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Joined: 11/26/2007

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Why Do So Many Women Require That I Must Love God? Posted: 6/16/2008 12:08:43 AM
I wouldn't use the word "super-religious" but i take my faith seriously and i want someone that shares the same beliefs as i do. i want someone I can share my faith with, hold me accountable in it, and understands the workings of it. Not that i'm a perfect person or look down on a non believer.. in fact I am just as bad. but it's nice to be on the same page and I feel it makes us as a couple stronger. like the way you put that, I have to agree completely... now, someone tell me where these women are at that require "must love God." I need to talk to them on here!

Joined: 11/26/2007

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Do girls dislike when a guy reveals all his secrets too soon? Posted: 6/15/2008 11:49:27 PM
from a guys point of view (i've got some experience on the subject) The last girlfriend I had was on the phone with me and wanted to know my life story. I told her she wasn't ready (we'd only been together 2 months), but she kept nagging til' I just told her... anyways, the next day she broke up with me. She couldn't handle my past, she forgot completely who I am NOW. Bro, from my experience, feel free to be open, but don't overload them with the life story. Just give bits and pieces a little bit at a time. Let it come out in conversation throughout the relationship. You know, a little mystery to be revealed. Wonder how many women will agree with me?

Joined: 11/26/2007

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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ??? Posted: 6/15/2008 11:41:29 PM
Gee... and you guys all tell me you are looking at the logo on my shirts!!! Hey! I really do look at the logo's. I hate it when there is writing on a womans t-shirt, i always want to look and then i get accused of staring! Now, I just ask her what it says if it takes more than 3 seconds to decyfer.

Joined: 11/26/2007

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Why are guys scared of smart girls? Posted: 6/15/2008 11:35:07 PM
it completely freaked him out that I knew about KnN air filters, the basic difference between 10W30 and 5W30 oil, and that the psi for my tires is 34psi on all four of them, because I have 4WD honestly, you'd freak me out too... only cuz' i don't know a word you just said (no dad or older brothers to teach me this stuff) Guys have this problem (i think a lot of women have it to) they have to have SOME THING they can talk about all day with a woman and sound smart because they know what they're talking about and she doesn't. Make sense? Guys have to be a know-it-all about something! I'd suggest finding that something in the next guy you date and bringing it out of him. Let him talk, nod and agree, and then ask some questions. I bet ya anything it'll work a little bit better.

Joined: 11/26/2007

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OK I need a guy's opinion Posted: 6/15/2008 11:31:08 PM
Do you think we only flirt with women we are truly interested in. Its sad but its true... just because a guy flirts doesn't mean he is able to or wants to be with you. Sometimes its just habitual. Another possibility is that the guy is just a natural flirt. Some guys are like that and flirt without realizing it. I've been identified as one of those guys on a few occasions. Either way I'd say he's most likely not able to be with you or doesn't want to be with you. Don't get worked up over this guy, keep looking (on POF!)

Joined: 11/26/2007

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Settling for people you are not attracted to Posted: 12/8/2007 2:50:51 PM
I cant say that the odds are great of that happening. But yeah, I would never fully rule it out. Love happens. And in strange ways too!

Joined: 11/26/2007

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Do platonic male friends scare off those interested romantically? Posted: 12/8/2007 2:49:23 PM
how do you feel about a guy that tends to hang round women, says they are friends and more like sisters, hugs etc .... I agree 100% Trust me, it goes both ways!

Joined: 11/26/2007

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What is most important? Posted: 12/7/2007 1:06:07 PM
Be yourself. You have a better chance of finding a match that will last. If you try faking yourself into a long-term relationship, you'll have to fake yourself THROUGH a long-term relationship. Be yourself and there will be a less chance of disappoinment for you and/or your potential mate!

Joined: 11/26/2007

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Guys, should I consider this guy a sex addict or normal. Posted: 12/7/2007 1:02:44 PM
wow. I mean, thats a little extreme. Does he eat, work a job, or sleep?!?!

Joined: 11/26/2007

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Golden Compass Promotes Hate Posted: 12/7/2007 12:55:56 PM
Considering the bible is one of the most violent and popular books ever written that promotes murder, rape, genocide, infanticide, injustice, ethnic cleansing, racism, slavery, homophobia and many other atrocities, this particular thread is one of those amusing examples of extreme hypocrisy. Ok, so im a christian. Im not the most religious christian there is (i dont go to church every sunday, dont get to read my bible every day and, yes, gasp, i do listen to secular/non-christian music). Let me point out one thing though. I have read the bible. Pretty good book actually. And while, yes, it does mention all of these things, I challenge you to show me exactly where it PROMOTES any of these things. Most of the things you pointed out are found in the old testament (which is considered sacred by christians, jews, and, stop me if Im wrong, but muslims as well). Its all historical accounts of things that actually happened! Not things that christians (or jews, etc) promote. Show me where it is. Now this is a thread on The Golden Compass so here is my opinion. Its a circumstance similar to that of Harry Potter, Saved, and The Last Temptation of Christ. If I had a dollar for every time christians attacked mainstream media, i could quit my day job. I havent read the book or seen the movie to argue very well. I do know that as much as I dont support anti-christian (or anti-semite or anti-anything for that matter) material, I'm a soldier in an army that protects the right of the american people to express that opinion. So boo to hate material (if that is what this is, which Im not positive it is), but boo to censorship as well! forgive the long reply, its not my usual nature.

Joined: 11/26/2007

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Would you be suspicious if someone only gave you their cellphone number n not their home number?? Posted: 12/7/2007 12:14:40 PM
Personally, no. These days there are a lot of people who don't even have home phones. I can see where some people would be concerned about dating a married person. If you have a history of this then I would not blame you for being concerned.

Joined: 11/26/2007

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his house for a first date Posted: 12/7/2007 11:45:09 AM
Charles Manson is not a young man either. lol!

Joined: 11/26/2007

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his house for a first date Posted: 12/7/2007 11:42:11 AM
I agree with most people on here have already stated. 100 miles, 50 miles, next door... whatever the distance, no one should ever meet someone for a first date at their house- his OR hers. That should put up a red flag on this guys motives. Secondly, this guy wants YOU to drive 100 miles to see HIM??? What a gentleman.... not. Don't expect this guy to be the chivalrous type. If hes not offering to drive 100 miles for you or even half way, I would put money on the fact that this guy doesn't think you're worth it and, therefor, is a waste of your time. I'm no Dr. Phil, but, come on, this one is common sense. I'm sure there are better people on this site than that. Look harder

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