesn't feel like your are now.)
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Are these women waiting for Brad Pitt to put up a POF? Help?
Posted: 9/5/2009 4:57:04 PM
What has Brad Pitt ever done to you!?!?!


If you don't have any trouble with the women in venues outside of POF, then why in the name of all things weird, do you spend your time here on POF?!

Yes, your profile could use a bit of straighten up (okay lots of help), your pictures could be a little better and your attitude needs a total adjustment. Perhaps you could spend a bit of time on all three.

And oh yeah, this isn't a candy store. Just cuz you think you deserve that hot girl, doesn't mean she is going to want you, that's life big guy.
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Why should I wear a smile?
Posted: 9/3/2009 4:21:15 PM
Whadda mean you don't have a nice smile?!?!

You look a lot better with your smile than without it... would I lie to you?



PS

Yes you do have a nice smile, really.
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
should lose the hat?
Posted: 9/3/2009 3:30:58 PM
Is that gold glitter on your hat?

No worries, you are young and people have short memories.
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 7 (view)
 
If You Find A Good Man Will You Keep Him?
Posted: 9/3/2009 2:10:21 PM
Yes, I would be more that happy to 'keep' a good man, as long as he was a good man for me.


Yeppers, that is what I looking for, a good man. A good man for me that is, not some man that has deemed himself to be a 'good' man. Being 'good' is a subjective and as you probably know, what is good for one will not be good for another.

As for running away, well no, that would be a silly thing for me to do actually, since that is my ultimate goal here at POF.

Oh I will never settle, ever!


HEY!?! Where did you go OP?
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 18 (view)
 
How do women WANT to be kicked to the curb?
Posted: 8/27/2009 9:09:15 AM
'Kicked to the curb', what an enlighten way to phase it.

With that in mind, if indeed someone is getting 'kicked to the curb', perhaps the poster that suggested that gasoline and a match be applied too said kicker would be the most appropriate. Anyone with that mentality should be removed from the dating pool. What is wrong with a bit of consideration and honesty, geeesh, they aren't yesterdays newspaper?

Do you have a special helmet you wear when out in public OP, you at 31 should know the answer to that question.
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 13 (view)
 
I have never been on a date
Posted: 8/27/2009 8:31:44 AM
@TK

Oh like take a chill pill there T Knight.

Yes, perhaps I should have said, such as ...., but I didn't. Those topics should generally be avoided on a first dates, small talk at parties or heck when even talking to a new neighbor. They are hot button for many and especially, apparently, with you.

I took a stab at the jest of OP question and guessed she wanted guidelines to have a pleasant first date (such as avoiding any turmoil by introducing any conflicting ideas, preferences or theologies) These weren't arbitrary topics, I am think that an obscure author by the name of Dale Carnegie pointed them out in his little book about making like some friends, influencing people and like stuff.

So like you so need stay away from the above mentioned topics, you are like so out of like control at the mere mentions of them it’s like way funny.
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Technomoronmen: Is there a dispensation for Instant Messenger?
Posted: 8/26/2009 8:19:51 PM
Oh John,

No worries! POF does not have IM any more. So you are off the hook. Yeah.


ABM
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
What do women REALLY want?
Posted: 8/26/2009 3:27:59 PM
Hint: there is no one answer... no not ever, never.
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Why Do I keep getting turned down for 2 dates
Posted: 8/26/2009 3:25:56 PM
Well, luv, I dare say you are rather lucky to have 6 or 7 dates,( I am sure there are many that would agree with me).

Since we, the collect we, have not been on a date with you I can only speculate as why you don't get that second date. Could be that they just do get that special feeling or maybe you are telling them thing about yourself that they find off putting. Hard to tell. But, since you are gettting so many dates, I am sure your precentages will improve, don't give up and don't doubt yourself. Stay positive and for goodness sake don't play any games.
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 3 (view)
 
I have never been on a date
Posted: 8/26/2009 3:05:32 PM
Talk to your date like any other person, just avoid topics like sex, politics and religion.

Really, it's not all that mystifying when you get down to it.

Best of Luck
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 32 (view)
 
does size really matter?
Posted: 8/26/2009 1:34:07 PM
But of course size matters.

Big or small - is all a matter of preference.

One size doesn't fit all....
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 9 (view)
 
being selective with girls vs being general and indifferent
Posted: 8/26/2009 12:58:03 PM
it appears the more interest and excitement you show the less successful you are in catching the fish



Perhaps it is an innate reaction or an ingrained psychological response, or the smell of desperation is overwhelming for some of those little fishies, or maybe it is that old saw of Groucho Marx's

“I wouldn’t want to belong to any club that would have me as a member”





PS

they aren't features, that is something one looks for in a car, you are looking for attributes....
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Profile review please / Ladies perspective appreciated
Posted: 8/25/2009 7:59:18 PM
Mr S


Well, this is my take on your profile. Someone would really have to be taken with your photos to wade through all 25 'things about Shawn' . Shorten that list to include only the good stuff, and get rid of all that negative 'I can't stand' and ' I don't like'
Quite frankly it is never good to have that type of thing in a profile (even though you see it all the time, counterproductive)

As for the photos, well lose the one taken with your cell phone, tacky on so many levels.

There are other things that sorta turn me off, but then again I am not your target group.

Sleep Tight

ABM
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Why do women post one I like or a good one under profession?
Posted: 8/19/2009 8:22:31 PM
This is an oft time discussed topic....

http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts12977382.aspx
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Having to date women that look better than your ex...
Posted: 8/19/2009 5:54:10 PM
...I just don't understand, if your ex was so 'hot' and you are looking for someone at least as 'hot', why did you leave your 'hot' wife. It seems to be so very important for you at least.

Not that there is anything wrong with that, well not that I will discuss here. As if you are an ass or not, well if the shoe fits.
 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Whats the single most important quality in a man
Posted: 8/19/2009 3:29:13 PM
Man oh man that sounds like a homework assignment......


Could we have a multiple choice question instead of an essay question?


 abitmore
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
What if mister/misses right smokes?
Posted: 8/19/2009 2:03:09 PM
Honey, if you think that is going ''nuclear ' then you need to get out in the big peoples world, a bit more often.
 
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