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bigcats

Joined: 5/31/2005

Msg: 70 (view)

Can you be too thin? Posted: 1/4/2006 4:01:49 PM
Actually my thoughts on this is "Yes". A woman can actually be too skinny. While I am slightly over average in weight, I woudl be afraid of breaking something being on top. Plus I have been with someone too skinny and I felt like grinding bones rather than a lovely lady. Don't get me wrong, she is a beautiful woman and the personnality and intellect are great. But the body is just too small. If I can see your ribs then that is too skinny. Plus at least a C cup is a benefit

bigcats

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Sexual Limits Posted: 12/29/2005 3:36:38 PM
Why limit yourself? I will try anything once. You never know what you would be missing if you don't. Not to mention, if it has been a LONG time since trying something I didn;t like, I may be up to trying againas it may have been the person or the state of mind I was in at the time. Never limit yourself.

bigcats

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Should prostitution be legal? Posted: 10/11/2005 11:01:34 AM
We all pay for it one way or another. Look at how much a date is, let's not even go down the married path. Legalizing the oldest profession woudll go a long way in solving a lot in society and in the economy. Just imagin how controlled it woudl be from a health standard, take a note form the porn industry here. Not to mention the taxes that could be levied by fed, state, and local agencies. This has been approached several times, but the morally prude keep getting in the way and block the effort. I for one woudl vote to approve the legalization of prostitution. Remember this is not a girl/women only thing, gigilos fall into the same category.

bigcats

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oral sex and the double standard Posted: 10/9/2005 4:06:28 PM
I don't know about a lot of men, I do know I would rather enjoy the jiuces than have her go down on me. But again, everyone is different and we all enjoy the differences.

bigcats

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Where is the most romantic location in the world? Posted: 9/24/2005 2:59:05 PM
The underground lake in Palma Mijorca, Spain. This lake is soo big that they have a gondola going by with musicians.

bigcats

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Check your looseness index Posted: 9/24/2005 2:37:03 PM
OK, I would have though different, but at least I am FUN

bigcats

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why dont men Moan??? Posted: 8/23/2005 3:32:42 PM
When things are going good, women moan (or purr ), men grunt or nothing. THe real issue is that all of our blood has rushed to one area and we just can't function any other part of our body.

bigcats

Joined: 5/31/2005

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Dating a stripper Posted: 8/19/2005 1:17:13 PM
Please do a search before posting, look at recent thread http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts1695302.aspx

bigcats

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If I said you had a beautiful body would you hold it against me Posted: 8/18/2005 6:11:54 AM
It is a great song

bigcats

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just on a bet why would a man.... Posted: 8/17/2005 8:54:22 PM
It is VERY shallow to start with. But then again if you both new it was basically a one night stand and you enjoyed the experience, then it wouldn't really matter what started the trigger to the event.

bigcats

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ride em cowboy..or ride em cowgirl??? Posted: 8/17/2005 8:47:17 PM
I love to be riden. The saddle horn is best that way What is better, cowgirl or reverse cowgirl and why?

bigcats

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Favorite Playboy Playmate? Posted: 8/17/2005 2:36:32 PM
I rememebr when Vicky LaMatta did a spread years ago. She looked great for 50. Of course a lot of 50 somethings look good nowadays, but then was a different time.

bigcats

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Strangest Thing You Would Eat Posted: 8/17/2005 2:33:14 PM
those people on Fear Factor are nuts, I wouldn't eat those concoctions for a mere $50,000! That is really why I stopped watching the show. Eating whatever has nothing to due with fear. The height, dark, water, speed tricks the bookend the eating part is where the fea comes in. They never give you anything that would be bad for you, so eat up and shut up.

bigcats

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Strangest Thing You Would Eat Posted: 8/17/2005 2:27:02 PM
Put it in front of me and I will at least try it. I remember one time I was on the beach in Spain and asked for Steak and Potatoes. After I finished a tough steak I found out it was dog. Rock Mountain Oysters as was said and again deep fried anything.

bigcats

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If you could change just ONE thing about your current lover ... Posted: 8/16/2005 7:58:10 PM
More oral

bigcats

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Who do you think (guys or girls) has the best smile that posts in the forums? Posted: 8/16/2005 4:19:58 PM
Pandy

bigcats

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Masturbation while in strong relationships. Posted: 8/16/2005 4:15:05 PM
@KF - Genesis 38:9-10 But Onan knew that the offspring would not be his; so whenever he lay with his brother's wife, he spilled his semen on the ground to keep from producing offspring for his brother. What he did was wicked in the LORD's sight; so he put him to death also. There are a few other places about spilling seed upon te ground but I don't have them at hand.

bigcats

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gahhhhhhh! Posted: 8/16/2005 6:22:47 AM
There are a lot of people on hear that will do absolutly nothing (chat/email/IM) anyone without pics. Put some pics up and you may find results.

bigcats

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sleep assistance.. Posted: 8/15/2005 8:20:39 PM
couple hours of hot-monkey-s e x will wear you out with a good nights sleep to follow.

bigcats

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Masturbation while in strong relationships. Posted: 8/15/2005 8:05:58 PM
OK, to sum up she should be OK with it because she never gets a no from me. (Do any guys refuse it?) But she does not masturbate and does not like me doing it as well. However, just last night after going at it for a while (she finished REAL quick once insertion started) we continued with afterplay when she started stroking and I finished strocker with her swallowing it all. This was a first and a BIG improvement to our endeavors. Thanks all for the suggestions. Nothing else needs to be said. Thank you again. The key is to talk about it which I did and then the night followed.

bigcats

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Censorship Posted: 8/15/2005 5:58:46 PM
OK, just curious as to if this is a manual function by mods or automated by the system. Automation makes sense as to why a forum post was changed, manual does not. Entered: Jossy and the **cats Changed: Jossy and the **cats

bigcats

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Default auto search Posted: 8/15/2005 4:53:55 PM
I know it is a great feature of this site. I would however like the match and other searches to use only my search criteria vice getting "Not enough local matches, defaulting to a state level search." I am in California, some matches are a 13 hour drive or a flight away. I know the provinces in Canada woudl be the same issue. Basically, ad a button to the autosearch feature to allow a larger search area or not. If I ask for within 50 miles and get no hits, then I should be able to expand the search area or live with the limited hits. Keep up the GREAT work.

bigcats

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When is it ok to show cleavage Posted: 8/15/2005 11:25:38 AM
It is how you feel is what brings it out. If you think you are sexy then go for it. I have seen cleavage at funerals. Some may think it is wrong, but not when tastefully done.

bigcats

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too horny Posted: 8/15/2005 11:20:51 AM
Kayla, As long as you can function and get other things done then it is not a problem. When it starts getting in the way of getting through life though, seek release (oops) relief.

bigcats

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Has this ever happened to you... Posted: 8/15/2005 11:18:29 AM
See thread on friend with benefits. This is something you and her need to discuss in advance and not have s** right after the discussion. This way you both go into it with a clear mind. IMHO

bigcats

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Masturbation while in strong relationships. Posted: 8/12/2005 6:09:16 PM
I have a similar problem. IT really does help to masturbate less in between, can you give it at least a 24 hour rest before intercourse? That is usually not a problem. The trick is to figure out when that time will be. We only do it a couple of times a month now if that often, so the 24 hour thing is a normal. I only enjoy myself a couple of times a week, sometimes not at all during a week. So it is not a frequent as some may think. Just a concern that she has I need to break through. Thanks for the suggestions, keep them coming.

bigcats

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are you exhibitionist Posted: 8/12/2005 2:00:09 PM
I wouldn't call it exhibition, but laying around n'k'd all day is not bad at all. I do that every chance I can. Too bad society insist we cover up the natural beauty of the human body.

bigcats

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Sex Super Power's................ Posted: 8/12/2005 1:52:26 PM
Oops

bigcats

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Sex Super Power's................ Posted: 8/12/2005 1:52:07 PM
Something along the line of Chevy Chase when he could make Beverly De'Angleo climax just by thinking about it when he isn't even near here. Though she thought he was. I am drawing a blank at the name of the movie right now.

bigcats

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Which would you rather? Posted: 8/12/2005 1:46:03 PM
A) but really the personnality is more of an issue that the looks.

bigcats

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~ An Ode To Women OVER 30 ~ Posted: 8/12/2005 12:14:53 PM
Unlike Dakata Carissima, I would agree with you. But keep in mind, the same pretty much is the same for men if we really think about it and don't try to show off. Think about the science and the sexual peek thin as well.

bigcats

Joined: 5/31/2005

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Masturbation while in strong relationships. Posted: 8/12/2005 10:13:45 AM
Do you think of other women when you masterbate? If she thinks so then, that is what's upsetting her. Sometimes, normally not though. I think it is more along the lines that she is feeling she is not doing something right, even though I have reasured her that is not the case.

bigcats

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What's the best kind of foreplay ? Mental or Physical... Posted: 8/12/2005 10:12:25 AM
There are times for both. I am a wall and it takes a lot to get to me, but I really ENJOY when the mind actually gets stimulated.

bigcats

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Masturbation while in strong relationships. Posted: 8/12/2005 10:07:42 AM
i think masturbation is always wrong. i have never done it because jesus would be mad at me I know the biblical about not spilling your seed upon the ground, yet it is not one of the commandments. To each his own about the believes though.

bigcats

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Masturbation while in strong relationships. Posted: 8/12/2005 9:47:03 AM
Thanks Hot, I will do more of that.

bigcats

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Masturbation while in strong relationships. Posted: 8/12/2005 9:30:21 AM
Well, it is not a replacement that is for sure. I have had a problem for years in not being able to climax during intercourse, this is with and without the masturbation over long periods. I think it is more along the lines of her beliefs more than anything. Any suggestions on how to get her to understand or at least accept what I need and she dosn't need? It is an issue in our relationship which I don't want to lose.

bigcats

Joined: 5/31/2005

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Masturbation while in strong relationships. Posted: 8/12/2005 9:16:45 AM
OK, I have done the search and read all the threads on masturbation. Here is a question that does not seem to be approached, but it has been hinted at. Not looking for morality here, just thoughts. Don't get me wrong, I love having S** with my partner, there is just not enough of it for me. When in a commited relationship, is it OK to masturbate more often that actually having intercourse with your partner? My partner feels it is wrong and I need to hide it to not upset her, she does not masturbate herself either. HELP

bigcats

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wierdest place in public guys have become aroused??! Posted: 8/10/2005 2:01:18 PM
Good thing it doesn't show on women! :) I ask friends if they are cold or just happy to see me. The nips do stand at attention from time to time. OT: Grocery store line. She was HOT

bigcats

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Cant cum inside... Posted: 8/9/2005 7:51:48 PM
Well, I can TOTALLY relate. I have this exact problem. I have tried dif positions, dif women, and other things. Masturbation is the only way to release and it is VERY unfulfilling. I REALLY do enjoy women and because of my issue, I concentrate totally on fulfilling my partners needs. This is why I really enjoy providing oral satisfaction. When given oral stimulation still does not for me. Honesly, I am in counseling for this and not getting anywhere. Hopefully over time this will be fixed for me, though I have coped with it for MANY years now.

bigcats

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Real of Fake? Posted: 8/8/2005 10:59:22 AM
<------- 100% REAL and Honest! Maybe that is why I don't get replies to my emails ;(

bigcats

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honestly, what brings you on here.......sex v. dating v. something else Posted: 7/29/2005 8:46:24 PM
Honestly, at first it was to line up sex (still not out of course) But I am really enjoying all the reading in the Forums and finding interesting stuff, learning new things, and finding that I am not that far out there. The Forums keep bringing me back.

bigcats

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Best Line To Use When She Says Posted: 7/29/2005 8:42:59 PM
Her: "Not tonight, I have a headache..." Him: "That's not the part I'm interested in!"

bigcats

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Causeif.... Posted: 7/26/2005 6:16:20 PM
This may show my ignorance here, but I believe it is called the paranium or something like that. Joy spot is another name

bigcats

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Just a cum vrs orgasm Posted: 7/26/2005 5:53:51 PM
Definate dif. Actually I have the orgasm with orally stimulated and she swallows, intercourse just does not provide the same feeling. COuld be just a head game as well (pun intended)

bigcats

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lap dances at strip clubs Posted: 7/26/2005 5:34:43 PM
bailey: OT......I go to tittie bars regularly I have frequented the one south of Morgantown when I was working in Clarksburg. What a trip. This one had private hot tubs where the girls would join you. Wow nothing like that anywhere else. Of course, there is not much to do in WV if you don;t fish or hunt. OT: Ca clubs have all kinds of rules, and each county has another set of rule not to mention city rules. Clubs in the bay area are much more liberal than the ones in SoCal. Lapdances are just a way to get a little more for the tips being provided. Conversation normally comes before and/or after the dance which allows one-on-one time with the women in there. See other thread talking aobut strippers and what not.

bigcats

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Check this out Posted: 7/26/2005 12:12:18 PM
Just goes to prove the double standard. Think if this was a 'cool dad' with teen girls sick the slap on the wrist would have been the same?

bigcats

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You know what pisses me off? Posted: 7/26/2005 6:55:59 AM
BuzWeaver: The answer it’s quite simple, it’s about anonymity No one is required to post a pic, anonymity is no excuss for fake. I come right out and say what I am looking for and who I am. The anonymity is in the screen name, not for the pix. Be honest with yourself, if you can;t do tha tyou cannot be honest with others.

bigcats

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Hello Posted: 7/25/2005 10:01:42 PM
be HONEST about it Some are totally honest, that gets few if any hits. But we live with it thinking that some may only be interested in it as well. Brutal honestly sometimes doesn't work.

bigcats

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suckin it and lickin it Posted: 7/25/2005 4:14:00 PM
naptizzlechic: how can i get him to? Start him off with some warming oils that have a flavor he enjoys. This may get him into it adn he may start enjoying it. I know of a lady that did not like giving, once the chocolate was added, can't get her to stop.

bigcats

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Pics w/ Location Posted: 7/25/2005 1:04:37 PM
I love the string of pictures that are across the top of forums. These have the persons city listed under the pics. Forums is the only feature within POF where this occurs. Can this be included in all places? Also the IM tag.

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