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SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 28 (view)

Short women... Posted: 3/24/2008 8:25:55 PM
Blueskies123 wrote: I'm curious... ...What are your preferences? 5' 1" not an inche taller nor shorter. Hé! hé! Hé! Seriously, height isn't really a factor for me. Dated on both end of the extremes

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 178 (view)

Do you think some people are meant to be alone? Posted: 3/3/2008 3:56:48 PM
Just I have a feeling that I'm meant to be alone. I'm starting to get that feeling too lately.

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 48 (view)

why do guys care more about there car than their gf?? Posted: 2/22/2008 6:27:11 PM
whenyer_strange wrote: SilverRay, that was beautiful. Nearly poetic even. LOL first time ever that I've been nearly called a poet. Seeing that your main pic. is you sitting on your wheels, I can see the logic in your statement. Ride on! Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 19 (view)

Friendship on here Posted: 2/20/2008 6:02:27 PM
Sorry Hypno, I can't be friends with a woman I'm attracted to. In real life that is, I mean out there. In here I can, cuz I don't have enough details on a woman to fall in love with her. Out there, if I see all the qualities I am looking for in a woman, I don't think I could be friends with her knowing that this is the only thing I'd ever be in her eyes. A friend. Again in here I can, but it's not the reason I am here although there are 2 ladies I communicate with on a weekly basis that I consider friends. If it was, however, possible to meet them out there, I would want more then just be friends, cuz they have a lot of the qualities I seek. Carry on! Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 34 (view)

SERIOUS QUESTION: WHAT IS IT ABOUT A WOMAN, THAT MAKES A MAN FALL DEEPLY IN LOVE Posted: 2/20/2008 5:56:10 PM
I don't know, I guess I didn't get the memo on this issue. It better get here soon, cuz I'm not getting any younger. My guess is that it's something different for everyone. I for one, love a woman that knows how to carry herself, pleasant company, positive outlook on life, kind to others and if I see all those qualities in one woman, maybe, just maybe I might fall in love with her, cuz those qualities are what makes a woman attractive in my book. Carry on! Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 25 (view)

what's the difference... Posted: 2/20/2008 5:39:04 PM
A LTR has to start somewhere and for me the start line is dating. Carry on! Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 26 (view)

why do guys care more about there car than their gf?? Posted: 2/20/2008 4:55:20 PM
Simple, they care more about their car, cuz they don't own a motorcycle. Carry on! Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 33 (view)

why don't more guys give massages? Posted: 2/20/2008 4:51:30 PM
Only time I like massages is when I have a muscle pain, and more then 5 min. I get bored receiving or giving. If my lady needs one I'll gladly give it to her, but I'm not very good at it, I tend to do more damage then good. Carry on! Ray PS. Stay away from my feet.

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 27 (view)

Why would a married woman invite a single man to dinner? Posted: 2/19/2008 8:32:54 PM
I'm with raiderfan on this issue. I'm also a teacher and I got invitations like you did OP and respectfully declined. Anything could be interpreted the wrong way and if you get in trouble, your syndicate rep. wouldn't back you up. It's unethical for us to even accept a gift I can't imagine accepting a dinner invitation. Carry on! Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 143 (view)

Dogs in the bed Posted: 2/19/2008 8:13:06 PM
I can't even stand a dog in the bedroom while I'm alone, so no. Carry on! Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 46 (view)

Does race matter? Posted: 2/16/2008 5:07:56 PM
I've never dated other then caucasian women, but it's just circumstancial. I come from a little town where people of colour just didn't live. Now that I'm in a larger city it could have happenned in the last 3 months, but I'm moving back to my hometown by next wednesday. Carry on! Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 29 (view)

I need some major advice Posted: 2/15/2008 10:22:10 AM
It sounds to me like you are afraid of comitment and are making sure it won't happen by nitpicking or nagging him on ridiculous things. Keep at it if you want your freedom, you should get it soon. Carry on! Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 123 (view)

What kInd of Body Figure Do You Find More Appealing? Posted: 2/14/2008 8:49:15 PM
ravenstar66 wrote: I'm sort of built like Alyssa Milano I think you're way hotter then she is. Happy Valentines Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 122 (view)

What kInd of Body Figure Do You Find More Appealing? Posted: 2/14/2008 8:34:26 PM
4- Jane Seymour. Carry on! Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 16 (view)

am I over reacting today? need a male perspective Posted: 2/14/2008 7:04:43 AM
dolphindiva wrote: thank you. if you were local id ask you LOL. And I'd accept. flirt Carry on! Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

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am I over reacting today? need a male perspective Posted: 2/14/2008 5:59:00 AM
I side with Blueskies123 on this. In fact OP, I would get a dinner date this evening since he's not available for you. You guys are not exclusive yet, and he just proved it to you, so go enjoy yourself. Happy Valentines Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 23 (view)

Social Drinking Posted: 2/13/2008 10:16:27 PM
To me a social drink means having a drink when there are other people around. I'll have the odd glass of wine with a grilled T-Bone steak during cooler summer evenings but that's about it. Can't wait to see Harry Peter's definition on this one. Carry on! Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 100 (view)

unnoticed flirting signs by women Posted: 2/13/2008 8:08:33 PM
I'm no expert, but here's my account of my experiences. First of all, you will only notice a woman flirting with you if you are looking for it. I've been told many time by either females or males friend to f$%?&*n wake up. I just tell them I guess I didn't feel the same way about her. I mean if you are not attracted to a woman's looks, she'll have to do a summersault for you to notice her. When I'm in the scanning mode I look for a potential women that I find attractive and study her to learn her signals. I find that part important as a lot of people aren't even aware of giving away those signals. Anyways, if she smiles back at me when I look at her and looks away or down, I tend to not give up right away, cuz I used to have the same reaction when I was less experienced. I find, usually, that if she is interested she'll look again and stare just a little longer, I smile and slightly nod my head and it's then that she'll arrange her hair or do something which shows her embarassement. If she's with another girl I'll wait t'il she's alone to approach her. Never, ever approach a group of girls unless they clearly ask you to or your not bothered of being rejected in front of an audicence. I got more of my dates by being patient and observant. People have different ways to show interests even within their own group, meaning introverts in this case. I won't go through the scenario in which you are sitting or standing close enough for her to touch you since it has already been covered. The the women in here who were saying they didn't want to give the impression of being sluts by making advances, the good news is most guys will react the same way you do when you are approached. In my experience, and from what most of the guys are saying in here, a woman who shows her interest by obvious flirting or even making advances (first contact) well...it's a total turn on. I can remember at least 5 who walked up to me and showed they were interested and 2 out of 5 turned into a LTR 2 and 3 years. BTW these were at different times of course. Finally my last relationship lasted for 6years and we met online in a chat room of that popular search engine and she initiated first contact. So it can work both ways. Carry on Ray PS. Pardon my French.

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 11 (view)

when to talk on phone? when to meet?? Posted: 2/13/2008 1:54:36 PM
Personally, I'm ready to meet face to face after the first good e-mail session or IMs and that I find the woman in question is attractive. I hate phones. Not long ago I got IM'd by a lady and after the usual introduction she asked if we could talk on the phone. It was late and I was getting ready to go to bed so I said "Why don't we meet for lunch tomorrow?" Haven't heard from her since. So you see OP, people of both genders have different ways of seeing things. Carry on! Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

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Men and direct questions Posted: 2/13/2008 12:38:42 PM
OP, I know what you're trying to say. No, we don't volunteer stuff that could potentially put us in trouble with the SO. The cheating would be an extreme case to use the excuse, you didn't ask me therefore I didn't tell you. lol However, I'd be a little insulted if my SO would asked such a question as it is something I wouldn't be capable of doing. And if after 4 years the trust isn't there, well I'd simply I can't deal with insecure people anymore, I had my share. Carry on! Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 46 (view)

Hey there - at what age is one considered ancient? Posted: 2/12/2008 9:58:25 PM
^^^^ Wait...let me get my reading glasses and my pocket watch if I can remember in which pocket I've put it. Carry on! Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 52 (view)

Toilet Seat Talk. Posted: 2/12/2008 9:42:10 PM
All I have to add to this thread is Carry on! Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 43 (view)

Hey there - at what age is one considered ancient? Posted: 2/12/2008 9:03:59 PM
When the old ladies you're holding the door open for, says "thank you mister" Carry on! Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 52 (view)

How do you feel about your own birthday? Posted: 2/12/2008 8:58:51 PM
Well, all the same cheerupmodkidx

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 43 (view)

Are immature hobbies a turn-off? Posted: 2/12/2008 8:19:40 PM
I'm 39 and I'm playing Americas Army online and Call of duty. I find it's a good way to let steam out after a hard day's work. I do not find that it's something worth mentionning in my profile as this is not my only hobby or leisure. Like other posters said, it is not immature to play video games. Heck! I still watch Bugs Bunny cartoons. Carry on! Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 45 (view)

How do you feel about your own birthday? Posted: 2/12/2008 3:09:21 PM
message 34. HC That was....deep. Happy next brithday. Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 72 (view)

What is a Scene Girl? Posted: 2/12/2008 2:59:41 PM
Oh! sweet! more terminology. Every new movie that comes out brings out a new vocabulary. As a high school teacher I tried to keep up at first and now, I just go with the flow. I use the same terms without knowing what the heck I'm talking about and so far so good. However, I don't think I will ever use this new one as I could probably get in trouble. " Ah! you're such a scene girl" I would more then likely spend my evening on the phone with angry parents even though they probably wouldn't know what the heck it means. Carry on! Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 31 (view)

How do you feel about your own birthday? Posted: 2/12/2008 8:19:26 AM
Absolutely nothing different then the day before. Maybe this year'll be different since I'm turning the big "4""0", but I seriously doubt so. Meh! Carry on! Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 79 (view)

At what age do we lower our standards on dating? Posted: 2/12/2008 5:18:14 AM
As I get older my standards change, but don't lower. Unless you consider going for older women in your age bracket a lowered standard. Carry on! Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 318 (view)

Why do you think men don't cry? Posted: 2/12/2008 5:08:17 AM
str8ahd wrote: Cause if he does, I'll give him something to cry about. OMG. You sound just like my mom.

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 26 (view)

what signs do women give off if they want to get with you? Posted: 2/11/2008 2:17:25 PM
CSIAnaheim wrote: put your hand lightly on her upper back as though you're pushing her (don't actually push, though!). LOL. If you ever get the idea to do this ^^in the maritimes, you better not wear glasses and be ready to for dear life. Carry on! Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 45 (view)

Message to those over 30yrs old........... Posted: 2/11/2008 1:16:31 PM
whitetigeress. You wear your 37 years very well.

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 73 (view)

foreplay Posted: 2/11/2008 12:04:37 PM
In a LTR, foreplay should start when you wake up in the morning. I rest my case. Carry on! Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 123 (view)

Why are you here? Seriously... Posted: 2/11/2008 10:20:15 AM
Used to be to find dates, now it's more for the forums. PS. I'm also one of the weird ones who'd go for coffee after only one e-mail. Why the heck not? It's only cafein. Carry on! Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

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When a woman tells you, her relationship is not going well... Posted: 2/10/2008 1:04:50 PM
Thanks for your replies everyone. This subject has really picked at my curiosity for a while and yesterday's event made me decide to ask a general question about it. As I said before, my intentions were and are still not to pursue this type of potential canditate as I don't need the drama. Carry on! Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 55 (view)

Guessing a woman's age Posted: 2/10/2008 12:59:10 PM
I look at a person's hands to determine their age. Hands rarely lie about age. Carry on! Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 16 (view)

how often do you get harassed here? Posted: 2/10/2008 9:13:10 AM
how often do you get harassed here? Not often enough. j/k Carry on! Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 62 (view)

woman in their 30's never looked so good Posted: 2/10/2008 9:10:26 AM
I totally agree. Just look @ the women who posted on this thread so far! Sincerely, Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 17 (view)

Question on method of showing affection Posted: 2/10/2008 8:57:25 AM
Practice every chance you get man. It's well worthwhile. Carry on! Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 17 (view)

When a woman tells you, her relationship is not going well... Posted: 2/10/2008 8:53:46 AM
^^^^ Best of luck to you too man!^^^^ Sincerely! Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

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Where can I meet a guy other than the internet? Posted: 2/10/2008 8:25:55 AM
OP Join a club of some sort. Activities you like or sports like Volley Ball where there's mixed teams, etc, Hope this helps Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

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When a woman tells you, her relationship is not going well... Posted: 2/10/2008 8:00:39 AM
I hear you Marius, but I think before answering in a thread and judge others, you should read all the posts. No hard feelings Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

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When a woman tells you, her relationship is not going well... Posted: 2/10/2008 7:05:07 AM
Hi bullie, I was there before she was and she was on her first beer, so not drunk. 150$ per session. Wow! I should really consider a career in Psychology. For that tip alone, it's free of charge for you bullie if you ever need counseling. However, I can't promise I'll be able to stick to professional ethics. Carry on! Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

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When a woman tells you, her relationship is not going well... Posted: 2/10/2008 6:18:25 AM
No, I would never put myself in the situation you guys are warning me about. I'm just curious as the reasons why some women share these things. And although she's drop dead gorgeous, she's 12 years younger then I which is far from my "dateable" age bracket. Thanks for your input.

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

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When a woman tells you, her relationship is not going well... Posted: 2/10/2008 5:37:27 AM
julietjuliet wrote: You don't mention whether or not you were attracted to this woman Let's just say that any man who wouldn't be attracted by her, wouldn't have a pulse. lol thanks for your input all of you.

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

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When a woman tells you, her relationship is not going well... Posted: 2/10/2008 5:18:40 AM
what can you make of this ? Yup! happened again yesterday as I was out having a beer. I won't go into to much details as the city I live in is not that big. I have been told by women that I've known for a long time that their relationship wasn't going well, or not to the point they would like it to be, etc, and didn't make much of it. However, what happened last night was different on the fact that I only just met this one. Last night was the 3rd night I have seen her and only the second time we even actually exchange words, and our 10 min. conversation ended with the fact that she was to the point in her current relationship where she felt unhappy. I've been told before that this could be a signal to indicate interest. What are your general thoughts on this ? I did a thread search and didn't find anything.

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 37 (view)

What are some acceptable ways of initiating a first kiss? Posted: 2/10/2008 12:36:31 AM
Grab her by the ears and pull her back to you and "smack", right on the kisser. Carry on! Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

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Can you fall in love under one week Posted: 2/9/2008 11:44:13 AM
You can fall in lust under a week, but not in love. I can't for sure. Carry on! Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 36 (view)

Instant Messaging Protocal - A question of etiquette Posted: 2/9/2008 11:27:24 AM
LOL I'm really glad I read this thread as I have just learned that it is rude to initiate first contact through IM. I've been here less then 3 months, so still learning the ropes. I have been contacted through IMs at least 5 times and they were all initial contacts. I didn't consider it rude. However, that function is really to my disadvantage since I am French and a lot slower composing in English as I have to translate everything I think. I may even have lost a potential match because of that and the fact that I was on the portable (small ackward keyboard) that slowed down the communication from my end which could have been interpreted as a lack of interest. A shame, cuz she's pretty cute and right in my age group. lol Meh! I'll just keep on Carry on! Ray

SilverRay68

Joined: 12/6/2007

Msg: 112 (view)

Valentine's Day Posted: 2/8/2008 6:29:21 AM
Since it's only the 8th, I won't hold my breath t'il the 16th. Carry on! Ray

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