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magnusfl

Joined: 12/5/2007

Msg: 30 (view)

Guy your dating is on POF looking for friends? Posted: 3/31/2009 9:41:16 AM
you both need to get a reality check as you also have a open profile and Pof is not a site to look for friends unless you Post that very clearly also after several months it should be a bit serious or not serious with out restrictions

magnusfl

Joined: 12/5/2007

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would you go from dating to friend back to dating again? Posted: 3/31/2009 9:06:07 AM
most of the time a man cools things off is he see no possibility of a long term relationship due to incompatibilities that have come up in the relationship that make it impossible to commit so while a guy many come back the return is often doomed unless you or your situation has changed

magnusfl

Joined: 12/5/2007

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Smokers: Would you quit smoking for your dreamboat? Posted: 11/26/2008 2:30:18 PM
A smoker can only quit for Him /her self any one telling other wise is just BS However a smoker choice can be modified by influences But if you demand the person quitting in a relationship will only cause problems later Non smoker here who will never date another smoker

magnusfl

Joined: 12/5/2007

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How did you learn to cook? Posted: 9/8/2008 6:51:27 PM
I grew up in NY only child of a single mom and her boyfriend was to cheep to pay for a babysitter so instead he took me to some of the best restaurants on long island and NY City on his expense account so I developed very fine tastes in food at an early age so when I was 13 my mom started her masters degree so was not home at night so had to make dinner for us and TV dinners just did not cut it So I started and while I made some things that were inedible I also made things wonderful so I continued learning and got better so not a bad cook at all now and yes I made very nice dishes such as beef wellington I also excellent on the grill and make wonderful omelets

magnusfl

Joined: 12/5/2007

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Do you believe some are better at attracting others online, while some better in real life? Posted: 9/8/2008 6:27:56 PM
It easier online, that is to lie. Which is quite twisted as if you meet the lies come out which sadly a large minority do such as put up pics that are old and lie in there profile. so why do they do it? I am not sure, but lets face it for most of us it hard which many be a good thing as anything to easy is not respected which is why those totally hot people tend to be real jerks in relationships. I personally think the reason online dating is easier to build a friendship before sex get in the way. As all to often we jump into bed to fast only to find out that the only time you’re truly happy together.

magnusfl

Joined: 12/5/2007

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Does Saying I Love You first wreck the relationship? Posted: 9/8/2008 6:10:01 PM
It can hurt if it hollow and untrue. It can frighten if to soon. And it can be the most wonderful words you can ever hear in the right time. and totaly sad if it never said Magnus

magnusfl

Joined: 12/5/2007

Msg: 137 (view)

Physical Attraction.... Does it really matter???? Posted: 9/8/2008 4:57:16 PM
yes that should of been a red flag as it will bother you as long as your with her and tend to be more bothersome over time which will lead to wondering eyes for both of you as a lady is often feel only as beautiful as her lover see her as

magnusfl

Joined: 12/5/2007

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Abandonement Issues Posted: 9/8/2008 4:52:37 PM
first off how often do you email or IM him in a day? if to often To many time he may feel overwhelmed thus pulling away. if you did not but also he also many be talking with more then you as well. or he may not be that interested or he a fool Personally if I met you most probably have me on Hi as I love British women and your lovely accent

magnusfl

Joined: 12/5/2007

Msg: 116 (view)

have you ever dated a biker and should you tell potential relationships about him Posted: 9/8/2008 4:32:22 PM
while I never dated a biker I found some bikers to be very nice and some total jerks

magnusfl

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Calling Kids baggage Posted: 9/8/2008 4:18:11 PM
Kids are NOT Baggage but are compilations as a person with kids are package deals and you must accept the whole package or it not going to work. For me I have a wonderful house in Tampa, but with only 2 bedrooms so it limits me to a lady with no more the one child or possibly two if there the same sex and yes that did stop me from perusing a lady with three.

magnusfl

Joined: 12/5/2007

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Confused: What did I do wrong? Posted: 9/8/2008 4:09:19 PM
nothing he the jerk

magnusfl

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Is Intelligence A Curse In Relationships? Posted: 9/5/2008 7:23:14 PM
Manipulative and controlling issues Egocentric, unrealistic projections and expectations have nothing to do with intelligence as those traits can be found in all levels of intelligence what I have found thought is most men fear intelligent women but I suspect that due to society telling us that men are the leaders in the family

magnusfl

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Am I being sensible or weird? Posted: 9/5/2008 5:17:37 PM
very sensible especaly with an uncomon name so do not let anyone try and tell you being careful is why your single if you a nice person there is no doubt a nice guy will come along and no be bothered at all writing though POF till you get to know each other better. in fact I tend not to trust women who want to swich to private email to fast as scamers use that tatic as well. best of luck David

magnusfl

Joined: 12/5/2007

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best sex ever-do you ever forget that girl? Posted: 7/17/2008 12:56:43 PM
simply Never my Fiance and I had simply the best sex I ever had and maybee that why it took me 5 years before I started dating again after she passed away

magnusfl

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why are guys 50+ undecied about kids Posted: 7/17/2008 12:40:08 PM
The choices are yes, no and undecided Saying no means you do not want kids at all yes mean your willing to make more Undecided mean you accept kids from you and possible make more I choose undecided as I am fixed so the chances of having any kids is remote but I very willing to take a lady with a child

magnusfl

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Wealthy Man, Poor Woman Posted: 7/17/2008 12:33:08 PM
of course it can I would take a woman off the street or one from park ave if I loved them and the only way you can do better is go back to school and improve your self that will not only improve her self confident but his respect of her (unless he just wants a dumb token wife who time is always limited as well)

magnusfl

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Do Men Do This Too??? Posted: 7/17/2008 11:53:06 AM
just remember I love you is a lot different then I am in love with you as you can say I love you to your family your close friends however I am in love with you is very selective to your lover who you want for life However if you lover does not even say I love you I be concerned.

magnusfl

Joined: 12/5/2007

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why dont u cook!!! Posted: 7/17/2008 11:41:45 AM
Most likely they never learned or there closed minded and thinking cooking is a woman job one other thing which is a problem is it a real pain to cook just for one as recipes are mostly for 3 or more I know if it just me I stick to easier things to eat today I made a had a ham onion green pepper and cheese omelet For lunch just a sandwich and tonight for dinner I making beef wellington with small potatoes and asparagus as I having my Mom over if it was just me I would of made a cobb salad

magnusfl

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JUST FRIENDS.....with women Posted: 7/17/2008 11:26:16 AM
a man can be greats friends with women if that man has respect for women and feel there equal to men. I got an x girlfriend who a friend and a dozen women I never slept with much less kissed so no I am happy to Have more friends eather men or women and would never be insulted if a women was not intrested in me as I my self will not acept a women who is married or smokes but I have no problem with friends that are married or smoke other then the fact I wished all my smoking friends quit.

magnusfl

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Msg: 143 (view)

why do men look for Russian women??? Posted: 3/19/2008 1:32:26 PM
so sorry you found such a loser as you are a very lovely lady and not deserving of this. the answer to your question thought is east european women are very strong in family values the home life and are very faithful and loving and very atractive. However sadly many thru the agencys are just scamers or looking for a green card. However this does not give him right to do what he did as I know i would not be looking at any russan lady if I had you

magnusfl

Joined: 12/5/2007

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GUYS, do you like seeing ur girlfriend masturbating?? Posted: 3/19/2008 1:01:39 PM
It would not bother me but it never happened as when my past girlfriends felt frisky I always willing complied

magnusfl

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Dating and Bankruptcy Posted: 3/19/2008 12:47:17 PM
as some one with a excellent credit and a nice home it would not bother me that much unless it came from a totally careless reason

magnusfl

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The one thing you miss most when you are single Posted: 3/3/2008 5:45:26 PM
Snuggling in bed and holding some one close to you as pillows are a cold second also some to to talk with about anything at night

magnusfl

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Got A Call from 'The Other Girl...' Posted: 3/3/2008 4:43:43 PM
Dump him as simpy as the best case it just a second but time will come when it will bring nightmares of aids and herpies or simpy you find your the second in time. as simpy a cheater will always be a cheater

magnusfl

Joined: 12/5/2007

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should I lie about my job? Posted: 3/3/2008 4:25:41 PM
All Relationships are based on trust so it is a very bad thing to lie about anything as things will come out in the long run.

magnusfl

Joined: 12/5/2007

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Can men and women be friends without sex? Posted: 3/3/2008 4:10:00 PM
yes we can I got a lot of women friends and alot of them have a lot of guy friends but if you were my friend I suspect that would not be the case if the right lady was agreeing but that would be for the very long term if things worked out

magnusfl

Joined: 12/5/2007

Msg: 161 (view)

Friends with Benefits..good or bad Posted: 3/3/2008 4:02:16 PM
both good and bad as love making is a wonderful thing with friends however they can lead to compilations so best to do with x lovers who already know there not compatible which will end with any the start of any possible relationship with another

magnusfl

Joined: 12/5/2007

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Would you ever get your partners name tattooed on you? Posted: 1/29/2008 9:53:44 PM
Never nor want it on my lady

magnusfl

Joined: 12/5/2007

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What to cook!!!! Posted: 1/29/2008 9:52:21 PM
your best friend is http://www.foodnetwork.com/food/lf_quick_easy/ and when you get more time check out the rest

magnusfl

Joined: 12/5/2007

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I'm not sure if I intimidate guys, or if I am just butt ugly Posted: 1/29/2008 9:43:33 PM
your not at all ugly it may be because you to lovely as that intimadates to many nice guys however the nose ring many be turning off some

magnusfl

Joined: 12/5/2007

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what do you do/say when someone dies who didn't believe John 3:16 Posted: 1/29/2008 8:53:55 PM
Cremate me and send me to the ocean or even better take me to the highest mountain so I have a great adventure heading to the sea however it does not matter as I be off to my next life so best of all have a party and remember me fondly for the nice guy I am

magnusfl

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Male Virgins? Do they exist? Posted: 1/29/2008 8:39:00 PM
yep I did not lose mine till I was 24 but sadly that was not by choice it was due to my genetics as when I was 24 I still looked 16 and even today at 44 I still get proffed for beer

magnusfl

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Is this rude behavior? Posted: 1/29/2008 7:58:28 PM
Yes it is very rude as if you liked a person enough to ask them out Then the least they can do if it not a match for them is politely let you know At this stage a nice card or phone call is acceptable However is it never acceptable to do it via email or text message. Once a relationship gets intimate only a phone call or in person is acceptable

magnusfl

Joined: 12/5/2007

Msg: 92 (view)

Would you be in a poly relationship Posted: 1/29/2008 12:42:07 PM
No while it might be fine for some who have limitations I never had a problem pleasing a lady and would not marry a lady who did not do so in return. by the way a true def of poly is 3 or more people in a relationship who have accepted the other people. However even the poly people who wrote the books on it are no longer together so while some people might think it fun it is not long lasting

magnusfl

Joined: 12/5/2007

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is Sex a Normal Human Need, or is it simply a Social Treat? Posted: 1/28/2008 10:17:20 PM
quote Sex is not a mandatory need in life, but it's something that we all desire.(disincluding nuns Do not believe nuns do not desire sex as according to my friend an x-catholic nun masturbation is a lot more common then you think in the monasteries

magnusfl

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Why Lie? Posted: 1/28/2008 10:01:52 PM
Simple lying is simply easier and much more productive in getting laid however I can not see the reason for fake pictures if you want a relationship. For example a guy who has no interest in you besides sex introduces him self and say hi I want you in bed the average girl would slap him. But have that same guy ask you out, treat you very nice over the next few weeks say’s he loves you and then the chance of him getting you in bed raise dramatically. However Lying will be cough in time so I found it best to stay honest as that the only way to build a true relationship

magnusfl

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How Do You Men Feel About the Pouch?? Posted: 1/28/2008 9:43:29 PM
Tis life I care for what inside such as intelligence personality, caring, humor , much more then a little pouch. As no one is perfect.

magnusfl

Joined: 12/5/2007

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washing up BEFORE sex Posted: 1/28/2008 9:39:56 PM
yes shower together have her wash your parts and you wash her parts and you both will be so hot you will hardly get to the bedroom however morning sex is not so critcal

magnusfl

Joined: 12/5/2007

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relationship or one nighter Posted: 1/28/2008 9:30:03 PM
I been there for a time for me it usually starts in a serious relationship that ends due to reasons of incompatibility of companionship but has a continued friendship till either party finds some one else as the truth is all men and women have needs and desires. as I stayed friends with all my old girl friends maybe because I never lied to any of them.

magnusfl

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Is it wrong to like men who are older? Posted: 1/28/2008 9:14:37 PM
yes it fine in fact it the european way as the sad truth is men mature slower then women and many young couples fail due to that and finances which is less common when the guy is all ready established

magnusfl

Joined: 12/5/2007

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Boredom in a relationship... Posted: 1/28/2008 9:08:36 PM
once a week is not good im 44 and I made love to the ladys I been with at least once a day and some time on the days off much more then that.

magnusfl

Joined: 12/5/2007

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how great is no arguing in a relationship Posted: 1/28/2008 8:58:48 PM
I never argued with any lady I been with however I disagreed but that was easily done over a glass of wine as anger is a useless emotion between two people who love each other. at least it hurts a lot less and it a lie the makup sex is better (the truth is it better then nothing )

magnusfl

Joined: 12/5/2007

Msg: 94 (view)

Car help??? Posted: 1/28/2008 8:06:42 PM
Check the battery first as cold weather runs havoc on batteries other then that water in your gas line could be a culprit or you can do my solution and move to Florida like I did

magnusfl

Joined: 12/5/2007

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Premarital Sex Posted: 1/28/2008 7:58:17 PM
There are three things which are very important in a relationship are the first friendship the second companionship the third is sexual/sensuality yes it important to get to know some one to find out how the first two factors are but it is also important to find out the 3rd which is best found out by living together before you tie the knot. I personally know this from two relationships the first was when i was 25 and the lady i was with and I just was not built for each other so our hip bones were perfectly aligned so sex was very unpleasant for her so she broke up and the second which is happened a while ago was due to a very low sex drive which was very frustrating for me

magnusfl

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Msg: 140 (view)

Guys who dont like boobs,,,, Posted: 1/28/2008 7:25:24 PM
I freely admit I love women's fluffys, however large or small does not matter as there all lovely The only thing I dislike is implants as I be much more happy with a lady with an A cup then a DD fake. however it is very strange for a guy not to like them. It is possible However if he also perfers anal sex then be very suspicious

magnusfl

Joined: 12/5/2007

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Keeping eyes closed during sex...!?? Posted: 1/28/2008 7:13:06 PM
That’s a hard question as I do not just jump in bed with some one who I have not been in touch by phone/email/in person a sufficient time to have developed feelings for. So it hard for me to understand why any guy would not kiss or keep his eyes closed As I only close my eyes for short times which helps me with a tantric mantra However I never ever, not looked into my lady’s eyes or not kiss each other at least a few times. However I got a few ideas Puritan Fundamental upbringing were sex is sinful except for conception (our wonderful heritage which has caused more problems then we know) He thinking of some one else Is use to going to prostitutes (they do not kiss) (no I never used one but was friends of a lady who’s sister was) He does not love you Or hopefuly perhaps he just a little weird No matter what you need to talk with him about this ASAP to see if you can work it out as your seriously troubled about this or you would not of posted about it . best wishs David

magnusfl

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Msg: 134 (view)

Can we really believe the Bible? Posted: 1/28/2008 6:20:01 PM
yes you can if you can believe that the men who wrote it had no agenda along with the priesthood over time who altered it had no agenda and the priesthood that uses it today has no agenda then yes you can believe it

magnusfl

Joined: 12/5/2007

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American elections viewed from outside the country Posted: 1/28/2008 5:59:22 PM
as an American I feel very strongly we do need change as the last 8 years we went from friends to untrusted by many countrys and that not the way to get along in this global world. Personaly I get most of my news from BBC or online from other newpapers out side the USA were I can get a less biased world view of whats going on

magnusfl

Joined: 12/5/2007

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How long for cunnilingus? Posted: 1/16/2008 12:40:20 PM
I never goten past 20 minutes my past lovers all wanted me inside them before that

magnusfl

Joined: 12/5/2007

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So what's the big deal about virgins? Posted: 1/16/2008 12:25:03 PM
no clue as I never been with a virgin but it may be that there simply no bagage with one sadly a lot of baggage come from losers who deflower for the thrill of it and not for life long love

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