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isabelle_guns

Joined: 6/1/2005

Msg: 190 (view)

How often do you men lie to just get sex? Posted: 10/1/2008 11:56:26 AM
The same amount that women do the same.

isabelle_guns

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All Night Lovemaking! Posted: 10/1/2008 11:55:44 AM
Love making has different definitions to different people. The guy that I am seeing defines love making is intercourse. I on the other hand include everything from cuddling, kissing, touching, foreplay, oral, talking, laughing, drinking a cup of hot chocolate under a blanket on a cold winter’s day while appreciating each other’s body and of course intercourse. Than yes, I can do this all day. However, straight intercourse all day, my vagina would hurt, I would get dry and I would be walking funny, therefore, I cannot do this all day. I’d like to know the women who can do this all day and get a prescription for whatever she is on which is probably ecstasy.

isabelle_guns

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Sleeping naked Posted: 10/1/2008 11:45:42 AM
Unless it is winter. I like to sleep nude

isabelle_guns

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Msg: 39 (view)

Cheapness is right next to rudeness, what does it take to offer a lady a drink???? Posted: 10/1/2008 11:44:16 AM
I’ve never ever been offered a drink before, however, had guys express interest. I guess with the raising cost in gas and how much drinks cost, a man wants to make sure that he/she is worth it. I on the other hand have bought guys drinks only to find out that they have a girlfriend. I guess guys aren’t sure whether she is taken or not and doesn’t want to waste money or make a fool of himself.

isabelle_guns

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Would you have sex with someone for the first time if they were wearing dirty underwear? Posted: 10/1/2008 11:37:05 AM
Okay that was funny. There is a difference between dirty underwear and really worn underwear. None of my panties that I wear are dirty but are defiantly worn out, however, on dates, I make sure to wear clean underwear even if they’re Fruit of a looms. Also to ensure that my panties are fresh, I wear panty liners. I guess your date has never heard of them. Panty liners are the greatest things in the world.

isabelle_guns

Joined: 6/1/2005

Msg: 34 (view)

Toys, kinkiness, and being faithful Posted: 10/1/2008 11:29:27 AM
For $75 you can buy a make you own dildo kit that casts the mold of you significant other. If the man is that threatened by a piece of plastic, maybe he should buy a kit and cast himself.

isabelle_guns

Joined: 6/1/2005

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Toys, kinkiness, and being faithful Posted: 10/1/2008 11:28:30 AM
The current guy that I am with is very insecure sometimes in the bedroom. If I touch my own clit during sex, he will get upset and want to do it himself ‘cause he feels that it is his job. Sex toys and self exploration has nothing to do with the man’s lack of work in the bedroom (although I know some who say that it is). It is more about knowing what turns you on so that you can teach your partner and or discovering something for yourself and learning about your body. I self explore sometimes after work more to relieve stress from the day as I release a chemical that helps me relax. I don’t live with my boyfriend, however, I do get stressed a lot. If I don’t know what I like, how is he going to know what I like. Toys are a good way to introduce in the bedroom. I see using a toy no different than a man having a Playboy under his bed. I’ve never viewed his pleasure in reading nude mags as my inadequacy in the bedroom, therefore, I don’t understand why men are threatened when a women wants to touch herself during sex or wants to play with toys.

isabelle_guns

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Dominance in males Posted: 10/1/2008 11:23:57 AM
Personally in the bedroom. I like dominance without arrogance. I like him to consider my needs, while taking control.

isabelle_guns

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Ever notice that women w/o kids are much 'tighter'..down there?? Posted: 10/1/2008 11:22:02 AM
Is this for real? I don’t even know if I am tight. It is all about the kagal workouts.

isabelle_guns

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You Are Not The Father Posted: 9/23/2008 11:18:51 AM
She probably cheated and is too embarrassed to admit it.

isabelle_guns

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Too sexual for marriage Posted: 9/23/2008 11:01:20 AM
Firstly, it's his Decision to make not yours. At least she is being honest rather than having to find out later.

isabelle_guns

Joined: 6/1/2005

Msg: 236 (view)

How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked.... Posted: 2/29/2008 7:53:51 PM
I am not Barbie and I don't get over-looked 'cause of my good personality.

isabelle_guns

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foreplay Posted: 2/10/2008 9:41:50 AM
I think that most men, or the ones that I have slept with are lazy and don't know much about a women as they think that they would like to know. They think that rubbing our clit for 3 seconds will get us instantly wet. This is why i JUST pleasure myself first and make sure that I am ready to go 'cause it's not always that men have the patience or desire to invest in making us properly aroused.

isabelle_guns

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Msg: 109 (view)

How long is an average serving of sex? Posted: 2/9/2008 8:10:28 PM
30 minutes...60 minutes including foreplay

isabelle_guns

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Need some advice... re: blowjobs Posted: 2/9/2008 8:07:21 PM
I have a feeling, this is just a guess, that something awful may have happened to him when he was younger. Be patient with him, he may trust you enough to open up and tell you if something happened in the past. He may have been touched by an uncle or a family member in an inappropriate manner.

isabelle_guns

Joined: 6/1/2005

Msg: 66 (view)

what's wrong with saying thanks but no thanks Posted: 2/3/2008 10:13:30 PM
I respond to all and anyone who is rude, I ask them to stop sending me mail. People deserve a response either way.

isabelle_guns

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How Do You Men Feel About the Pouch?? Posted: 2/3/2008 8:54:08 PM
I have a little pouch and not embarassed by it at all and the guys that I've dated, haven't said or noticed it so I am guessing that they don't mind either. I see ultra skinny girls undress at the gym in the change room and they to have a bit of a belly, everyone has it. I don't know much about biology, however, I am guessing that there is a reason that we were meant to have it. As for men, an over size beer belly is a turn off at first site, however, once I see the person for who they are and fall in love with them for them, I become blind to these little things. I dated a guy for 3 years and he slowly started to get the gut, however, I was so in love with him that I for some reason didn't see it until after we broke up.

isabelle_guns

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Suspicions Posted: 2/3/2008 9:29:14 AM
No picture screams huge is very suspecious, it usually means that he doesn't want to be found. With this day in age with digital cameras, even if you don't have one, however, has a friend who can upload pics...there is no excuse to not have your picture. I do not mean to sound like a snob, however, I don't reply to those who have no picture for the same reason that they may be hiding and I don't want to be a homewrecker.

isabelle_guns

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why do most man have a issue with their cum? Posted: 2/3/2008 9:20:44 AM
Different strokes for different folks. I've tried a guys cum....not that great to be honest, thefore, I can understand why they wouldn't want to try it.

isabelle_guns

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Most women will have sex very early in a relationship Posted: 2/3/2008 9:19:19 AM
Women want it just as bad as men, at least I do. Women have more to loose emotionally than men and this is why we tend to keep a wall up for a temp time.

isabelle_guns

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I'm Done and even more frustrated Posted: 2/3/2008 9:18:15 AM
Although I encourage freedom of speach and opinion, I can't believe the number of rude comments toward this. I haven't read your other posts and I don't need to. I am juding this just based on this post. With some that others have said, it could be that you haven't found the right partner and that is okay, you're young. It took me until I was 24 to find the right partner and like you, sex was a bore for me.

isabelle_guns

Joined: 6/1/2005

Msg: 110 (view)

Is Chivalry Dead Posted: 2/2/2008 10:02:22 PM
I like to do a little role reversal 'cause that's just the way that I am. I've bought men flowers, nothing too out there, but a single simple flower. I've opened doors for men. I've had the same done for me, however, I like to show then how someone should be treated and make sure that if I am interested in someone that they don't have to "dish it out" all the time.

isabelle_guns

Joined: 6/1/2005

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Licking underarms - weird fetish? Posted: 2/2/2008 10:00:56 PM
I personally haven't heard of this, however, there is a fetish for everyone and it's awesome than you found something original that gets you and your potential partner in the mood. Good for you.

isabelle_guns

Joined: 6/1/2005

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At what point am I sacrificing my self respect waiting for sex? Posted: 2/2/2008 9:55:06 PM
I understand that there are a lot of negative comments and I can understand where those negative comments are coming from, however, I will try and relate to my expirence to try and shed some light. I know within the first two dates if I want to have sex with someone or not, however, there are many things that hold me back and the main thing is STD's. If it were a safer time (if there was ever one), I would be all over the person who I had sexual chemistry with). I think that she's just being careful and if there's a real connection there, she wants it to, she is just scared maybe. That's how I was. I want to know that when I have sex with someone that I am going to be safe, nevermind the emotional, but in case he doesn't talk to me the next morning, I don't want to have some nasty ass STD, which you can get with Condoms as condoms are not 100% when it comes to STD protection.

isabelle_guns

Joined: 6/1/2005

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chat rooms and dating sites Posted: 2/2/2008 9:46:29 PM
I think that this is a fair comment, however, there are always exceptions and unless the researcher surveyed people for the article to get such facts than there must be some truth.

isabelle_guns

Joined: 6/1/2005

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Should women write first? Posted: 2/2/2008 12:05:30 PM
I have recieved more rude an inspiring messages than most realize. I am the type that if I am really interested in someone, I make the move by messaging them. If they don't reply, no hard feelings, I just move on.

isabelle_guns

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Big Girls ridin ?!? Posted: 2/2/2008 12:03:23 PM
Hun I am a little on the big side and I used to worry about that as well. In fact looking back, I laugh at myself that I thought that in the first place. The weight is kinda distributed evenly oddly. The guy will let you know if you're hurting him and be open and say like I have, "I can be heavy on top, if you go blue, give me a hand signal or something." It creates humor, eases both parties and opens communication in the event there is some uncomfortableness going on.

isabelle_guns

Joined: 6/1/2005

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Teased for liking bbw's Posted: 2/2/2008 11:58:57 AM
I am considered a plus size women and if you and I were on a date and your friends were making fun of you...I will sit on them and break their neck. My friends make fun of me 'cause I like average built and sometimes chubby guys. I do work out in the gym, I am not skinny. I'm 132 lbs, 4' 11" with a 32" waist, howver, that is considered by most as heavy. I don't want those perferfect buffed guys at the gym. Most are wonderful people, however, physically that's just not what I am into and that is okay. Each to their own. There's a reason why god made us all different, so that each fetish/style can be cat. to everyone.

isabelle_guns

Joined: 6/1/2005

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SEX---->A sacred thing<----Virginity Posted: 2/2/2008 11:54:17 AM
Religion is a huge factor that comes into play when it comes to one's Virginity. Sex is sex and is a beautiful and enjoyable thing.

isabelle_guns

Joined: 6/1/2005

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Is oral sex cheating? Posted: 2/2/2008 11:51:25 AM
Those who say it isn't is using it as an excuse. Any sexual activity with someone other than your partner is cheating.

isabelle_guns

Joined: 6/1/2005

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do guys like the smell of a woman's natural vagina? Posted: 2/2/2008 11:46:33 AM
I like the natural smell of a man's skin like when I am kissing his neck or cheek, therefore I can completly understand why a women's vagina's smell is a turn on for men. However, if it's fishy, there's a medical condition that need to be looked into.

isabelle_guns

Joined: 6/1/2005

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wet girl Posted: 2/2/2008 11:42:34 AM
Too wet? That is the most F*cked up thing I've heard. Unless it's like throwing a hot dog down a hallway for the guy..yeah I can see why that would be a problem.

isabelle_guns

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chicks that approach the guy first... Posted: 2/2/2008 11:41:23 AM
If I am interested, I always make the first move. In reality I have nothing to lose, thefore, I live a little. The worst that's ever happend to me was that I got "sorry not my type" or "no thanks" and those responses aren't the end of the world but at least I tried, rather than wondering the whole night.

isabelle_guns

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what does SEX do for you besides... Posted: 1/19/2008 7:52:06 PM
I don't always ogasim when I have sex and it has nothing to do with the guy but more about body chemistry and stress. Sex is also a stress releaver for me.

isabelle_guns

Joined: 6/1/2005

Msg: 141 (view)

Sex with minors Posted: 8/31/2007 6:45:37 PM
What about a women who is in her late 20's interested in an 17/18 year old.

isabelle_guns

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Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long? Posted: 8/31/2007 6:41:24 PM
It's not so much the time but what they do with it. I get annoyed when it takes too long and all he's doing is concentrating too much on trying to finish rather than taking a break to kiss, cuddle or other foreplay.

isabelle_guns

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Foreplay.....rough or soft? Posted: 8/17/2007 6:48:10 PM
Spence56 said it best and it's true. I have to make sure that the person I am doing it with is aware 'cause during that month my breasts are sore and I hate even showing and having to touch my own breasts.

isabelle_guns

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Compliment or insult? Posted: 8/13/2007 3:25:17 PM
Men don't know what to say and neither do women. I've used the "hey babe" line 'cause I'm not good at openers and think that the other person would be flattered. I think that these men mean well (most) but just are stuck for words especially if it's someone they actually like or want to get to know and then there are others who just have no class and or dating skills. You need to look at each profile and make your own decision. I don't get insulted when I get called this but I personally feel devalued in the sense that I feel as though I'm in an on-line bar and not a grocery store where I've had intellectual conversations. I enjoy food and when I see a guy I like at a grocery store, I pick up a natural conversation about lettuce without degrading both of us with cheesy lines. Do what I do and thank the guy for the compliement and if he's real he will reply with a little more respect which in my case has happened 1/2 the time, otherwise if the high school attitude proceeds with the next message...forget about it.

isabelle_guns

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Is it me or do most girl have conversations like this on POF Posted: 8/13/2007 3:14:25 PM
newbyfish: how are you? isabelle_guns: good thanks him (changed the dudes name): what are you up to? isabelle_guns: at the moment...chatting..in an hour trying to pick up something out of a cook book to cook isabelle_guns: yourself him (changed the dudes name): tired and horny, just chillin! isabelle_guns: are you at home? him (changed the dudes name): yes isabelle_guns: you know they have porn to help the horny issue...if you google porn you can get some free pics. him (changed the dudes name): I know! talking with someone would be better! him (changed the dudes name): As for the tired...take an awesome nap and bum around the TV isabelle_guns: lol I hear you him (changed the dudes name): are you horny? can I call you? hello! I was suggesting the porn thing as a polite way of telling him to go away without seeming like a ****. I seem to be getting these type of conversations a lot for some odd reason. Aren't there voyeur sites like ifriends or something like that where you can pay per minute for this stuff without having the girl ignore you? Men (some not all). WTF?

isabelle_guns

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Open Marriages Posted: 8/11/2007 11:57:56 AM
although i DON'T agree with open marriages I am going to applaud you for intelligently explaining the FAQ's that I'm sure most ask. Thank you for posting that information and for sharing your views. I'm always interested in someone's opinion, especially when they don't agree with mine.

isabelle_guns

Joined: 6/1/2005

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Got a fake diamond ring from fiance, he lied and said it was a 3 carat, 30,000 dollar ring! Posted: 7/21/2007 11:10:04 AM
I to would be outraged. I don't care about the ring personally and have been in the position to get one. I knew the value of it 'cause I made it clear that it's not about the value but about the sentiment. He insisted on getting a good one in case I wanted to hand it down to my kids, which is fair. First of all, what kind of a sick women would get it appraised unless she had the intention of selling it? What kind of dude would be sick to lie about the value and change the diamond? When I got the ring, it costed $100 and it was a friendship ring. I didn't even want to know the cost 'cause well...it didn't matter. Sounds like that both have an unhealthy start.

isabelle_guns

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Wealth vs debt. Posted: 7/21/2007 11:05:48 AM
Just 'cause they have 6 figures on their account doesn't mean they have money management skills. I don't like at a man's account and even when I dated long term with guys, I made sure that they didn't tell me their account information even when they volunteered 'cause well...it's none of my buisness and wanted it that way and worked hard and maintaining the other person's privacy. I have male friends who are "rich" but know nothng about investing and spend money like what on crap. Then I know some who make a modest living and show more responsibility. Dept doesn't mean that the person is a turn off. There are many reasons why someone can go into debt and it's not 'cause of irresponisbility. Rather than judging on the bank account, which I know most of my girlfriends do, hear them out. One of my friends is in debt 'cause he paid to take care of himself and sick mother, both who live in the US (we know how shitty their care system is). If ladies are worried about having to pay for everything 'cause of the man's income than they have no imagination 'cause there are a lot of low budget, creative ways to have a good date.

isabelle_guns

Joined: 6/1/2005

Msg: 64 (view)

girlfriend having lunch with exboyfriend Posted: 7/21/2007 11:01:47 AM
I've had lunch dates with exes 'cause when we parted, we still parted on good terms and I don't see them as ex's just good friends. We didn't work in the relationship, however, we worked better as friends and there's nothing wrong with having lunch with friends. Neither of us were looking into rekindling anything and both respected our partners.

isabelle_guns

Joined: 6/1/2005

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what info would send you running on a first date. Posted: 7/15/2007 6:10:12 PM
I live with my mother and I don't have a job

isabelle_guns

Joined: 6/1/2005

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What women eat on a date. Posted: 7/15/2007 6:07:14 PM
I've been on both sides of the plate (no pun intended) I'm on weight watchers and learn to eat 5 small - medium meals during the day. I was insulted on a date as being "high maint. 'cause I ate like a bird. I ate a healthy meal 'cause it was in the afternoon, woke up late and skipped breakfast so I would be late for the date and was accused of "milking a free meal ticket" you can win.

isabelle_guns

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Wearing shirts with sayings on dates? Posted: 7/15/2007 6:03:41 PM
I like those shirts and they're cool 'cause they say a lot about a person. The person wearing them may think that it's cute and it's cool to wear with your friends. My advice, regardless of the saying. don't wear it on a date. You're sending a message right away before the conversation begins with 99% isn't a good one and the date will be over before it begins.

isabelle_guns

Joined: 6/1/2005

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Watching Men Pee Posted: 7/6/2006 11:34:19 PM
It turns me on and I thought that I was the only one.

isabelle_guns

Joined: 6/1/2005

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do you HAVE to look at porn to prepare for sex? Posted: 7/6/2006 11:27:32 PM
Good question. I have looked at porn before sex to get me in the mood but only 'cause the other party wasn;t willing to invest more than 10 minutes turning me on and warming my oven. I have also been in situations where it has enhanced the mood. I would be personally pissed if the other party looked at porn in order to **** me, however, if the other person is willing to give me treatment to turn me on that that is cool. It all depends on the other personality and who they are in general.

isabelle_guns

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Tips from Will Smith Posted: 9/24/2005 12:30:35 PM
That was my fav part

isabelle_guns

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Saw his picture, not interested..what to say? Posted: 9/24/2005 12:29:43 PM
The worst thing you could do is hurt his feelings by mentioning his looks. Not all of us on here are grade A meet, we have our flaws and beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Just say something along the lines of, "I'm flattered that you approached the conversation and communication but at this time I have other things in my life occupying this time."

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