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 Author Thread: OFFENSIVE BREATH
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 18 (view)
 
OFFENSIVE BREATH
Posted: 12/1/2008 5:58:17 AM
This may assist you.....when you go out to eat, and right afterwards playfully try to kiss him and then say ewwwwww what did you eat........if he has some concern he will get something for his breath, at which time you will attempt to kiss him again, but u will only kiss his lips quickly, then say sweetie whatever you ate is probably in between your teeth, why don't you go to the dentist so they can flush it out.....

I'm not a physician, however food particles get caught between the teeth and decay and creates a foul odor............. self help would be to get an over the counter dental pick and go thru each(between) teeth wiping pick as you go......then clean pic, pour some peroxide in a small container, and do the same with peroxide wiping and dipping as you go.......afterwards rinse with the peroxide...


Also theres a possibility he needs a laxative to clean his stomach, if you are close to him personally, he should have no problem with you telling him this....


In addition do a search online......Niacin and bad breath,.......some people are allergic to this vitamin, however there is the regular tab niacin and a time release niacin......

Hopefully this helps....
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 18 (view)
 
IS IT FAIR TO GIVE AN ULTIMATUM?
Posted: 10/24/2007 8:16:38 AM
It appears your friend is set in his ways, and changing him will be like a volkswagon pulling two Greyhound buses. Most of us want peace of mind in a relationship a majority of the time, and what you will more than likely confront with your friend is a recording.... surely you can do better, start again
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 74 (view)
 
Why do people put so little on their profiles?
Posted: 10/7/2007 9:16:28 AM
Where do we draw the line.........

Some say too much, now too little.

Looks like we need a director.
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Finding Out Your Wonderful BF has a Record and a Dark Side
Posted: 10/6/2007 7:11:03 PM
Very nice book you wrote here shall we call it , " BOYFRIEND HAS A RECORD & DARK SIDE 101 ".............

You're lucky to get out with your hide and life, it appears you were minutes away from confronting his marked past. Surely you are emotionally drained, be thankful you were not part of any of these outbursts.

It appears he needs some serious anger management intervention, but truthfully I doubt if it would benefit him at this point, he probably needs to hit rock-bottom before he see daylight, because from your info he has had opportunities to steer his ship in the right direction.

In time you will get over him, and began to again.
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 82 (view)
 
How can someone be so hot and then so cold?
Posted: 10/5/2007 4:37:56 PM
Love at first sight or feel is always possible.

As I indicated on another forum post, keep an open mind when you meet someone of interest on the internet or in public....regardless of how good it looks or feel, tell yourself this may or may not work and the blow or letdown if it fails, will not be as difficult.....its going to disturb you because you're human and humans have feelings.

And my observation of what transpired with you, (1) it appears things were moving too fast for his comfort, (2) he just wanted a good frolic in the hay, (3) could be married or involved with another female (4) may have met someone who equals you and wants you to read between the lines.

And most of all, in a situation of this nature some individuals have a serious problem with being straightforward and telling you the real circumstances.

Consider fishing again, once you get your emotions together.
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Plenty of fish forums are a joke
Posted: 10/2/2007 1:36:10 PM
We are entitled to our opinions, as you are yours about Plentyoffish.

In reference to your negative comment about POF.....all dating sites have human beings who have issues, problems, physical and mental make-up differences, so how can POF members be below average ?

Surely there are POF members who have found its forum a benefactor in numerous ways, even if to just past time or get a good laugh. ...To characterize any site below average would mean you have done a study of the individuals background and personality characteristics.

However you're exasperated, because you were dumped. Please realize you are not the only female confronting such, and not the last.....keep and try a different lure and you might get a different kind of fish.
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Multiple Marriages
Posted: 10/2/2007 8:59:13 AM
You should be happy she indicated she was married several times..... I didn't have that luxury of knowing my X girlfriend seven years ago was married three times, until the atomic bombs had dropped.

When you are aware of previous marriages you have time to contemplate involvement and determine whether to move forward or back-off and then your decision is not a guaranty, its the surprise and chaos of not knowing that could create perpetual havoc.

All I can say is, if you go for her PROCEED WITH CAUTION.
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 66 (view)
 
Porn Addiction
Posted: 9/30/2007 12:43:40 PM
No never had that experience, but have you considered having a cordial conversation about his viewing porn, or maybe watching with him ?....and if he cannot discuss this with you without changing his demeanor in a negative way, he may not be as close of a companion as you think.

And be happy he's watching while you are around, and not out somewhere performing the acts or someone performing on him.

Although porn can be a breeding ground of negativity and criminal acts, it can also be a benefactor in some areas.
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 135 (view)
 
Can ugly guys get good looking girls?
Posted: 9/24/2007 6:36:17 PM
First of all NO ONE IS UGLY, because its enough items on the open market to make yourself look decent, why do you think they have MAKE-UP....most do not look the same without it. Its those individuals who choose not to use these items to enhance their appearance.

Now for the guys who don't have the features, but charisma or no charisma....SOME females gravitate to them, because they will less likely cheat and stay close to their mate.....the so call GOOD LOOKING MALE, the problem their mates confront with them are, they have them and other females want them, and the male might become an opportunist for that scenario.

The answer to your question YESSSSS..
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 47 (view)
 
MEET MY TRUE LOVE ON HERE AND HE BROKE MY HEART
Posted: 9/24/2007 1:01:04 PM
Hint 1 ..... he slept with another female right away, doesn't that open your eyes and mind up ?

If you are not careful you are headed for an emotional breakdown.

Hint 2...most cars have a spare tire, even if its only there until you can get a new one.

If he came back to you, more than likely you will be used and misused.



I'm not religious, but spiritual, below is a quote ,in part, from T.D. Jakes...

>The bible says that, they came out from us that it might be made
>manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt
>they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19]
>
>People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are
>not joined to you, you can't make them stay. Let them go. And it
>doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part
>in the story is over.
>
>You've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you
>don't keep trying to raise the dead. You've got to know when it's dead.
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 35 (view)
 
How do you get a man to trust you when so many women already broke that trust?
Posted: 9/24/2007 12:41:47 PM
Surely I will get bashed for making this statement....

You're an attractive female, and I notice you're a GEMINI..

One of my best friends and business partners is a GEMINI, she will break her neck for me, as I will for her.

GEMINIS in relationships, all I can say is Whewwwww.....your negative is split personality and most individuals find that a difficult task. Although astrology is sacred to some, theres some truth to GEMINIS character analysis. In addition you never know what twin will show up on a daily basis confusing your partner, and if they are a weakling they will pull out string after string of hair trying to figure you out, because one twin is dominant.

Your friend might have a legitimate problem, but don't forget their are those who wants to let you down easy and MOVE ON.

If he doesn't come back to you, obtain an astrology book or go online and find out who are considered your best matches and study your partner....this may or may not suffice....GOOD LUCK..
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 46 (view)
 
How to courteously tell someone you're not interested...?
Posted: 9/24/2007 3:22:43 AM
Smiles644, those who disappear are called PHANTOMS of internet dating, and there are others who MOVED ON, and did not have the heart to tell you or they want you to read between the lines....

It would be good to establish some sort of cordial interaction at its inception if there is no connection, this way you can avoid hurting someone feelings, as we all have them even though we don't admit it.
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 71 (view)
 
OFFERED 5 GRAND
Posted: 9/22/2007 8:20:04 PM
The rumor is 10 grand not 5....so you're cheating yourself..

First of all its not unusual for a foreigner to request such, but as you probably know its illegal, and the punishment is nothing you want to confront, in all honesty you would choose having bills than trying to make a quick illegal dollar.

Furthermore associates have indicated this marriage can be more than you bargain for and perilous.....although it happens more than we know.

The negatives

1. Suppose he wants to remained married to you, then what ?

2. What if one of your friends gets angry at you, and tell your secret to authorities ?

3. When he needs you to travel to immigration services with him, will you be available ?


Another down side, you have asked this question in a public forum and how do you know that a government or law enforcement official is not an observer or member of POF ?

Do yourself a favor, cancell your prospectus plans to marry him or anyone who might ask in a similiar situation.
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 94 (view)
 
How long should one wait at a meeting place?
Posted: 9/21/2007 3:40:22 AM
In this scenario, you never know what could have transpired....

1. Something more important came up with her prior to this meeting, and she could not
apprise you, but plan to tell you when time permits.

2. She met another individual, and didn't have the heart to inform you.

3. She was overwhelmed with other things and honestly forgot.

4. She could have driven by in some sort of disguise to see you, and had a change of heart.
What some individuals fail to realize, some people look better on photo than in person...and their are others who's photo don't do them justice, they look better
in person.




As for how long to wait when a meeting was plan, try to establish a time to meet, and a reasonable time to wait prior to the meeting.....and have a contingency plan if something comes up.

You said something that demonstrates you're on track and you are not going to let one person keep you down, you're going to keep fishing.
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 63 (view)
 
Scams from women on dating sites
Posted: 9/19/2007 3:02:18 AM
If anyone on POF experience such scam, please contact the FBI in Washinngton DC or online....If my recollection is correct John Daly in Washington is handling these internet scams.
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 30 (view)
 
ive got a boyfriend but feel single
Posted: 9/18/2007 3:36:55 AM
If this young man is about your age, and as my late granny would say he hasn't got wet behind the YEARS yet.....simpler terms, he has the runs.

Igg him, don't run after him....then you can determine if theres genuine or superficial interest.

After observing your profile I see you're only 23, you will have numerous bumpy roads like most of us during that time in our life and sometime beyond. Its not always easy, however sometime you need to MOVE -ON.....

In addition, it appears getting a decent male in your life will not be a problem, just don't give away your pride and self-esteem too soon.
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 215 (view)
 
Michael Vick defended by the NAACP
Posted: 9/3/2007 12:10:16 PM
The FREEDOM OF SPEECH quote ....was in reference to the NAACP and our right to free speech.....

In addition, maybe now the NFL will now authorize behavior performance clauses in contracts....
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 210 (view)
 
Michael Vick defended by the NAACP
Posted: 9/3/2007 6:32:58 AM
Lets not forget we have " FREEDOM OF SPEECH ".........

I'm a dog and cat lover, and while growing up on a farm we had 19 cats and 2 dogs, and when we moved to the city we had to leave 1 dog and 17 cats to fend for themselves, which was devastating to think about.

I have no idea what the justifications were for the NAACP to defend Michael Vick, however what amazes me is Dog Fighting and****Fighting have been going on for years in the South, and if this was so much of a problem to society why haven't city-state- federal authorities & animal rights activist utilized their resources to eradicate it before Michael Vick ?

Yes, Michael Vick deserves another chance..... just like all the other private citizens athletes and entertainers who's hand was caught in the Cookie Jar...
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 79 (view)
 
Prejudice or Preference?
Posted: 8/9/2007 6:42:25 PM
I agree with truemind, he can't handle rejection...

In addition he should realize on internet dating sights you have CHOICES & A RIGHT TO CHOOSE.

With his abrupt demeanor, just be happy you were not associated with him..
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 139 (view)
 
Have you hated your ex so much at one time that you wished death upon them?
Posted: 8/5/2007 1:30:07 PM
NO.... I haven't.......

However I'm sure numerous individuals have, and it was based on something drastic and painful that was done to them...

Surely you have heard " WHAT GOES AROUND, COMES AROUND ".....in simpler terms you will get your whipping sooner or later for mis-treating someone......some will get it quicker than others.
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 24 (view)
 
CAN A NON/DRINKER--DATE A DRINKER?
Posted: 8/3/2007 4:18:08 PM
If you like negative variety or violence in your environment, go for it....

On A POSITIVE NOTE, you are in for many days of chaotic situations.....it also appears he has an underlying problem, which could be heredity or something he was exposed too thats causing him to drink, its a no winner unless he seeks counseling and the results of counseling is not a guarantee he will stop drinking.


Personally if you like him, talk to him when he's sober about getting assitance with his drinking....if he refuses, try to ease out of the relationship...

Yes alcohol does change your thought process and demeanor....
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 233 (view)
 
since when does no reply equal racist?
Posted: 7/23/2007 4:17:15 PM
Seems as though this young man could not take NO as an answer and keep

He wanted you and you only....annabella don't let words enrage you, especially since you never met this individual..
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Multiple partners??
Posted: 7/23/2007 11:28:20 AM
If you like this lifestyle, go for it...

Heres the peril, with this type of activity theres always the possibility he may meet someone better than you, and lets not forget the transmitting and contracting STD..

And since he's a prominent professional, hopefully you and others acknowledge now more than (WHAT SOME CALL ) abnormal people enjoy sex in various ways..
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 64 (view)
 
People who just write how are you
Posted: 7/18/2007 4:58:08 AM
Sherilyn70....I agree on the rejection part, keep

You didn't know this individual prior to viewing the profile, don't sweat it...

And when I send out a short note, its just a feeler.....and if theres a response you can tell if its worth persuing......however some have their profiles set up to get lengthy notes and not short ones..
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 59 (view)
 
People who just write how are you
Posted: 7/18/2007 1:32:59 AM
I'm GUILTY.....however in my case, I'm in a hurry and its a good way to stay in touch
Personally its good to get something, than nothing.....this person is thinking of you..
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Met someone on here.. no reply in a while.. need advice.
Posted: 7/14/2007 9:25:12 PM
A number of things could have happen......

1. She may have confronted a calamity or family problem and did not want you
involved.....and could not find the words to apprise you.

2. She thought you were movng too slow or too fast.

3. She may have met another male on POF or another dating sight, and decided to
move on, and hope you can read between the lines.

4. She could have been a PHANTOM internet dater, they are rare on internet dating,
but they do exist with both males and females.


You have done your part as a male by messaging her, don't show your weakness by continuing to email her......surely there is pain and disdain...

If you have a close friend, VENT with them and get some feed back...in the mean time
keep

....and instead of fishing for one, check out the school of fishes...
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 33 (view)
 
i've fallen hard, need some advice??!!!
Posted: 7/14/2007 9:38:44 AM
Since you're only 30, you MAY HAVE some more to do...

Is there a such thing as LOVE AT FIRST SITE, sure but rare...

In some scenarios like yours, one will get itchy feet and disappear, saying this is too good to be true, with some heart-felt regrets later wishing they had hung in there longer.

You are in a touch and go sensitive situation, remember its rare to strike gold almost instantly and sometimes it good to go to a secluded area to yourself or with a close associate and discuss the pro's and con's of your relationship

When entering a relationship, ENTER WITH AN OPEN MIND, saying to yourself this could go positive or negative....and the emotional toll will to be as bad if things turn out negative.
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 86 (view)
 
scent of a woman.....or man
Posted: 7/13/2007 9:32:34 AM
Scents are ok and sensually enticing at times, if the individual does not bath in it (put the entire bottle on)...

Some people don't realize, its good to use an unscented deodrant when using perfume or cologne WHY!......if you use a scented deodrant with perfume or cologne, you will have two fragrances, which may or may not smell good together...
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 521 (view)
 
Dating men who have never been married
Posted: 7/10/2007 5:36:07 AM
I agree with metallic Blue, in part, all men are not alike, you just met a dud with other intentions.

As for me at 46, never married no kids (only two god-girls) assited one of them all thru college, because her mom was a drug addict and she never met her father....and I'm not selfish.

Sorry you are adhering to the old forte men 39 with no kids are selfish, thats not entirely true.....maybe his past, created his present character...

And that was a low blow, when he indicated you should choose between him or your FLESH AND BLOOD DAUGHTER......someone telling me that, I see my squeaky clean criminal record dissipating......
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 17 (view)
 
What is your opinion of this
Posted: 7/8/2007 5:34:47 AM
Don't feel too bad, surely you are not the only female who have confronted such, or something similiar....

Here is your laundry list.... and one males opinion...

1. He could have been waiting on a prey like you, to get from point A to B and who
and who knows what that could be.

2.He may have been involved with someone who gave him his PINK SLIP, and he
needed a roof over is head to get his act together.

3. He could have been dating or co-habitating with someone and they decided to go
there separate ways, but decided to get back together.

4.Never rule out unfortunate family circumstances he was facing and he didn't
want you involved.

5. And the heart-stopper, he may have met another feasible female.


Although you need some healing and understanding time, LIFE GOES ON...and don't be so quick about letting someone move in...
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Can someone help me make some sense about this???
Posted: 7/5/2007 3:27:30 AM
This is what you call an intermittent dating PHANTOM on internet dating.....its not widespread, however it exist on both side of the isle.....and to them its a normality..
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 66 (view)
 
i can believe everyone has been ditching me because i don't have a picture ....
Posted: 7/3/2007 1:33:02 AM
Stop fretting....I don't have a photo on my profile , however I have one to forward if its requested....furthermore I'm not having a problem receiving messages....

Everyone (males & females) have their reasons for posting or not posting their pics, and since it isn't a requirement on POF, we have a right to exercise our choice....and for those who do not like our choice they can simply use their navigational skills, CLICK_ON...
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 187 (view)
 
What do men feel about Gemini women? Are we too much?
Posted: 6/30/2007 3:47:57 AM
My best friend ( female ) is a Gemini....

In relationships (whewwwww) prepare to deal with two different people, as some will indicate you never know which twin will show up.....

Most are good at telling you one thing and doing the opposite, and acting nonchalant about it..
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 6 (view)
 
How to move on
Posted: 6/28/2007 5:05:35 AM
Since you are only 20, ( NO OFFENSE )....this will not be your only broken heart, as my late grandmother would say " you haven't go wet behind the ear yet " meaning maturity is just beginning.

When you enter a relationship, go in with an open mind----this may work----it may not.

Also keep a shoulder to lean on to soften the environment, if only to VENT & get FEEDBACK...
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 28 (view)
 
The first-date curse
Posted: 6/27/2007 6:40:49 PM
Seem as though you are setting a trend for yourself..

After observing your profile I didn't see anything that would warrant that type of behavior from males, however if you were at one time sleeping with everything that crawl in the door, that demeanor will put you with a negative group of females...hopefully the news didn't spread.

With males and females numerous things can happen after the first date....

1. You may have met someone better in your opinion.

2. Problems could arise, and they didn't want you involved.

3. To them you were not the same individual in person, that you were over the phone.

4. You may have indicated something that was a total turn-off.


I would suggest keeping a diary of each date, and review it just to see whether this was a problem you created, or them.

Also consider asking your date , are you a ONE DATE PHANTOM.


You're in your late 20's, no reason to be overly concerned, because more than likely you will be doing a lots more learning and ....
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 75 (view)
 
Is meeting more than one on the same day acceptable behavior?
Posted: 6/26/2007 6:59:40 AM
Why not.....you have your rights to choose and decide, or share your info with a friend and make a decision..
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Why did this man want to hurt me so much?
Posted: 6/26/2007 6:55:17 AM
Apparently your prospectus companion found another friend, or he thought long and hard about the relationship, and wanted to try something different.....of course he will not volunteer this information.

Never rule out something in his personal life may have affected his decision, and he did not want you involved.
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Advice needed from girls and guys...
Posted: 6/22/2007 12:35:13 PM
This young man sounds a bit sensitive to me...

My question to you, did you give any signals that you would be a secretary to your phone ?

Furthermore, if his expectations of your availabilty is 100% at all times, think of other situations that may get a negative reception from him, and whether your tolerance level will be receptive.....

Might be a good time to compromise, or MOVE ON....
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 11 (view)
 
unable to message men w/the no pic no message setting?
Posted: 6/21/2007 1:09:40 AM
If you are not aware........ there are some females with the same settings...

And for those who think individuals have negative reason for not posting a pic, THATS NOT ALWAYS TRUE.....I do not have a pic posted and its not because I have something to hide, however I'm willing to provide a pic if the need arises.....



There is no requirement to post a pic on POF, so we have a choice....and we can utilize that choice...and who says we are getting the actual person in the photo....


A female recently posted, she posted someone pic other than herself for bonafide reasons......but when she told an interested male what she had done, he was disappointed....WHY!......surely her features was his primary objective.....

I think most of us realize someone could be attractive or handsome, but their personality and character don't mesh.
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 117 (view)
 
Would you pursue a Married Man?
Posted: 6/17/2007 4:25:34 AM
If possible find out why he doesn't get along with his wife, and why he wants to get involved with you, then decide if you want to move forward with a relationship.....and when you have someone attractive and handsome not only you, but others will be interested in him too.

Also he has 3 kids you one, are you ready for 4 kids in your environment ?

Furthermore he's going to need some breathing room when he ends his marriage, to collect his thoughts and the direction he wants to go in.
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Potential Dates - How Many People are You in Contact With at Any One Time
Posted: 6/12/2007 1:42:43 PM
Honebee1305, research have been done on your question, and your answer will be available on or about September 2007, along with many other internet dating goodies.....

If you or any other POF members or interested, send your email address to Pacstr_tt@yahoo.com and indicate ( internet dating goodies) and when the website is available you will be notified..

Its good to know these things, so you will know ho to proceed...the internet dating scene can be a puzzling at times.
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 30 (view)
 
What to do if person you are starting a relationship with still frequents POF
Posted: 6/6/2007 8:21:19 AM
Several things could be happening here......

1. She likes you, but she's keeping her options open.

2. She's not married or legally committed to you, so this is her prerogative..and as you
may realize being married or legally committed has very little clout at times..

3. She could be getting itchy feet, and wants to move on, hoping you see her on POF
and read between the lines...

4. She is saying to herself, this prospectus relationship may work or it may fizzle, and I
must be prepared....


Cheaters on both side of the isle will be around when the last breath leaves our body....its a perpetual scenario...

If I was you, contemplate keeping your options open, this will keep you off an emotional roller-coaster.....because if you ask if your relationship with her is exclusive..... the answer you get, may not be the answer you were hoping for....also they could be fabricating the entire situation..
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Please help me I need some advice
Posted: 6/5/2007 12:57:32 PM
As a male, I don't think its a necessiy to speak up, you are at a good age to experiment and learn the ropes.....however if you fall from grace, its not easy, just pick up the pieces and move on..
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Please help me I need some advice
Posted: 6/5/2007 12:36:34 PM
In your situation you need some healing time from your past (5) year relationship, so take it slow.....furthermore males normally know when you are interested....

Also, if he's looking to meet people to see where it goes, my suggestion is you do likewise without lowering your own personal self esteem......at your age you have plenty time to seek that special someone....

Love at first sight is rare, but not unheard of....
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Does a woman sending nude pictures or getting naked on a webcam before meeting means sex on the first date?
Posted: 6/4/2007 2:20:30 PM
On internet dating you have a variety of personalities and how they present themselves....

If you hang around long enough, you will get your character analysis and answer to your question...
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 153 (view)
 
Why Do women dump men who are nice to them.
Posted: 6/4/2007 1:06:16 PM
Sometime men and women can ( OVER DO IT ) at the beginning of friendships that may lead to relationships with an abundance kindness....

Some like it others do not, keen perception comes in to play here and the ability to recognize what can be done to sustain a relationship, if theres interest on both sides..

Surely you have heard of people trying to buy friendship with gestures, but this on occassions leads to trouble down the road...

Acknowledging whats appropriate at a given time, keeps you out of trouble if the friendship / relationship is to progress...
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Gotta question for everyone..
Posted: 5/26/2007 3:40:01 PM
Turn the tables, if he likes you he will react....

In addition sounds like, he wants control and be in control..
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 94 (view)
 
Call me when you want to get laid!!
Posted: 5/26/2007 3:34:19 PM
As a male myself, all I can say is that he demonstrated his true intent......or his remarks was out of frustration....

Look for a partner who (if they are interested) can work with you, and not against you...
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 74 (view)
 
How important are table manners to you?
Posted: 5/24/2007 2:11:27 PM
Extremely important..... talking with food in your mouth, smacking, slurping liquids, licking your fingers....ewwwwww..

How much more food can anyone get off their fingers by licking them and just think saliva juices are on your fingers, and how many people wash their hands afterwards....

A complete turnoff.......
 piscean_m
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 23 (view)
 
How do I know...mainly for the men...
Posted: 5/24/2007 3:09:24 AM
If you're familiar with alcoholic beverage , in part, its a sedative, causes you to do things you don't remember, makes you more aggressive, in some cases causes your hormones to go in over-drive....

Bars in particular, some male and females become an opportunist and consuming alcoholic beverages enhances this environment....

You're at a young age, and for married men to come on to you is not unusual, surely you ask yourself why say I DO and cheat on your spouse....but lets not forget some m single & married females like to meet married men at bars, and this does not help you....

Look for other places that may suit your fancy when it comes to seeking friendship or relationships, welcome to AMERICA ....
 
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